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fredtyg
Feb 3, 2010, 11:10 AM
Don't know that I've seen this exact subject brought up here, at least recently. I thought I'd ask it since I just brought up the question with someone I've been corresponding with:

Do you have certain preferences when masturbating? Do you like to stand, sit or lie down? Use just your hand or toys? Any particular fantasies you like to focus on? Any kink stuff you like to do like watching yourself in a mirror or eating your own cum or juices?

As for myself, I started out jacking off sitting on the toilet, then graduated to laying on my back in bed. Eventually- and to this day- I've found I enjoy standing as I feel I can get more energy into my orgasm that way.

I'll usually go out in the back room to my house where I keep my weights. Throw a rag over the bench and stand over it and jack my load on the rag. I used to have a mirror there, too, and enjoyed watching myself jack off and cum.

For at least the last decade, my fantasies have always been about men. Usually group sex, or some such. Then it kind of involved into a meeting and having sex with the "perfect guy".

For the last few months my fantasy has been almost exclusively about meeting a rich older guy and we fall in love. We go on a cruise and he asks me to marry him. We get married on the ship and consummate our marriage by doing our first bareback sex in front of all the witnesses at the wedding.

Hey, I know, but it's just a fantasy.

As far as kink, about the only thing that comes to mind is I've eaten my own cum a few times. Last time I just licked some off my hand after jacking off in the bathroom a few years ago.

What I did a few times probably 30 years ago was lay on the floor and use my legs to drag the lower half of my body up the side of the wall to where my cock was directly over my head. Then I'd jack off straight into my mouth.

That was kind of neat but it also seemed weird to me, even at the time. Seems to me you're supposed to be swallowing some other guy's cum, not your own. It also reinforced in my mind that I didn't have any guys that I could get cum from and that wasn't a fun thing to think about.

Karasel
Feb 3, 2010, 5:28 PM
I don't know if I really count, seeing how I am a girl.

But I will share anyway, because I am bored..

I mostly lay down to masturbate, sometimes I stand up. When I do it I think about either two women I've never met before having sex with each other, me having sex with a woman, or I'll think about a current long time male lover that I have.

I don't use toys, mainly because I'm a poor student. But I do taste my own cum, most of the times.

fredtyg
Feb 3, 2010, 6:13 PM
I don't know if I really count, seeing how I am a girl.


Yes, you count. Definitely would like input from girls, too.

bistraightpat
Feb 3, 2010, 7:34 PM
I really like to do it flat on my back and let it all go on my chest. I feel more relaxed that way. I do like to use toys at times too. I've tasted my cum once or twice but I just in my head don't like the idea of eating my own cum.

fredtyg
Feb 3, 2010, 10:19 PM
I've tasted my cum once or twice but I just in my head don't like the idea of eating my own cum.

You and me both.

mikey3000
Feb 3, 2010, 11:18 PM
Funny how one looses the urge to eat their own cum once they actually cum, eh? Don't kow why.

Anyway I prefere to j/o standing up and with my left had, unless I'm in the mood for toys, then it's lying down. :bigrin:

kilala
Feb 3, 2010, 11:32 PM
i like to stand up biger release for me then it would be lie on my back. just my hand no toys favorit thing to think about me and aome strange girl or guy hoking up in the bathroom smoke a joint hand fuck the shit out of each other to the point that people here us open the door and start cheering us on till we both cum in one big loud orgasm or the worlds best blowjob. i have tasted my own cum but didnt aquair the tast

Volley
Feb 4, 2010, 12:33 AM
Funny how one looses the urge to eat their own cum once they actually cum, eh? Don't kow why. :
I like to have cum shot into me more than licking it off my fingers or hand. I too have been able to curl up and shoot some in my own mouth. It is pretty erotic.

Mostly I lie on my back. When I feel real erotic, I will push a small vibrater in me while I stroke my shaft until I orgasm from deep within.

Usually I like to massage my cum on my skin, sometimes I eat it.

