Interracial desires

[titeabs]

Out of curiousity, I was wondering if anyone else has a strong desire to be with another race. I am a white all american from the north who, when wanting to be with a male, desires to be with the man of color. I have been with a couple men in my life, both black. Have I been smitten by the old adage "once you go black, you won't go back?" Or is it strictly , "It was an awesome experience, so why change"?
Thanks in advance for your thoughts............and if you're black, pm me. ;)

[open2both]

I've had fantastic asian men and wonderful black women and it's great we live in a time when we can enjoy so many of life's offerings. I thrive on variety and see no need to be locked into just one culture or gender.
Enjoy yourself, baby!

[arana]

Good for you titeabs! I hope that as a bi-community people are open minded enough not to let race interfere with getting to know someone and being able to love them in any fashion.

[WillowTree]

I have often dated interracially in my past. I see race as about as much of a barrier as gender, and we all know how much gender gets in the way of bisexuality. :tong:

[jwboi]

i have had several interracial experiences with men and women. i do like black and hispanic men very much. that's not to say i dont' like sexy white men, too. but to be on my knees between the legs of a black man sucking his large black cock is an extreme turnon for me. and as far as women go, i love them all. white, latina, black, asian... all are beautiful.

[codybear3]

My eyes have a very acute ability to distinguish colors....But my heart and the emotions it feels are color-blind...-Cody :paw: :paw:


P.S. - Where has my SweetBlackAngel gone??? :( I am looking and hoping that she will pop back into my life... :smirlove2

[smokey]

my late wife was chinese/porteuguese/english/dutch/black...ie. afro/euroasian ie a mutt and a very pretty mutt. May she rest in peace. And she was and remains the best lover/sexual partner I ever had. I have had a few black men and aas a rule they were hot...but have never become "addicted" to one race over the other....though I kinda have a thing for small brown skinned women.

[tazlovecock]

i WAS 18 WHEN i FIST SUCKED MY FIRST BLACK COCK AND LOVED IT i AM 56 NOW AND WILL NEVER TURN DOWN THE CHANCE TO SUCK SOME BLACK COCK IN THE CHICAGO AREA. I LOVE IT

[YOUNG_CURIOUS_MALE]

I would really like to try some Big Black Cock Also.... i think that is my fetish, the idea that most black guys have big cock.. I would Really Love To Have A Black Cock in My Holes..:bigrin:;)

[BitheLakeman]

My first experience with another male was with a black man....I was seduced into sucking him by the sexy female I was making love to in an outdoor hot tub....(we were in the bahamas) He stopped by and asked if he could watch...she wanted to see if we excited him and unzipped his fly....she made me watch as she blew him....made me kiss her cheeks to feel his cock as she sucked him....made me llick her lips to keep them slippery as he pumped her mouth....then told me to taste him as she kissed me and to french her while his cock was in her mouth....did I like it she asked, and told me to blow him because she liked that....make him come....I did and loved every inch of his black cock and all the cum from it as she milked it into my mouth..

[Cherisher1]

I have been searching for two years for a nice cream colored cock to suck and booty cheeks to stroke into. However, it seems that everyone that either I contact or contacts me, are hours away, or have something to hide, or because they have something to hide only want a short-term experience with no lasting friendship. What's up with that? A friendship can still exist even if later you decide to end the sex. Sometimes I wonder if people even know what the word means anymore. Yet, I am still looking, maybe for that one in a million man or couple. Never-the-less, I want to applaud all those that have found what it means to be unbiased in life and love. Well Done!!!

[lonelygirlintx]

When it comes to guys, I love black and hispanic men! Damn, they just got it, but unfortunately I have never had the pleasure to be with a black man.:( But I love everything about those two races. But when it comes to women, I'm very attracted to white and hispanic girls. They are so hot. But again, I have never had the pleasure to be with any girls at all. Sucks.:(

[diB4u]

I tend to be predispositioned towards Caucasian men and very very light brown mixed race men.

I've had many admirers who were darker skin, but I'm very picky when it comes to a person ESPECIALLY sexualy.

Just call me a freak lol- i dont really care...

[Delilah]

I like variety. Doesn't matter what race. Just the chemistry is very important. Hmmmm I think I'll have a buffet. All variety on one plate :bigrin:

PS..
I had fantasy of my tight ass being tag team between Denziel Washington and Bruce Wills. mmmmmm damn, back in the cold shower :tong:

[stelly3740]

My (the male) first time was with a black male about ten years younger than me. He was exceptional at giving head and I loved the taste of his beautiful cock. Poor guy didn't last long but it was still great!

[vittoria]

LOL!

People are people, people.

No matter the amount of those little tiny things called melanin in the skin. And if you're in lust with melanin.... then that's your business. I kinda lust after brain cells myself :tong:

Now, if someone was to come in here saying they met a person from Alpha Centauri 7, then THAT would be something :)

Personally, I believe the term "interracial" is a misnomer... theres only one race on this planet..and that's human.

No wait... let's not forget the rats. ;)

The only reasons why race is such an issue is because of society. If it wasnt for the incessant desire to separate humans from other humans with titles and "subcultures" or what have you, then it really wouldnt be a big deal.

And as for that "Once you go black, you never go back" thing... I dont think that's really true (even though I think it is for David Bowie :) ) I think that phrase caught on because it rhymes.

That "All black men are well endowed" thing.... I believe it was a jealous slave owner pissed cause his wife was messing around with the help and was jealous, so he started banging the maid. Theres PLENTY of well endowed men from ALL melanin enhanced ( there's a phrase for ya!) groups... watch any porn lately? :tong:

[void()]

Vitt pretty well hits the nail on the head for me.

I've had experiences with white and black men, but only with white women. Just not gotten to enjoy a black woman, or Asian. To me it doesn't matter if the person is black or purple. If there is love and attraction, enjoy. :)

"Alright then, come on all you purple folks from Pluto. Let's get together and stimulate your aural receptors! Woot!" :cutelaugh

[fairchild]

i lived with a person that was asian for 4 years , had a really messy break up but have been f*** buddies off and on (no pun intended) for the last 16 years. Because we live in a really redneck area the relationship was difficult because people up here slam on the brakes in their rusty old pick up trucks , damn near swallow their wad of chew and reach for their shotguns that are hanging in the back window of their truck (ok maybe it wasn't that extreme but it was very uncomfortable at times.
the worst prejudice i faced was actually from his family , who i worked for also . I was accused of trying to "ruin their blood line" the name his mother gave me was bac gai which pretty much translates into white whore.
i obviously have no problem with inter racial relationships but just beware that there are ignorant people out there and you need to very committed to each other to survive this

[TaylorMade]

When it comes to guys, I love black and hispanic men! Damn, they just got it, but unfortunately I have never had the pleasure to be with a black man.:( But I love everything about those two races. But when it comes to women, I'm very attracted to white and hispanic girls. They are so hot. But again, I have never had the pleasure to be with any girls at all. Sucks.:(

Can I ask why you're attracted to black men?

*Taylor*

[CHOCOLATECITY32]

i am very much attracted to white and black women mainly but as far as males i gotta say black and white males because they are well endowed and freaky and the sweat and hard fucking of two ppl having non-stop sexx it's a nice rush...but as far as hisapanic women never had one ...i have had one hispanic male it was his first....but i gotta say white and black

[cogregg]

my first sexual experience with another person was with a black guy aobut 10 years older than me, so I have a special place in my heart for black guys. However, the rest of the special places in my body are open to all comers! I don't prefer one race, color or sex over another - it's all about who you are, not what you are.

[alisbi]

I have had several black male lovers, and always found them to be so sensual. It seems that no matter how BIG they are( and those I had where), they are gentle, patient and make love making (or fucking) so pleasurable.

Now to fullfill my desire for a hot black female....

[vittoria]

Taboos are taboos cause your parents and society told you so...

Its such a pain in the ass when one likes someone and the only thing they can say is: " I've never been with a (color of choice) girl/woman/man before."

How tedious.

Or how do you think it feels to find out that someone has sex with you just to "see what its like with a (color of choice) girl/woman/man"?

A tad bit diminishing. Like one's worth is only based on what other's see---not on who the person is.

Martin Luther King would be proud.

Doesnt all of this take us back 300 years to all black people were was only "breeding stock"? Slave owners screwing slave women, not because they liked them, but because "dey's good in bed"? What mentality am I seeing here?

Damn planet Earth. So superficial.


Do who you want... but dont base it on mere skin color, cultural distinction or what have you. The only thing that makes certain groups of people "more kinky" for some reason is the fact that it will piss off parents or the neighborhood... either that or people are told not to do something long enough that the "taboo" will be so much more exciting. And what makes it exciting? The fact that people are trained to believe its so "wrong". Makes me second guess the people who say they like me... Do you like me for ME... or to fulfill some "taboo"? If it was the latter-- I would be PISSED. For some strange reason, that would be a form of racism... wouldnt it? A race used as sexual objects? Hmm... those plantation owners would be proud of you;)

[DannyCapricorn]

My First Time, I Was Really Young And I Didn't Know What It Was, But Me And My Friend(African American) Would Play Around With Each Other And Sometimes After That We Would But Not To Often.:flag2:

[biwmtrucker44]

I have had a Black cock a few times but would Luve to eat some Black pussy:tongue:

[wanderingrichard]

Good for you titeabs! I hope that as a bi-community people are open minded enough not to let race interfere with getting to know someone and being able to love them in any fashion.

you got that right hon, fact is, i've been accused by many whites of being a practitioner of reverse discrimination..

i don't date as many caucasians as i do other ethnicities..guess it comes from being raised not to discriminate but to look inside the person in front of you,,, what those small minded accusers don't realize is, i only care about what's inside the wrapper, not the wrapper itself. but that's me and the way i am..

and, hey, "mixing " is healthy for both you and your partner, not to mention the entire human race.

[lashalane]

Vittoria.. no matter how many times you jump up on that soapbox and start your rant about color being a non-issue, "people are people", and how those of us that have preferences for certain races are shallow and superficial, the discussion is going to keep going the way that it is. The topic is race and people have preferences.. GET OVER IT!

I'm a predominantly Black Woman that will not date or fuck black men. I dont feel bad about it or ashamed of myself because I know most of my male black friends are being taken care of by all my white girlfriends. Everyone is getting laid and no one is bitter about it. Stop trying to beat people over the head with the hippy stick.

[DiamondDog]

Vittoria.. no matter how many times you jump up on that soapbox and start your rant about color being a non-issue, "people are people", and how those of us that have preferences for certain races are shallow and superficial, the discussion is going to keep going the way that it is. The topic is race and people have preferences.. GET OVER IT!

