To bi-men and crossdressers

[bi-vasco]

This is a question to all bi-men and crossdressers.

First of all, I would like to receive your opinions with the same respect I address the question. Sorry to clear this up front, but I have read many of the posts, in which some members behave like real bitches and offend each other instead of getting to the point of the topic.

Question:

Do "some" bi-men like to wear women's lingerie?

Since bi-men enjoy sex with both a woman and a man, does it mean that internally he wants to feel like a woman sometimes?

Does he feel feminine when sucking a cock?

Does he feel feminine when he gets it in the ass?

Sorry for these questions, but it is hard to believe that you can feel very masculine while sucking a cock.

The reason for these questions is that I am still in the closet and the other day when my wife was out, I saw one of her drawers semi-open and noticed her panties and bra. Something rushed through my body and I had some impuls of trying them on, but I just closed the drawer and walked away from it.

Maybe it is because I have not yet suck a man's cock to completion, or why did I feel that way when I touched her panties.

I hope some of you bi-men can tell me if this has ever crossed your mind.

[magari]

I have no desire to wear women's clothing, and don't feel like a woman or feel feminine when I'm sucking a guy. For me it's all about being an "intimate" buddy, or male bonding beyond just a platonic friendship.

A handshake, a hug, a handjob, and a blowjob...good friends!

[hot29bim]

I am a bi man and I love to wear womens clothes. I especially like panties and hose and heels. It is not that I want to feel like a women I just enjoy they way it feels to wear them and I love the way it looks to wear them.

I dont have to wear them when I am with a guuy but it makes it much more enjoyable for me.

Hope that helps

[fredtyg]

It's like so many other things we deal with here: Many of us have slightly, or even completely different, feelings on bi issues. For instance, while some guys here might not mind getting sucked off by a guy, they would never kiss a guy. Others, like myself, really enjoy kissing other guys. To each their own.

Some of us like women's clothing or lingerie on ourselves or other guys, some find it a turn off.

As for myself, I'm not into crossdressing, per se, but I enjoy wearing girlie type undies and lingerie. I also enjoy seeing other guys in the same thing, assuming they'd be worth looking at if they weren't wearing it. Lipstick on a pig doesn't do a thing for me.

There are some, like magari, that see man- to- man sex as more of a manly male bonding thing. Others feel differently.

As I'm more of a submissive bottom type, I think I see myself as being more feminine by submitting to another guy and I enjoy that feeling. I want to please my man. I don't know I'd feel comfortable in a long term relationship with a guy if we both played the role of manly men that magari might like. I'd want one of that couple to play the more feminine role.

But that's just me.

What do you think of the panties below, bi-vasco? I'd love to wear some of them. Others here might think they're too queer.
http://www.xdress.com/photos/preciouspink-front.jpg

[dman82]

I am a bi male that has done drag (wearing womens clothes out in public). Although I haven't done it in a long time, for me weraing womens clothes is an escape from my reality. I become someone else. (side note I have fooled lesbians and strait men before while in drag) But doing it all the time is not for me. It has been a long time since I have sucked a dick or been fucked in the ass also but I don't feel like any less of a man. For me it is pleasure while building a more personal bond with that person. Same way for when I have fucked a man in his ass. I enjoy equality in my relationships. It works well for me and everyone has fun that way.
Feel free to add me to your buddy list if you want to ask more questions but not on a public forum.

[altbinary]

It's very well known that a lot of men get horny when they wear women's clothes. Whether they fell feminine while sucking cock doesn't matter at all to the guy on the other end of the dick.

[meflash]

I have enjoyed CD for about a year now,it frist started when my friend who we shared a few bjs said he thinks that i have a body that would look good in stockings & panties would i dress that way for our next meet. This would be my frist experiencs with CD,& it did start to turn me on. Our next meet i changed into them & by the way his cock stood up he really liked the look. Iam not a sub but i did feel very submissive when dressed & its still that way. He got me to go all the way to full dress makeup & wig, & i was dressed that way when we meet for the last time, all my bi meet had just been get nude watch porn play with each other cocks & finish with oral but i wanted him to fuck me & thats what he wanted & did me for my frist anal. When iam not dressed iam really not into anal nor am I a sub but dressed its very differant. I only CD for fun & haven't been dressed with a guy in person since but i do cam shows dressed & have many requests to meet them but no one lives close except one guy who Iam thinking about letting come over & he wants me dressed & wants to have anal. I just might do it again, but i have other male bi friends & we have bj meets without any CD & I enjoy them without wanting to CD.

