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bistraightpat
Jan 18, 2010, 8:56 AM
Was talking to my friend's gf about this last night. She said she really likes hands. Never really heard of that one. Mine are def shemales and stockings. I am a sucker for both. What are yours?
Pat :three:
fredtyg
Jan 18, 2010, 9:16 AM
shemales. guys in girl undies. piss
Realist
Jan 18, 2010, 9:54 AM
How can you only list a few?
Yes, small-pretty hands, definitely! My GF is a collection of most of my feminine fetishes: delicious lips, great hair, bright green eyes, pretty/expressive face, intelligence, voluptuousness, large/firm/round breasts, permanently erect nipples, small waist, large hips/ass, pretty legs, bisexual, so sweet, passionate and hot!
I like soft/chubby, smooth guys, sweet temperaments, shy-but passionate, intelligent, sensual. Small endowment's a plus.
Giggles100
Jan 18, 2010, 10:15 AM
In for a penny ey..... ;)
In girls: Tomboys, Emo Look, Short Dark/Coloured Hair, Lesbian Chic, Small Hands, Eyes (Dunno how but its all in them), Prefer Bi/Gay Girls, Quirky Sense Of Humour, Legs, Must Have An Addiction To Coffee, Handcuff's, Light Bondage, Gender Role Reversal, Outdoor Sex, Don't Like Normal/Straight Girls They Bore Me To Tears :rolleyes:.
In Boys: Feminine, Emo Look, Longer Hair (Blonde/Coloured), Small Hands, Nice Ass, Arms, Eyes (Dunno how but its all in them), Prefer Bi/Gay Men, Quirky Sense Of Humour, Must Have An Addiction To Coffee, Handcuff's, Light Bondage, Gender Role Reversal, Outdoor Sex, Don't Like Normal/Straight Guys They Bore Me To Tears :rolleyes:.
I think that pretty much says what I'm about.
Raysallover
Jan 18, 2010, 10:44 AM
Eyebrows.
People with ugly eyebrows, no matter how cute/hot they might be, I just can't stand it:P Kinda mean, but I can't help it..
Oh and I loooooove muscular butch girls! omg that's just way too hot
and tummy's hehe:rolleyes:
mikey3000
Jan 18, 2010, 11:33 AM
Mine is water. In the hot tub, in the shower, in the rain or in the ocean, just being in the water multiplies every sensation in my entire body.
And DILFs. There's nothing hotter than a dad nurturing his offspring.
tryme_nd
Jan 18, 2010, 12:12 PM
womens feet, for starters.
_Joe_
Jan 18, 2010, 12:13 PM
--EDIT--
Wow, did you know that each post is limited to 3,500 words ?
darkeyes
Jan 18, 2010, 12:31 PM
Not quite sure me wud call alla the above fetishes... attractions mayb.. but not necessarily fetishes.. Me likes me feet bein likked... spesh soles a me feet.. now that me thinks of as a fetish.. cos it don haff get me juices flowin.. an nails runnin up inside an baks a me thighs don haff get me goin an all.. but don think of that as a fetish.. jus triffically yummie an designed 2 get best outa me... innit odd wot we all think of as fetishes.. all so diff... aint human beins a strange lot:tong:
meflash
Jan 18, 2010, 12:48 PM
For me crossdressing is something I enjoyed for about 2yrs now. Iam very happy being male but I find CD just a fun thing Iam sure most people will not understand. I also keep my legs & cock shaved with just a patch on top. I find the smooth look in both men & woman the best. I also enjoy webcamming, dressed up or not dressed, I like to watch & be watched, playing the sub or the top.
darkeyes
Jan 18, 2010, 1:44 PM
For me crossdressing is ...
Nev dress wen cross... ya'll end up outa kilter an ya colour co-ordination will make ya look silly..;) Take deep breath an dress when yas not... :tong:
ElPincheViejo
Jan 18, 2010, 3:25 PM
My fetish is kissing. Don't care for the ABS scene, because too many guys just want a quick bj.
the sacred night
Jan 18, 2010, 3:46 PM
My fetish is kissing. Don't care for the ABS scene, because too many guys just want a quick bj.