I'm a predominantly Black Woman that will not date or fuck black men. I dont feel bad about it or ashamed of myself because I know most of my male black friends are being taken care of by all my white girlfriends. Everyone is getting laid and no one is bitter about it. Stop trying to beat people over the head with the hippy stick.

Agreed and quoted for truth.

People have their own preferences and it does not make them narrow minded, racist, prejudiced, bigoted, or a bad person if they're not attracted to a certain race and therefore don't sleep/date that race since there's no attraction there.

Why feign attraction, lie, and waste your time and their time when attraction simply is not there?

It's like calling a gay man a misogynist since he doesn't date/sleep with women at all since the attraction isn't there.

I'm a white male and I'm not sexually attracted to black men, and that's fine.

Don't ask me why it isn't there because I don't know. It's just like I'm not attracted to smooth boyish/femme men or twinks that are in 90% of gay porn that's made, and how I'm not attracted to men who don't have or keep any facial hair at all.

I don't go around and beat myself up and feel bad for myself because I'm not attracted to black men or twinks and because I'm not always attracted to women or the feminine aspects that men/women have.

I have some attraction to latin men, indian men, some asian men, some asian women, and latin women but I don't fetishize those races and feel a burning need or desire to date/sleep with them all.

I don't think that I'm more evolved/on a higher level of human existence because I'm attracted to people who don't happen to be white, and I'd be perfectly content to have romantic relationships and sex with white masculine hairy men and maybe very casually date or just sleep with some women once in a rare while for the rest of my life.

Let's not forget about how people can be racist with their attractions towards people who are or even aren't white. Bisexual photographer/artist Robert Mapplethorpe was clearly attracted to black men but these attractions were rooted in racism and he was blatantly honest about it.

I know other bi men who fetishize black men and tell me how they themselves are size queens and are predominantly attracted to black men because they buy into the myth and stereotype that black men have big cocks and are hung like horses. Some have told me how they prefer black men who dress/act like thugs since in their mind this is what a hot "real" black man is, and some have told me how they'd gladly go to Africa and have sex with black men there.

[TaylorMade]

Vittoria.. no matter how many times you jump up on that soapbox and start your rant about color being a non-issue, "people are people", and how those of us that have preferences for certain races are shallow and superficial, the discussion is going to keep going the way that it is. The topic is race and people have preferences.. GET OVER IT!

I'm a predominantly Black Woman that will not date or fuck black men. I dont feel bad about it or ashamed of myself because I know most of my male black friends are being taken care of by all my white girlfriends. Everyone is getting laid and no one is bitter about it. Stop trying to beat people over the head with the hippy stick.

Lash... it's great to see you again :)

But... I admit I do want to discuss race too. . .I guess I want to know WHY some whites have preferences for black men. . .

I don't want to be someones sexual experiment, but if my color is PART of the attraction (and not the primary reason) . . .we're cool.

*Taylor*

[diB4u]

Discussing is fine and to the part its healthy.

For the ones that don’t know, I’m a big woman- not all men nor women like big women or big men- but that’s life.

WE all don’t like the same things in our husbands, wifes, boyfriends, girlfriends lovers- or our bed mates.

That’s called LIFE.

I agree with Diamond Dog when he states, -Why feign attraction, lie, and waste your time and their time when attraction simply is not there-

That is good advice to be listened to.

Our choices of lovers, may stem from childhood- it might not.

When I tell people that I really don’t go for dark skinned men- my friends look at me as if I’ve said something blasphemous. One friend of mine doesn’t find Asian men attractive. That’s fine. That’s her. So I say well you don’t like fat men now do you- and one of my friends said well that’s not the same.

Ah but it is. We have our own preferences. Simple as that.

Yet for me- they’ve never said this- but I’ve picked it up. I must fall for black men because they like big women. I know not all black men do… but most do. I have had experiences with darker men and well its left me feeling as if well I’d rather had done it myself - bad me eh?

Friendships are a totally different scenario altogether. I can make friends with most people- there are some who I simply cant.

Diamond Dog also states - People have their own preferences and it does not make them narrow minded, racist, prejudiced, bigoted, or a bad person if they're not attracted to a certain race and therefore don't sleep/date that race since there's no attraction there.-


As Vittoria stated- Now, if someone was to come in here saying they met a person from Alpha Centauri 7, then THAT would be something-

Trust me I’m waiting for my celestial meeting. Sadly though, I think I might have a long time to wait- plus well I’m not a rocket man or woman lol..


Titeabs- fair enough, you go for it!

[darkeyes]

Hav always sed that peeps like diff things..an for all sortsa reasons.. dib is rite..jus cos we don fancy sum 1 who is black asian chinese (they not asian by the way? so wy we class em seperately?) arab or woteva don mean we r necessarily racist.. its jus we don fancy them.. jus like mayb we don get turned on by sum 1 blonde red brunette hair or green eyes or thin lips.. mayb we get turned off by the way peeps speak (an ova ere me don get 2 turned on by peeps who speak cockney or brummie or Belfast or certain Glaswegian waysa speakin (cos ther r lots)). Ther r many diff reasons wy we do or don let peeps in our knickers..an they don necessarily equate 2 racism.

In me own case, even in the days wen men used ta tickle me fancy, neva found meself turned on by chinese or black guys. Yet hav always been turned on by their female kind. Eurasion guys, includin part chinese an wimmen wer always an attraction, an 1ce dallied for a few days wiv a half chinese half tamil guy.. e wosnt triff in the sack but he wos fun. Think me sed it before sumwer in forums..but wudn go near white guys wiv red hair, they r a rite turn off..but gals who r redheads?? Jeez.. they don half gimme a lil flutter..Kate, me partner has red hair (its coloured lemme say ere..an hav always known it) an think that wos wy me wos so hot for er from time she came 2 look at me flat... Also neva like Italian, Greek or arab men much or ne wiv jet black hair.. but wimmen?? God..don haff gimme a lil tingle or 2..

Point is beauty is in the eye etc etc.. for woteva reason we like an r attracted 2 peeps for diff reasons.. we dislike an keep our knicks on for diff reasons an all.. an its not always cosa bein racist..

[childofwinter]

I don't have a preference when it comes to skin colour or nationality or anything like that.

[lashalane]

Goddamn it Darkeyes I love it when you post... I really wish this thing had audio.



For the ones that don’t know, I’m a big woman- not all men nor women like big women or big men- but that’s life.

When I tell people that I really don’t go for dark skinned men- my friends look at me as if I’ve said something blasphemous. One friend of mine doesn’t find Asian men attractive. That’s fine. That’s her. So I say well you don’t like fat men now do you- and one of my friends said well that’s not the same.

Yet for me- they’ve never said this- but I’ve picked it up. I must fall for black men because they like big women. I know not all black men do… but most do. I have had experiences with darker men and well its left me feeling as if well I’d rather had done it myself - bad me eh?

*high five* Ok I really and totally relate to this being the fatty that I am. The LA fatty clubs are crawling with black men, yet people wonder why I am not out cleaning up the place since I am so cute.

I have actually had one black man get pissed off at me becasue I didn't fall b4 him and worship at the alter of black cock. I had to laugh!.. I got so tired of not being approached by hot white guys, which in that scene are very very limited, that I had shirts made saying that I like White boys!

Thankfully I don't need those fatty clubs to meet guys. I'm using that merely as an example. all the fatties and the white girls can worship at that alter.. there is no shortage.

I say let the "Checkerboard Revolution" Live Well and Thrive!!!

[Skater Boy]

Ah, Lasha... its been a while, welcome back! :)



I got so tired of not being approached by hot white guys, which in that scene are very very limited, that I had shirts made saying that I like White boys!

LOL :bigrin:


I say let the "Checkerboard Revolution" Live Well and Thrive!!!

Amen. ;)

[lashalane]

Thanks Skater.. I missed y'all too..

but the one thing I don't miss is the hate mail..case in point...


see title. i have you blocked . thank you.

Dueces Bitch.. you won't be missed!!

[diB4u]

Goddamn it Darkeyes I love it when you post... I really wish this thing had audio.



*high five* Ok I really and totally relate to this being the fatty that I am. The LA fatty clubs are crawling with black men, yet people wonder why I am not out cleaning up the place since I am so cute.

I have actually had one black man get pissed off at me becasue I didn't fall b4 him and worship at the alter of black cock. I had to laugh!.. I got so tired of not being approached by hot white guys, which in that scene are very very limited, that I had shirts made saying that I like White boys!

Thankfully I don't need those fatty clubs to meet guys. I'm using that merely as an example. all the fatties and the white girls can worship at that alter.. there is no shortage.

I say let the "Checkerboard Revolution" Live Well and Thrive!!!


Exactly everyone has their own likes and dislikes

Yes i have had black men like well be soo arragent and say i should be grateful that someone finds me attractive.

Of course this has the reverse affects.

or as someone said in a club quite recently "Aww someone should give you a go."

No wonder i dont go clubbing, its full of skinny men and women!

Ugh and the only bigger people was right at the back- hmm, i was on the dance floor untill that happened.

[31cho]

Vittoria.. no matter how many times you jump up on that soapbox and start your rant about color being a non-issue, "people are people", and how those of us that have preferences for certain races are shallow and superficial, the discussion is going to keep going the way that it is. The topic is race and people have preferences.. GET OVER IT!

I'm a predominantly Black Woman that will not date or fuck black men. I dont feel bad about it or ashamed of myself because I know most of my male black friends are being taken care of by all my white girlfriends. Everyone is getting laid and no one is bitter about it. Stop trying to beat people over the head with the hippy stick.


Stop trying to beat people over the head with your hate and vehemence. The topic is open for discussion, she was talking about race, and yes, people have preferences. Yes, people are people, and YOU are a person, just like she is. Some people are shallow and superficial... YOU have just proved that you are because you seem to not be able to accept ANYONE unless they agree with you or abide by YOUR standards. If you dont like her, dont talk about her, dont pick at her, block her if you feel that desperate, but PERSONAL FLAME BAIT BULLSHIT will NOT be tolerated--sorry, just reading the forum rules, dont copy and paste PRIVATE MESSAGES into the forum...THATS WHY THEY ARE PRIVATE MESSAGES...apparently she was showing a decorum that you FAIL MISERABLY to display. And calling her a "bitch" was definitely uncalled for. She has a right to say what she wants, RESPECTFULLY, just as you do--but you show NO respect. Whatsoever.

In other words,

LEAVE VITTORIA ALONE. Your post is reported. BOTH of them.

