Why do some people play Head game's

[worldofcolors]

Hello every one. I didn't think I ever would find head game's on here or if you want to call it bull shit. I was talking to some one in the chat room who was acting as a male but after talking to that person he gave him self away. All I was looking for is to talk to another woman about our bi sexual life style that we very much love. And share ideas in how to pick out other bi woman. I was so upset by that person who was acting as a woman.

[12voltman59]

world--it has been a feature of this site that for some reason--some guys who have either been long term or just shorttimers---have said they are ladies when in fact--they are men.

Don't ask me to explain that to ya----I have been scratching my head on that one for over four years now. I think that if you sit back and watch their words and such on the main chat room--if they are chatting---you can kinda tell pretty quickly they just cannot be a female.

Sorry that you as a new person had to have that happen but I do say-I hope you have been around the internet long enough to know that people quite often take on personas that are not true--its certainly a case of:


CAVEAT EMPTOR!!

[Waltzing_Matilda]

I Don't like Liars and I am really angry myself. I have just discovered that I am being "cyber stalked" and it has me a bit freaked...but as I think about it more...I'm just REALLY PISSED OFF!!!!!

All this person has managed to do is make me more scarce and less trusting. Why do people get off on that???...that's my question here.

Anyway...it sucks because now, and I wont trust anyone on this site...(aside from the very few...)....and makes me just want to not be a part of something that made me feel a "part of" at one time.

Only one "person" i can trust...and it's not of this world. So...if y'all don't know me...don't pm me.

Be well and good luck with "Honest" people on this site.

Forever "Mati"....

[12voltman59]

I hope you are not leaving us Mati---if so I am sorry to hear that--this is one argument that we do apparently need to have an active monitor in the chat room on this site----I bet we have lost many good people on the site due to crap like this---I do wish we didn't have "absentee landlords" on this site--I never quite understood why Drew and company seemed to reach a point that they basically took such a hands off policy for the most part--- if I were putting out money to keep a site like this---I would do some monitoring of it and take an active part in it either by having volunteer or paid monitors---and if I wasn't prepared to do that----I would just shut the site down.

If you are going Mati--goodbye--I will miss you!!

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Come on guys, this is the internet. You're going to get assholes who do this because they want to hear about what we women would do to each other. *Rolling eyes*
Unfortunately on an openly sexual site like this one you're going to find jerks like that one, and the one who is stalking my Mati. I hope WOC gave him hell for being suck a lying butthead. I know I would have, and I'd be letting fellow chat-women friends know his name right off the bat too, so that they dont fall prey to his assholism.
Cat
Owner of a horrible headache, therefore being a mean old bitch today...lol

[Giggles100]

Why do guys pretend to be women on the internet?...

My ickle brain ain't worked that one out yet..... :(

[void()]

I can only come up with two words.

Free entertainment.

May be wrong but I suspect this is all part and parcel of that. Is it right or fair? No. But then conversely folks don't need to use the site, do they?

Something which used to bug me a little. You got heterosexual guys on the site playing at being homosexual, bisexual or women. Hetero guys are after all the gals, that's all it is. Then you got folks like me, the real article. I'm a bi guy. Sure I can cut up and flirt with gals. But ultimately they know I'm only barking and have no interest to pursue further.

I do flirt with some of the guys too. Mainly that works out to being a distance disappointment. Lots of guys out there, way out there. Got lucky one only lives only about 3-4 hrs away. He and I have met. Recently, it seems we're drifting apart. But that happens, we both have lives aside from the site.

For all that, it's a free site. There's nothing really offered except for a place for like minded folk to meet, maybe talk. Even then there is no guarantee. So, yes it bugged me that straight guys were just scoring chicks, for a while. Then I realized no one can expect anything here. That's part of why I don't frequent as much. Besides, life keeps you busy.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Void-honey, you can flirt with me Anytime..lol Cuz you Know I'm a perpetual flirt too. Just cuz I tease or flirt doesnt mean I'm tryin' to crawl under your fur, it just means I'm teasing you, picking on you lovingly, and being a brat..lol
Hugs my Furry friend.
Your Feline Buddy. :}

[chook]

The best way to stop these arseholes is to NAME the pricks.


Cheers Chook :bigrin: