At what age did u get started being bi

[jackbirdjay]

All though high school was always looking at cock in the gym showers. Had a buddy, we use to stroke together watching each other but never any touching. When I was 20 wanted to do it with a guy so bad. Did it with a guy in his 50's. Sucked him dry and loved it. Havn't looked back since.

[diget]

creepy enough i was 6 when i started to notice body part on both male and female.:tongue:

[BiJoe696]

Well my first was on the desk of my boss, at work when I was in my mid teens. Knew he was gay, about 30 yo, and he rubbed my crotch area and I knew what was going to happen. He unzipped me then went to work on me orally. He spent the summer doing me almost daily and sometimes a couple times a day. I sure enjoyed it. He only wanted to give oral and was very good at it. He was happy spending lots of time pleasing me with his mouth and I just laied back and enjoyed. First session probably lasted 5 mins but he would spend an hour or two working me over as time went on thru that hot summer.

[Realist]

As long as I can remember, I've been drawn to both genders. But, compared to some, I was a slow starter. My first orgasm was induced by a much older neighbor sucking me, just after my 14th birthday. That was 55 years ago! His 40 year old married daughter was my first female, the following summer. I don't know how I kept the secret, but neither the dad, or daughter, ever knew about the other. I've vacillated between degrees of interest for both genders, but hover at around a 2, on the Kinsey scale.

[M. Wolfe]

I noticed girls becoming attractive at around 11-11, but guys didn't start becoming attractive until about 14-15 so I was well confused. Took me a long time to get my head around how and why the attraction was so different for either gender.

[Rik_G_Ferris]

Well my first was on the desk of my boss, at work when I was in my mid teens. Knew he was gay, about 30 yo, and he rubbed my crotch area and I knew what was going to happen. He unzipped me then went to work on me orally. He spent the summer doing me almost daily and sometimes a couple times a day. I sure enjoyed it. He only wanted to give oral and was very good at it. He was happy spending lots of time pleasing me with his mouth and I just laied back and enjoyed. First session probably lasted 5 mins but he would spend an hour or two working me over as time went on thru that hot summer.

wow that's so fraking hot!

I noticed girls about the same time I noticed boys. I was in the second grade and would do the whole looking up girls skirts but at the same time there was a neighborhood boy who I would explore me, and I him. we were the same age (7ish). I ended up moving away a year later and found myself a exploring the babysitter's daughter and never looked back until I was about 17. I begin to notice boys again. I though I was gay and super confused...until I hooked up with my first real girl friend. she was bisexual and helped me open up sexually. but after we broke up I felt a little weird without her and just avoided my bisexual as best I could untill a couple of years ago. I met a guy and be had me at the unzipping of his pants. we only had oral sex and messed around but it finally made me realize I can't denie my bisexuality.;)

[Indaco76]

Nice post.
I've looked at girls for as long as I can remember. Even fooled around with two or three of them from, say, 4th to 8th grade, but nothing too serious. Then puberty kicked in and I started noticing boys too. Had a long period during which I forgot about girls completely (which corresponded to the first years of my 10 year long relationship with a man), until I met a new colleague of mine at 25 and thought "wow, she's SO hot!". My first real contact with a lady was only two years ago, and she's my current partner. So I guess I've been bi all my life.

[nocturnal08]

i guess mine starts at an early age because of a male family member around ages 6-8 then the babysitters older daughters between 9-12 i didnt know what to think from ages 6-8 but i was already trying to get down girls pants by the time i was 9 so when the 2 of the three daughters of my babysitter taught me how great the warmth of a woman was i was a seasoned vet by age 11 got a hard on and cum too 1 we had wrestling sessions which turned into passionate grinding sessions when noone else was home the other we shared bathroom time damned they smelled so good it wasnt until age 17 that i had sex with a male of my own conscience cuz i still remembered back when i was 6 or 7 so what would it be like now so i did it. by and large i didnt continue then until after i turned thirty and started going to gaybars with a girlfriend then..it crept back up again.i have liasons now and then enjoying this bi-side of me what i really would like is to find a couple to enjoy this love of life with me ..........Nocturnal---the night is my playground,the moon is my guide, earth firmly under my feet,so desire shall decide or determine what waits in store where my future will lie,i have all i can give including my bisexual-pride.......:three:

