lost loved ones

[sexual26]

well my friends I lost someone very dear to me on thursday. This person my wife and have been taking care of for the past year or so do to him not having any family close by and I must thank my wife for being the caring understanding person she is. Because this person was the one he was the one who took my bisexual virginity and helped me to learn a lot about myself in and out of the bedroom. Now he's is gone and getting some much needed rest he put up a hard fight with cancer and other medical problem. I just don't no what to do now I'm gonna miss him so much.

Anyway thanks for lending me your ears and giving me a shoulder to cry on I just needed to release a little.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

It is my hope that he walked the Path with peace and tranquility, Sweetie, and was met with love and friendship. :}
Cat

[mikey3000]

I am so sorry for your loss. He must have been a very special person to you, and you to him. God rest his soul and give you peace.

[Donkey_burger]

No matter what your religious beliefs are, I hope you believe that he is now in peace.

DB :flag3:

[PolyLoveTriad]

So sorry to hear this :( You know, we all hurt when we lose someone but sometimes it helps when we can look back and remember all the things we learned from that person. You will always have those fond memories and yes we miss them when they go but theyre never really gone when we keep them near in our memories and in our hearts :) Hang in there!

[Doggie_Wood]

The loss of someone close is never easy to take. Remember the good times and cherish them always.
May love, peace and hope always be at your door step.

Doggie :doggie:

[Realist]

So sorry for your loss. You apparently had a special bond with him that few could fathom. Believe me, I understand.

[Falling Leaves]

I too, am sorry for your loss. I lost my musical mentor and dear friend just over a year ago to cancer. I was privileged to spend his last hours with him.

You and your wife have given of yourself so unselfishly out of love and friendship to him, and I know from experience, that it is what meant the most, to your friend; to spend his last months, weeks, days and hours with the one(s) he cared the most for...in comfort, love and tenderness.

You both gave him the greatest gifts a friend can give. I grieve with you and will keep him in my thoughts.

J

[onewhocares]

My thoughts and prayers go out to you. The care and concern you showed someone whom you cared about is wonderful. Knowing he is in peace I hope will bring you comfort.

Belle

[Doggiestyle]

I am terribly sorry for the loss of your close friend ,,,, sexual 26 ,,,, I can understand your predicament, loosing a real close friend can make you feel so shocked, lost and all alone, can it not? The things to remember is the friend-ship, the fun you had, all the shit the both of you got into!!! ETC. And do something now that will preserve the pictures that you may have of him, her, them!

I suddenly lost a close friend a few years ago due to an accident. It troubled me too. Something that I really regret is that I did not have but a few pictures of him / us, and others. The ones that I do have have been preserved to the point that they will last me the rest of my life.

Your friend, :doggie:

[sexual26]

Thank you all for your kind words. After 16 years of friendship he won't be forgot there were a lot of memories made together and a lot of fun times in and out of the bedroom. He taught at a local college and loved to teach for me he was a great teacher in the bedroom aswell and took things nice and slow for me. Though we had not been sexually active with each other since his medical problems started I still loved him very much. The kicker to the whole thing is that it wasn't the cancer that actually took him it was a stroke and docs say possibly a heart attack with it. On the plus side I did get to meet his family who knew about me not sure if they quite knew everything but they were very nice to my wife and I which was great. Now I'm tring to finish taking care of some of his final affairs and get myself settled back down.

[12voltman59]

Sorry for your loss as well.

It was great that you guys took care of him in his final days--I am sure it was a great comfort to him.

Of course, none of us really know what is beyond this life--either something good (hopefully) or its nothing---but no matter---his bodily woes are over and he is at rest.

I know that I have my own view of what lays beyond this life---I don't exactly what it is--but I do refuse to believe that there is simply nothing after we die.

No matter what--may he truly rest in peace!! And that you come to heal from his loss.