Trey01
May 7, 2010, 7:02 PM
Hey,
I'm a 21 year old bisexual college student. I accepted my sexuality about 3 months ago.
I'd be lying if I said this was the easiest thing for me to do. I'm happy however that I found this forum.. Bisexuals are hard to find around here.. or well, they're hard to find when you're not all the way out. Only two of my friends know, both flaming homosexuals. Which doesn't really help me much because we're different. Usually our conversations are similar to this:
"Hey, so, wait, you think those two guys kissing is attractive?"
"Well, sure. Yeah."
"but.. you also find two women kissing to be attractive."
"of course."
"Oh, Bi guys. I wish I understood."
"Yeah, me too."
It's been a confusing road. Some of my friends that I really want to tell I can't, because they have voiced opinions of bisexuals. "selfish." "Why can't they just decide?" etc. Which, I don't blame them. If you think about it, we are pretty weird people.
I felt inclined to write a bit about me to make some new friends. But I have some things I want to ask you guys.
How did you become comfortable?
Any horror stories?
Guys, is it difficult finding women as an out bisexual?
Actually, I read a thread about what is the best thing about being bisexual. I'd say my answer is getting to learn so much more than a straight or gay person will every know. So tell me anything about you.
I'm a 21 year old bisexual college student. I accepted my sexuality about 3 months ago.
I'd be lying if I said this was the easiest thing for me to do. I'm happy however that I found this forum.. Bisexuals are hard to find around here.. or well, they're hard to find when you're not all the way out. Only two of my friends know, both flaming homosexuals. Which doesn't really help me much because we're different. Usually our conversations are similar to this:
"Hey, so, wait, you think those two guys kissing is attractive?"
"Well, sure. Yeah."
"but.. you also find two women kissing to be attractive."
"of course."
"Oh, Bi guys. I wish I understood."
"Yeah, me too."
It's been a confusing road. Some of my friends that I really want to tell I can't, because they have voiced opinions of bisexuals. "selfish." "Why can't they just decide?" etc. Which, I don't blame them. If you think about it, we are pretty weird people.
I felt inclined to write a bit about me to make some new friends. But I have some things I want to ask you guys.
How did you become comfortable?
Any horror stories?
Guys, is it difficult finding women as an out bisexual?
Actually, I read a thread about what is the best thing about being bisexual. I'd say my answer is getting to learn so much more than a straight or gay person will every know. So tell me anything about you.