[csreef]

For me I think I was about 15 or so...I was Involved in Varsity sports & checked guys out in the showers. It wasn't untill I was In my 30's that I "took the plunge" fully, and now I have absolutly no regrets about doing so...
Today I feel great when I can catch the eye of both men and women, and flirt with each accordingly.. :)

[JessyRee]

Thought Id add my two cents here.I had my first girl on girl when I was 14.I knew before then that I was not like other ppl because I always just found girls attractive as well as guys.I believe it was one day over the summer during our second or third track practice..After running sprints we headed for the showers and of course I was one of the last ones in because I did a couple laps with a "friend".I dont remember how it came about but I just remember going at it there in the shower room.Weird how vague it is to me now.

[Devin]

A bit romantic, I was attracted to and fascinated by girls and women from an early stage on - as a prepubescent child from about age seven to nine. For instance, I used te get aroused by images of nude women.

When I was fourteen, I discovered a photograph of a young nude man in an art museum and I had an immediate, great interest in the artwork and its depicted subject. Later on, I found some pictures of nude men and discovered that members of my own sex also could turn me on. However, I had only fallen in love with members of the opposite sex until then, notably one girl at my age who was my closest friend at the time.

When I was seventeen, I received some friendly attention from a young, gay man - as far as I know. I admired him for his looks and appearance and I soon became a bit infatuated with him. This was the first time I fell in love with a guy. I felt it as very confusing. Was I gay or bi, or was it just a phase?
I started having intercourse with women when I was eighteen. I also tried to have some kind of sex with a buddy in the same period but we never did anything with eachother really. It wasn’t until I met a bisexual email friend at age twentynine that I really had sex with another guy. This also happened because I was in love wth a male colleague and I felt I just couldn’t "go through life with one hand tied to my back" anymore.

I believe that emotions do play the biggest part so I’d like to say that I discovered my bisexual side when I was seventeen. If your’e thinking about sex, however, then I was twentynine.

[innaminka]

I don't think you wake up one morning and shriek, "Halleluja, I'm Bi (or Gay or TG or Calithumpian or whatever!))
I think we're born with it - but the understanding of each individual's sexuality takes as many forms as there are grains of sand on a beach.
(Sorry, very Kung Fu there!)

For some, its obvious and overwhelming from an early age, others have a slower transition, whilst some, like myself only come to the realisation far later in life. Some never do and just live plain, unhappy lives.
Social mores and institutions have an incredible influence on our lives.

Personally, I knew there was always something not quite 100% satisfying with my relationships with men! I loved the sex, but there was always a sense of unease deep down. That I was Bi/Lesbian never occurred to me.

In my early '30's, happily married, 2 daughters I had a sexual encounter with a woman (also her first) and from those unfamiliar fumblings, it was as if I was complete.
It was so right!!!!!

So I came out to myself at age 32.

[Donkey_burger]

What's interesting is that if I could've understand the whole "some people really don't fit into the gender binary" thing (and, frankly, if I, and the people around me, were better at communicating), I would've come out when I was four or five, or even earlier. I think a very small part of sexuality isn't really sexual at all, but rather 100% aesthetic.

[monk93]

I have ALWAYS been attracted to women. Had no idea there was such a thing as gay/lesbian until I was in high school (can you san "incredibly sheltered"?) and had never heard of bi until by best friend asked me if I was several years later. had to look it up! Very sad. Thought it was natural to be attracted to both men and women.

Still coming to terms with myself, but I've only had one f/f relationship that didn't end well. Makes me hesitant to try again. Doesn't stop the attraction though. Thank God (who or whatever that may be) that I have a wonderful supportive spouse!

