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BiPhone
Oct 1, 2009, 12:49 PM
Hi all! Whats the view on condom during oral sex (one with flavor)? If youre cruising and a guy says "I will blow you – but only with a condom" Do you go ahead or do you say "Forget it"?
Georgie_Girl
Oct 1, 2009, 1:28 PM
If you don't know that the other person is clean, I'd say it's a good idea.
csreef
Oct 1, 2009, 4:10 PM
I will never let a guy blow me unless I have a condom on...No glove, no love..I'm not going to catch AIDS or any other STD for that matter!
BfloBiFun
Oct 1, 2009, 5:26 PM
Hate the taste . . . I like it bare, I asked about risk of HIV, was told very low risk, but does increase if you have an open sore in your mouth, and suggested that you DO NOT brush your teeth 4 hours prior to oral sex. I also do select my partner with some discretion . . . .
diget
Oct 1, 2009, 5:33 PM
I will never let a guy blow me unless I have a condom on...No glove, no love..I'm not going to catch AIDS or any other STD for that matter!
same here, sept i wont blow a guy with out protection just because there's some nasty stuff you can get.:tong:
fredtyg
Oct 1, 2009, 6:02 PM
Unless I'm reading it wrong, the original question was whether you would wear a condom to RECEIVE a blow job, not make the guy you're sucking off wear one. I'd say there is very little, if any, risk of catching something from the guy that's sucking you off.
Devin
Oct 1, 2009, 7:16 PM
OK. I have heard from a nurse, at a clinic dealing with venereal diseases, that the risk of getting HIV from oral sex is very low - unless that other person cum in your mouth, that is. If that happens, then spit it out and preferrably rinse your mouth with water as well. A condom makes this act safer though.
Rik_G_Ferris
Oct 1, 2009, 7:41 PM
I had a woman scare me with the worst disease... so will never let a man do the same. but in a committed relationship I would let a guy suck me off. that's trust baby
Donkey_burger
Oct 1, 2009, 8:58 PM
I'd use some kind of latex or polyutherine barrier method for any sex act until both (or all) of us get tested.
I'm still a virgin, though, so of course I've never been in this situation. I am also female. That's just a future plan.
DB :bipride:
boca.openminded
Oct 1, 2009, 10:26 PM
sorry but im a little confused.
assuming the oral sex is without a condom, what are the risks?
Receiver: I've heard as the receiver there is a small risk but still a risk. The percentage goes higher if the receiving mouth has a opening (cut, sore, etc)..
Giver: same situation what are the risks as the giver? Sperm goes out it does not go back in so is there a risk for the giver?
well you know what i mean...
punkis
Oct 1, 2009, 11:32 PM
when im in a theater, or where be i always strap up.
Wont get caught slippin
roy m cox
Oct 2, 2009, 1:04 AM
um well if the person is not clean or has STD's then yeah ,,
or you don't like the taste of cum but i don't know any one don't like it,
but my bf can't get enough of mine ,
:bipride::bipride::bipride::bipride::bipride:
12voltman59
Oct 2, 2009, 11:36 AM
There are condoms with flavorings of various sorts with those flavors not tasting bad---it is too bad that it is the safest thing that we have to use condoms---but such is the way of things----if you don't know the other person is free and clear of any diseases --it is the safest way to "play"--of course--the only way to be 100% certain that you are safe--is to not engage in any sex at all with them because even with a condom---if they have something nasty---accidents do happen or the techniques used by one or both parties is less than perfect disease transmission can still take place-----sadly, it is really a crapshoot to have sex at all these days , because even if you think your partner is being honest with you and he or she is not out there "getting strange"----you can never be fully certain such is the case---many people have found that their supposedly safe and trustworthy partner brought home a nasty and they got an unexpected gift that keeps on giving till it takes everything away!!
Randypan
Oct 2, 2009, 2:14 PM
May as well suck on a dildo.:drool: If they are not clean, there's no chance anyway.
rick1958
Oct 3, 2009, 10:57 AM
rcdoak@gmail.com why suck a cock if you dont swallow all the cum isnt that why we suck a cock? otherwise what the point in sucking it. i always suck for cum mmm
Justin Chad Taylor
Oct 3, 2009, 10:53 PM
:bibounce:If you don't know the person then I would defintely use a condom. I know for me the best part of a blow job is swallowing that locious cum but it is not worth chances getting HIV or std's.:flag4:
jem_is_bi
Oct 4, 2009, 10:27 AM
I would wear a condom if requested to do so. But, I would decline the invitation to have sex rather than suck on a condom of any flavor.
Even though there is a risk of disease, I am not willing to never have sex
However, at the present time, I am in a long term exclusive relationship for more than just minimizing the risk of disease.
**Peg**
Oct 5, 2009, 11:15 AM
clarification:
http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/resources/qa/qa19.htm
shaftmngr
Oct 5, 2009, 10:14 PM
Since my biggest pleasure is receiving a mouth full of hot and tasty cum, I never have my partner wear a condom. But, I never have sex with a male or a female unless I know them very well and I'm sure no health issues are present.
JustplainJR
Oct 8, 2009, 11:29 AM
May as well suck on a dildo.:drool: If they are not clean, there's no chance anyway.
I agree. If I wanted a mouth full of rubber I would blow my dildo and wouldn't need anyone else.
rissababynta
Oct 8, 2009, 12:50 PM
If you aren't comfortable enough with the person that you aren't sure if they are clean or not, then it's definitely a good idea (however, I don't think it is probably a good idea to do anything with anyone if you are that uncomfortable anyway).