why are straight or non bisexual people mean?

[scilla08]

if anyone has a myspace or a facebook & it ask's about your orientation & well i'm not afraid to show or let anyone know that i'm bisexual.. well i got this email saying i was a slut:(..& of course me being a blonde & very curious i asked how so..this guy (who is married, straight & according to his profile hates all gay's lesbians & those who call themselves bisexual's) says i'm a slut due to my uncontrollable sex crave.. is being bisexual all about the sex?

[littlerayofsunshine]

Ahhhh me lady,


You should not have dignified him with a response, You should have forward it to his top 1 ( which should be his wife if he was a good god fearin christian man) with a message asking why is her husband sending messages about sex to a 19 year old girl? She should investigate it.

Wait a lil to see if wife reads it, Then send a message back to him, letting him know you let his wife know that he's sending inappropriate sexual message to young teenage girls. Then block the asshole.

Plus being mean is people issue, if you go back through past forum posts here.. You can see they can get quite obnoxious and heated.

Don't worry about the assholes, you know who you are and who cares if some no name obviously pervy married guy calls you a slut. He's messenging you after all:rolleyes: He's probably not getting enough sex, and probably got burned by a girl as a teenager and took it out on you.

[csrakate]

What you are dealing with is an individual who labels people according to his very own beliefs....something that many folks do, unfortunately. However, being bisexual isn't any more about the sex than being straight is about being mean. You just generalized about an entire group of people....I'm sure you didn't mean it to come out that way...but remember, words hurt....as you are well aware. That person is mean because he's an asshole and has a very closed mind...not because he's straight. It's hard enough getting respect for who or what you are without having preconceived notions thrown in....and it should work both ways.

[Realist]

I agree with Kate.

We've had some pretty ornery folks, right here on this site. Anyone selfish, opinionated, and mean spirited. Their sexual orientation has nothing to do with attitude, or character.

There are tolerant and non-tolerant folks from all genders, backgrounds and segments of society.

[quiet1fornow]

people are mean regardless of ther orientations....

I am in a retail line of work and have been for over 35 years....I have met some of the most fantastic people ever....kind of record people actually..... in both good and bad directions....so...

I offer to you the same basic information...Life is way to short to be spent pleasing someone that cannot by or because of thier own choices be happy or pleased! We here onthe site call some here "trolls" so they are amongst the crowd here as well....it seems there are people that derive thier "joy," if indeed that is the word, from trying their utmost to ruin someone's day...

whether it be orientation, hair color, skin color, socks whatever ...my SO and I have 7 dogs....we create a lot of whipsers on occasion....that is fine...I know what kind of person I am and just as another thread here today points out it only takes one small simple act of human kindness to change any given day or set of circumstances....

You can succomb to a troll or celebrate the day....

Q:cool: (Becoming a Royal PIA!)

[Falke]

scilla, I wouldn't sweat it. It sounds like someone found you who had abit too much time on their hands. Shrug it off and don't let it get to you.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Dont worry bout it, Babygirl. His opinion does not matter one iota. You should have written back and said "Wass'a matter Sugar, jealous?" lol
Either that or told him to take his narrow minded-narrow assed opinon and take an Airborne Fornication. :rolleyes:
You dont have to answer to anyone but your husband, and yourself. :}
Hugs
Cat

[TwylaTwobits]

Honey, people are people and where there are people there are assholes. Some are okay assholes and genuinely don't realize they can hurt a person's feelings with words and deeds, others are the most idiots that need to be educated so that they not only reproduce but don't pass on attitudes to those around them.

Hugs and take it from one nice straight individual, it is not my cup of tea but several of my friends enjoy it, so i'd be happy to serve it at my dinner party.

[rissababynta]

There are tolerant and non-tolerant folks from all genders, backgrounds and segments of society.

Most definitely!

[bistraightpat]

Best thing to do is ignore him. I used to be one of those people who would criticize bi and gay people. I wanted a response i wanted an argument. But i was really just trying to hide that i was bi. Maybe he is the same.

[Coastocoast]

One thing you might be overlooking with a person who spits out a venomous comment like that; Is he mad because he "hates" gay and bi people or jealous you are not interested in him as he sits home alone? Ignore button works well. I wish I was able to be a bit more in the open about being bisexual but my employment situation would end if I were. As long as you are open, be yourself and to hell with what others think.

[TaylorMade]

All people have a mean streak. Sometimes you find out about it very early (in your case). Sometimes. . .it manifests itself much, much later.

*Taylor*