[roy m cox]

um well i have always been sines kindergarten i loved looking at others of the girls and the boys and was very attracted to them , my first girl friend was when i was 8 and my first boy friend was at 12 ,,,

so yeah i have always been bisexual :flag1:


:bipride::bipride::bipride::bipride:

[bicureus]

I was in my mid 20's, I was watching my girlfriend suck my roommates cock. He was busy going down on her. I wanted to touch him. I had never had that feeling before. I watched him cum in her mouth, later that night when we kissed I could taste his cum and I liked it. That was 30 years ago and I have yet to suck my first cock......one day

[clware706]

For me I started at a early age of 8 and it was with an older male cousin of 12we both being curios and palyfull. He was only around in the summer time and i just could wait untill our next roll in the hay. I did not have my first woman experence untill i was 18 and found out i loved the jucies of a woman as well.
I fortunatly found a wife that i was open to about my bisexuality and she excepted me for that. We have now been married for 10 years and had some great times. I still get men when i want to or have a itch that needs to be scratched. I hope i can find me a man that is willing to be bisexual with me and is able to share himself with my wife and myself equally.

[Wolf_Sr]

I am not quite sure how to define "start", I had plays with brother and friends, mutual masturbation at about age 10-12, than a long straight sex life and suddenly from 5 or 6 years a kind of curiosity and remembrance of those good times came back strongly and I find myself frequently dreaming on the subject...
so I thing we are all bisexuals from the beginning, it is the awakening that is contained by the social environment one lives.

[mikey3000]

Well I got started kind of young. I was first rimmed, gave and recieved b/j at about 9, with another neighbourhood kid about the same age. Fooled around a bit in the high school showers, as was the norm. But went "straight" at 18 till my mid 30's. Had my first true gay relationship then, and been bi ever since.

[marc_nola]

From back as far as I can recall, I never knew about, let alone thought about desiring the same sex. Not sure if I even knew what gay, let alone bisexual was at the time. At 14, I saw my first two girl magazine pictures. Till then it was always a man and woman in that 70's 80's picturesque layout. Upon seeing the two girls, in very romantic, estacy settings was more than words could describe; and the pictures of them kissing.....well...wow! After that I enjoyed more and more pictures of two females as much if not more than a man and woman. Then at 16, I had my first bisexual encounter which happened out of nowhere. When it happened, I was not feeling bi or curious or such, it was something erotic, exotic and so taboo feeling...that it had to be right. In fact afterwards till my early 20's, I did not think of these new forbidden desires I had as being gay or bi... they were just a good feeling to me. All the while enjoying sex with females and males. Now, seems everything is labeled, but I feel perfectly normal desiring females and loving each encounter, but that deep down, secret, forbidden desire to enjoy passion and estacy with another male is there and as erotic as ever. Just knowing more reality now, things do now always occur or present themselves as we wished they did.

[shaftmngr]

At around 10 or 11 an older cousin decided to "teach" me about sex. He had me stroke his cock which at that time was much bigger than mine. I hadn't developed yet. I loved the feel of his hard cock in my hand and would stroke it for him every time we got together. After he moved on I had no trouble finding other boys who would let me play with their cocks during my teenage years. That was some 40 years ago. I got married and pushed my interest in men into the closet but continued to steal glances of cocks in locker rooms and showers. I do now have a friend that I have known for about 5 years that I see 3 or 4 times a year. When we have he opportunity to be alone together we will suck each other. I once told my wife of my interest and she didn't approve so we have to be discreet.

[shaver6]

I started having sex with boys, when I was 11 years old, and I continued to have sex with males only until I was around 40. I really didn't have any desire to have sex with females...although I was a little curious as to what it might be like.

When I was around 40, I started getting more curious about females, and started looking for opportunities. I was seeing a young guy at the time, who was 20, and he had a girlfriend who was 19. The girlfriend and I had talked on various occasions when her boyfriend wasn't around, and she was fully aware, that her boyfriend and I were having sex....and didn't have a problem with that.

One day I mentioned that I had never had sex with a girl, and was curious to try it. She said that she never had sex with a gay guy..and she was curious about that. One thing led to another, and finally one day we both wanted to satisfiy our urges, so we had sex. It was exciting for me...but more because it was new and different....almost seemed kind of "kinky"...rather then really being turned on by the female body. After that, for almost a year, she would call me about every 2 weeks, and invite me to come over and "get naked" The boyfriend never did know we were having sex together, and of course...I was still having sex with him......:-) LOL

[jdsd71]

I knew i bisexual when I was seventeen I had already had been with a few girls and enjoy it. I had a male friend who introduced me to bisexual world. I socked my first cock and j/o and really enjoyed doing with a man and learned much more later. Never would look back on my life.