[31cho]

On another note,

my girlfriend is mixed, and so are her parents (indian irish 'black' french) ,my family is mixed as well ( colombian and irish) so i dont see a big deal or a problem. It wasnt a special desire, but a wonderful person i fell in love with. And tho i've seen my fair share of hung black men, i have been with some suprisingly well endowed white men too. All the same color in the dark! (just ask a blind guy :tongue: )

[Azrael]

YOU have just proved that you are because you seem to not be able to accept ANYONE unless they agree with you or abide by YOUR standards.

Mr. Pot, I have a Mr. Kettle holding on line three. Grow a spine and walk it off.

[blackout]

Agreed and quoted for truth.


"Truth"? What truth? Who's truth?



People have their own preferences and it does not make them narrow minded, racist, prejudiced, bigoted, or a bad person if they're not attracted to a certain race and therefore don't sleep/date that race since there's no attraction there.


Ah right. So, in THIS particular case, racism doesn't seem to be an issue. Funny though, in another thread you said this:


I don't like debating politics on forums or debating with europeans/antipodeans who live in denial about their own countries and who view the topics of racism, hate crimes, and homophobia in their own country with rose colored glasses.

I wonder who's viewing racism through the rose colored glasses now. You just SOOOOO disqualified yourself as serious discussion partner of any kind. All you do is crap all over the forum. But I guess that is just what dogs do, don't they? Shit all over the house. :)

[DiamondDog]

"Truth"? What truth? Who's truth?



Ah right. So, in THIS particular case, racism doesn't seem to be an issue. Funny though, in another thread you said this:



I wonder who's viewing racism through the rose colored glasses now. You just SOOOOO disqualified yourself as serious discussion partner of any kind. All you do is crap all over the forum. But I guess that is just what dogs do, don't they? Shit all over the house. :)

Why even bother replying?

You obviously don't understand what I write on here or how to read english that well.

You just flame people and take things out of context/write in non-sequiturs to do this, and you're a complete idiot when it all comes down to it.

I agreed with what Lasha wrote that's all. We all have things that we're attracted to and things that we're not attracted to. You're not all that attracted to men based on your profile.

This topic is about race and people's personal attractions.

Sooner or later in this topic someone's going to play the race card or I should say the racism card against someone else just because they're not attracted to members of a certain race or attracted to members of their own race, and that's just how they are with their attractions, and there's no reason for it.

[lashalane]

Some people are shallow and superficial... YOU have just proved that you are because you seem to not be able to accept ANYONE unless they agree with you or abide by YOUR standards.

I don't care if you agree or disagree with my views and outlook on life. Shit happens!.. I'm shallow and superficial only becasue I have the luxury of being just that choosy.


If you dont like her, dont talk about her, dont pick at her, block her if you feel that desperate, but PERSONAL FLAME BAIT BULLSHIT will NOT be tolerated--sorry, just reading the forum rules, dont copy and paste PRIVATE MESSAGES into the forum...THATS WHY THEY ARE PRIVATE MESSAGES...apparently she was showing a decorum that you FAIL MISERABLY to display. And calling her a "bitch" was definitely uncalled for. She has a right to say what she wants, RESPECTFULLY, just as you do--but you show NO respect. Whatsoever.

In other words,

LEAVE VITTORIA ALONE. Your post is reported. BOTH of them.

:banghead::banghead:I'm sorry.. it took me a minute to remember this Victoria person you speak of. Wait.. oh.. nevermind I really don't give enough of a shit about her or you to block you. Blocking someone means you have been affected and incensed by them. I just don't care that much, but obviously y'all love the drama, so i can give you Susan Lucci if you really need it! :banghead::banghead:

Oh and btw just because you are letting the soapbox queen backdoor you doesn't mean she needs you to come to her rescue. Maybe if she took your balls out of her mouth she could have done a better job defending herself. No need for you to get involved.

[Skater Boy]

Yawn...

*grabs nearby hairbrush and starts singing*

"Brown sugar... how come you taste so good..."

:smirlove2

(:bigrin:)

[TaylorMade]

Yawn...

*grabs nearby hairbrush and starts singing*

"Brown sugar... how come you taste so good..."

:smirlove2

(:bigrin:)

Sweetheart, the Drama train has already left the building.

*Taylor*

[Skater Boy]

Sweetheart, the Drama train has already left the building.

Oh, I dunno... I think this whole thread has been pretty "dramatic". it was just a bit of humour to intersperse the flaming, but if you object to it, consider the post retracted... :)

[TaylorMade]

Oh, I dunno... I think this whole thread has been pretty "dramatic". it was just a bit of humour to intersperse the flaming, but if you object to it, consider the post retracted... :)

Eh, no objections to the humor, hon... :)

But if you can follow up that public performance with a private one, in boxers and socks at the foot of my bed, I'll be good to go.


*Taylor*

[Skater Boy]

Eh, no objections to the humor, hon... :)

But if you can follow up that public performance with a private one, in boxers and socks at the foot of my bed, I'll be good to go.

Y'never know... stranger things have happened... ;)

*quickly looks up the rest of the lyrics to that song* :bigrin:

[diB4u]

Oh this is SOOO funny.

Everyone has their own passions desires and needs.

My friends both online and off line are from all walks of life colours, disabilities, abilities, weights...

But when it comes to hmm carnal knowledge- its a bit more tricky.

Cough to sing a song from an artist who is WEll FiT.

"Relax take it easyy..."

And more important.


Yo Mika.

I said,

- now pay attention, this lyric is sooo funny...


Sucking too hard on your lollipop,
Or love's gonna get you down.


:bigrin:

[Skater Boy]

Oh this is SOOO funny.

Everyone has their own passions desires and needs.

My friends both online and off line are from all walks of life colours, disabilities, abilities, weights...

But when it comes to hmm carnal knowledge- its a bit more tricky.

Cough to sing a song from an artist who is WEll FiT.

"Relax take it easyy..."

And more important.


Yo Mika.

I said,

- now pay attention, this lyric is sooo funny...


Sucking too hard on your lollipop,
Or love's gonna get you down.


:bigrin:

Er... oh-kay. I didn't see the relevance of the Mika lyrics, but then hey... what place do Rolling Stones lyrics have in this thread either, for that matter?

I think the point that I was trying to make was that I am pro-racial integration when it comes to sexual matters.

[diB4u]

LOL well I was just trying to put humor into the situation and calm things down.


Fair enough Skater- each to their own... Thank God for that eh?

[darkeyes]

Me an all Skater babes.. its sexual integration me don fancy 2 much these days...tee hee..but thats all a matta of personal taste an all..so gud luk 2 yas all.. enjoy an hav lots.. :bigrin:

[Skater Boy]

LOL well I was just trying to put humor into the situation and calm things down.

OIC... Yeah, Lasha and Vitt have a little war going on or something, so I tried to do the same. Tbh I don't really agree with some of the content contained within Lasha's profile ad, but I respect her opinion, and have to admit that she's got a pretty face, IMO. I can see things from Vittoria's perspective too though. I guess it all depends on how important sexual aesthetics are to each individual... if you lust exclusively after certain things, then thats fine as long as you're aware of it, and that by doing so, you may exclude the possibility of intimacy with someone whom you might potentially have a "connection" with.

Personally though, I do have my preferences (;)) but I'm not so rigid that I'm not willing to explore other possibilities. IMHO, I know what I like, but also like to keep an open mind.


Fair enough Skater- each to their own... Thank God for that eh?

I suppose... different strokes for different folks. We can't ALL fancy Keira Knightley now, can we? :bigrin:

[diB4u]

OIC... Yeah, Lasha and Vitt have a little war going on or something, so I tried to do the same. Tbh I don't really agree with some of the content contained within Lasha's profile ad, but I respect her opinion, and have to admit that she's got a pretty face, IMO. I can see things from Vittoria's perspective too though. I guess it all depends on how important sexual aesthetics are to each individual... if you lust exclusively after certain things, then thats fine as long as you're aware of it, and that by doing so, you may exclude the possibility of intimacy with someone whom you might potentially have a "connection" with.

Personally though, I do have my preferences (;)) but I'm not so rigid that I'm not willing to explore other possibilities. IMHO, I know what I like, but also like to keep an open mind.



I suppose... different strokes for different folks. We can't ALL fancy Keira Knightley now, can we? :bigrin:


True but sheesh, i do.

She has a beautiful face, and a pretty smile. I wish i had her body, very tom boyish, and i could be a faux man. :bigrin: :bigrin:

Hmm, but thats for another thread lol...


True - my passions are big and long.

[darkeyes]

I suppose... different strokes for different folks. We can't ALL fancy Keira Knightley now, can we? :bigrin:
OOO me dunno bout that Skater babes tong:

[Skater Boy]

lol, yeah, I take it back... Keira is difficult NOT to like. But I'm pretty sure that there are some men who think she's a bit skinny and would prefer a more voluptuous and forthcoming blonde.

But, personally, even if Keira was TOTALLY incompatible with my sexuality (which she isn't), I would STILL make an concerted effort to give her a go...

[darkeyes]

Who cares wot MEN think Skater...ther opinions don matta..tee hee...but voluptuous an blonde sounds gud 2 me an all..or brunette..or red.. or.....sighhhhhh... but voluptuous bonde/brunette/red an TALL.. God now yas talkin...:bigrin:

Kate..can me hav nite out on me own tonite???:tong: Jeez...wotta tart!!!

[diB4u]

Who cares wot MEN think Skater...ther opinions don matta..tee hee...but voluptuous an blonde sounds gud 2 me an all..or brunette..or red.. or.....sighhhhhh... but voluptuous bonde/brunette/red an TALL.. God now yas talkin...:bigrin:

Kate..can me hav nite out on me own tonite???:tong: Jeez...wotta tart!!!



LOL@darkeyes. Indeedy.

Tee.hee...

I like black women, white women.. Funny eh?

[darkeyes]

LOL@darkeyes. Indeedy.

Tee.hee...

I like black women, white women.. Funny eh?

Naaa... fun an quite natural dib babes... wots ther not 2 like???:tong: spesh if they tall!!!!!:tong: Gonna havta get Kate 2 stretch er legs bout 5" or so... God wotta thot..a tall Paterson... wud neva let er outa bed!!!:tong:

[jem_is_bi]

I have tried to keep updated on all the comments and opinions about inter-racial sexual attraction because I have had an inter-racial relationship. At the start, a major sexual turn-on was the exotic, taboo nature of white-black sex. But, within a month, the joy of sex revolved around the feelings of affection for the person rather than the color of their skin.
Surprisingly, if I were to have another inter-racial relationship, at the beginning, I would still get a thrill form the exotic, taboo nature of white-black sex. But ultimately, only my feeling for the individual would dominate the thrill of shared enjoyment.
So, even though it is strange, I find myself in agreement with all sides in this debate.

