Need help

[bi42guy1958]

When you think a guy is gay/bi what can you do to bring up the conversation to be sure.? I want to be with him but Im still in the closet and want to be sure he is open to it. We do talk alot, he "pokes" me in the belly with his finger, and Ive caught him looking at my crotch. Ive tried the letting him catch me looking at the crotch but nothing happening. IDEAS PLEASE!!:bigrin:

[Donkey_burger]

Don't date the same sex if you are in the closet. If it's important to you that you not come out, it's also important that you not suck somebody back in. :2cents:

DB :bipride:

[GalacticiaActual]

Who said anything about dating???

[fredtyg]

There's all kinds of ways to broach the subject. One way that might seem risky but might work is if you're screwing around on the computer. Tell him you're thinking of posting a picture of your dick on ratearod.com (http://www.ratearod.com/). Then show him the site and see how interested he is in it.

Hey, just because you're checking out other guy's dicks doesn't make you queer, does it? But, if he doesn't seem offended by it, spend some time with him and ask him what he thinks the best pics are. Maybe ask him if he wants to post a pic of his up there, too?

If he seems interested in having a picture of his up there, suggest you work together to get the best pics taken of each other. If he agrees to go that far, I'd almost bet money he's at least bi. I think the average straight guy would think doing that together might be too queerish.

Then, if it got to the point both of you actually try to take the pictures and have your pants off, I'd complement him on his cock. If he's easy with that, I'd bet even more money he's bi and at that point I'd either ask him if he cared if I could touch his dick or maybe even suck it.

If he goes along to that point he's definitely homo or bi. The thing is to start casually and work your way up to see if he gets uncomfortable at any point.

[fredtyg]

And leave it to me to make a short story long.

What I've gotten to the point of doing with some I've been interested in is not so much asking the other guy if he's bi, but telling him that I'm bi, or gay. That's easier than trying to work your way through what might be a very closeted guy's fears. You'll just have to hope he keeps it between you and him.

If you don't want to make a big issue about it, just say it casually in a private conversation between the two of you. Let him make the next move.

[roy m cox]

um id be-care full about this i have a friend that would slap me on the butt a lot and i started thinking he was gay and one day i kissed him on the lips and he was surprised about it we just looked at each other and he just walked away took up to a year till one day he called me and asked if i was gay i told him no that i am bi and i told him he was just tuning me on every time he'd give me a slap on the butt we still are very good friends tho he Evin likes it when we hang out and i do all the catcalls lol ,

but i hope this guy will turn out to be a good mate for you if he is gay or bi :bigrin:

[sebax]

When you think a guy is gay/bi what can you do to bring up the conversation to be sure.? I want to be with him but Im still in the closet and want to be sure he is open to it. We do talk alot, he "pokes" me in the belly with his finger, and Ive caught him looking at my crotch. Ive tried the letting him catch me looking at the crotch but nothing happening. IDEAS PLEASE!!:bigrin:

the only thing i can think is to get him drunk to break the ice... you know with a few drinks in you usually you are open to more ideas heheeheh... also when people are typsy they tend to be more touchy hehehe