[coybim]

When I was born. Just as everyone is.:three:

[fairykisses4u]

Well, I really dont know where to start. I love having sex with men & many men at one time. But it was a few yrs ago that I had a woman go down on me, & it was fantastic, I moved around and screetched like no man has ever made me do. My husband was wondering what she was doing to me to make me act that way, so he questioned me to find out so he could do the same things to me. Well, I really could'nt explain it to him, because I was in the moment. Since then, I have kissed women & sucked tits, but I can't seem to go below the belt with them. I really want to, but I want it to be special and not a 1 nighter and never see her again. (I've seen this happen to others) So my hot sexy self, now at the ripe age of 51 is still waiting! Should I give up? I often wonder, or should I keep trying to find that special woman?
I think that I am alittle kinky too, because I love to watch men together, even with my hubby, it makes me instantly wet & ready. I also would love to find that special woman so we all could have open sex with each other, how beautiful it that, just like on the Island of Lesbo off of the Greek Isles, what a beautiful time that must of been (Look up "The History of Sex"). Thankyou!:female:

[lilme]

I was 15 ,and it was my first time being involved with sex. I did not had a male until I was almost 17. I loved being sexual with a women and still do now.

[cpadmitchell]

There was a difference between being aware and actually acting on it. While in high school, something was missing in relationships with girls. While in college a male friend stood behind me with his arms around my waist and I knew I enjoyed the feeling. I knew he enjoyed it as much.

[nicki1060]

I was 14 and horny all the time. A friend and I got into his fathers porn stash and jerked off together, graduated to mutual J/O, then 69ing. He and I kept this up several times a year until we were 18 and he was killed in a car accident. I was straight after that, married 3 times and now in mid 40's. I met a new friend who had a somewhat similar story. We were watching a porn movie one afternoon and just started jerking each other off. That was in 2004. He just recently moved away so I'm now looking for some new friends to play with.

[open2both]

EIGHT.
Long (or not so) story

[hairyman43]

I knew I was bi at 16 or 17. I didn't have sex with a woman until I was 20. I had my first man when I was around 35. We gave each other oral and I realized I loved it. I had anal from a man 3 years ago after my divorce, and I love it also. I enjoy both sexes equally and I love the differences of both. I enjoy the softness of a woman's body and the hardness (no pun intended) of a man. My fantasy is to have a threesome with a man and a woman, or with 2 men.

[jimjam]

when i was 35yr old by them i was married and kids wish found out when i was young

[bi42guy1958]

My first time was at 13 I guess. I had a black guy that was a friend and we started out by jacking ourselves looking at the women in thier bras and panties of the advertisements in the Sunday paper. It eventually led to sucking each other and although I was curious about tasting cum I never had the nerve to try it. I have since then and love the taste, although all is different.

[bowhunter0000]

My very first taste of cuck was at age of 13. Off and on now for years, I'm 47 and love sucking. Shaved uncut cocks drive me wild.

[Summerlin1973]

I think I was 13, but wasn't sure until I was 13 1/2

[boca.openminded]

An exgirlfriends fantasy was for me to be with another guy. At first it turned me off but the more we talked about it started turning me on. Thats when I admitted to myself that I was bi curious. This was about 14 yrs ago.

I am still very very inexperienced (guess im too picky) but I first told a friend that I was bi curious was about 4 or 5 yrs ago.

[HelloToYou]

I think I was in middle school when my attraction for other girls started, but it wasn't until late high school that I recognized that I was not straight. It was only recently that I began identifying as bi. I'm in college now. I've still never been with a woman.

[13lss]

9 or 10

[BiJoe696]

Thanks Rik G. Here is a link to a web site where I recorded the story of my first time. Just touch the play button next to restaurant call. Give it a second to load and give it a listen.