What's ABS?
My fetishes include red hair, dreadlocks, long hair on a man, shaved head on a woman (though hair is welcome too), butch women, largish breasts, men who are somewhat cut but not overly muscular, short men, tall women, dominant women, submissive men, blood play, exhibitionism... that's all I can think of off the top of my head, but there are probably more I've forgotten :smilies15
ElPincheViejo
Jan 18, 2010, 4:12 PM
ABS=Adult Book Store
darkeyes
Jan 18, 2010, 5:36 PM
Dominant women. High heels......
Pasa
Hmmmm.. now me knos jus wer 2 find 1a them Pasa hun..much 2 gud for a mere lesser mortal tho... an am not sharin.. tee hee;)
darkeyes
Jan 18, 2010, 5:53 PM
That's ok Fran. It's the look in my wife's eyes when she knows I'm prey to her that is what I crave.
Pasa
Then we both happy then huh me luffly? :bigrin:;)
roy m cox
Jan 19, 2010, 12:31 AM
being given enemas, getting sucked for hours and hours:bigrin:, spandex ,
:bipride::bipride::bipride::bipride::bipride:
Cherokee_Mountaincat
Jan 19, 2010, 12:48 AM
Male butts and female boobs...lol
I know, I'm a sick puppy...lol
Cat
Raysallover
Jan 19, 2010, 9:15 AM
What's ABS?
My fetishes include red hair, dreadlocks, long hair on a man, shaved head on a woman (though hair is welcome too), butch women, largish breasts, men who are somewhat cut but not overly muscular, short men, tall women, dominant women, submissive men, blood play, exhibitionism... that's all I can think of off the top of my head, but there are probably more I've forgotten :smilies15
I've got red hair:rolleyes: hahah,
Also I forgot to mention, blond or red hair on girls an black or brown hair on guys!
sammie19
Jan 19, 2010, 9:38 AM
Eyes. Beautiful expressive smiling eyes. Dark brooding sultry eyes. Laughing eyes. Cheeky eyes. Gentle and kind eyes. In the eyes we see the person. Thats my fetish.:)
Coolhand_69
Jan 19, 2010, 12:12 PM
We don't know if these really qualify as fetishes:
Her: Tall men, real cowboys. Doing a guy with a strap on.
Him: All women shapes but lean towards plump women though muscular is a real turn on. Stockings on her!! Women with armpit hair. Not a lot, but is a visual thing for him.
chook
Jan 19, 2010, 2:12 PM
I don't care how many forums there is on fetishes. It still my own business what I do with frozen chickens. :tongue:
Cheers Chook :bigrin:
hot29bim
Jan 19, 2010, 3:18 PM
for me crossdressing, shemales, cocks, stockings high heels, panties...hell womens clothes in general, muscle men, smooth bodies, and cum.
domsubmerge
Jan 19, 2010, 3:59 PM
I'm afraid CumSloppyHole is correct, if it isn't mandatory then it is just a kink.
What are my kinks? It would be shorter to list those that I don't have!
Fetishes? I think I have to be awake.
TTFN
welickit
Jan 19, 2010, 4:06 PM
We both enjoy a nice hot cream pie. If she is serving it she enjoys a toe licking at the same time. If she is eating it..........don't bother her.
Halvdan
Jan 19, 2010, 4:56 PM
I don't know that any of these are mandatory, but I really get turned on by a woman with red hair and pale skin.
Female breasts. Any size.
FTM transguys are fascinating to me. I would love to fool around with one someday.
rjr1227
Jan 19, 2010, 5:20 PM
ok lets see now... im a sucker for sexxy eyes... love nice legs and ass, on guys or women. Also, i just love a pair of beautiful feet... just something about them... love to give a nice, foot rub..then kiss or suck of her toes... That is if shes ok with it.
