For the bi women out there

[still_shy]

So much of the forum is devoted to bisexual men. Nothing wrong with that but I think it's time the ladies had a chance to voice their experiences, concerns, good news and bad! I'm curious to know how the romance department of the ladies is going. I'll start with mine...

I've had the opportunity to meet several women from another dating site. To be honest, most of them were odd, but this one girl I've been chatting with turned out to be pretty awesome. She came over to my house and hung out with me and my husband a couple of weeks ago. It was a really good time. Since then, we've been trying to get together again but between my school schedule and family time, haven't been able to make it happen. FINALLY we made something work and she is going to come over tomorrow night for some wine and a movie. I'm really excited, looking forward to hanging out again. She seems like a very nice girl and is fun to be around :) Hopefully I won't be too big of a dork :rolleyes:

[rissababynta]

That sounds wonderful!! I hope everything goes smoothly for you. Enjoy.

Wish I could contribute something to this thread...have had absolutely no love life whatsoever for the past month and won't be having one anytime soon.

[JessyRee]

Thats awesome that you met someone...I know its hard trying to find time to be together(I'm also in a poly marriage).I find I dont see my GF as much as I would like to but talk to her every day.Good luck..

[Donkey_burger]

A man that I met in my apartment building is now my friends with benefits. :tong:

DB :flag2:

[Rudy75]

Oh Shy!

You could never be a dork!

[onewhocares]

Enjoy the evening..relax and get to know each other.

Belle

[smartsexychick]

I hope that you have an amazing time, Love. You deserve it !!!

[mariersa]

Wonderful! remember to keeep "hubby" away because that may not be good thing afterall, it's supposed to be you an her? isn't it???

[darkeyes]

awwww Shy.. u hav luffly time... am quite ole fashioned in lotsa ways an so invariably met me lil distractions through partyin, pubbin an clubbin.. quite a few otha ways an all.. includin 1 naggy tart who applied 2 flat share wiv me.. daft cow is still 'bout, an cant seem 2 quite shake 'er off.. tee hee..:tong:

But don matta how yas meet.. u enjoy an hav luffliest a times.. mayb don play the field ne more.. but still luffs it wen sum lukky tart is 'bout 2 make the hay;).. gud luk an enjoy me luffly...:tong::bigrin: Muah!!!

[still_shy]

Wonderful! remember to keeep "hubby" away because that may not be good thing afterall, it's supposed to be you an her? isn't it???

Actually she's interested in having some sort of relationship with both of us, whether it's sexual with me and only friends with him....we are just taking it slow and seeing what happens. It's very important to me that my hubby is involved in some way with the women I date. I've found it works out a lot better when everyone knows and likes each other.

[still_shy]

Oh Shy!

You could never be a dork!

LOL I'm always a dork :rolleyes: It's part of my charm! haha

[darkeyes]

Actually she's interested in having some sort of relationship with both of us, whether it's sexual with me and only friends with him....we are just taking it slow and seeing what happens. It's very important to me that my hubby is involved in some way with the women I date. I've found it works out a lot better when everyone knows and likes each other.

Mayb Shy hun..it can b wondaful, excitin an 2 die for.. but it has its dangers an all.. jus lil word a caution. 4warned as they say..;) But for now.. jus enjoy an hav luffly time... alla ya howeva it works.:)

[still_shy]

Mayb Shy hun..it can b wondaful, excitin an 2 die for.. but it has its dangers an all.. jus lil word a caution. 4warned as they say..;) But for now.. jus enjoy an hav luffly time... alla ya howeva it works.:)

I am definitely careful. The last time we dated someone together, the green monster reared its ugly head and I had a horrible time. I learned a lot from that experience and am hoping to prevent that this time around. For me, it's all trial and error...tonights the night so we'll see!!

[innaminka]

Back to the original question - romance .......:love1:


......... Mine's doing very nicely atm.

Its a long weekend (Mon holiday) and me and her (and the dog!!!) are going somewhere nice - we're both leaving our assorted broods at home to look after the houses. (They have been threatened about parties No, No, NO!)

Romance is good!!!!!:kiss::kiss:

[darkeyes]

Romance is Inna... every1 shud hav it an every 1 shud b romantic... world wud b much lufflier place..

..am a rite soppy cow an don hav go inta floods for romantic ole weepies on telly...:)

[still_shy]

Ok so here I was bragging that I met this awesome girl and had a date tonight but it totally didn't happen. A few hours ago, she cancelled because she's moving tomorrow and needed to finish packing...just my luck!

[darkeyes]

*Huggles Shy all betta an givs 'er a lil kissie an lik on neck 2 make it all betta*...

Soz sweetie.. not at all the planned evenin.. ya kno wot Rabbie sed bout the best laid plans a mice an men.. well sadly they apply 2 us an all...:(

[Realist]

OH HELL!

I've been in the same situations! The build-up, anticipation building, different scenarios going through your head, visions of tenderness and pleasure, then, "Sorry, something's come up.........my parrot died, kids sick, car broke down, the Nazis invaded!"

I hope this is a minor set-back, because it seems that everything was in order for a great date. I hope it works out, later, Shy.

Two of the sweetest relationships I ever had were poly amorous. If you are so inclined, I hope you find the love and pleasure I did, then.

Don't give up! When they work, they are fantastic!

[the sacred night]

I hope your date goes well! I'm still more or less alone, but I'm trying to focus on making friends rather than meeting the love of my life, because that is something that just happens, you can't really make it happen. I figure I can only get close to others if I relax and be me, and focusing on friendship helps me do that.

[IanBorthwick]

So much of the forum is devoted to bisexual men.


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