Do you have erections when thinking of women?

[snakkie]

I'm just curious, because :
1st The last two times that i tried to have sex with a girl i had erection problems (probably because i was drunk)

2nd I love to think of fucking some girls, and feel quite aroused, but i don't get any erection. I was wondering if this is common with bisexual guys (mostly gay probably) and that if they still have an erection when WITH girls.

[Bi-Zarro]

Well, I'll ask -- is it only with women that you have the erection problems? Guys all across the sexual orientation spectrum have been known to have erectile disfunction. Or are you a heavy drinker?

Or maybe you're just mostly gay. Which is fine.

[Volley]

Yes. :female:
Although sometimes I need to think of being with a man to fully, get off.

And yes, I get erection thinking about men.:male:

[eddy10]

Yes, for both men and women. However, at age 74, it sometimes takes more stimulation than it used to.

[roy m cox]

i have always had very good erections every sins puberty i would look at girls or other boys and have one same when i got older i'd see a hot looking guy or a very hot looking woman and "BAM" :bigrin:

:three::bibounce::three:

so yeah baby yeah :bigrin:

[void()]

I get aroused by both men & women. Gee, imagine that response from a bisexual guy on a bisexual site. :rolleyes: But when with a lover, that lover is the only one in my mind. Then again, I'm sort of old fashioned like that. Sex is a special event and I treat others with love and respect. Don't count me out for loving a good old romp in the hay, though. I just prefer sex with those who may love and enjoy being loved back. Any sex is good, with someone you love it's Great! :) My :2cents:.

[darkeyes]

Nope.. cant say me ev has.. tho do get lil tinglies here n ther an a certain mo....... naaa won say ne more.. ya dusn wanna kno bout that... yas all much 2 yung 2 kno...:tong::bigrin:

[luvnit3003]

I get erections daily thinking of women and/or men.

[Realist]

May be performance anxiety.

I disagree that not being able to get an erection is an indicator that you're gay. There are those who are so concerned about pleasing their partner, that they ruin it for themselves and their partner, too.

When I was young and involved with someone I had a very strong desire to please, I'd often get myself so worked up over wanting to "be all I could be", that I'd fail to achieve an erection. The gender of the person really didn't matter.

Building confidence and abilities, helped overcome that problem, though.

[Giggles100]

I tend to only get erections when with or thinking about specific girls..... Normally tomboys so im not into blond hair big boobies really.....

Guys tend to catch my eye much more easily than girls ever could. Thats not to say they dont though there is one girl in a goth/metal pub in town and she is to die for :eek:. Quite skinny n boyish with the most awesome emo hair going!

I guess if you categorised me id be bi leading gay.... Im a kinsey 4/5 normally....

[foreverbi]

Yes, for both men and women. However, at age 74, it sometimes takes more stimulation than it used to.

I am a 60 y/o man & I sometimes suffer from E.D., but when I do get it up I usually start by thinking about a woman, then I transfer my fantasies to men & cum. Gawd I love cum.

[fredtyg]

I'm one of those viagra guys, so boners don't come all that easy to me, regardless. I find the most women, but few men, sexually exciting. When I jack off, I almost always think of men. Go figure.

[rissababynta]

I get aroused by both men & women. Gee, imagine that response from a bisexual guy on a bisexual site. :rolleyes:

I first thought the same thing haha

[snakkie]

in those times that i tried to have sex with girls and didn't get it erected, yes i was heavily drunk.

i sometimes have erections when kissing girls, but i never know with what girls i'm gonna have it. it's very unpredictable lol

but i was really just curious to know what it happens to you. My doubt is just going to pass when i try it (sober xD )

[void()]

I first thought the same thing haha

"He shoots and scores! It's a ...........

FACEPALM!!!!

The crowd goes ape shit!"

[thatcher29]

I seem to get turned on by both, fairly equally. Also, straight porn and gay porn are both pretty arousing. I guess it's kind of like Vietnamese food being my favorite but I couldn't imagine living without Thai.

[Something Else]

Usually when I'm emotionally invested with a woman, that occurs. Obviously, I'm drawn in by her physical beauty; however, when I learn that she has a beautiful mind, heart & soul...well I just end up wanting her big time :love:

There are other occasions when it can be pure physical/sexual. It usually involves seeing women in their birthday suit showing their assets :shades:

Ironically, as much as I like seeing that on those rare occasions, I'm not turned on by the idea of pursuing a woman like that. I know it's a double-standard but I can't explain why my erections behave like that.


:2cents:

[black_squirrel]

I very rarely get sprung just by looking at someone, I have to get to know them a little bit first. So, my arousal usually takes the form of me gravitating towards interesting-looking people to find out if they really do arouse me :)

[TheDream]

I'm young, I get hard at the thought or view of anything sexual, man or women. In general though there could be lots of reason why you don't get an erection when you come ot have sex with someone.

I guess what you need to do is think about the drinking, that can be a major problem. Drinking excessively and also smoking excessively can seriously harm how your penis works.

As has been said, does this problem arise with guys when you fool around with them as well? If it doesn't you might just simply not be attracted by the girls you are seducing. I know that if I'm horny I won't necessarily be hard for the sake of it all the time (despite me earlier statement) their has to be some attraction there.

Finally, you could just simply be a little disfunctional. It's nothing to worry about, just consult your doctor and they'll give you some handy advice, probably pointing you into the direction of viagra.