Comments most Well-CUM here. I do not think the site is active anymore, recorded it a few years ago.

http://www.5on1.com/Audio/AudioSample.asp

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Originally Posted by BiJoe696

Well my first was on the desk of my boss, at work when I was in my mid teens. Knew he was gay, about 30 yo, and he rubbed my crotch area and I knew what was going to happen. He unzipped me then went to work on me orally. He spent the summer doing me almost daily and sometimes a couple times a day. I sure enjoyed it. He only wanted to give oral and was very good at it. He was happy spending lots of time pleasing me with his mouth and I just laied back and enjoyed. First session probably lasted 5 mins but he would spend an hour or two working me over as time went on thru that hot summer.

wow that's so fraking hot!

I noticed girls about the same time I noticed boys. I was in the second grade and would do the whole looking up girls skirts but at the same time there was a neighborhood boy who I would explore me, and I him. we were the same age (7ish). I ended up moving away a year later and found myself a exploring the babysitter's daughter and never looked back until I was about 17. I begin to notice boys again. I though I was gay and super confused...until I hooked up with my first real girl friend. she was bisexual and helped me open up sexually. but after we broke up I felt a little weird without her and just avoided my bisexual as best I could untill a couple of years ago. I met a guy and be had me at the unzipping of his pants. we only had oral sex and messed around but it finally made me realize I can't denie my bisexuality.;)

[rutemptedalso]

Well my first was on the desk of my boss, at work when I was in my mid teens. Knew he was gay, about 30 yo, and he rubbed my crotch area and I knew what was going to happen. He unzipped me then went to work on me orally. He spent the summer doing me almost daily and sometimes a couple times a day. I sure enjoyed it. He only wanted to give oral and was very good at it. He was happy spending lots of time pleasing me with his mouth and I just laied back and enjoyed. First session probably lasted 5 mins but he would spend an hour or two working me over as time went on thru that hot summer.

Oh My, this would be a dream cum ture!


I was around 12 or 13 when I had my first encounter and always looked at other guys after that. I was in my thirties when I finally stopped denying that I was Bi.

[Captainnasty1st]

Interesting topic for me..??? I was 58 when I had my first bi experience, and previous to that, I never gave it a thought..!!! It was with a group of total strangers in a natural hot spring in Costa Rica..!!! Their were four beautiful women, and five very fit men..??? As the men were competing for the ladies favors, the ladies got together and decided they wanted to the men give each other oral sex, duh, it was a no brainier, and I loved it...!!! As it turned out we spent three days together, and tried just about everything..??? I still don't consider myself bi, but I have, and will have more experiences experiences..??? What I have discovered, and don't know if it has a name, is having sex with a man when a woman wants to see or be a participant..!!! I like having a man cum in my mouth, and watching or sharing the "booty" with the lady..!! I also like a woman with a strap-on fucking me while I suck the other man off, but I don't necessarily like ass play with another man, even if the woman wants it..??? I have had a very few MM experiences, and didn't enjoy them, and couldn't cum..??? To me it's all about the women..!!!

What label would you pin on me if you had to..???

[CRAZMIN4EVERER]

When I was young, I got attracted by males. I have sex with more guys than girls. I like to suck cocks but some how I do not have a feeling of dating nor having a relationship with any guy. I have been married for 15 years now. My wife does not know any thing about me having sex with another man. I am too afraid tell her ... I love my wife and children .... I do not want to take a chance to tell her that. Serveral years ago, during intercourse, I put her finger to my ass and she knows I really like her to do that ... but she did not say any thing ... and keeps on doing that when we have sex ... I am really craving for cocks ... but I do feel guilty about that .... I wish I could get rid of this craving. Can u advice me what to do to overcome this?

[ready5858]

When I was 17 at a party that I got really drunk blew chow in his kitchen and was put in a room to sleep it off. Some where in the evening a girl came in the room, took off my clothes and sat on my now hard cock. Next thing I felt a hard cock pressing at my lips, so what could I do but was to open my mouth and take him in. In the moment I really enjoyed the whole situation and sucked him off to completion. Next thing I knew there was another cock to follow and did the same, at that point I was hooked. The girl finished me off and my friend took me home only to find out later that he was the second one that I sucked off. I continued to have sex with him until we parted ways after school. I have been hook ever since and need to have someone RIGHT NOW interested let me know.

[bisexualman]

I knew when I was 4 or 5. I always liked girls and boys. I played doctor with both sexes. I also find I can fall in love with either and can form a deep relationship with either.

[quiet1fornow]

I have always been aware of sexual pleasure I think...I used to masturbate starting at 4, although it felt great it did not produce anything...but pleasure. I started playing Dr. with neighbor girl at 5 yo. She and I would look at and then touched some...never more than that ....we did that up until I was 8 yo when my slightly older cousin and I began to explore each other.... we developed a group that went forward until the thirties..( not THE thirties until we were...I mean I am old but!!)

I have always been drawn to sensual pleasure...the touch, essence of another human...the vulnerability the openness So, I agree with many here I did not wake up and say I am anything bi or otherwise I have always loved the closeness and sharing of that intimate pleasure...

Q:cool:

[BluegrassBi]

I was six when I learned about sin from an older kid in Sunday school. I was eleven before I had sex with a girl. I've been married, divorced, raised a family, monogamous and promiscuous at various points in my life. All in all I make emotional attachments with women. but like to get down and dirty with both in any combination or mutually enjoyable activity. Give as good as you get!

[BiPride1]

I've known since I was 13. I had always really liked girls up until that point and suddenly I started to be attracted to guys too. I was really confused, because I had no understanding of what a bisexual was. I am in a very homophobic area so I ignored the feelings for the next six years. I didn't even realize what a bisexual was till I was 18, which was when I finally identified as bisexual.

[MsHoneyBun]

I stared when i was 10. My bestfriends ended be my first girls experience. The 4 of us had alot of fun. we used to pretend me were making a movie. it was a game until now lol. We are all still best friends till this day.. sand box love :)

[Karasel]

I kind of always been bi. Been attracted to both girls and guys. Though when I was 5 I tried to be mainly attracted to boys, because that's what I thought I was supposed to do.

That stage didn't last long, and I had a crush on a girl friend of mine in the 4th grade, it didn't go any where.. Thank goodness, because she isn't exactly the brightest crayon in the box.

I'm not much to enter into a relationship lightly, and only had one boyfriend and two girlfriends in the past.

But when I was growing up, Harley Quinn and James Bond was my major celeb-crushes.

[Bi-wed]

As a 14 year old fair haired blond with long curly hair. I was an innocent pretty boy Freshman. I was constantly being hit on by the upper classman in my high school. They apparently knew that I was bi before I did. Initially I resisted their repeated requests for BJ's. I was flattered to be so desired, and the idea of sucking cock started to appeal to me. Then one weekend I agreed to join a few of these older boys at a beer party. All it took was a few beers and I was soon on my knees servicing several boys in succession. I loved it immediately. It was several years with just teen boys before I finally had my first girlfriends in college. I have been actively bisexual ever since.

[TheDream]

For as long as I've been sexually interested I always assumed that I was straight but at the same time I've had strong feelings towards guys, I guess as I got older and learned about being gay, bi, and everything else I started to realize what category I fell in and that wasn't really any category until I started accepting who I was.... So I've been bi forever but I really accepted it when I was 15.

[dutchmale]

when i was 35yr old by them i was married and kids wish found out when i was young

sounds familiair :bigrin:
i kinda always knew (thinking back) or could have known (better said)
but i really started needing male contact at the age of 31 ...
:tongue:

grts ric

[sylar]

i was 27. I noticed I was paying attention to the size of guy's cocks in porn, and that (yes I know it's porn/"acting) it looked fun to suck a guy off. I wanted to try it. I found a really nice gay guy that was willing to let me experiment with him. I didn't make him cum but I was glad to swallow everything when he stroked himself at the end.

[Mmonty]

I didn't have any real interest in sex with men until late 30s. Just a passing curiosity then. No romantic interest, still none, but when an opportunity came around I tried it. Lousy first encounter. Glad I used more sense when I decided to meet with a different guy. Very pleasant. I still much prefer women and only feel emotion toward them, but guy play is exciting and satisfying in it's own way.