[tenni]

Do "some" bi-men like to wear women's lingerie?

I don't but some seem to enjoy it. I've heard that even some straight men enjoy cross dressing. One guy that I know seems to see it as part of playing a submissive role.

Since bi-men enjoy sex with both a woman and a man, does it mean that internally he wants to feel like a woman sometimes?
I don't.

Does he feel feminine when sucking a cock?

I don't but then I only suck to be sucked...lol

Does he feel feminine when he gets it in the ass?

I don't take it in the ass. I think that some guys just like the sensation but some may see it as acting feminine but probably more submissive.

[AlliceCD]

I've been a cross dresser since I was in my early teens, never really got into it till recent years. I've been able to go out in public for about a year now. I do it because I love to look and feel pretty, and I enjoy feeling feminine. I've yet to have a sexual experience with another man, transgendered, or cross dresser, but I am attracted to other cross dressers and transexuals. I don't care for "masculine" features so to say. I've had girlfriends give me anal with strap ons and dildos before and enjoyed that too. So I guess for me it's the feminine part, but my feminine part is also mostly lesbian. Very attracted to a nice cock though. Would definitely love to try sucking one and getting one in my ass. or both at once might be nice too ;)


Oh, and the underwear on the left is my favorite too.

[roy m cox]

Do "some" bi-men like to wear women's lingerie yes

Since bi-men enjoy sex with both a woman and a man, does it mean that internally he wants to feel like a woman sometimes yes

Does he feel feminine when sucking a cock yes

Does he feel feminine when he gets it in the ass yes i do feel very masculine when sucking a cock.

any time i dated a guy they loved it when i would do the whole CD for them and a lot of times i just love to wear womens clothing , i even did it when i was a little boy i would wear my sisters clothing and i even looked like a little girl i had long hair my older sister loved dressing me up to :tong: and that was always fun when she did that :bigrin: so yeah ,,

[Bisexual Explorer]

There is just something about wearing panties, hose, and a lacey top that makes me feel very sexy. I've crossed dressed when having sex with men and with women. When I'm sucking cock, sometimes crossed dressed (especially if that turns my partner on) more often just naked, I want my partner to have the best orgasm I am capable of giving him. I've not done anal, but when I do (soon I hope) I expect to feel the same way. Does this make me feminine or submissive? Who cares? I don't.

And, I'd love have someone take good digital pictures of me wearing panties etc. to put on my profile. The pictures now on my profile were taken with my blackberry and are pretty bad. Send me a message if interested.

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[tg Shannon]

Well of corse I like wearing womens lingere as well as womens clothes, theres something about the taboo and sexiness (if there is such a word) about it that just turns me wild, I love it, if I'm with a guy and not dressed up then I dont feel womanly when I'm giving him head or he's doin my ass, however, when I am dressed up in lingere, wig, makeup etc, then yes, I feel very feminine during all play, hope this answered some of your questions, if you have any more please feel free to contact me!

[bicurcple]

As said before it is all personal preference, I have yet to be with a man but have used my wife's toys many times. It does not make me feel feminine, I just enjoy it and my wife enjoy's it. I do not wear womens clothes and have no desire to. Even taking it in the ass does not make me feel feminine it just feels good. To each his own......people are all different......some enjoy wearing womens clothes and some do not....I don't believe it has anything to do with being bi.

[Donkey_burger]

I'm a female, but I think the answers to your question would be "everyone is different, and that's fine!"

DB :flag2:

[open2both]

Yes
Yes
Yes
It's ALL good!

[Billys_gurl]

I answered the poll question earlier but my husband cross dresses. Tenni is right straight men do it too. I am the bi in our relationship. My husband, Bill, does it as a way to destress from his 'manly' obligations of eveyday life. He doesn't do it often and I actually do his make-up for him. We have been friends for over 20 years but only married 6 of those. It took me a bit to become comfortable with it because I couldn't understand why he didn't tell me before now.