JEM

[diB4u]

I have tried to keep updated on all the comments and opinions about inter-racial sexual attraction because I have had an inter-racial relationship. At the start, a major sexual turn-on was the exotic, taboo nature of white-black sex. But, within a month, the joy of sex revolved around the feelings of affection for the person rather than the color of their skin.
Surprisingly, if I were to have another inter-racial relationship, at the beginning, I would still get a thrill form the exotic, taboo nature of white-black sex. But ultimately, only my feeling for the individual would dominate the thrill of shared enjoyment.
So, even though it is strange, I find myself in agreement with all sides in this debate.

JEM

Hmm taboo?

Maybe its because im mixed race that its just not taboo for me at all.

but its funny to hear that from someone else.

After all a willy is a willy, black, white, brown - they all work the same.

[blackout]

Why even bother replying?


Why? This is a public forum. I caught you with your pants down, I don't like you, and I figure I'd expose that for all to see. I got a total kick out of it. THAT's why.



You obviously don't understand what I write on here or how to read english that well.


First of all, if you want someone to take you seriously (and you OBVIOUSLY do) you don't use the word "obviously", OBVIOUSLY. Also, it's kind of pathetic how you are implying that I do not know how to read or write English. Actually, my English is a lot better than most native English speakers, as several people on this site have already mentioned. You are, OBVIOUSLY, just trying to get me aggrevated by directly linking the fact that I supposedly don't know how to converse in English to my European roots. You know how we call that here? Prejudice! Wow, just the thing that you are always arguing against right? Racism and intolerance, homophobia, all based on prejudice. Prejudice such as you are OBVIOUSLY displaying yourself. You are not talking your way out of this one, dog.



You just flame people and take things out of context/write in non-sequiturs to do this, and you're a complete idiot when it all comes down to it.


Yeah, and you smell, and so does your mother.



I agreed with what Lasha wrote that's all. We all have things that we're attracted to and things that we're not attracted to. You're not all that attracted to men based on your profile.


Ah yes, and that is where your logic fails, because I am not PREJUDICED against men. I do not say "oh well he's a man so I don't like him". You are agreeing with the fact that it's ok to say "oh he's black so I won't even bother'. How about we change the context of this particular situation to a job interview. If I was an employer, and I would say "oh he's black so I won't even bother", would you agree with that point of view as well?



This topic is about race and people's personal attractions.


You don't have to explain the topic to me, dipshit, that's perfectly clear to me, even though I'm EUROPEAN. By the way, you descend from Europeans, or didnt you know that.


Sooner or later in this topic someone's going to play the race card or I should say the racism card against someone else just because they're not attracted to members of a certain race or attracted to members of their own race, and that's just how they are with their attractions, and there's no reason for it.

"OBVIOUSLY". :angel:

[jem_is_bi]

Hmm taboo?

Maybe its because im mixed race that its just not taboo for me at all.

but its funny to hear that from someone else.

After all a willy is a willy, black, white, brown - they all work the same.

For me, taboo refers to an internal reaction to strong pressure from society and family concerning inter-racial sex. I suspect this reality for many others. Your observation that sex is the same for black, white, brown explains why my initial race based excitement was very transient and could not be sustained.

JEM

[thinkfree39]

My first experience with another male was with a black man....I was seduced into sucking him by the sexy female I was making love to in an outdoor hot tub....(we were in the bahamas) He stopped by and asked if he could watch...she wanted to see if we excited him and unzipped his fly....she made me watch as she blew him....made me kiss her cheeks to feel his cock as she sucked him....made me llick her lips to keep them slippery as he pumped her mouth....then told me to taste him as she kissed me and to french her while his cock was in her mouth....did I like it she asked, and told me to blow him because she liked that....make him come....I did and loved every inch of his black cock and all the cum from it as she milked it into my mouth..

Aren't there any more like this? MUCH more interesting.

[DiamondDog]

Why? This is a public forum. I caught you with your pants down, I don't like you, and I figure I'd expose that for all to see. I got a total kick out of it. THAT's why.



First of all, if you want someone to take you seriously (and you OBVIOUSLY do) you don't use the word "obviously", OBVIOUSLY. Also, it's kind of pathetic how you are implying that I do not know how to read or write English. Actually, my English is a lot better than most native English speakers, as several people on this site have already mentioned. You are, OBVIOUSLY, just trying to get me aggrevated by directly linking the fact that I supposedly don't know how to converse in English to my European roots. You know how we call that here? Prejudice! Wow, just the thing that you are always arguing against right? Racism and intolerance, homophobia, all based on prejudice. Prejudice such as you are OBVIOUSLY displaying yourself. You are not talking your way out of this one, dog.



Yeah, and you smell, and so does your mother.



Ah yes, and that is where your logic fails, because I am not PREJUDICED against men. I do not say "oh well he's a man so I don't like him". You are agreeing with the fact that it's ok to say "oh he's black so I won't even bother'. How about we change the context of this particular situation to a job interview. If I was an employer, and I would say "oh he's black so I won't even bother", would you agree with that point of view as well?



You don't have to explain the topic to me, dipshit, that's perfectly clear to me, even though I'm EUROPEAN. By the way, you descend from Europeans, or didnt you know that.



"OBVIOUSLY". :angel:

We're talking about sexual attraction here, personal preferences, and race.

This has nothing to do with if you were hypothetically going to hire or not hire a person based on their race only, which is a silly concept since you'd want to hire the most qualified candidate based on his/her background and not based soley on their race no matter what it is.

There you go doing what I said someone would do and you're playing the race card, and equating no sexual attraction to a race with being racist.

It's a silly idea that because you're somehow not sexually attracted to a certain race that you're somehow racist.

There are white men who are sexually attracted to black men and prefer them and some who fetishize them. I'm not one of them. Don't ask me why I'm not sexually attracted to black men at all because I don't know. It's not based on prejudice or racism though.

Why should I waste my own time and a black guy's time attempting sex or a relationship when there's no attraction there at all?

I know bi/gay men who aren't attracted to Asian men at all and therefore they don't have sex or relationships with them since there's no attraction there.

I know Asian women who don't want to date or sleep with men who are not also asian. Wow! I guess they're racist! /sarcasm

Flame me all you want but this just shows how much of a hypocrite you are and how bad you're at reading and comprehending english.

You didn't catch me doing anything you just interject non-sequiturs and take things out of context, and flame like usual.

This topic has nothing to do with what I originally wrote about people in european countries ignoring racism, homophobia, and prejudice in their own countries and pretending that because they personally don't see it that it does not exist there.

So you know how to speak and write some english. Well that's dandy and all but you still don't actually read or comprehend what I write here and understand it too well, and it's clearly shown by your replies.

I'm not the one AGGRAVATING you at all. You do it all to yourself.

Anyway back to the main topic, we all have our own preferences when it comes to race, apperance, and other factors. There's nothing wrong with telling someone no thanks or expressing your own personal likes/dislikes for what you are/are not attracted to.

The world would be a very boring place if everyone was the same or we were all attracted to the same thing.

[blackout]

Cleverly (oh well, not so much, anyway) evading the comparison to the job interview, aren't you? You are such a pathetic individual. Bisexuality is all about tolerance, which you seem to lack in a great big way. I think you are just a gay man in denial. You can't possibly be a bisexual.

[DiamondDog]

Cleverly (oh well, not so much, anyway) evading the comparison to the job interview, aren't you? You are such a pathetic individual. Bisexuality is all about tolerance, which you seem to lack in a great big way. I think you are just a gay man in denial. You can't possibly be a bisexual.

Your posts get more and more ignorant and foolish as you spew the excuse you call a brain which is really just shit, into your posts here.

Good job troll!

Please keep up the excellent work!

As far as flaming me for a misspelled word/typo, there's a pot on line 4 for you!

You yourself have misspelled many words in your own posts and you just use words that you don't even know the meaning of.

Nice to show everyone your own homophobia and self loathing by saying that gay men are somehow by default not as open minded or as tolerant as bisexuals are, and that it's somehow a bad and horrible thing to be a homosexual male, instead of being bisexual. :rolleyes:

This is just another example of the homophobic undercurrent and attitude that goes on around here that never gets talked about (props to Azrael and others who have posted about it), and gets swept back into the closet and under the carpet.

You've got a lot to learn and you live in a bubble with rose coloured glasses if you think that someone's sexual orientation somehow makes them somehow more tolerant towards others or that they simply should be by default.

Or that ignorance/racism/homophobia/biphobia/heterophobic/transphobia don't exist in the fake GLBT "community", that GLBT people can't be ignorant/racist/homophobic (like you yourself are homophobic), heterophobic/transphobic, or biphobic, or that there's actually a true GLBT "culture" and that everything is fine and peachy when it comes to GLBT people and getting along and accepting other GLBT people based on their gender/race/sexual orientation.

Get out there and actually meet people instead of just posting on the internet and chatting online to strangers, and you'll see what I'm talking about.

I don't give a fuck if people think I'm gay or not. Does it somehow matter? Is being assumed a homosexual male somehow a bad and horrible thing?

According to you all of this is. I'll bet you're one of those men who is proud to and also describes himself as being "straight" acting too! Way to be homophobic too.

I know who I am better than anyone else does, especially an ignorant fool like yourself, and that's all that matters. All this shows is that you don't really understand bisexuality and that even bisexuals don't always understand their own orientation.

I've explained my sexuality multiple times on these boards, so I'm not going to do it again.

I didn't evade shit with your question about hiring someone. You're the one playing the race/racist card and you're trying to foolishly equate someone having zero sexual attraction towards a race, or someone's personal preference towards race with racism/bigotry/discrimination for not getting a job when there's no link at all.

I gave a logical answer that I'd think hope most people would give when it comes to hiring someone for a job. Since when is being hired for a job or not based on race only and not someone's background and qualifications? It's usually based how well the person giving the interview thinks the person being interviewed can work/handle the job, the person's background/qualifications for the job, how well the person being interviewed does with the interview, in many cases it can be based on who you know, and it's usually not based on the person's race alone.

Then there's the topic of affirmative action. I have no qualms at all with workplaces and companies hiring black/latino/asian people but it's to the company's benefit if they hire someone who is best qualified for the job and who they think is best suited for the job based on the above things I mentioned in the last paragraph and not based on their prospective employee's race alone.

Even my friends who are black/latino/asian and of both genders, are deeply offended by the idea that they somehow need affirmative action or need more help finding jobs or getting into a university/college because of their race yet they see affirmative action as a way to pimp the system, and if a prospective employer/company/university is pro affirmative action it is to their benefit to apply there.