[niftyshellshock]

"Came out" to myself at 19 after 2 years of pondering about it and finallyrealizing it was okay :D

[nsabimale]

mid 20's - completely by accident....had a threesome with best friend and his lady...she herewanted to see him give me a bj....wow...so there ya go!

[IM_ME]

I was 16; ended up having a crush on my neighbors. The girl was a year younger than me and her brother was two years younger than me; both super cute. In college I had my first girlfriend for 9 years and never told her. She dumped me and it has been nice to date guys and girls.

[bicowboy]

:cool:I believe I was about 15 or so! A buddy and I want on a backing trip together. One night he said to me while we we're in our sleeping bags ''I got a hard on & it feels good'' The next thing I know my dick is hard. So he is in his bed and I'm in mine and we're strokin away at it. He ask if he could give me a blow job. I was so hot at that point the next thing I know he is sucking on my hard penis and it wasn't long till I came. So then It was my turn to plesure him with oral sex!.. So I did!... It was a fun week of camping to say the least. A few years went by till I was with another man sexually. I've been with a few other men since. After twenty years since I was last with another man sexually I got hot to have oral sex with a man again. So I told my wife about my past bisexual experiences and she got all hot & horny just thinking about it. Now we're both having some fun. It opened up a whole new experience for the both of us after thirteen years of marriage.:bigrin:

[bicowboy]

i was 27. I noticed I was paying attention to the size of guy's cocks in porn, and that (yes I know it's porn/"acting) it looked fun to suck a guy off. I wanted to try it. I found a really nice gay guy that was willing to let me experiment with him. I didn't make him cum but I was glad to swallow everything when he stroked himself at the end.

It is fun! and there is nothing wrong with it, it's only sex, it feels good & it's exciting. :male:

[Mikej069]

I knew I was bisexual before I knew what bisexual even was.My cousin and I use to jack off together and have so much fun on sleep overs.As time moved on we tried sucking each other and I was hooked the very first time his cock started squirting cum in my mouth.I swallowed ever drop and loved it so much.

I cant recall what age we were the first time I let him push his throbbing hard cock into my ass,but I discovered that I had to be really horny or in the right mood for him to fuck me.Im in my 40's now and love feeling a dildo or vibrator in my asshole...Yes,I'm bisexual !

[vengful-tenkatsu]

i've been stracted to girls since the third grade i guess but the guy part comes in at 9 i think my first male experiance was with a neigbor we sucked eachother jacked off together but i stopped there and just told my self that i was jus exsperimenting as it is normal for some male kids to be confused or curious about such thing then at 12 i met this guy in school and was at a picnic at the park in school we snuck away to the more wooded side of the park where hardly anyone goes and started sucking kissing and jacking eachother then he whispered the he wanted to try anel with me i agreed so he let me fuck him and i liked it yes i liked it when he fucked me so i came out to myself at 12 but i was still confused and was teased and tormented all through school i only came out to a few of my friends until i was 21 and now im 25 so i have had many more since then park but the park ment alot to me and still does seein how i fell in love with him.

[bi_wm2003]

I knew when I was a kid but didn't try anything until my late twenties.

[biwmtrucker44]

From my late 30s I thought about it but never tryed to act on it till about 44:bipride::flag4::bipride::flag4::bibounce::color ::flag1::bipride::flag4::flag3::flag2::bibounce:

[biblissful]

I knew when I was 8 or 9 when I found my brother's playboy magazines. I loved looking at girls.Now when I see I a woman would catches my eye I just tell my husband.

[just4funINtexas]

I started suck my buddy's dick when we were just started puberty...checking each other out....who had a hairier body and of course seeing who's dick was bigger.. We'd beat off to porn and see who'd cum first. Then came our mutual j/o each other...and then sucking each other...swallowing every drop. I'd always make the first move. I couldn't wait when I could suck his cock. Then we'd start to party and together we'd fuck whose ever pussy we could. I loved watching him fuck. So during high school I was a cock sucker, pussy licker/fucker and once in awhile also enjoyed getting fucked by my buddy.