Now, as for the femnine when getting it in the ass question. Here I will probably get something said. I fuck my husband because he asked me too. I am the only dick he wants. He said yes he feels more feminine when I do so. He has his own clothes, in fact I bought his undies and bra for him. He also said for him its a 50/50 mix on internally being a woman. He does feel more feminine but he's still masculine. Of course, he's always had some more effiminite(sp) qualities. I take up the masculine slack.

[cliffordmontero]

Well here is my personal insight to your questions, but everyone is different. I have performed as a drag queen before, and can pass as a woman if I choose, granted a homely fat girl ;)

Do "some" bi-men like to wear women's lingerie?

Personally I have never gotten into wearing lingerie, though I have, but only onstage.

Since bi-men enjoy sex with both a woman and a man, does it mean that internally he wants to feel like a woman sometimes?

Personally I dont ever want to feel like a woman, I am happy in my skin and happy with my parts.

Does he feel feminine when sucking a cock?

I never feel feminine when giving a blowjob. Maybe I might if I ever had sex in full drag, but I doubt it.

Does he feel feminine when he gets it in the ass?

Again, nope. Two guys don't equal a girl!

I know everyone is different, so we all will have our own views on it.

[luvnit3003]

I feel very feminine when I crossdress.
I feel feminine too when my wife does me with a dildo. Also, I see her as very masculine when she's doing me.

However, I do not feel feminine when sucking a cock.

luvnit

[idpthrt]

I love to wear women's panties!!! I used to do this and jack off then one day I happened to be wearing a pair under my clothes and a guy I was working with took out his cock to take a leak. He had a huge cock, when he was done he saw that I was looking at it but I just passed it off like it was of no interest to me. Then later that day everybody had left the building so I walked into his office and saw that he was watching a video clip on his computer of a girl on her knees sucking off a group of guys. I made mention of how much I loved watching that type of video. When he stood up and walked pass me I dropped to my knees and reached my hand out to rub his crotch and ended up with his huge cock half hard in my hand. I undid his zipper and this thick fat long cock of his just popped out on it's own. I immediately put the head in my mouth and then I held on to his legs with both hands and buried his cock down my throat again and again. I then stood up and looked at the saliva dripping off the tip, dropped my pants to expose my panties and then I dropped back on my knees as he grabbed my head and started shoving his cock down my throat back and forth. I could not believe that I was putting this enormous cock all the way down my throat. I noticed how hard he started to get when in an instant he popped out his cock and drenched my face with cumm. Immediately after that he shoved his cock back down my throat filling my mouth with so much cumm that all I could do was keep swallowing as fast as possible as cumm was squirting out the sides of my mouth and down my face. I was so turned on by this that I started cumming myself which made me enjoy that tasty cumm even more. He invites me into his office every once in a while and I always leave with 3 or 4 swallows of cumm and a face full of cumm.

[kevininbuffalo]

My question to CD's. Where do you get your panties/ bras? I really want to try this but don't have the nerve to walk into walmart and buy a package of panties. And I don't know anyone that I would feel comfortable asking. Ideas?
Maybe I just gotta bite the bullet.

[fredtyg]

My question to CD's. Where do you get your panties/ bras? I really want to try this but don't have the nerve to walk into walmart and buy a package of panties.

It shouldn't be that big of a deal. I'd feel more awkward buying tampons for the wife than undies.

If you're that uncomfortable with it, maybe ask the sales clerk what the return policy is as it's a surprise gift for the wife or girlfriend so you obviously couldn't bring them to the store with you to have them try them on.

Then she'd think you were buying them for someone else. Problem solved, huh?

[meflash]

My question to CD's. Where do you get your panties/ bras? I really want to try this but don't have the nerve to walk into walmart and buy a package of panties. And I don't know anyone that I would feel comfortable asking. Ideas?
Maybe I just gotta bite the bullet.

there are many websits to get cloths. I use suddenly fem www.crossdresser.com they give size charts & have a wide range of items for crossdressers

[Bicuriousity]

For me the few times i wore panties it was me celebrating my feminine side and yes when having sex with men i felt like i was taking the role of a woman and loved it.

But i am a bit submissive naturally and that required a masculine dominant man to be leading me, very exciting.

[void()]

Do "some" bi-men like to wear women's lingerie?

No real desire to here. I've gone in drag once or twice. One time because of losing a bet. It's just not something for me. Others can have it if they desire. I'm not into fem men though.

Since bi-men enjoy sex with both a woman and a man, does it mean that internally he wants to feel like a woman sometimes?

This is one of those odd questions that depend on the inquisitor's perception a bit. Do you see acting submissive as feminine? If so, then yes there are times I want to feel like a woman a bit. If not, then no. I enjoy being submissive with men. I find it more appealing to relax in a guy's arms. Of course, I can relax in gal's arms too. Most women though, generally prefer a guy to take the strong role and be dominate. Sort of an odd fickle question.

Does he feel feminine when sucking a cock?

No I don't. Still feel like a guy.

Does he feel feminine when he gets it in the ass?

Nope, not really. Again it's being submissive.

[tg Shannon]

I got to a 24 hour walmart at 2 or 3 in the morning, its relitivly safe, however if you dont want to go out, ebay has some great stuff as well, I've done both, then there are times I go out durring regular hours and buy, but then I'm buying for my girl friend as well as me, I dont feel as uneasy, so its really the frame of mind that you are in gimme a hollar if ya want to know more





My question to CD's. Where do you get your panties/ bras? I really want to try this but don't have the nerve to walk into walmart and buy a package of panties. And I don't know anyone that I would feel comfortable asking. Ideas?
Maybe I just gotta bite the bullet.

[qazwsx33334]

my wife buys mine for me, mostly lacy panties

[Billys_gurl]

I bought hubbies. He goes with me of course! Bicdmale if you lived closer I would go shopping with you!

[bistraightpat]

I do cd. I like to feels beautiful and sexy. When I am Doug something sexually with a man or are in the mood for men I become very feminine for some reason it's weird. I think that's why I like shemales. I can associate them because I like sexy clothes ad beauty but I also like penises.

[tg Shannon]

I'd love to go shoppin with you gurl

[foreverbi]

It's like so many other things we deal with here: Many of us have slightly, or even completely different, feelings on bi issues. For instance, while some guys here might not mind getting sucked off by a guy, they would never kiss a guy. Others, like myself, really enjoy kissing other guys. To each their own.

Some of us like women's clothing or lingerie on ourselves or other guys, some find it a turn off.

As for myself, I'm not into crossdressing, per se, but I enjoy wearing girlie type undies and lingerie. I also enjoy seeing other guys in the same thing, assuming they'd be worth looking at if they weren't wearing it. Lipstick on a pig doesn't do a thing for me.

There are some, like magari, that see man- to- man sex as more of a manly male bonding thing. Others feel differently.

As I'm more of a submissive bottom type, I think I see myself as being more feminine by submitting to another guy and I enjoy that feeling. I want to please my man. I don't know I'd feel comfortable in a long term relationship with a guy if we both played the role of manly men that magari might like. I'd want one of that couple to play the more feminine role.

But that's just me.

What do you think of the panties below, bi-vasco? I'd love to wear some of them. Others here might think they're too queer.
http://www.xdress.com/photos/preciouspink-front.jpg

I Have never been into cross-dressing, but after seeing these beautiful men in their beautiful pink panties I got an extreme hard-on & I am leaking like the Titanic. Please show us more pictures like this.

[fredtyg]

I don't know anywhere that has pics like that except xdress.com. (http://www.xdress.com)

[Bisexual Explorer]

I'd love to wear panties for foreverbi. (Sadly, I'm no longer in the same class as the guys in the ad.) And, I get hard seeing other guys in them as well. Is being turned on by wearing panties and by seeing other guys in panties weird?
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[fredtyg]

I'd love to wear panties for foreverbi. Is being turned on by wearing panties and by seeing other guys in panties weird?
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It's normal for me!

[foreverbi]

I'd love to wear panties for foreverbi. (Sadly, I'm no longer in the same class as the guys in the ad.) And, I get hard seeing other guys in them as well. Is being turned on by wearing panties and by seeing other guys in panties weird?
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G, I TOO am well past the class (slightly over weight & 60 y/o), but I can still fantasize as the models looked sooo good in their feminine pink panties. I checked out the aforementioned link & they too looked pretty hot, but not as hot as the first picture. That's just my :2cents:

[gg_nylons-tgurl]

The more feminine I feel the more submissive I feel. Nothing beats a sexy Man treating me like his girl. I still like men when I don't dress but the feeling is not as erotic. I'm only into women that can be assertive without being bitchy.

