i have a wierd marriage i need some help

[jc8933]

my wife and i where married 3 years ago and about 3 months ago she came to me and told me that she would like to try something new so i told her that was great that i would be open minded to any ideas. so she went to give me a blow job and instead she started to kiss and lick to the side in my groine area then she forced my legs aprt even more and then started to lick my ass she then started to get it really wet and it felt good so good that when she started to finger me i started to enjoy it to the point that i was humping her hand she got so turned on that she decided to try more the next time well she had bought a strap on and hid it from me she did the same thing again then she came up and i could fill something that was hard rubbing while she was moving she then told me that she was going to do me like i do her well i thought ok she was going to take it easy but it was not she grabed my hair and got the head in my ass then she made me scream she was pounding me so hard. well a week later she came home from work and to me to go to the bed room she had something for me so i did she then told me that she wanted to dress me up and role play so she pulled some panties out and a bra and a dress that was short she told me to get dressed that i was going to be a woman that night and she would be the man so i did well it was wierd but she liked it so i did it well here we are 2 months later and now she wants me to be a woman all the time after i get home from work i am to dress up and clean and cook for her if i dont she will make me well so aweek ago i told her that i wanted to try something new and i told her i want to be with a man she told me we could try it but i was for them both to not just him so this weekend she brought a man home and i was shocked when i was told to sit down and watch her ride his cock well when he got ready to cum she pulled me over to them and she got off and ramed his 8 inches in my mouth and made me swallow it all while she pounded me so now she wants to find a bunch of men to pound and mack me her cum slut but i dont know what to do

[parkwings]

Go for it.

[Giggles100]

Let's get this straight.....

Your wife likes to top you with a strap on.
She made your take a load in your mouth and swallow.
She makes you dress as a girl.

(Sorry I'm nursing a semi writing this it's just too hot) :bigrin:

Btw is your wife Bisexual or Curious? Just wondering.........

Either way your wife sounds........ fucking amazing Lmao!

Right now that's out of the way some advice:

Your marriage is NOT wierd. Believe me when I say that it would blow your mind what happens behind closed doors at night especially within the realm of the rainbow flag! I know that sometimes straight guys tend to have little experience of the kinkier side of life and are sometimes a bit conservative but it's cool that your wife wants to share it with you.

To be honest the fact your wife feels so confident to talk to you about these things just shows how open and honest your relationship is. Too many straight people keep kinky feelings hidden away festering :rolleyes:.

Are you enjoying your new found kinky sex life? If so that's great! Please don't feel ashamed of it! Sex is something to be enjoyed and savoured not something to be scared of.

If you aren't enjoying any part of it then tell your wife. I'm guessing your straight so I suspect the thought of taking a load of cum in your mouth is a real turn off. That's cool..... if you ever need a wing man to sort that side of things I'l catch a flight to America tommorow :bigrin:. Oh I'm a good bottom too....... just something to tell the wifey :bigrin:.

At the end of the day your marriage sounds brilliant! Just keep the communication open that's the most important thing! Your not wierd.... your wife is not wierd and none of this kinky stuff is wierd.... It's totally normal and soooooo much fun :bigrin:!

[Karasel]

I can see why jc8933 is a little upset. He has to supply his wife her needs, but she doesn't seem interested in fulfilling his needs.

Talk to your wife, if she cares for you she will listen. If not than she does not, than she is very self-serving. You do sound like you do not enjoy doing these things for her. I may be wrong, but if you truly dislike doing these things for her, tell her how you feel. Communication is key.

[rissababynta]

I don't think most of the advice is helping. Obviously, alot of folks here think you are in the perfect fantasy for them. The problem is that it might not be the perfect fantasy for you. So, to help, let me ask you some very direct questions.

1. Do you like dressing as a woman?
2. Do you like to be forced to be dressed as a woman?
3. Do you like to be forced to do the housework in a submissive capacity?
4. Are you bisexual, or bicurious, or straight?
5. Is any of the activities your wife is doing coerced (done against your will with the threat of exposure to friends/family/coworkers)?

If the answer to any of the first three is 'no' then you need to rethink your marraige. If the answer to #4 is straight, then you need to rethink your marriage. If the answer to #5 is yes, then you need to get a lawyer.

The three laws of any edge play are 'safe' 'sane' and 'consensual.' It does not sound, from your initial description, that it is consensual. That needs to stop.

OK..now that that's over...

...Can I borrow your wife for a weekend? ;)

Pasa

I was pretty much thinking the same thing.

[wildwestgoob]

Dude, no matter what some of these horndogs say, you sound like you are apprehensive about this to say the least.

Sex should never .... *NEVER* hurt unless you ASK for it to hurt.

Sex should never be forced upon you... I believe they call that RAPE.