When I am in the shower, I will use a penis shaped gel toy in my ass until I can bearly take it. Wishing I had a partner to put it, or his, to me while in the shower. ;):flag1: :bibounce:

tjwaters
Feb 4, 2010, 12:53 AM
Jerked off into my mouth dripped in
Shot it into my mouth
used shocks over my cock
banana skins
cut out a cucumber and fucked it
jerked off while driving
jerked off but only rubbing up on some sheets
jerked off on a web cam for others
Put 1000s of objects in my ass and jerked off, you name it its been up there.

Thats all I can think of at the moment
:bigrin:

bret5668
Feb 4, 2010, 1:04 AM
Light some candles, put on some Al Green, lock the door and make an evening of it.

roy m cox
Feb 4, 2010, 3:02 AM
hmmmm this is a hard one oh what that my "er' um i like to masturbate in the shower by using a shower massage i set it on spray stream and put one leg up on the shower wall and do sorta the splits and hold it on my goody's till i cum and other times i use the shower hose and an attachment to give my self an enema and when im doing that ill stroke my penis and oh ok im going to take a shower now hehe :bigrin:

:bipride::bipride::bipride::bipride::bipride:

Bisexual Explorer
Feb 4, 2010, 6:51 AM
I love to do myself standing up or kneeling while fantasizing about giving oral while being watched. Sometimes I suck a dildo or have one in my ass. Eat my cum every time and especially love licked it off a dildo -- it's as close to the real thing as I can get by myself.
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powertrain
Feb 4, 2010, 12:12 PM
I love the taste of my pre-cum more than anything. I want to swallow my whole load but can't just do it! Any ideas? Masturbating on my Knees is the best for me.

fredtyg
Feb 4, 2010, 12:22 PM
Any ideas? Masturbating on my Knees is the best for me.

Have you ever tried jacking off directly into your mouth as I described earlier? Admittedly, it can seem like a hassle and takes some physical effort, but you might want to give it a try. While I think it's kind of weird eating my own cum, I still like knowing I've done so.

Try my technique of using your legs to pull your bottom half up a wall to where your cock is above you. Then jack off and, when you cum, just let it drop into your mouth and swallow it immediately while you're still in the throes of orgasm. It works.

The only other thing I can think of is jacking off into a small cup and saving it in the fridge until you're ready to jack again. Then, just as you're getting ready to go, swallow it all. I've heard from a number of homos that actually like to save cum and eat in various ways.

Let me know if you try it and how it goes.

Otto55
Feb 4, 2010, 3:34 PM
I prefer it on my back, or sitting or standing (only in the shower). I usually use toys like dildo , vibrator, pumps for clitoris and vagina. Also pumping nipples. That is quite satisfying. Sometimes I just use my fingers!!! Other times I use bottles, or other things ... I know a nice bloke who wants me to fuck his ass, as he told me himself. It may sound a bit weird but he wants also to fist me. I´d like that very much so I imagine him doing it with me whilst masturbating. I really get a kick out of it and the orgasms I get from this imagination are really the most gorgeous thing I´ve ever experienced.
That could only be exceeded by the original!!!
I hope some day I can do it with him!!!
I`ll keep on hoping!!!

biinterested
Feb 4, 2010, 3:36 PM
usually i masturbate while laying on my back using astro gilde as a libricant. Sometimes I my have cybersex here while chatting. If i am really horny I will swallow my own cum; it tastes good and the taste sometimes get me hard again

oldiebutbad1
Feb 4, 2010, 4:06 PM
Sometimes I like to get into the shower and put a rubber on my cock, then let my piss flow into the rubber. The hot piss is really a turnon. Using that as a lube and holding the rubber tight I masturbate , then shoot into it and watch all the cumm floating around inside. Sometimes I collect my precum by putting a baggie over my cock while I chat or c2c online. I mangage to collect quite a lot over a week or so, and sometimes freeze it, then pull it out and put the baggie into my mouth to warm it up. Makes a good lube, and also tastes great when I am super horny.

fredtyg
Feb 4, 2010, 4:15 PM
Sometimes I like to get into the shower and put a rubber on my cock,

Haven't done it lately, but I've put a rubber on occasionally to jack off into. I like the feel of it on my cock and enjoy watching the reservoir on the tip fill up with cum. Good way to save cum, too, for those that like to save it for use later.

buzzcut54
Feb 4, 2010, 4:59 PM
Doesn't really matter as long as it daily.......and often multi daily:)

fredtyg
Feb 4, 2010, 5:47 PM
Doesn't really matter as long as it daily.......and often multi daily:)

Hmmm...but isn't masturbation a little like smoking pot: If you do it all the time it doesn't do much for you?

