It's A Bust

[Herbwoman39]

Remember about two weeks ago I mentioned that the woman I've been talking to hit on me hardcore? Well I followed your advice and hit on her right back. It was going REALLY hot and heavy there for a bit.

Then I noticed something. She was starting to run hot and cold. The really juicy emails were only written late at night and the conversational emails were sent during the day.

So I asked her if her husband knew about me and if she had been tested for STDs. You know...the grown up, responsible questions. Well she glossed over the husband question but gave an STD neg status.

Then a few days later she asked me if my husband knew about the emails she sent me and their content. I told her yes, that he and I had a very open line of communication and when he asked I told him what was in them.

I also asked when we could set up a play date.

I haven't heard from her in about two weeks now.

I'm starting to think I should just get a hooker at the Bunny Ranch and be done with it.

[TwylaTwobits]

Awwww Herbwoman, sorry to hear that. Sounds like she is too nervous to actually meet right now. I'm sorry it didn't work out but don't resort to hookers just hang in there.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

You sure it wasnt the hubby sending the emails late at night? Ya never know....
I think I'd be finding greener pastures, Sweetie. :}
Cat

[csreef]

Sorry that happened to you. Don't worry someone better is waiting for you!

Good Luck,
A. :flag2:

[pabicur27]

Sorry to hear that. Something similar happened to me a couple of times on here. There are a lot of flakes out there, unfortunately.

[BiBedBud]

I hope this advice is not out-of-line or otherwise problematic, but...

Sounds like this case requires some 'social lubricant'.

No, I don't mean KY or AstroGlide.

I'm talkin' 'bout booze!

Lower them inhibitions a bit, and give her another go!

Good Luck!

(Sorry, I haven't read the 'back story', and don't know if you have direct contact with her or if it's just cyber. If it is just cyber, perhaps she's already 'refreshed' when she pulls-up to her keyboard at night, but not during the day? Just a thought.)

[12voltman59]

I think that a lot of people get all excited about the notion of doing something with someone of the same gender----but its all mostly fantasy--and when it really comes close----for whatever reason-----they have to back away and won't really do anything.

Sorry that happened to you Herbwoman----but don't get too discouraged or take it too personally-----whatever is going on with those people--it is 99.99999% their problems and not anything to do with you that they bug out on ya.

Chin, up, one foot in front of the other, take it bit by bit.

Peace