If this situation is a problem, and by your post I gather that it *IS*... then you need to just flat out TELL her you have a problem with it and to what extent... OR...

Bend over and take it like a submissive slave and get used to her basically kicking your lilly ass every day.

Your choice.

Is she really worth that?

[_Joe_]

Damn I need a smoke now.

[tenni]

"but i dont know what to do"

jc8933
I agree with Pasa, rissa and wwg.

Your last words written above are telling. Although, you have not stated that you are uncomfortable these words suggest that you are.

It is up to you to talk to your wife. Explain what you have enjoyed and what makes you uncomfortable. From your profile, I believe that you do enjoy some of what she is doing. However, she may have taken it further than you are comfortable with.
Are these her fantasies or is she trying to figure out what your fantasies are? If so, then state what your fantasies are that you wish to make real.

[tenni]

:bigrin:


You do know I will have to place this in my sig file, yes?

Pasa

[domsubmerge]

Hey,

Don't these usually start with: "I'd never thought I'd be writing to Letters but ..."?

Sorry ... just thinking out loud.

Dom

[goldenfinger]

Did you write this while dreaming,,,,sorry,,,, just don't buy the story...,,,,...:eek:

[yanzeek]

We get one of these things once in a while. As soon as they join the forum, they screwup your mind with a post and they disappear while we are replying the post.

It must be some kind of mental illness if I am not wrong... any psychiatrist among us?? to explain it?

[rutemptedalso]

Damn, Your a lucky man!

[djones]

Call me a skeptic, but jc8933's story and the details provided in his profile don't quite add up. Methinks this is a bit of a lark.

[Giggles100]

...Can I borrow your wife for a weekend? ;)

Hey! I posted first :eek:. First come first served.... :bigrin:

You can have sloppy seconds........ :flag3:

[goldenfinger]

Hey! I posted first :eek:. First come first served....

You can have sloppy seconds........ :flag3:

Hey, didn't Monty re-write that line as, first serve first cum??:bigrin:

[Giggles100]

Hey, didn't Monty re-write that line as, first serve first cum??:bigrin:

Now ya getting into the Poly-tics of sex now ha ha!

[sweetman1]

my wife and i where married 3 years ago and about 3 months ago she came to me and told me that she would like to try something new so i told her that was great that i would be open minded to any ideas. so she went to give me a blow job and instead she started to kiss and lick to the side in my groine area then she forced my legs aprt even more and then started to lick my ass she then started to get it really wet and it felt good so good that when she started to finger me i started to enjoy it to the point that i was humping her hand she got so turned on that she decided to try more the next time well she had bought a strap on and hid it from me she did the same thing again then she came up and i could fill something that was hard rubbing while she was moving she then told me that she was going to do me like i do her well i thought ok she was going to take it easy but it was not she grabed my hair and got the head in my ass then she made me scream she was pounding me so hard. well a week later she came home from work and to me to go to the bed room she had something for me so i did she then told me that she wanted to dress me up and role play so she pulled some panties out and a bra and a dress that was short she told me to get dressed that i was going to be a woman that night and she would be the man so i did well it was wierd but she liked it so i did it well here we are 2 months later and now she wants me to be a woman all the time after i get home from work i am to dress up and clean and cook for her if i dont she will make me well so aweek ago i told her that i wanted to try something new and i told her i want to be with a man she told me we could try it but i was for them both to not just him so this weekend she brought a man home and i was shocked when i was told to sit down and watch her ride his cock well when he got ready to cum she pulled me over to them and she got off and ramed his 8 inches in my mouth and made me swallow it all while she pounded me so now she wants to find a bunch of men to pound and mack me her cum slut but i dont know what to do

enjoy it all

[mikey3000]

If you like it, and she likes it, all the power to you. Go with it and have fun!!!

[dickhand]

ENJOY !!!!!! I know I would .

[foreverbi]

my wife and i where married 3 years ago and about 3 months ago she came to me and told me that she would like to try something new so i told her that was great that i would be open minded to any ideas. so she went to give me a blow job and instead she started to kiss and lick to the side in my groine area then she forced my legs aprt even more and then started to lick my ass she then started to get it really wet and it felt good so good that when she started to finger me i started to enjoy it to the point that i was humping her hand she got so turned on that she decided to try more the next time well she had bought a strap on and hid it from me she did the same thing again then she came up and i could fill something that was hard rubbing while she was moving she then told me that she was going to do me like i do her well i thought ok she was going to take it easy but it was not she grabed my hair and got the head in my ass then she made me scream she was pounding me so hard. well a week later she came home from work and to me to go to the bed room she had something for me so i did she then told me that she wanted to dress me up and role play so she pulled some panties out and a bra and a dress that was short she told me to get dressed that i was going to be a woman that night and she would be the man so i did well it was wierd but she liked it so i did it well here we are 2 months later and now she wants me to be a woman all the time after i get home from work i am to dress up and clean and cook for her if i dont she will make me well so aweek ago i told her that i wanted to try something new and i told her i want to be with a man she told me we could try it but i was for them both to not just him so this weekend she brought a man home and i was shocked when i was told to sit down and watch her ride his cock well when he got ready to cum she pulled me over to them and she got off and ramed his 8 inches in my mouth and made me swallow it all while she pounded me so now she wants to find a bunch of men to pound and mack me her cum slut but i dont know what to do

