PeterH
Mar 3, 2006, 6:35 AM
Dear everybody,
it was only a month ago that I found this site and in the short time that I've been here, it has become like a second home to me. I have made so many new friends here, have been given such useful advise, clever insights thought-provoking ideas... And most of all: tonnes of love, from people who replied to threads I started, from people who wrote me a message, from people I met in chat. Thank you all so very much and thank you Drew and crew for starting and maintaining this wonderful site.
I came on this site with the idea that I might want to go looking for a bi-family (MMFF, all bi) as a sort of ideal relationship. I have more or less let go of that idea (although it still is in the back of my mind somewhere, somehow the idea of a big household with many children really catches my fancy). But in a way I have found a bi family already: here on this site. You have been great and continue to be so. You have helped me to accept who I am, love myself for who I am. You have helped me to better understand what it means to be bi, which made my coming out easier, and you have given me the courage to make the the next step: to come in in the real world.
My first coming in was online, here on this site, with you, my bi family. It is now time for me to take a plunge and come in offline, and I still have fears about it. So again, I would like to ask your help:
How did you come in in the bi community. How did you find one, how was it to come in? It would help me tremendously to learn from your experiences, and maybe it would help other newcomers as well.
Thank you once again for your continuing friendship. I look forward to staying in touch, or getting in touch with you some time after this.
Love, PeterH
PS: I have commented in my profile that Peter is not my real name. I have plans to put my real name in my profile shortly, after I have done the last bit of my coming out (well people say coming out never ends, but I have some friends whom I want to tell first).
it was only a month ago that I found this site and in the short time that I've been here, it has become like a second home to me. I have made so many new friends here, have been given such useful advise, clever insights thought-provoking ideas... And most of all: tonnes of love, from people who replied to threads I started, from people who wrote me a message, from people I met in chat. Thank you all so very much and thank you Drew and crew for starting and maintaining this wonderful site.
I came on this site with the idea that I might want to go looking for a bi-family (MMFF, all bi) as a sort of ideal relationship. I have more or less let go of that idea (although it still is in the back of my mind somewhere, somehow the idea of a big household with many children really catches my fancy). But in a way I have found a bi family already: here on this site. You have been great and continue to be so. You have helped me to accept who I am, love myself for who I am. You have helped me to better understand what it means to be bi, which made my coming out easier, and you have given me the courage to make the the next step: to come in in the real world.
My first coming in was online, here on this site, with you, my bi family. It is now time for me to take a plunge and come in offline, and I still have fears about it. So again, I would like to ask your help:
How did you come in in the bi community. How did you find one, how was it to come in? It would help me tremendously to learn from your experiences, and maybe it would help other newcomers as well.
Thank you once again for your continuing friendship. I look forward to staying in touch, or getting in touch with you some time after this.
Love, PeterH
PS: I have commented in my profile that Peter is not my real name. I have plans to put my real name in my profile shortly, after I have done the last bit of my coming out (well people say coming out never ends, but I have some friends whom I want to tell first).