[Azrael]

This is just another example of the homophobic undercurrent and attitude that goes on around here that never gets talked about (props to Azrael and others who have posted about it), and gets swept back into the closet and under the carpet.


Thanks for that, buddy.
Like how people say "this is a bi site for bi people" as if this is some kind of secret club :rolleyes: I love my gay friends dearly. They've helped me come to a greater understanding of myself when noone else would listen to me spill.
There is a homophobic undercurrent here, and frankly it fucking disgusts me.
I don't care if you like both or the same sex. You're still a sodomite in the eyes of the establishment, political, religious, educational and otherwise.

When I first figured out I was bi it was an epiphany of sorts for me. Things finally made sense, at least sort of. What really sticks with me is what one of my lesbian friends told me. She basically said owning your identity is all well and good, but don't act like you have some more evolved perspective than the rest of the world. I see a lot of that here. Quite a few angry closeted men who talk about how much they love cock, but "I'm not a fag". Are there some gay folks who treat bi people like crap? Sure. But it goes both ways. Some bi people are extremely hostile toward the gay community. People endlessly insisting they're 'straight looking" or acting. People who treat their heterosexual relationships like gold but just deconstruct their other side to animalistic mechanical fornication lest they actually be seen doing *gasp* something queer like holding hands with or kissing another man/woman in public. It drips self lotahing and denial. It's tragic and all too common. With all the folks trying to lock us back in the closet you figure there would be a greater sense of urgency to get over the petty little dick one-upmanship. It's how the powers that be keep us in thrall. Keep us split up into paranoid catty factions, lest we actually achieve something that matters.

It reminds me of when I was deeply immersed in the Florida Death Metal scene. Handful of amazing bands, the rest are crusty drunken little scenester scum-fucks arguing endlessly about what 'true' Metal is and what bands people are 'allowed' to like.

There's gotta be a better way. Grow, learn, evolve.
And I don't care if anyone thinks DiamondDog or myself are "really gay".
We define ourselves, and respectfully, we're not here to impress you.

[darkeyes]

Reckon its bout time peeps jus accepted each otha for who they r an wot they say they r ... neva fails 2 amaze me how often peeps jus don accept peeps view a themselves an reckon they r summat else... sumtimes its even true..cos humans aint exempt from a lil self delusion. But at enda day.. how we c ourselves is all we hav 2 go on, an until we r proved rong then can peeps jus shurrup ther gobs an show a lil patience an a lil tolerance... sumtimes yas dus get on me tits in ere wenya shows a distinct lack of simple undastandin an compassion for the feelins of othas.. play nice u lot...change habits of a lifetime!!!

[blackout]

I guess it's ok for certain people to have racist views, but not call themselves that, because it doesn't fit their personal agenda. How fun!

[lashalane]

Fuck it then.. I'm a black woman that doesn't date black men..OK

I'm a Racist!!

Heil Hitler!...douche

[Skater Boy]

LMAO! :cutelaugh

*pictures Lasha showing off her Swastika tattoo*

[diB4u]

Reckon its bout time peeps jus accepted each otha for who they r an wot they say they r ... neva fails 2 amaze me how often peeps jus don accept peeps view a themselves an reckon they r summat else... sumtimes its even true..cos humans aint exempt from a lil self delusion. But at enda day.. how we c ourselves is all we hav 2 go on, an until we r proved rong then can peeps jus shurrup ther gobs an show a lil patience an a lil tolerance... sumtimes yas dus get on me tits in ere wenya shows a distinct lack of simple undastandin an compassion for the feelins of othas.. play nice u lot...change habits of a lifetime!!!


Dude I couldnt say so better myself.

I am talking a vowel of silence now... Not gonna say another word on this subject just that each to their own.:bibounce:

[Azrael]

Fuck it then.. I'm a black woman that doesn't date black men..OK

I'm a Racist!!

Heil Hitler!...douche

How shall I serve you, mein fuhrer?
:bigrin:
Want me to wack someone? Off someone? Wack off someone?

[lashalane]

Oh let me count the ways!


How shall I serve you, mein fuhrer?
:bigrin:
Want me to wack someone? Off someone? Wack off someone?

[RockGardener]

OK, let's get back on topic.

Overall, I am attracted to white guys and girls. When I think of my perfect person, the person is white.

BUT.....

I have the biggest crush on one of my friends who is mixed race. Her mom is black Jamaican/ Cuban and her dad is white as can be. She is beautiful and knows I have a crush on her, and she is 20 years younger than me.

Rock

[Eileen]

LOL!

People are people, people.

No matter the amount of those little tiny things called melanin in the skin. And if you're in lust with melanin.... then that's your business. I kinda lust after brain cells myself :tong:

Now, if someone was to come in here saying they met a person from Alpha Centauri 7, then THAT would be something :)

Personally, I believe the term "interracial" is a misnomer... theres only one race on this planet..and that's human.

No wait... let's not forget the rats. ;)

The only reasons why race is such an issue is because of society. If it wasnt for the incessant desire to separate humans from other humans with titles and "subcultures" or what have you, then it really wouldnt be a big deal.

And as for that "Once you go black, you never go back" thing... I dont think that's really true (even though I think it is for David Bowie :) ) I think that phrase caught on because it rhymes.

That "All black men are well endowed" thing.... I believe it was a jealous slave owner pissed cause his wife was messing around with the help and was jealous, so he started banging the maid. Theres PLENTY of well endowed men from ALL melanin enhanced ( there's a phrase for ya!) groups... watch any porn lately? :tong:

Great post. Seems as if this discussion comes up ever so often on this forum. It's interesting, to say the least.

[blackout]

OK, let's get back on topic.

Overall, I am attracted to white guys and girls. When I think of my perfect person, the person is white.

BUT.....

I have the biggest crush on one of my friends who is mixed race. Her mom is black Jamaican/ Cuban and her dad is white as can be. She is beautiful and knows I have a crush on her, and she is 20 years younger than me.

Rock

I really couldnt care less what race anyone is. If I like them, I like them. If I don't, I don't. I may find them sexually attractive or not, but race has nothing to do with it. I've seen attractive people from all colors that the planet has to offer. I really couldn't say "oh I wouldn't want this or this race by default". I just don't see why. What are you looking at if you do? An empty shell? A stereotype? That's the only way I can think of it.

[blackout]

Fuck it then.. I'm a black woman that doesn't date black men..OK

I'm a Racist!!

Heil Hitler!...douche

FYI, Hitler wasn't a racist. Get educated, stupid woman.

[Skater Boy]

FYI, Hitler wasn't a racist. Get educated, stupid woman.

Huh?! have I missed something? how does a burning desire to eliminate all JEWS (amongst other people) NOT equate to racism?

I know that he was trying to "purify" and supposedly "improve" society, but, regardless of your motives, if you go about that by using "ethnic cleansing" doesn't that make you a "racist"? Or at very least highly prejudiced?

Lasha is not talking about gassing black people and burying them in mass-graves... hell, she's black herself! She just finds some things more sexually appealing than others, and good luck to her, I say. its a bit like BDSM... I, personally, cannot see the attraction... but I don't begrudge anyone who may happen to be into it.

I also think we should distinguish between SEXUALLY based relationships and EMOTIONALLY based ones... because if you have absolutely NO sexual desire whatsoever for people of any one particular ethnic group, then why waste time on something that you know you're not into? On the other hand though- and this is MY way of thinking- if you are open to, and value the potential for emotional stimulus equally (or moreso) than your sexual preferences, then you may want to keep a slightly more open mind when it comes to choosing partners.

Like I said before... I do have my own preferences... but I'm certainly open to bending (or breaking) those rules if the right person comes along.

The ONLY scenario in which I might OBJECT to someone exercising their right to sexually prefer any given ethnic group, is when that person's motives are immoral, bigoted or grossly unjust. And even then... surely its THEIR RIGHT to fuck whomever they want, and for whatever reason they may happen to have?

:2cents:

[darkeyes]

e wos talkin bollox Skater babes.... don worry bout it...:tong:

[Eileen]

Huh?! have I missed something? how does a burning desire to eliminate all JEWS (amongst other people) NOT equate to racism?

I know that he was trying to "purify" and supposedly "improve" society, but, regardless of your motives, if you go about that by using "ethnic cleansing" doesn't that make you a "racist"? Or at very least highly prejudiced?

Lasha is not talking about gassing black people and burying them in mass-graves... hell, she's black herself! She just finds some things more sexually appealing than others, and good luck to her, I say. its a bit like BDSM... I, personally, cannot see the attraction... but I don't begrudge anyone who may happen to be into it.

I also think we should distinguish between SEXUALLY based relationships and EMOTIONALLY based ones... because if you have absolutely NO sexual desire whatsoever for people of any one particular ethnic group, then why waste time on something that you know you're not into? On the other hand though- and this is MY way of thinking- if you are open to, and value the potential for emotional stimulus equally (or moreso) than your sexual preferences, then you may want to keep a slightly more open mind when it comes to choosing partners.

Like I said before... I do have my own preferences... but I'm certainly open to bending (or breaking) those rules if the right person comes along.

The ONLY scenario in which I might OBJECT to someone exercising their right to sexually prefer any given ethnic group, is when that person's motives are immoral, bigoted or grossly unjust. And even then... surely its THEIR RIGHT to fuck whomever they want, and for whatever reason they may happen to have?

:2cents:

I frequent South Korean boards because of my love for Korean food (kimchi...yum). They have similar conversations about purity and attraction, etc. It is interesting to me because in the Korean culture while the elders primarily desire racial purity, the younger ones are more about integrating, usually. South Koreans have the reputation for being prejudiced and exclusive to their own and if one studies their history, one would know why. It's fear based for the most part because the culture has been harmed by 'others', and I understand that.

Any culture who has faced oppression first hand will be wary... American blacks, native Americans, the LGBT community, obese people, poor people, etc. ad infinum. The attraction/non attraction of others is *sometimes* based upon more than sexual desire alone. It can be emotional. It can be cultural. It can be based upon past fear and pain. It can be based on ignorance and bias. It can be based on rebellion or conformity. These are not rational decisions but emotional ones.

It is totally fine if someone wants to base their sexual attraction on emotions because what is sex but a desire... an emotion? But, if one is searching for a *reason* for their attraction/non attraction, investigating ones own inner emotions/desires is a good place to start. The personal is political and we make statements about ourselves when we exclude/prefer others based upon such things. We will be treated the same way that we treat others and if people can live with that... fine. As far as we all know, we only have one life to live and if one is content with oneself, so be it.

The bottom line is, as well all know, that there is only one race... the human race... and in my mind, that's all that matters to me.

Edited to add: I do not equate fetishes (BDSM, etc.) with race. To me, there is no comparison. Racial issues are much more complicated than that, imo.