Your story will be J/O material for me for a long time to cum. What exactly is your gripe? If I had a wife that was this open to EVERYTHING I would think I died and went to heaven as I would love for my wife to "force" me to suck another mans dick & then swallow his cum.

In my opinion you should go for anything she can recommend. All I can say is WHAT A WIFE.:2cents::three:;)

[rissababynta]

Your story will be J/O material for me for a long time to cum. What exactly is your gripe? If I had a wife that was this open to EVERYTHING I would think I died and went to heaven as I would love for my wife to "force" me to suck another mans dick & then swallow his cum.

In my opinion you should go for anything she can recommend. All I can say is WHAT A WIFE.:2cents::three:;)

WEll not everyone likes to be told what to do, especially when it comes to sex.

[pelokwin]

OK, yea sure the story gets most of us all willy nilly, but still this is wrong, only because jc8933 does not seem to be a 100% willing member of his wife's little OZ world O' porn movie in the fetish section. If "he" was a "she" WE would all be calling for his head but because the "he" is a "he" some of us seem not to have an problem with it. In my world ALL are EQUAL, so just look at the facts;
the next time well she had bought a strap on and hid it from me she did the same thing again then she came up and i could fill something that was hard rubbing while she was moving she then told me that she was going to do me like i do her well i thought ok she was going to take it easy but it was not she grabed my hair and got the head in my ass then she made me scream she was pounding me so hard

this weekend she brought a man home and i was shocked when i was told to sit down and watch her ride his cock well when he got ready to cum she pulled me over to them and she got off and ramed his 8 inches in my mouth and made me swallow it all while she pounded me so now she wants to find a bunch of men to pound and mack me her cum slut but i dont know what to do
Sounds to me like he is on the wrong side of "equal" and more on the side of "slave". I have friends in that lifestyle and even they say that this is wrong.
Look, Pasadenacpl said it best


1. Do you like dressing as a woman?
2. Do you like to be forced to be dressed as a woman?
3. Do you like to be forced to do the housework in a submissive capacity?
4. Are you bisexual, or bicurious, or straight?
5. Is any of the activities your wife is doing coerced (done against your will with the threat of exposure to friends/family/coworkers)?

If the answer to any of the first three is 'no' then you need to rethink your marraige. If the answer to #4 is straight, then you need to rethink your marriage. If the answer to #5 is yes, then you need to get a lawyer.

The three laws of any edge play are 'safe' 'sane' and 'consensual.' It does not sound, from your initial description, that it is consensual. That needs to stop.

Good Luck
NUFF SAID
Pelokwin

[graytwo]

no offense. but this seems to be a bit of snippets from literotica.c and nifty.o and that's sad.

help everyone has provided is great! - problem is the twit that used us.

[jem_is_bi]

no offense. but this seems to be a bit of snippets from literotica.c and nifty.o and that's sad.

help everyone has provided is great! - problem is the twit that used us.

I thought that might be the game too, when I read his post. But, I don't feel used. That was so hot I had to turn the heat down in the house.

[BiJoe696]

Either a good story, wishful thinking, or a lucky guy. Go for it , its Utah, enjoy the Big Love !!!

Do I see a late nite HBO movie out of this?

[open2both]

Now SHE'S a KEEPER!

[bermac]

I suppose you've got two questions to ask yourself.

1 Do you enjoy being your wife's shemale?

2 Do you enjoy being part of a 3some with another man?

Go along with the bits where the answer is yes.

Personally, I find gender swapping a real turn on, I had a long, very enjoyable relationship with a couple where the wife would screw me as I sucked off her husband. All three of us got what we wanted. To me, it's only weird if anybody involved is doing things that they really don't want to.

[ontheroadagn]

You really need to take most of the advice given here with serious consideration. I couldn't agree more with rissababynta. Most of the others are trying to live fantasy through your experiences. You say you've been married 3 yrs and but the progression of these experiences are over a much shorter time period. Sit back for a minute and ask yourself if you REALLY are into this. Giving her what she wants and or needs is great, but nobility sometimes isn't enough. Communication is the key (as stated very well before my response) and it works both ways. So open your mouth for frank discussion not just her pleasure. Good luck