Long Duck Dong
Jan 19, 2010, 7:50 PM
With the exceptions of the woman who likes different hairstyles, hands and feet everything else that people have listed in this thread is NOT a fetish.
Especially things that are sexual to begin with like women's underwear, kissing, sexual organs, 3 ways, piss, cum, cross dressing, or a man or woman being dominant or submissive during sex or in general.
I'm not sure why people would even think that these are fetishes to begin with?
A fetish is the sexual arousal brought on by any object, or body part not conventionally viewed as being sexual in nature. Such as hands or feet.
Fetish (n) - an object or bodily part whose real or fantasied presence is
psychologically necessary for sexual gratification and that is an object of fixation to the extent that it may interfere with complete sexual expression.
There is a difference between a turn on and a fetish. Not to be nitpicky but I think what a lot of people are describing are just average turn ons, not an actual sexual fetish.
It's a fetish if you CANNOT be with someone who does not have what you're attracted to.
you have blurred two different meanings into one...
a fetish can be a christian cross, a voodoo doll etc etc...... a symbol of religion / non religious manifest belief,
a sexual fetish is something that doesn't have to be sexual in nature, but can elicit a sexual response or desire in a person.....
a turn on / sexual fetish are in essence, the same thing, with a differing level of attraction / magnetism / response....
a person with a sexual fetish is more likely to act outside of normal behievour in the presence of their sexual fetish / object of interest.... for some that can include intense sexual passion and intercourse, in others it can be with self gratification, intense arousal and cumming without the contact of another
a person that is aroused by long red hair, may not be aroused by short red hair, but may not be interested in sexual intercourse, but may find sexual arousal and completion thru the act of stroking / brushing the hair.....
or they can find the read hair desirable and seek out a partner with long red hair and adore them, and have sexual intercourse
a person may be sexually aroused by the act of urination which is not a sexual act but a act of bodily fuild elimination and not sexual.... but the person finds sexual arousal from viewing it...... however we confuse it with water sports which is sexual in nature....
you listed a lot of sexual natured stuff .... but clothing which is a normal state of dress for people, can be drab and dull or provocative, depending on the style and the way it is worn..... hence a uniform or power dressing can be sexual arousing to a person in the same way that lingerie or scantily dressed people can be arousing......
a person that is drawn to people that power dress can be correctly ID'ed as a person with a fetish for power dressing.....
bret5668
Jan 19, 2010, 8:14 PM
With the exceptions of the woman who likes different hairstyles, hands and feet everything else that people have listed in this thread is NOT a fetish.
Especially things that are sexual to begin with like women's underwear, kissing, sexual organs, 3 ways, piss, cum, cross dressing, or a man or woman being dominant or submissive during sex or in general.
I'm not sure why people would even think that these are fetishes to begin with?
A fetish is the sexual arousal brought on by any object, or body part not conventionally viewed as being sexual in nature. Such as hands or feet.
Fetish (n) - an object or bodily part whose real or fantasied presence is
psychologically necessary for sexual gratification and that is an object of fixation to the extent that it may interfere with complete sexual expression.
There is a difference between a turn on and a fetish. Not to be nitpicky but I think what a lot of people are describing are just average turn ons, not an actual sexual fetish.
It's a fetish if you CANNOT be with someone who does not have what you're attracted to.
Your entitled to your opinion, and I'm entitled to disagree with your assessment. A fetish can be anything that an individual wants it to be, that's what makes them "individuals"
bret5668
Jan 19, 2010, 11:11 PM
You can think that a fetish can be anything that someone wants it to be but that does not make your definition correct, or mean that the person has a sexual fetish just because they think that certain kinks or turn ons that they have are fetishes when they are not fetishes at all since they are ubiquitously sexual in nature, are sexual turn ons that are not fetish based, or are various sexual acts or ways that people have sex that again are not sexual fetishes.