[BronzeBobby]

I gave a logical answer that I'd think hope most people would give when it comes to hiring someone for a job. Since when is being hired for a job or not based on race only and not someone's background and qualifications? It's usually based how well the person giving the interview thinks the person being interviewed can work/handle the job, the person's background/qualifications for the job, how well the person being interviewed does with the interview, in many cases it can be based on who you know, and it's usually not based on the person's race alone.

Then there's the topic of affirmative action. I have no qualms at all with workplaces and companies hiring black/latino/asian people but it's to the company's benefit if they hire someone who is best qualified for the job and who they think is best suited for the job based on the above things I mentioned in the last paragraph and not based on their prospective employee's race alone.

Even my friends who are black/latino/asian and of both genders, are deeply offended by the idea that they somehow need affirmative action or need more help finding jobs or getting into a university/college because of their race yet they see affirmative action as a way to pimp the system, and if a prospective employer/company/university is pro affirmative action it is to their benefit to apply there.

I don't support affirmative action usually, because I think it's a good idea in principle that turns corrupt in how it's executed. Having said that, though, I've realized over the years that the qualifications you're talking about are always so vague, it's not possible to say you're only hiring someone based on who's the most qualified. Lots of times people hire their friends or whoever they feel the most comfortable with, and they rationalize this favoritism by saying it's a good "fit" or the person's "goals match the company" or the individual "would make a good colleague" or the smarter person was "overqualified and a flight risk." If you don't have a watchdog system these innocent rationalizations turn into racism.

As for your friends, I have found over the years that anecdotes about affirmative action or how people feel about affirmative are unreliable. I'm a professor and I hear my white students give the same story countless times -- "this black guy I knew in high school got into Harvard just because he was black" -- but then you find out the story's made up or totally twisted around to match the white student's frustrations with colleges in general. I don't really give much weight to what you say your friends feel, since you might be fudging the matter to make your argument stronger, or they may have been saying something you wanted to hear, because they're your friends.

Just some thoughts,
Bobby

[DiamondDog]

I don't support affirmative action usually, because I think it's a good idea in principle that turns corrupt in how it's executed. Having said that, though, I've realized over the years that the qualifications you're talking about are always so vague, it's not possible to say you're only hiring someone based on who's the most qualified. Lots of times people hire their friends or whoever they feel the most comfortable with, and they rationalize this favoritism by saying it's a good "fit" or the person's "goals match the company" or the individual "would make a good colleague" or the smarter person was "overqualified and a flight risk." If you don't have a watchdog system these innocent rationalizations turn into racism.

As for your friends, I have found over the years that anecdotes about affirmative action or how people feel about affirmative are unreliable. I'm a professor and I hear my white students give the same story countless times -- "this black guy I knew in high school got into Harvard just because he was black" -- but then you find out the story's made up or totally twisted around to match the white student's frustrations with colleges in general. I don't really give much weight to what you say your friends feel, since you might be fudging the matter to make your argument stronger, or they may have been saying something you wanted to hear, because they're your friends.

Just some thoughts,
Bobby

I don't care if you don't believe what my friends said or not when it comes to Affirmative action. I'm not lying and I'm not here for anyone's entertainment. I've known them for 15+ years so I know that they're not lying to my face or telling me things that they think I want to hear.

I also don't care that you're being ageist and work in the ivory tower of academia.

Would you have written a different answer or felt different about my reply if I were not a youthful white male, or if I had not filled out my profile with my age/race/gender?

Universities and colleges are businesses and lots of times people fail to see this or realize it.

I do agree with what you've said in the first paragraph. I have not gotten hired for jobs because I'm too over qualified and they thought that I'd either get bored with the job, would not fit in, or that I'd be a heh "flight risk" eventually and just quit once I found and got hired for a better job.

Welcome to the forum. :)

[Bloodflower]

While I have dated interracially (Mexican/East Indian), I find myself generally drawn to my own race more often than not. However, I have friends who are involved in interracial relationships...more power to them!

[BronzeBobby]

I'll answer your points one by one below.


I don't care if you don't believe what my friends said or not when it comes to Affirmative action. I'm not lying and I'm not here for anyone's entertainment. I've known them for 15+ years so I know that they're not lying to my face or telling me things that they think I want to hear.

I also don't care that you're being ageist and work in the ivory tower of academia.

Would you have written a different answer or felt different about my reply if I were not a youthful white male, or if I had not filled out my profile with my age/race/gender?

Universities and colleges are businesses and lots of times people fail to see this or realize it.

I do agree with what you've said in the first paragraph. I have not gotten hired for jobs because I'm too over qualified and they thought that I'd either get bored with the job, would not fit in, or that I'd be a heh "flight risk" eventually and just quit once I found and got hired for a better job.

Welcome to the forum. :)

1) I can understand why you might not care if I, a stranger, believe your anecdotes or not. On the same logic, you should understand why I do not give a lot of weight to what you, a stranger, say about the experiences of people I don't know.

2) I don't know how I'm being ageist; that is a strange accusation to make. You have every right to call academia an ivory tower. But saying these things only makes me give even less weight to your anecdotes and to your logic in general. Your tone feels needlessly polemical.

3) I would not have answered you any differently, if you were of a different age, race, or gender, or if you had not filled out a profile. I was responding to your arguments and the evidence you provided to back your arguments.

4) I agree with you that colleges are businesses. There are many similarities, though colleges aren't working on the same profit model. In both colleges and in other industries, often "qualifications" are vague and hard to define in black and white terms, since people value unquantifiable things like your ability to work with others or your creativity, etc., none of which is easy to translate into a concrete ranking when you're trying to fill a job opening. The similarities between colleges and private industry support my point that you can't dismiss anti-discrimination measures (like affirmative action) by assuming that people get jobs based on how qualified they are, whether it's in a school or a private company. Everywhere you go subjective principles play a large role.

5) Since you've had some experience with people denying you a job based on things other than concrete qualifications, you can imagine how hard it is for an ethnic minority who sees doors closed in his face at every turn, and everyone says it's not about his race, but rather, he just "doesn't fit" or "we didn't get a good feeling from him." That's how the Jim Crow South kept blacks locked out of many fields (which still happens today). In that sense, I think it's fair to ask people to re-evaluate why they are not "attracted" to certain races -- which is what the thread was about to begin with. While you may think that's a strictly personal taste, how you act on it can affect the people around you, and it wouldn't hurt to check yourself a little bit. Sometimes if you say "black men just don't turn me on" it is worthwhile to ask yourself why. Accepting a racially based discomfort with another person might lead you to make racist decisions at your place of business, without realizing it.

Bobby

[BreeIsMe]

I have been with many different "races" just because I don't pay attention to that "pigeon-holing" process. I like/love people for what they are not what they are labeled. Again, my preference is not to LABEL people but treat each person as an individual worthy of just as much attention as anyone else. This allows one to have that much richer of a life experience....

Bree

[DiamondDog]

In that sense, I think it's fair to ask people to re-evaluate why they are not "attracted" to certain races -- which is what the thread was about to begin with. While you may think that's a strictly personal taste, how you act on it can affect the people around you, and it wouldn't hurt to check yourself a little bit. Sometimes if you say "black men just don't turn me on" it is worthwhile to ask yourself why. Accepting a racially based discomfort with another person might lead you to make racist decisions at your place of business, without realizing it.

Bobby

That's being WAY too PC. I know you work in academia but not everyone is sexually attracted to their own race or to people of different races, and there's nothing wrong with admiting this or telling someone, "Sorry I'm not attracted to you.", "I don't want to date/sleep with you", or "Sorry but things wouldn't work out between us, we're not compatible".

This doesn't just include race. I've said this to size queens, IV drug users, people who bareback, and hardcore/power anal sex bottoms.

It's not like I say that because I'm personally not attracted to black men that I think that it's wrong for other people to have sex/relationships with black men or that people of different races shouldn't have sex/relationships together.

I have no idea why I'm not sexually attracted to black men. It's not like I had a choice in the matter of who I am, and who I am not sexually attracted, let alone romantically attracted to, and there's no attraction to black men.

I'm also not attracted to fat/BBW/obese women either. Does that make me a bad person?

IMO it's worse to lie to someone and pretend to be sexually attracted to them and try to maintain a relationship with them when there's zero attraction there at all.

People fetishize race/social class for all sorts of reasons that volumes are written about and people make a living writing about.

[afterdark75]

my husband and I have both been with other races and loved it, i enjoy black women so much and he loves black cock also. i must admit it is a turn on to see him with one deep in his mouth also.

[jem_is_bi]

blacks are the most racist race out there. and in all fairness its only natural to think someone is different because of skin colour.

Ive had mates that worked for pakis in pakistani owned stores and they got shafted on hours and shifts because they were white and not asian!

Lotsa people fetishize black men because they think that they have a big cock like a horse dick! I know that the French do in their gay porns!

WOW! I never knew that. This is not just your opinion is it?
You do have overwhelming proof don't you?
Is that why many blacks favor baggy pants, just a comfort thing?

[jamieknyc]

After reading (well, skimming) through four pages of this thread, my :2cents:

In my experience, apart from appearance, they are both pretty much the same.

[chulainn2]

I would rather have intergalitical sex with a vulcan chick.
Captn Kirk always got the green babes.

[jamieknyc]

I would rather have intergalitical sex with a vulcan chick.
Captn Kirk always got the green babes.

dunno, Vulcans are emotionless, they probably just have sex for the purpose of reproduction.

On the other hand, Romulan women are supposed to be insatiable....

[Delilah]

If I find a man appealing, I disregard the race, religion, political party, or whatever. If he can satisfy me mind, body and soul... I could careless.
And as far as someone posting "Don't screw with anyone from Africa because of HIV" is soooo retarded!

By the way...
I thought it was the Italians that had the "biggest" blessings? :bigrin:

[csrakate]

dunno, Vulcans are emotionless, they probably just have sex for the purpose of reproduction.

On the other hand, Romulan women are supposed to be insatiable....

Chu and Jamie...you two worry me just a bit...LOL!....not the intergalactic aspect of your desires, but the thought that you are so well versed in your Star Trek lingo and facts!! LOL I had NO idea that I was surrounded by so many Trekkies!!!

Hugs,
Kate

[jamieknyc]

Chu and Jamie...you two worry me just a bit...LOL!....not the intergalactic aspect of your desires, but the thought that you are so well versed in your Star Trek lingo and facts!! LOL I had NO idea that I was surrounded by so many Trekkies!!!

Hugs,
Kate

No, no, *I* am not a Trekkie. However, I lived most of my adult life in a household of Trekkies.