[DanniNeels]

Many men are bi and have no desire to cross-dress. But for me doing both at the same time is my hottest fantasy. While my wife loves that I am bi and enjoys watching me with other men, she is not the least bit turned-on by me or any other guy dressed as a girl. For me girls are so hot, but so are cocks... So passable guys dressed as girls or guyrls are definitely the best of both worlds. You can suck & screw them and they can do the same to you! I am a closet cross-dresser and my opinion is that you are already hooked on dressing, just by that exciting feeling you experienced by even the thought of trying on your wife's bra and panties. Once you start, there is no turning back. You will not be able to resist your desire to go further and further. For me dressing is both a mental & physical transformation and allows me to be for others what I desire in a girl... What I want her to look like, act & perform like... A total slut. I want to be desired by another man, I want him to have-to have me. Even as a bi-guy it is difficult to let myself go and get totally into bi-sex (with my wife watching), without feeling gay. As weird as it may sound, I am not gay... Gay guys like to kiss & cuddle with other guys. When not dressed, I only want the cock of a man and not the rest, but when dressed I have even fantasized about being kissed by a man and being used as the total cock-slut that I desire to be... But only if I can play the entire part... Not just in the mind. My description is that I am Tri-Sexual: I like women, men and both while dressed as a guyrl as well!

[Orlando098]

Yes to all the questions (apart from that I have not actually had any experience of the sexual activities mentioned yet, but plan to). I consider myself more of an androgyne than a bi man though, as being a blend of masculine and feminine (in different amounts at different times) is so important to my identity; though I don't know if I will stay with that label for good or not.

[mike9753]

Wow, that got a lot of reactions in a short time. I have not read all the posts, but I wanted to reply.

I started trying on lingerie as a teenager. It was a bit taboo. I had a step sister who was about 2 yrs older and I tried on a few of her things - panties and stockings. I did not like her very much, so I don't think I tried her things on because there was a sexual attraction. There was a thrill of being caught however. Nonetheless, I found it to be very exciting. But then I felt guilty and stopped for many years. I did not want to be a girl or to pass as a girl, I just enjoyed the forbidden thrill and that coupled with the sensuous feel of soft, clinging fabrics was great.

After that, I always liked to wear nylon shorts when I played sports, because of the clinging feel of the fabric. Then, when I started to do long distance running and about that time some of the clothing manufacturers came out with leggings for men - spandex or lycra tights for long distance running. I lovd those and had a few pairs as I trained for marathons.
In later years, between marriages, I called a sex line. The woman I spoke to was a bit of a Dom and she questioned me and asked if I had ever worn lingerie. I was truthful and we had about 6 or 8 phone sessions where she had me in stockings, garters and panties, with a dildo either in my mouth or in my ass - sometimes in both places. Again, it was the thrill - not a desire to be a girl or to pass.

Following that, I dated a woman - former beauty queen. She and I had some very hot sexual experiences. I told her about the phone sex experience with the Dom, and she got very excited about that and we had a wonderful session with us both in pantyhose. I took her anally on the floor in her closet between two mirrored closet doors. So we could see infinite images of me behind her. It was very hot, but also very funny - if you can imagine that - we burst into laughter and had to finish on the bed.

I am not feminine looking - in any way. I could never pass, not do I have any desire to pass. But I do enjoy dressing in stockings and panties, even a slip - the feel of the fabrics is a turn-on. I have not dressed this way and played with a guy, but one of my very powerful fantasies is to be in a 69 with another guy dressed in stockings, garters (or pantyhose). I have never been taken anally, and I am not sure I want to be. But I do like going down on a guy. I like the feel of it. I do not feel like a woman or even submissive when I do. I just like the act. And I like being the recipient of oral attention - a man or a woman.

I like the idea of guys in lingerie. Not big macho guys - normal to small boned guys - like me.