Bret you do not even know the difference between you're/you are, or your so why should I take what you wrote seriously since what you wrote about sexual fetishes is not correct at all?
Darkeyes is correct as is duck dong, a lot of people who are posting in this thread who claim to have sexual fetishes do not have them at all since they are just listing kinks, fantasies/experiences, and turn ons and those are not sexual fetishes since they are already sexual in nature and are not fetishes at all.
Yes there's also the definition that DuckDong posted where it can be something like a voodoo doll, talisman, or a charm that someone believes has magical power or will protect the person who owns it. There is also fetish art which has nothing to do with sex and more to do with Native American deities and totem poles.
Sooooo...Correcting my grammar? ROFLMAO... hmmmmm as a matter of fact I DO know the difference between "you are" and "your". YOUR pathetic comments criticizing my spelling proves you are reaching to try to find anything to bitch about. Never did I criticize you, or YOUR views....and yet you choose to rip on me for spelling? LMAO. The simple fact that you chose to post the way you do proves all that needs to be said. You are T total moron and I pity you for being such an arrogant self-righteous contemptuous fool. Since you decided to attack me, YOUR posts in the future will be ignored. YOU'RE not worth the time and energy from this point forward.
Hephaestion
Jan 20, 2010, 3:43 AM
Wow - tick lists abound, along with 16mm cine cameras
Perhaps someone couild help me here - if hands and feet are contributory visual sexual attraction points, should they be excluded from the fetish list? Does 'kissing' feet that are raised to the side of one's face count as a fetish, or kissing the palm of a hand during congress? What about the women who come when you blow or nibble on their ear lobes (I was amazed also). Where do ear lobes stand in all of this?
As for the spillong mustiks which are hleped by paw keyballs and local daleks, these are cummon on this sight.
16mm cine cameras? Bolex!
*Lou*
Jan 20, 2010, 6:15 AM
[fet-ish, fee-tish]
–noun 1. an object regarded with awe as being the embodiment or habitation of a potent spirit or as having magical potency.
2. any object, idea, etc., eliciting unquestioning reverence, respect, or devotion: to make a fetish of high grades.
3. Psychology. any object or nongenital part of the body that causes a habitual erotic response or fixation.
1. An object thought to have magical, especially magically sexual, powers
2. A sexual fixation or obsession with a usually non-sexual object. EX. socks, horses, monkeys, pain, bondage
Having an extreme fixation, usually sexually satisfying on something.
A sexual fixation(s) that usually differs from those of the standard population. In other words, something (sometimes totally unrelated to sex) that turns you on and that isn't enjoyed by the majority of people.
It would appear that a fetish can be many different things.
Now, on to the actual topic, not the definition... I don't consider any of my sexual likes to be fetishes, if that causes me to be labeled as "vanilla"...so be it. I have my tastes, others have theirs, it's not up me or anyone else to judge whether or not someone's specific sexual attraction or desires are truly a "fetish" or not. Live and let live, enjoy what you will, be safe and have fun. Great topic by the way. I rather enjoyed seeing others thoughts. (well most of them)
rissababynta
Jan 20, 2010, 10:14 AM
Can I ask why every thread lately, no matter how simple and innocent it might be, has to turn into such chaos? I think I have an idea, but I'll just keep that to myself for the time being...
Anyways, as far as fetishes go...hmmm...I'm not really sure what kinds I have. One would be what LDD was referring to before, when people dress with power. Whenever my husband puts on his class A uniform for inspection, it's like boom...I'm ready to go haha. I've often asked him if we could run up to the bedroom while he was dressed up but he refuses too because he doesn't want to get his clothes messed up...sigh:(
**Peg**
Jan 20, 2010, 11:06 AM
hehe rissa ! gotta love a man in uniform (I was raised in the military)
and...my EX had this awesome power suit..... *bites knuckle* manohman!!! :bigrin:
rissababynta
Jan 20, 2010, 11:37 AM
hehe rissa ! gotta love a man in uniform (I was raised in the military)
and...my EX had this awesome power suit..... *bites knuckle* manohman!!! :bigrin:
Well it's good to know that I'm not the only one who drools over the power outfits haha. Funny, I actually didn't realize this until today on this thread.