[chulainn2]

dunno, Vulcans are emotionless, they probably just have sex for the purpose of reproduction.

On the other hand, Romulan women are supposed to be insatiable....

very true and Romulan Ale is known thru out the universe as liquid rohypinal

[frenchvikki]

At the weekend I met a very dark african woman from Nigeria and who is not at all the kind I ever expected to be attracted to. She dressed very traditionally and colourfully and looked like something out of a documentary film. So far we have not even kissed except in a friendly way to say hello and goodbye at lunch yesterday but I think she likes me and is coming here to dinner on Saturday and sleeping over until Sunday. I will have the spare room prepared but do have hopes all being well.

[Cherisher1]

The comments of UKBloke shows an ignorance that spans continents. He needs to get an education. Perhaps then he will better understand to political, social and psychological impacts of racism as practiced historically by his own race as well as the socio-economic reasons Blacks are not the most racist people in the world but rather instead, his own from that aspect. Yet, the Human race as a whole has made significant strides to correct these injustices and because of the historical factors, UKBloke's race has an obligation to lead in the continued efforts to correct those injustices where-ever they exist.

[darkeyes]

Peeps r peeps r peeps r peeps r peeps... no more needs sed...

[vittoria]

Chu and Jamie...you two worry me just a bit...LOL!....not the intergalactic aspect of your desires, but the thought that you are so well versed in your Star Trek lingo and facts!! LOL I had NO idea that I was surrounded by so many Trekkies!!!

Hugs,
Kate


Raises eyebrow in Spocklike fashion...

"Fascinating";)

[jamieknyc]

Raises eyebrow in Spocklike fashion...

"Fascinating";)

Thanks, Vitt, I appreciate the offer. But I'm spoken for on here....

(dayum, am I going to spend the next few days getting bopped and fish-slapped!)

[texasman6172003]

Well y'all this has all been most interesting to read,lol. As far as race is concerned as far as my taste are concerned,i dont care what race a person is. As long as they are CLEAN when i have sex with them,LOL.:bigrin: And hellid have sex with a vulcan are a romulan to Kate for that matter!!! Male or female,:bigrin:. And yes i am a TREKKIE,OLD SERIES TREKKIE. Just my :2cents:

[RockGardener]

Mellow-- That sounds like a splendid time!!!!!

Jamie, Chu, Kate and Vitt-- I am a Trekkie too! Anything but Enterprise... And I'll take a Betazoid any day (Deanna Troi)

[jamieknyc]

Mellow-- That sounds like a splendid time!!!!!

Jamie, Chu, Kate and Vitt-- I am a Trekkie too! Anything but Enterprise... And I'll take a Betazoid any day (Deanna Troi)

Deanna Troi was hot. And that Klingon guy she was with reminds me of myself, too.

[sweetsugamommi]

Good for YOU, Arana!! Thanks for your response...and for your quotes! ;)


Good for you titeabs! I hope that as a bi-community people are open minded enough not to let race interfere with getting to know someone and being able to love them in any fashion.

[jamieknyc]

As I said above, my experience is that apart from appearance, both races are pretty much the same.

[nathantiffany]

I'm a white male, and I've had black cock before... but I've always wanted to try some black pussy :tongue:
I'd also like to try some asian women

[jamieknyc]

I'm a white male, and I've had black cock before... but I've always wanted to try some black pussy :tongue:
I'd also like to try some asian women

It feels the same as white pussy.

[darkeyes]

It feels the same as white pussy.

Yummie..an the scent is ratha gorge an all...:bigrin:

[GreenEyedLady(GEL)]

Just thought I'd mention the fact that I am so glad that I've never allowed myself to miss out on meeting a person who is so beautiful to me because who they are reguardless of their race. The ones that limit themselves to their own race, you may have some reason you choose to, its your right. I just can't imagine why one would want to. I love'em all. Infact , I still need to meet a really tastey hawaiian , as well as a super yummy brotha from down unda. So if your out there !!! Drop me a line hehe

[jamieknyc]

I was just trying to point out that anyone who has erotic fantasies about interracial sex is likely to be disappointed when they find out that the saying 'color is only skin deep' is literally true.

[vittoria]

I was just trying to point out that anyone who has erotic fantasies about interracial sex is likely to be disappointed when they find out that the saying 'color is only skin deep' is literally true.

Verily

[darkeyes]

I was just trying to point out that anyone who has erotic fantasies about interracial sex is likely to be disappointed when they find out that the saying 'color is only skin deep' is literally true.

Me agrees wiv V Jamie.. "Verily" indeed... cept for 1 teensy weensy weensy lil thing... cola may only b skin deep.. but wiv the rite person of a diff race..it don haff work up ya juices an ya hots summat brill.. espesh like everythin else... its ya 1st time an ya goes inta it wiv full agusto!!!:tong:

[Sparks]

I'm an equal opportunity cock sucker. White, black, asian, Muslam, hispanic...
An intersting side note; There is alot of men from Mexico who harbor bisexual desires. Is it the Curch, or somthing else?

[srladysmith]

Good for you titeabs! I hope that as a bi-community people are open minded enough not to let race interfere with getting to know someone and being able to love them in any fashion.

Well said, arana. It would seem so disingenuous to be a racial bigot while seeking acceptance for the Gay and Straight community for our Bi-sexuality.

[srladysmith]

Well said, arana. It would seem so disingenuous to be a racial bigot while seeking acceptance for the Gay and Straight community for our Bi-sexuality.

FOR=from, sorry I do not always type so good, brain faster than fingers:tongue:

[jamieknyc]

Well said, arana. It would seem so disingenuous to be a racial bigot while seeking acceptance for the Gay and Straight community for our Bi-sexuality.

Says who? The GLBT community is every bit as white-dominated as any other sector of society.

[vittoria]

Says who? The GLBT community is every bit as white-dominated as any other sector of society.


:disgust:


And now... Paul Mooney


http://youtube.com/watch?v=Ytx0V6MKaXg&feature=related

[srladysmith]

Says who? The GLBT community is every bit as white-dominated as any other sector of society.

Discrimination is Discrimination and it is wrong. People are people and should be judged on individual merits. As I have stated before I do not seek to judge other but be true to myself and the ones I love.

[**Peg**]

Deanna Troi was hot. And that Klingon guy she was with reminds me of myself, too.

which Klingon guy? gimme a name so I can google HIS face to see what you look like jamie LOL.

as it was, I had to search google images for DT... makes me wish I'd paid closer attention while the X was engrossed in StarTrek (whatever version she was in). I was captivated by her distinct enunciations.

anyway, I've had lovers of 3-4 different colours/races - all of them wonderful experiences - the only people who get into my realm are people of quality, whatever their other attributes.

Peg

[vittoria]

There was this one episode of Star Trek -TNG that Chad Allen was in...

Back in the day.. MEOW YUMMY!!!:tong:

I used to think Riker before the beard was tasty too :eek:

[man4girlgirl4man]

When it comes to sex and race and my personal sexual desires, my gay side is very different from my straight side.

Race and ethnicity don't matter at all to me when it comes to women. All that matters is this: does she look so hot to me that I'm hot to fuck her, and do I look so hot to her that she's also hot to fuck me? It's fun to fuck women of different races and ethnicities - but only for the experience and nothing else.

I don't kick into gay mode very often. And when I'm gay I have specific and very limited tastes in the man I want to get down with. A younger cute lean black guy with dark brown skin and a dick that's at least 9 inches and preferably bigger than that is always my first choice. And almost always the only kind of guy - in terms of physical looks - who I want to and would get naked with. And I want him to have a special thing for the black top fucks white bottom thing which I definitely do.

Not always and there are some white guys out there who make my dick hard the moment I first see them. An 18 to 30 something white guy with a really cute face that I want to kiss and a lean body with very little body hair in the wrong places and who meets that same 9 inch minimum dick size for my size queen desires and truly physical sexual needs as well is always welcome in my bed. But only after I've looked around everywhere for a hot black dude and couldn't hook up with him at the time.

I call myself a total bottom since I love every aspect of being fucked by a hot guy's really big dick. Physically of course but also the whole non-physical vibe of being fucked and not doing the fucking, feeling as close to a woman does when she gets fucked that any man can possibly feel, submitting to my top and doing whatever he tells me to do to or with him, and feeling like a slutty bitch cocksucking size queen pussy boy which is a really hot feeling for me.

My sexual attraction to black guys like the one I described above is intense and it is 100% pure physical sexual lust. Absolutely no racial hangups or stereotypes or racial unease or tension which some black and white men who are into interracial gay fucking have in them and which somehow got into their sexual urges. I've been with a couple of black guys who obviously hate or dislike or at least are very uncomfortable with white folks but who also like to stick their big black dicks in a white guy's mouth and fuck his white ass too. I usually can pick up the vibe from a guy like that in 10 minutes or less after I meet him from our conversation and his general body language and vibe. But I got it wrong with those couple of dudes and when we were naked and I was sucking their big dicks they started with the racially abusive to hateful verbal stuff which turns me off totally and also pisses me off big time. I took their dicks out of my mouth and told each of them exactly that - ASAP - and also told them to stop the racial nasty talk ASAP or the sex ends right then. They all agreed but only because I'm an incredibly skilled and hot cocksucker and I was making them all squirm and squeak with pleasure with my mouth already and they didn't want me to stop - and not because they were being nice or wouldn't rather be nasty and rough with me.

I fuck and get fucked the tender softer intimate way. When I fuck a hot babe and when I let another man make me his babe for the night. I'm the hottest sex kisser there is out there and I know when and how to kiss my fuck partner in the exact way that gives him and her the maximum sexual pleasure at that precise moment. But some guys refuse to kiss another man even when they're hot to get naked with him and I've hooked up with some of those guys and did it their way. They were the man and I was their girly bitch and I made them both agree beforehand to no racial abuse and no hard rough fucking and then we got into it and I had mind blowing sex with both of them the first time we did it. One guy was a one night and gone thing, but the other guy and I hooked up about 10 times before our thing was over. And all 10 times we did it his way and I forgot about the kissing before our first time was over.

So if you're like me and black/white gay sex turns you on, then good for you and have fun but do it with the right kind of fuck mate. And if your desires tell you to have an interracial fuck but you haven't had one yet, then please go out and find a guy you're hot for and who's hot for you and get naked with him and then go from there. And do it soon, because your fantasies of having a huge black dick in your mouth and fucking you in the ass and all the other huge black dicks in all those white mouths and fucking all those white asses won't ever satisfy your sexual urges to have a real black guy's real huge black dick in your real mouth and fucking the real you in your real ass. Which is what your inner sexual self was made to experience and enjoy sexually. And same thing the other way around. White top with black bottom is just as hot for those guys out there who desire it sexually. Doesn't matter which one is in your personal sexuality. Do it for real if you haven't yet, and keep doing it with whatever number of partners you want for as many times as you want but make sure you do it with someone who likes to do it the same way that you do. Hope you all enjoyed this.

