bi currious wondering whats it like to eat out a women?

[blueeyed_blondie]

Due to my lack of experience as I am currently a new bi curious women I was wondering if my fantasing about pleasuring another women would be any where close to reality. What is is like? Taste? Feeling? How would u describe it your first time? Is it difficult to effectively pleasure a women vs. a man? I've only been intimate with men. Thanks all for your input much appreciated!!

[12voltman59]

In many ways that same sorts of things apply whether you are pleasuring a man or a woman---I say to take both a sense of excitement to both genders. Do be sure though to let the person be your guide as to what feels good or not--if you are being too rough or not rough enough--hitting the right spots and such. Everyone is different in this just like most things.

Like with most things--the first few times you do it--you may not have it down just right--but if you do approach the "task" with an open, mind-willing to just have fun with it you will get better at the giving---I am sure though that it will be good for you and a lady friend.

There are different tastes from penis to vagina of course and from person to person---as long as a person is in relatively good health and practices good genital hygiene practices----they should "taste" just fine--but you may find that you like it or you don't at first but over time it tastes better to you.

I wish you luck in finding a lady to experience oral sex with---I am sure you will do just fine.

To me---oral sex is probably my favorite form of sex--both with a lady or a guy and giving or getting-----to me--its all good and it is too bad that we have all these hang ups and such that society imposes that tries to prevent most people from experiencing both forms of oral sex.

Good luck in finding your first lady partner!!!!!

[Long Duck Dong]

pleasuring anybody is a combination of what you do and what the other person does.....

a good experience is when you are enjoying what you are doing and the other person is enjoying it too, but you are both working together to provide mutual pleasure

my first time enjoying oral with a lady was a learning curve, its not like sucking a cock as its more lips, tongue, pressure and breath....and I had to rely on her directions, luckily I am a patient person and enjoyed learning where I was doing it wrong, as she had the pleasure of teaching me what was right for her

I have been told that the best oral on a lady is not when you make her cum, but when you are able to make her a slave to the pleasure that you both are sharing, ... I have had that a number of times.. a lady that is drifting in the sensations, not wanting to stop, not wanting to cum, but enjoying the sensation

as for hygiene, i agree with volty.... I have the attitude that is if I can smell you, I am not touching you...and thats mainly cos I have a limited sense of smell and if I can smell you, there is something wrong....

[Bisexual Explorer]

You already know what you like when your partner is eating your pussy. Just start by doing the same when it's your turn to eat another woman's pussy. And like sucking cock, eating pussy should be a great experience for both you and your partner.

Odd, that first three comments, including this one, are from men. Be nice to hear from the ladies.

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[still_shy]

Ok, it's time for a woman to chime in :) I usually don't respond to the threads on sex but it seemed like a legitimate question so here goes....

What's it like? It is amazing. There's no other word to describe the way it feels when you have a woman come on/in your mouth. To feel her body quivering and taste her juices, to bury your face in her and lick her clit...awesome!! For me, a woman tastes great, unless like the others said above, there is a hygiene problem. In that case, I'm with the men, if there's an odd smell, I'm outta there! My first time, I was scared to death that I wouldn't do a good job. I started out slow and followed her cues. If you're with someone who's vocal and not afraid to let her excitement show...you can tell exactly when you're doing the right things. And if you're not, well it's easy to figure out something else to do :) I don't think there's a fine art to it, in my experience, it's just paying attention to your partner and doing what she likes. Of course, that's easier said than done, the first woman I was with was absolutely silent during sex. With her, I had no clue if I was doing things right. The next woman I was with was extremely vocal and didn't hesitate to tell me when I was hitting the right spots. It's all about the woman you're with. Good luck and enjoy!!

[Samantha Sabrina]

6 of one half a dozen of another sweetie.

Women respond pretty much the same as men, if you hit the right spot or do the right thing you can feel/hear them respond.

As for taste, I actually think a clean healthy female "tastes" better than men do, for the most part until a man has an orgasm and cums there is not much taste to it, where women have such a sweet wet lucious taste almost from the get go.

