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[bicurious4fun]

i've been straight all my life and only now have been realizing i could be bi (i'm still at the curious stage as i have zero guy-guy experience). me and my girlfriend have experimented with different things on my ass and i've been fantasizing the last couple years with giving another guy head. my preference would be to come out to her so we could possibly invite another guy to join us but she has always voiced her opinion on how guy-guy turns her off. how do i go about coming out to her or should i just leave it be and experiment on my own? thanks in advance to everyone who responds. great site by the way.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Experimenting on your own as in with toys, or going behind her back and having an experiance with a man and not telling her? Hon, you'd be so much better off telling her the truth and voicing your thoughts that way. Cheating is never the right way and she deserves to be true to. :}
Good luck..
Cat

[BiCycler]

I read in your post that you are suggesting being dishonest with your partner, I agree with Cat. That being said, you can not expect, if she's been honest with you about not liking the guy-guy thing, that she will be willing to share the experience with you. What your girl deserves and you too is to be honest about who you are. This can be a deal breaker. I don't know the nature of your relationship, so I can only really say what I would do. Prepare for the consequences, (expect the worst, hope for the best), and tell her.

[Jackofalltrades]

Cherokee_Mountaincat said it best, be honest. Start off slow, allow her to get comfortable with the idea of more M/M types of bed play. Do you guys watch porn? How does she feel when there is a girl girl scene? If she is cool with it what about Guy/Girl/Guy, with no M/M touching. Then try some soft M/F/M. Let it build and let her go at her own pace.
That's all the advice I got,
Good Luck.
Jack

[NotLostJustWandering]

Apart from adding my voice to the demand for honesty, all I can add is this: I think your girl knows everything already. How is it that she has voiced her distaste for MM sex -- what brings that to her mind? And she's been fucking you with dildos? Don't expect her to be surprised when you "come out."

As for this character, he's already established that he's just here to make trouble. I imagine that his advice has the exact same motivation. So count the opposite of what he says as another vote for being open and honest with your woman.


People are going to tell you not to cheat or go behind her back but do what you gotta do.

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[cornholejoe]

looks like to me you want a guy so go get you one

[Kiowa_Pacer]

Hello;

All of the responces that you've gotten have been great, and I have to agree with them completely. Please dont go behind her back and do something that you both shall regret. Be upright and honest with her and perhaps it shall turn out better than you both expected.
Best of luck.
Kit and Ki