Also, for one reason or another, I always drop head over heals when hubby has his glasses on...some people just look HAAAWWTTT in glasses...and he is definitely one of them haha.
centillini
Jan 20, 2010, 11:40 AM
for me, shemales, ladies feet, ladies legs and ass, nice lips and smile. Love threesomes, strapons, creampies, threesome where lady watches two guys.
darkeyes
Jan 20, 2010, 11:45 AM
Well it's good to know that I'm not the only one who drools over the power outfits haha. Funny, I actually didn't realize this until today on this thread.
Also, for one reason or another, I always drop head over heals when hubby has his glasses on...some people just look HAAAWWTTT in glasses...and he is definitely one of them haha.
Hmmmm... *thinks*.. *wonda how Ris wud look on me if me had on 1a Kate's suits..*
Hav me own specs, Ris... they only for readin but me dus look cute wen they perched on enda me nose...:tong:
*Naggy in a suit...grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr*:bigrin:
Realist
Jan 20, 2010, 11:46 AM
Yes, Rissa!
Some people wearing glasses really are hot!
My GF looks so sexy with hers on!
rissababynta
Jan 20, 2010, 11:51 AM
Mine are for reading, driving and computer work, and thank god that's all because I look horrible in them haha. My husband would beg to differ, but what does he know haha.
CuddlyKate
Jan 20, 2010, 12:45 PM
Hmmmm... *thinks*.. *wonda how Ris wud look on me if me had on 1a Kate's suits..*
Hav me own specs, Ris... they only for readin but me dus look cute wen they perched on enda me nose...:tong:
*Naggy in a suit...grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr*:bigrin:
A suit isn't you dear, and my skirts and trousers too long. But you do look fetching looking over your glasses. :)
Especially my birthday suit, Frances? ;)
qazwsx33334
Jan 20, 2010, 2:03 PM
A beautiful shemale with a big cock!
darkeyes
Jan 20, 2010, 2:43 PM
Especially my birthday suit, Frances? ;)
:eek:
Wot canya make a sum1 who leaves ya that enticin lil message an then sods off out wiv 'er m8 for the nite?? God!!!!!! Life is poopy!!!:(
iamjohn5
Jan 20, 2010, 3:38 PM
Hmmmm...I get to talk about them? Maybe someone will like my post and try to meet up with me..
Men, I like a big mushroom head that I can lick and suck on...
Women, I love her feet and her ass and want to smell and lick and taste them while she enjoys herself....
jackbirdjay
Apr 21, 2010, 2:45 AM
Was talking to my friend's gf about this last night. She said she really likes hands. Never really heard of that one. Mine are def shemales and stockings. I am a sucker for both. What are yours?
Pat :three:
men or women in stockings, heels, corsets. tit size dosen't matter its big nipples that drives me nuts. It's not the size of the cock but one that has lots of veins. and big hanging nuts
jimmybis40
Apr 21, 2010, 3:26 AM
Mine is wet clothes - jeans and t shirts - nothing like a wet clothed shower with someone and pealing the wet clothes off like a big birthday present.
bisexualandloveit
Apr 23, 2010, 1:24 PM
Men or women in sexy lingerie:flag2::tongue:
Miehm
Apr 23, 2010, 8:41 PM
Since no one seems to actually be listing fetishes(blah blah semantics argument), I'll go ahead and list what everyone else is listing.
Men: I like skinny, shaved feminine guys(but they can't be sissies, they have to manage looking feminine and acting masculine at the same time), who are shorter than me(not hard to manage). I also like them to be sweet. Almoswt emo, without being, as previously mentioned, sissies.
Women: I tend to like bigger women with large breasts. Most of the personality traits remain the same, though I prefer a feminine woman over a masculine one.