View Full Version : Is it date or not?....
Giggles100
Jan 23, 2010, 8:27 AM
Okay so I'm meeting a guy later but I dunno if its a date or not. I don't really fancy him in that kinda way (not my type) although we kissed on my night out at the gay bar (http://main.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?t=8670) during the week.
Is "going for a drink" alone a date?.....
Is there a way to be just friends with someone who has obviously shown you he is interested in more?
let_em_eat_cock
Jan 23, 2010, 8:48 AM
Is there a way to be just friends with someone who has obviously shown you he is interested in more?
Yes, Giggles, just tell him :)
mikey3000
Jan 23, 2010, 10:17 AM
And don't cram your tongue down his throat this time if you're not interested in him. :bigrin:
I'm just sayin'...
Giggles100
Jan 23, 2010, 10:32 AM
And don't cram your tongue down his throat this time if you're not interested in him. :bigrin:
I'm just sayin'...
Very funny! I'l try and remember that :bigrin:.
tenni
Jan 23, 2010, 10:35 AM
No body contact...if yer a biguy.... fur kuris sake...no gay hug or kiss hello.
Make it clear that you are interested in a platonic friendship fairly soon as you meet him. Don't be a cockteaser...:eek:
Giggles100
Jan 24, 2010, 8:44 AM
Went for the drink and everything went okay and I said I wasn't Interested. He's quite sweet to be fair but we both know it's friends only.
I must have been drunk as apparently we kissed in front of a building site and the workers started wolf whistling............. whoops!
Glad I'v gained one friend and he has a b/f anyway (They are Poly) so I feel that makes it easier on him anyway :).
All's well that ends well :flag4:.
tenni
Jan 24, 2010, 10:47 AM
"alls well that ends well"
Giggles
Does this mean that you are going to continue a friendship with this guy? You are in a new city and a friend is a friend....or was it good luck take care...bye end?
Giggles100
Jan 24, 2010, 11:13 AM
"alls well that ends well"
Giggles
Does this mean that you are going to continue a friendship with this guy? You are in a new city and a friend is a friend....or was it good luck take care...bye end?
No he's a friend and well see each other again. It certainly wasn't a bye bye end.... we did text today so :).
tenni
Jan 24, 2010, 11:31 AM
Good.
Cherokee_Mountaincat
Jan 24, 2010, 3:14 PM
It doesnt have to be a date unless You want it to be, Darlin. And even if it was, it doesnt mean you have to put out if you arent sexually attracted to him. A kiss or two here and there isnt a comittment, so go have fun--talking, laughing, ect, but it doesnt necessarily mean you're going to hop up on the table and be a buffet, unless you Want to be.
good luck, Sweetie. ;)
Cat