[chepe1944]

I am a bi married man and I have been having m2m sex for about 5 years. I started having sex with men when I was 65 and now I'm 70 and have loved every minute of it. My first bi experience was with a black man who was 30 years old and it was the most wonderful sexual expeirence of my life. He has a beautiful 8 inch cock that in time I learned to deep throat and to this day I still suck him. I sucked many cocks since my first experience and a few black cocks and they have been the best, but all in all I just love sucking cock and swallowing.

[Ebonybifemme7]

I don't believe in interracial dating or marriage, but I could understand why someone would want to experiment with someone outside of their race. Its a taboo thing I guess. Sometimes sex just happens. The whole thing of wanting to see what is underneath. Do I think that races should mix, like black and white people, having children----no way!!!!

[pole_smoker]

I don't believe in interracial dating or marriage, but I could understand why someone would want to experiment with someone outside of their race. Its a taboo thing I guess. Sometimes sex just happens. Do I think that races should mix----no way.
I have a gay friend that's black, and he's for interracial dating and marriage.

However, he told me how he does not date or sleep, or have relationships with bi or gay Asian or white men as much anymore.

He said how in his experience a lot of white and Asian men obsess over black men thinking that they're all hung. Or these people who are not black want a black man only because of his race and racist stereotypes like a black man having a big dick, and he does not like people who are racist like this. So he mainly dates and has relationships with bi and gay black and blatino/latino men since they don't obsess over the racist fantasy of having a male partner that's black and who has a large penis.

[Ebonybifemme7]

I have a gay friend that's black, and he's for interracial dating and marriage.

However, he told me how he does not date or sleep, or have relationships with bi or gay Asian or white men as much anymore.

He said how in his experience a lot of white and Asian men obsess over black men thinking that they're all hung. Or these people who are not black want a black man only because of his race and racist stereotypes like a black man having a big dick, and he does not like people who are racist like this. So he mainly dates and has relationships with bi and gay black and blatino/latino men since they don't obsess over the racist fantasy of having a male partner that's black and who has a large penis.


​Oh wow, yeah stuff like that doesn't surprise me at all. Not all black men have large penises. That whole BBC thing with white women fucking BBC is just crazy to me! LOL.

[pole_smoker]

​Oh wow, yeah stuff like that doesn't surprise me at all. Not all black men have large penises. That whole BBC thing with white women fucking BBC is just crazy to me! LOL.
It's not just white women, it's also white bi and gay men who are racist and obsess over BBD/BBC, or that's the only reason why they want a black man.

[Ebonybifemme7]

It's not just white women, it's also white bi and gay men who are racist and obsess over BBD/BBC, or that's the only reason why they want a black man.


Yeah I'm a black female I didnt even know that existed until recently. CRAZY!

[Djames8243]

The first guy I ever sucked was black. He was 8" and thick! I was always attracted to interacial straight porn prior to it.

[void()]

I'm a white male, and I've had black cock before... but I've always wanted to try some black pussy :tongue:
I'd also like to try some asian women

I too have enjoyed black cock. He was a rather gentle one night lover. Black pussy? Sure if it happened. Not adverse to trying anything once, save for a few standard things. For example don't expect me to have fantastic sex with you if you try blowing me up with a stick of dynamite, don't expect me to have sex with children, the dead, animals, engage in scat play, water sports. ;)

[pole_smoker]

Vittoria.. no matter how many times you jump up on that soapbox and start your rant about color being a non-issue, "people are people", and how those of us that have preferences for certain races are shallow and superficial, the discussion is going to keep going the way that it is. The topic is race and people have preferences.. GET OVER IT!

I'm a predominantly Black Woman that will not date or fuck black men. I dont feel bad about it or ashamed of myself because I know most of my male black friends are being taken care of by all my white girlfriends. Everyone is getting laid and no one is bitter about it. Stop trying to beat people over the head with the hippy stick.
Exactly. People need to get over the idea that if you're simply not sexually attracted to a certain race, or races that it makes you "racist". :rolleyes:

[Grub Worm]

chance encounter on a nature trail, he was my first black, but not my first. we have met many times on that trail, everytime it's almost like the first. hope he keeps calling me back.

[pole_smoker]

chance encounter on a nature trail, he was my first black, but not my first. we have met many times on that trail, everytime it's almost like the first. hope he keeps calling me back.
What did you do when you had or have sex with him in the woods?

[iamcontent]

I believe that you have a preference for who you are attracted to.

[tenni]

When it comes to men, I don't think that race matters to me at all. The accent of the man may matter. If their accent is thick and I can not understand them, I am inclined to stop. With women, I don't think that I have dated any non white. I don't know why there is a difference though in my behaviour. It isn't that I don't find a woman of a different race is not desired as much as opportunity to meet them.

[Masterslave]

I have sucked several black cocks and l loved it. Would love to suck more...well I/neither of us would turn down a nice hard cock.

[sweecocksucker69]

I have been asked " have you ever had sex with a Black, Hispanic, Asian, Indian, etc." and my replied is " a cock is a cock, cum is cum" it doesn't matter to me as long as they are DDF, and HIV-.

[sisboy]

Black and Hispanic cocks are a real turn on.Some Hispanics put blacks to shame.Only had a few but would never turn one away.

[Outofthis99999]

Nothing wrong with going to bed with a black guy or an Asian guy. It's hot. Trust me.

[sisboy]

Never had an Asian.I would think they have small cocks and not a thrill to suck on.

[sisboy]

With Black guys you usually know what to expect and enjoy the hell out of it.

[darkeyes]

Never had an Asian.I would think they have small cocks and not a thrill to suck on.
U kno wot they say.. the best of things come in small packages... don't knock it till u've tried it cos 1ce the parcel is unwrapped u may just get a wee surprise.. ;) Cos I got moren me share of disappointments from guys from other races in dim and distant past.. :tongue:

[charles-smythe]

Out of curiousity, I was wondering if anyone else has a strong desire to be with another race. I am a white all american from the north who, when wanting to be with a male, desires to be with the man of color. I have been with a couple men in my life, both black. Have I been smitten by the old adage "once you go black, you won't go back?" Or is it strictly , "It was an awesome experience, so why change"?
Thanks in advance for your thoughts............and if you're black, pm me. ;)…I definitely like sucking black cock…but not exclusively…
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And it’s not once you go black…you won' go back…
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It’s an expression used to refer to white women…that got started in the late 60s….Its once you go black…we don’t want you back…
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It’s not necessary my sentiments…but it’s how the expression was 60 years ago when it first got started…I know of a guy in the early 60s that caught his girlfriend in bed with a black…walked back to his car got his .357 went back & shot both of them…the Dallas police not only didn’t arrest him…they didn’t even take his gun… when the girl’s father got there he thanked the guy for shooting his daughter…he’d rather she be dead than shame the family…FYI: the black guy was a Dallas football player…

[beaverlqr]

I've found I like cocks. I could care less the color or nationality...However shallow you may find me, I'm not into men at all. Unfortunately they are a life support system for a cock so one must put up with their different degrees of Arrogance in order to have ones way with their dick. Though I'm usually the one sucking or on the bottom I'm the one in control. I'm far from submissive... Straight on the outside............Beaverlqr

[pepperjack]

When I was younger, I had gf's that were Asian, Hawaiian & Samoan. All very pretty, hence my attraction & desire. I was once in a long term relationship with a woman who was half Mexican, almost married her. I definitely have a weakness for women with dark-eyed, exotic features. I was also with a couple of good looking black women when I was younger.

As far as men, I've been with a Hispanic guy, a light skinned, mixed black 21yo and most recently, a college student from India who was one of the hottest, most fulfilling encounters I've had with a man. :suave::2cents::rainbow:

[welder153]

I
had a black friend to come see me yesterday , sucked him hard then bent over for him , I loved it , been seeing him for a couple years off and on , hope to for years more ,

[Gypsyjon]

If it's clean and disease free I don't much care what color it is the person is what's important to me, but I will admit I have yet to try any other race yet my experience is limited.
but looking forward to trying the buffet

[cuttin2dachase]

I have limited interracial experiences. All were great and definitely different, but I found those experiences no more exciting than experiences within my race...with one exception. I was a college student and met a slightly older Asian woman (Thai) at a keg party at a friend's apartment. I was 19 at the time, she was 25, a friend of my friend and her apartment was in the same building as his. She was beautiful. To this day I haven't ever seen a more attractive Asian woman. We talked and hit it off and ended up in bed in her apartment. She made love to me and pampered me as no other woman ever had (and as very few women have done since). I suppose if I had a "thing" for any other race, it would be with exotic (and erotic) Asian women. I still fantasize about and hope meet another Asian woman, but find very few of them online. I find some Asian men very attractive as well and would desire mm sex with them. The same goes for some Native American women, some South Pacific Polynesian-ish women and some Hispanic women and men. This is not to imply or say that I would rule out sex with either gender of any other race, but I just haven't seen many people of other races who appeal to me.

I had sex once with a black girl in college as well and enjoyed it. Although the old expression to the effect of "once you've had black, you'll never go back" was not true in my case, I would definitely do it again with a black woman. My 1st experience with a black man was in a 3some with my 1st wife. He was a bi married college professor and had never been with a white woman or man. Neither wifey nor I had ever been with a black man. By meeting him we were fulfilling another of our 3some fantasies. He too had fantasized about sex with white women and men, so all 4 of our fantasies were taken care of at the same time LOL. Another great and exciting experience, but not moreso than most of our other mmf experiences. It was only about 3 years ago that I met a black man online. We began to chat and text and soon we mutually desired to meet. I don't know what's up with married black male educators, but he was a bi-curious married high school principal LOL. He had long had fantasies of being submissive to an older white man and had never been with any men. We met 3 times over a 1 year period and explored those fantasies and had great times. I do hope to have other interracial encounters in the future !

[chances]

no thank you, ill stay with the race im from

[darkeyes]

No1 makes ya, hun. Me 2.. with the human race. However it has never mattered much wer sum 1 comes from, or wot ther colour or ethnic group happens 2 b. If I fancy them....welllll... u kno wot its like wen ya get a dose of the hots for a person....;)

[itsnormy]

has neither been a want, or not, have had ONE evening with a very well known black singer...other than that, no feelings one way or another.

[pole_smoker]

has neither been a want, or not, have had ONE evening with a very well known black singer...other than that, no feelings one way or another.
Who was the singer?