As a kid I actually sucked a cock long before I got to taste my first pussy, so I have been bi all my life, and enjoy both, but the first time I was with a woman I too was pretty nervous, after that I could not get enough, giggles.

Try it you will love it.

Best of Luck

With Love

Samantha

[Karasel]

As with going what other people have said on here. Each woman is different. I would recommend that you watch some lesbian porn where they have oral sex, that would be a good place to take some notes and get a general idea of what to do.

Other than that, I believe women taste WAY better then men.. Provided they are clean. To me the sperm tastes like salt doused in salt and brined in a salt bath.

[Realist]

Kara, if you can get your lover to not smoke, drink coffee, eat bland food, fruit and drink juices, especially pineapple, for a couple of days before fellatio, I think you'll get a much more pleasant tasting happy ending!

As my GF and I have found out, this affects both genders.

[innaminka]

I would recommend that you watch some lesbian porn where they have oral sex, that would be a good place to take some notes and get a general idea of what to do.

Other than that, I believe women taste WAY better then men.. Provided they are clean. To me the sperm tastes like salt doused in salt and brined in a salt bath.

Funny, I would recommend you don't watch les porn.
They are models (almost certainly not lesbians) and they perform for a camera. What they "do" is not really that pertinent.
The "real" stuff is a lot more slower, less frenetic and far more intimate. I always believe that lovemaking between two woman involves the "3 T's"
Time
Touch
Texture.
...... and even more time. there is no penis wanting to shoot. Just a woman loving being pleasured.

The others have described very well what its "like" Who knows - everywoman is different.
Just be very careful in your choices. Honestly for many bi-curious women, the actual nitty-gritty of putting your face "there" is a step too far.
generally amongst the les community (and I'm not talking the hard leather crowd) the term "bi-curious" is almost a dirty word.

But good luck. If it happens it will open up far more vistas for your sexuality. :female::female:

[bicurcple]

It's awesome............an amazingly, wonderful thing to do.

[12voltman59]

Well---I was the first to have posted on here---maybe I should'nt have being a guy and all---but I hope at least some of what I posted was of help---I do have extensive experience in this regard, afterall!!

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[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

lol Its different for everybody, Sweetie. Just do to the lady what you like having done to you, and you'll be just fine. And as Shy said, if she's vocal she'll let you know right away what feels fantastic and tell you how she wants it done. :}
Good luck and have fun.;)
Cat

[bemyonlyone]

I have never done it either and wonder the same thing.

[tommyswing]

It is such a beautiful experience, but it is hard to put into words. I know there is nothing more exciting or erotic then nibbling on a womens upper thighs and smelling her excitement and sweetness. I don't have words to discribe how wonderful her softness, wetness and taste are. I know I always get a total buzz whenever I go down on a women, I keep her smell on me as long as I can get away with it.

[the sacred night]

Smell is not necessarily a problem- vaginas are not supposed to smell like roses, they are supposed to smell like PUSSY! Don't be put off unless the smell is real bad. To get an idea, try smelling your fingers after you have touched yourself down there. Then you will know a little bit about what to expect if her hygeine level is similar to yours. You can even try tasting your fingers after masturbating as well to get an idea of the taste. I find if I've just had a shower, it hardly smells/tastes like anything, and if my shower was the day before, it's a little stronger, but it never smells or tastes disgusting or anything. Just a suggestion :2cents:

[tommyswing]

I don't think I ever have had a bad smelling vagina, but that doesn't mean it doesn't have an oder. Some women smell stronger than others, it's all good. What i love about the smell is each women is a little bit different from the other which makes it all the more exciting.
There are some who don't like the smell, I'll never understand how anyone doesn't crave that smell, but to each his own.

[Realist]

I have to admit that I've been with a couple of ladies who's vaginal odor was too strong for me to get past their belly-button! Maybe I'm too sensitive, but I can't handle poor hygiene, or strong body odors. One girl was a certified fox, but I could not handle how strong-smelling she was. To be fair, a really hot guy in high school had an exceptionally strong crotch odor, too...that ruined it for me, as well. I will rarely have sex with either gender, unless we've recently bathed.

[Teaparty]

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