I don't know if this answered your question or not, just my $0.02.
Mike

[UnusualCouple]

Hi Mike

I know your questions were not to ladies but my partner 'Dyke van Dyck' is a crossderssing pansexual and I feel I can reply in his absence...
Does he feel like a woman when sucking a man's cock - No but to watch him you might think he did.
Does he feel like a woman when taking a cock in his arse - Yes.
Does he dress to feel like a woman -No, he did dress because of the sensual feel of the clothes and that made him feel feminine. Now his journey has taken him a step further and he wears breast forms, wigs, jewelry and make-up daily around the house. Some might think us strange but really we are just late developers (grins)

[Poison_Ivy]

being bi just means To you and i say this cuz its how i see it when your bi its like the best of both worlds but um as for the dressing as a girl no i have like a few girl teeshirts but thats all ?:bipride:

[Samantha Sabrina]

For me personally I have been bi most all my life, and have "played" at being fem off and on since 18, however I finally decided to go all the way with it about 3 years ago, and have not looked back.

Now having said that, lol....

When I was younger I did not view myself as either fem or masculine (really did not think about it), while being with another male, now until I started dressing completely and fulltime when with a woman I did indeed feel masculine.

Now that I have finally and completely set my fem side free, yes when I am with a male I do feel like a woman, and expect to be treated as such, I do not work my butt off to look like this just to be a cock in a skirt, smiles.

Having spent most of my life as a male and for the most part being with women I learned alot about them, and what makes them tick, now that I am living life on the other side of the fence I try my best to look, act, sound and portray myslef as a real woman.

So I guess I do not get along very well with "gay" guys, not that I have anything against them or their lifestyle, but I prefer being with either bi guys or straight or straight/bi curious guys, basically guys that want to be on top.

Since I have started dressing/living as a female fulltime I am not sure I would be interested in being with another male any other way, although before this it is the only way I had been....

Now what is the difference?

I so enjoy being Samantha these days and really enjoy pleasing men as Samantha, it is very exciting to see the look on a man's face when he sees me, I get a big rush out of people when I am out shopping or whatever while dressed in a short skirt and heels, and when I am with a man, watching him get excited by looking at, fondling, and groping my legs is just flat out awesome, Smiles.

Bottom line, these days yes I do feel more fem when with a man and enfemme, and that is my goal.

Hugggggggggggs
Samantha

[PrettyFlowingGown]

I've been crossdressing since 4 or 5. I dress everyday now and have been out alot of times as a woman.
For me, When i am intimate with a male, i am woman, and for me its a feminine thing. I'm not attracted to men on a whole, but if a man is'nt persistant, unshaven or drunk, i will not go there.....
I like a gentleman, crossdresser or a woman. I like to be treated like a lady in bed, and i wear lingerie to spice it up. There is something feminine though about having a cock in my mouth. I've watched women in porn do it, and i like to model myself after them, theres a way how women do it.

[bikiniman]

Do "some" bi-men like to wear women's lingerie?

I love wearing women's lingerie it makes me feel feminine and sexy. It is because I am sexually attracted to women that I find wearing womens lingerie sexy.

Since bi-men enjoy sex with both a woman and a man, does it mean that internally he wants to feel like a woman sometimes?

I like feeling like a women sometimes I find it relaxing to indulge my feminine side and shed my masculine responsibilities.

However my sexual attraction to men is not driven by my desire to be feminine.

Does he feel feminine when sucking a cock?

I haven't sucked a cock but If cross dressed at the time I would certainly feel feminine.

Does he feel feminine when he gets it in the ass?

I haven't had a cock in my ass but I certainly feel feminine wearing lingerie with a dildo in my ass.

I say open your wifes underwear drawer and try on her panties and bra and see where the road takes you.

[DanniNeels]

I want to act out the role of being the woman & do so dressed like a girl. For me I can't enjoy myself with a guy to the fullest unless I'm dressed. I want to be what I myself have been turned on by my whole life. Girls are hot & when dressed slutty & all made-up... It's part of the act, to dress up in order to attract guys, to be desired by them. I am very passable when dressed & it would be awesome to know that just the sight of me gets a guy hard & horny. Plus I can never get pregnant (not that I would go bareback), I am never out of commission (due to a period), I'm always horny, have 2 holes & a pole. Girls are hot & sexy and cock's are great, so what guy wouldn't want a dude with a hard dick, that looks like a hot sexy chick!

[abennyb]

Cross dressing relaxes me. My wife and I sometimes sit together, enjoying a quiet moment after dinner. I hope to be able to introduce her to my "new shape", bra included, soon.

That may have to wait, though. I admit I am lucky, I still have a slim body after 40 years, or more of business lunches, and more.

[swampbug789]

I have no idea how many are in my situation or share my views. I have no sex life at home. I engage in bisexual activities purely as a recreation. I have never had any emotional feelings or attachment to any men that I have been with and never will. I do not lay in bed and hug and kiss - to me that crosses the line to homosexuality - well beyond the bounds of bisexuality.

I enjoy CD. I find it stimulating to know that my balls are where a pussy has been. I have a very vivid imagination in that area. I have never felt feminin
reguardless of what I am doing.

It is much easier to have a brief, and satisfying, encounter with another man than with a woman. You don't have to buy them dinner and drinks, you don't have to tell them how beautiful they are, you don't have to tell them you love them, and when you leave you don't have to promise to call them tomorrow.

[luvsgirlyclothes]

I happen to consider myself both.... That is.... I like to crossdress in certain womens clothing.. And I am also bisexual...As far as I am concerned one has nothing to do with the other.....but I am also sure that for some it does..For me I like to dress and be a little fem, does not mean that I cant/wont suck c*** if I am wearing jeans and a T shirt....like I said for me.... one has nothing to do with the other....I dont want to be a women I dont want men to think I am a women I just like wearing some of there clothes....

[celticmagic]

This is a question to all bi-men and crossdressers.

First of all, I would like to receive your opinions with the same respect I address the question. Sorry to clear this up front, but I have read many of the posts, in which some members behave like real bitches and offend each other instead of getting to the point of the topic.

Question:

Do "some" bi-men like to wear women's lingerie?

Since bi-men enjoy sex with both a woman and a man, does it mean that internally he wants to feel like a woman sometimes?

Does he feel feminine when sucking a cock?

Does he feel feminine when he gets it in the ass?

Sorry for these questions, but it is hard to believe that you can feel very masculine while sucking a cock.

The reason for these questions is that I am still in the closet and the other day when my wife was out, I saw one of her drawers semi-open and noticed her panties and bra. Something rushed through my body and I had some impuls of trying them on, but I just closed the drawer and walked away from it.

Maybe it is because I have not yet suck a man's cock to completion, or why did I feel that way when I touched her panties.

I hope some of you bi-men can tell me if this has ever crossed your mind.

Yes, I wear lingerie, make-up,wig and very sexy outfits.
It makes me feel so feminine...And, for the rest of your questions...When dressed up and sucking cock, or getting my pussy hole fucked, makes me feel twice more like a women...Resuming-If I will be sucking a cock, or getting fucked in the ass, I would rather have it as a "girl".

[jake82]

I am a BiMWM and very masculine and dominant in my public life. During bi play, I love to wear panties, stockings, etc. and do want to feel feminine. I prefer that my partner takes the masculine dominant role. I certainly feel feminine when I have a guy's cock in my mouth or in my ass dressed in my lingerie.

If you are interested in seeing and reading more about men in panties and lingerie, several good free sites include:
www.pantiesformen.com
www.in2panties.com
www.experienceproject.com
www.flickr.com

[ganja2663]

I know I like to suck cock but not kiss or any other activities. I like seeing men in women's clothes I.E. boy shorts or thongs, heels, stockings. I like the feel of a cock in a tight lingerie undergarment or being pressed tight in some hose. My best friend whom I suck often does not even like cock or is not even gay or bi but he loves wearing women's clothes. He will often wear his daughters tight panties or bra when i am sucking his cock. It is such a turn on for me to feel him in these items.....

[ashleycd]

I'm bi.
I crossdress regularly.
It just feels normal and sets my mood at ease, no pent up anger.
I feel like I'm 50% femme all the time (at least)
but I read 100% guy most of the time.
I like guys as a cd'er and as a normal guy.
Even as a guy though, I'd feel femme even without telling them.

[Hoselvr]

I've been bisexual and crossdressed for as long as I can remember. So, yes, no, and yes would be my answers. I don't have to be crossdressed to be interested in another man or crossdresser. I enjoy intimacy with any gender equally no matter how I'm dressed. If I could, I would be crossdressed all the time. Which means I consider myself somewhat transgendered on the inside. I love letting my inner girl out whenever possible.