Just a thought.

innaminka
Feb 4, 2010, 6:39 PM
Good to see we count!!!
Girl (using that word very loosly) #2.

I prefer to lie on my back and just twiddle. A little nipple stimulation, but not much: it all happens down there.
I do like to stroke my tummy, though.

I rarely use toys and i don't know how long its been since I twiddled when not in a bed.

I don't really know what I think of - just other women probably.

I do use my fingers inside on the G sometimes, (when that happens, I'm an "energetic dribbler") but mostly its just vulval twiddling with regular tastings!!!

Otto55
Feb 5, 2010, 5:30 AM
Hmmm...but isn't masturbation a little like smoking pot: If you do it all the time it doesn't do much for you?

Just a thought.


No, I don`t think so! Not necessarily.
If you`re horny all the time - like me - it is the only way to siffon your arousal. If there is no one to focus on or share it with!!!
I masturbate twice or thrice a day and I enjoy it very much.

just4mefc
Feb 5, 2010, 2:28 PM
I mostly just watch some porn or chat and jackoff dry no lube or toys. I usually edge 3 or 4 times and eventually I start to get some cum without an orgasm sometime have full blown loads of cum with out the orgasm then either lick the cum or use it to continue to jack then finally have a full orgasm. I do like to have ass play with toys from time to time and in terms of location well I will jack just about any where. OK now I am horny from describing it so guess I will go practice some more :cool:

12voltman59
Feb 5, 2010, 2:40 PM
Inside--I like to jerk on the bed laying back-or doing it in the shower.

I really prefer to do it outside, in a place that no one is anywhere around, in places like the woods or in the water.

swans
Feb 5, 2010, 6:37 PM
If I'm on my own? Into a condom or plastic bag. Using a cock ring round the base of my shaft helps me to have a long and very strong orgasm. After I have started to fill the condom/ bag with my cum I bring it to my face and lips and pour the contents into my mouth or over my face whilst I continue to ejaculate.
If I am with one (or two) of my bi mates I love to masturbate over their face(s) or cock(s)

t_glasgow_
Feb 8, 2010, 2:11 PM
Try my technique of using your legs to pull your bottom half up a wall to where your cock is above you. Then jack off and, when you cum, just let it drop into your mouth and swallow it immediately while you're still in the throes of orgasm. It works.

Wow!! I am trying this as soon as humanly possible :tongue:

TheDream
Feb 10, 2010, 11:38 AM
I like to lay down in a sat up position. With my feet pressed together. I rub my balls to start off with, working slowly up to the head until I'm hard, then I like to play with my foreskin, stretching it, retracting it and moisturising it. before going to work. I like to slap my sack a little and edge towards cumming before stopping before a cum and starting all over again. FInally I like to peal back my foreskin and rub the back of the head until I cum everywhere. It's a real joy if you must know. :P

12voltman59
Feb 10, 2010, 11:50 AM
Funny how one looses the urge to eat their own cum once they actually cum, eh? Don't kow why.

:bigrin:

I always found this to be true too--for years--I tried to eat my own cum after I jerked--but just never could seem to do it----it just isn't the same lapping it up from the surface of something as it is to get it fresh from the source!!!!!

