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discreet1700
Jul 14, 2010, 8:31 AM
I’m 40 years old & have been in the closet all my life….thing is I really don’t check out guys when I’m out & about…I love pussy & only think perverted thoughts about woman when I’m out looking at people. But here is the thing. I jerk off every day & when I do I love to see either Gay porn, Bisexual porn or Tranny porn! Straight porn does nothing for me!
I have fucked about 4 men in my life & dozens of woman! The men I met through webcam sights & it was just me going to their house, getting naked, & getting each other off through oral & anal! Although I’m married now I haven’t had time to do this so it’s just been my wife for the last few years but when she’s not home I jerk off to the same shit!
Not sure what I am!

Annika L
Jul 14, 2010, 8:10 PM
I'm never clear on people asking for us to label them...but if you like, here goes: you sound to me like a guy with broad sexual tastes that could fit the definition of bisexual (but no more perfectly than anyone else on this site).

But I don't know why you want us to label you. As everyone here keeps saying...be who you are, love who you love, and do what you love. Don't worry about "what that makes you"...does it matter what the word is, or whether or not there's a word for your particular combination of tastes and preferences? (I don't think there's a word for mine...or for most other people's.)

Calm down and enjoy life! :tong:

Realist
Jul 15, 2010, 9:35 AM
I agree with Annika; we are who we are...each of us are unique.

I label myself bisexual, because I am attracted to both genders. Even when I was married and monogamous I was still bisexual. I loved my wife and honored her wishes that I remain monogamous, but sometimes had a desire to be with a few others. So, I think that being monogamous and not acting on my urges, still didn't prevent me from being who I am.

No one knows you better than YOU, so if there's a label to be assigned, you must assign it to yourself.