mikey3000
Nov 14, 2009, 1:01 PM
I think I have a boyfriend. But the problem is that I didn't even realize it till recently.
He is a very good friend. We met on line about a year and a half ago, then met up in May of this year. We've gone out to a bunch of things together, fairs, dinners, movies and such and we've become really close. Even my wife likes him a lot and thinks he is just great. He brings her flowers and she cooks for him. Actually she's the one who noticed that he may be carrying a small torch for me, told me to see what's right in front of me, and to go for it if I like him. Some times I get vibes that he may want more than to just be friends. Last week he came over to my home for dinner and we all spent the day together. My kids really like him too. It's a nice fit, but I never realized it before till now.
Thing is I'm scared to start a physical relationship with him cause I don't want to ruin a good friendship if it doesn't work out. Any suggestions?
He is a very good friend. We met on line about a year and a half ago, then met up in May of this year. We've gone out to a bunch of things together, fairs, dinners, movies and such and we've become really close. Even my wife likes him a lot and thinks he is just great. He brings her flowers and she cooks for him. Actually she's the one who noticed that he may be carrying a small torch for me, told me to see what's right in front of me, and to go for it if I like him. Some times I get vibes that he may want more than to just be friends. Last week he came over to my home for dinner and we all spent the day together. My kids really like him too. It's a nice fit, but I never realized it before till now.
Thing is I'm scared to start a physical relationship with him cause I don't want to ruin a good friendship if it doesn't work out. Any suggestions?