Well---maybe lapping it up from the belly of someone else who just "shot" it is pretty good!!

darkeyes
Feb 10, 2010, 5:05 PM
Nice girls dont... and I'm a very nice girl...:):angel:

luvnit3003
Feb 11, 2010, 9:24 AM
I'm usually sitting in a chair, working the mouse with my right hand and masturbating with my left.

luvnit

mistylight70
Feb 15, 2010, 1:28 AM
Im glad we count cause we do it as much as guys. I prefer to use toys dildo, vibrator. I like to be on my bed so that i can see myself in the mirror. I think about my husband and another woman watching me.

vengful-tenkatsu
Feb 15, 2010, 9:09 AM
i like to doint lying down mostly no toys sometimes wil get some hot wax and drip it down my leg big turn on but at time i sit in my chair cyber or watch a good video

Realist
Feb 15, 2010, 9:14 AM
Don't know why, but it still amazes me that women have erotic fantasies and masturbate, too.

My GF loves to fantasize about me walking in on her, while she's making love to another girl. She has no compunction about telling me she is masturbating, when we're on the phone and how she came to be aroused.

It's a magnificent thing to be with a lady who is so open and honest about her sensuality, especially since I've been with some up-tight, prudish and sexually subdued women. The contrast is so revealing!

The more I learn about bisexual and straight, but overtly sensual ladies, the better I feel about them!

the sacred night
Feb 15, 2010, 8:13 PM
I like to lie on my back, either in bed or on my couch, but in a pinch have been known to get myself off covertly in public places. I find what I physically do depends somewhat on what I'm fantasizing about. If I'm thinking about women, for example, I touch mostly my breasts and just stimulate my clit by squeezing my legs together. If I'm thinking about men, I am more likely to rub my clit with my hand, and I smell my fingers afterward every time; I just love the smell. Sometimes I'll taste them, too, but that's more just to get myself familiar with the taste in preparation for hopefully eating pussy someday.

idinla
Feb 16, 2010, 3:11 AM
I like to have phone and love hearing another man

lolguy
Feb 16, 2010, 12:44 PM
:bigrin:

Frequently.:bigrin:

Sajibee
Feb 21, 2010, 2:39 AM
I prefer to be lying down, and I just use my hand...always my left even though I'm a righty. I actually don't really like watching porn, but love listening to it. The sounds people make are so sexy. I'll just minimize the screen and turn the volume up!

meflash
Feb 21, 2010, 11:46 AM
I like to be naked laying down getting my cock lubed up with cream. i like to start with my cock soft, then lube up & slowly pump till hard then shoot. I also like to put my legs over my head & jerk off into my mouth, when younger I could get the head to my lips but now I get it about 2inches from my mouth.

qazwsx33334
Feb 21, 2010, 12:01 PM
I like to be naked laying down getting my cock lubed up with cream. i like to start with my cock soft, then lube up & slowly pump till hard then shoot. I also like to put my legs over my head & jerk off into my mouth, when younger I could get the head to my lips but now I get it about 2inches from my mouth.
Same here when I was younger I could get the head in my mouth, now I just try to aim good. I wonder if stretching exercise's would help?

ilove2play
Mar 3, 2010, 3:36 PM
I love to use a large dildo in my ass strapped to something and jerk off either lying down or on all fours. I eat all my pre-cum and try to hold back my orgasm as long as possible. I agree about eating my own cum, I love the idea before my orgasm and once i cum it just not what I thought! Although, I've shot a bunch of loads in my mouth!

ilove2play
Mar 3, 2010, 3:38 PM
Same here when I was younger I could get the head in my mouth, now I just try to aim good. I wonder if stretching exercise's would help?

Same here; I could almost get my whole head in my mouth. Maybe Yoga would help ?

Donkey_burger
Mar 3, 2010, 3:47 PM
Nice girls dont... and I'm a very nice girl...:):angel:


Don't know why, but it still amazes me that women have erotic fantasies and masturbate, too.
[snip]

Kind of odd that this myth persists. Girls do masturbate, and frequently.

I masturbate lying down, in my bed, using my right pointer finger.

Sometimes I get high with my friend, then let him watch. He sometimes eats me out if he gets aroused enough. I'm glad he's the person I lost my virginity to. I trust him, sober or not.

DB :flag2: