brutal_priestess
Feb 8, 2010, 6:46 PM
I know, I know...perennial lurker and sometimes cranky bitch, but it seems like my last few posts have left me misrepresented.
So let me try to explain:
I am not against same sex relations. That would be pretty hypocritical of me as I've been with women in the past. Over the past few years I've grown cynical with most bisexuals. I've identified as bi since the age of 16 or 17, though I think a lot of folks would call me more idealistically inclined than erotically. Truth is, I believed that could fall in love (or lust) without the blinder of gender to distract me. Make no mistake, I am attracted to women, but in recent years the concept of being with a woman is stressful. Too many women are casually bisexual and I really don't want to have to perpetually wonder if I'm just a notch in some chick's belt. Anyway, I don't relate to women very well. Sometimes, when I'm especially bitter, I can come off as a bit of a misogynist.
I'm in a committed relationship with a man, but I don't really consider myself straight. I don't ascribe to any labels these days. Queer I guess, in the classical sense as well as the slang.
*shrugs*
Sorry I pissed some people off. I'm a hard pill to swallow and still a bit sad that Quintus got the banhammer.
So let me try to explain:
I am not against same sex relations. That would be pretty hypocritical of me as I've been with women in the past. Over the past few years I've grown cynical with most bisexuals. I've identified as bi since the age of 16 or 17, though I think a lot of folks would call me more idealistically inclined than erotically. Truth is, I believed that could fall in love (or lust) without the blinder of gender to distract me. Make no mistake, I am attracted to women, but in recent years the concept of being with a woman is stressful. Too many women are casually bisexual and I really don't want to have to perpetually wonder if I'm just a notch in some chick's belt. Anyway, I don't relate to women very well. Sometimes, when I'm especially bitter, I can come off as a bit of a misogynist.
I'm in a committed relationship with a man, but I don't really consider myself straight. I don't ascribe to any labels these days. Queer I guess, in the classical sense as well as the slang.
*shrugs*
Sorry I pissed some people off. I'm a hard pill to swallow and still a bit sad that Quintus got the banhammer.