[upones]

first got sucked bymale in mid thirties then in late thirties gave my first bj and a couple years later took first cock in ass

[eitherway<3]

i started to notice when i was about 15-16 :)

[amorous945]

It was age 13 or 14 for me, as far as anything really definitive of bisexuality. There were some earlier playful, experimental kind of things that happened, but nothing really sexual.

[chapsmccall]

16 and no comment it was horrific

[a2smith09]

14 for me exploring sexuality with a good friend at summer camp. We stil explore together over 30 years later whenever we get the opportunity.

[Loveheart_94]

I think ive kinda known forever but its only in the past couple of weeks/months that ive come out to myself and others, best thing i ever did!!! :)

[jem_is_bi]

I do not remember not being bisexual. First sex with a male was very young, maybe 5 yrs old with another boy my age before I was in first grade. First, with a female was when I was 20 yrs old in graduate school at college. I still remember both experiences as wonderful.

[itsnormy]

5 with boys, 8 with girls

[olmizzou42]

Nice post.
I've looked at girls for as long as I can remember. Even fooled around with two or three of them from, say, 4th to 8th grade, but nothing too serious. Then puberty kicked in and I started noticing boys too. Had a long period during which I forgot about girls completely (which corresponded to the first years of my 10 year long relationship with a man), until I met a new colleague of mine at 25 and thought "wow, she's SO hot!". My first real contact with a lady was only two years ago, and she's my current partner. So I guess I've been bi all my life.
Indaco76 has hit the nail on the head. Regardless of what our experiences have been, if we're bi we've been bi all our lives.

[Coastocoast]

Indaco76 has hit the nail on the head. Regardless of what our experiences have been, if we're bi we've been bi all our lives.

That is not the case with me. I had never considered myself sexually open to anything with a guy until the moment it happened and I was 30. I had been interested in a woman at a party, she went home early, I was horny and was asked to give a ride home to a guy who had too much to drink. When he made a move to go down on me I started to push him away and instead said what the hell, leaned the seat back and let him. It weirded me out a bit when it happened and afterward. It took me a bit to become OK with the fact it had happened. I chalked it up to a one time event that I was not interested in repeating, was not turned on by it and if anything at the time confirmed my mindset that I was heterosexual. I had zero interest in men and nothing happened with a man again for years. I married and divorced, had a subsequent relationship with another woman go south and I became bisexual after this time. I reflected back on the male male incident that occurred earlier, was a bit put off with women and slowly became mentally open to men. It was a process and occurred over time. Unlike the first time it had occurred, when I finally got together with a guy I was open to it before it happened and it confirmed my bisexuality. I know many consider bisexuality to be something that was there all along but for some of us it is a process of change and an acquired taste.

[gotlek]

I was 13 when I lost my virginity to my boy friend.

[Rob1863]

I don't think you wake up one morning and shriek, "Halleluja, I'm Bi (or Gay or TG or Calithumpian or whatever!))
I think we're born with it - but the understanding of each individual's sexuality takes as many forms as there are grains of sand on a beach.
(Sorry, very Kung Fu there!)

For some, its obvious and overwhelming from an early age, others have a slower transition, whilst some, like myself only come to the realisation far later in life. Some never do and just live plain, unhappy lives.
Social mores and institutions have an incredible influence on our lives.

Personally, I knew there was always something not quite 100% satisfying with my relationships with men! I loved the sex, but there was always a sense of unease deep down. That I was Bi/Lesbian never occurred to me.

In my early '30's, happily married, 2 daughters I had a sexual encounter with a woman (also her first) and from those unfamiliar fumblings, it was as if I was complete.
It was so right!!!!!

So I came out to myself at age 32.

What a great answer, I've only just come out to myself aged 38 after many years of experimenting and a great deal of thought x

[larrywilldo]

My brother and I fooled around with jacking/oral when he was 14 and I was 12. He used to crawl into my bed in the middle of the night and start snapping my underwear as a signal to lift my hips so he could pull off my underwear. He would suck my cock and try to get me to suck his, and I would but mostly I really enjoyed him pushing that man sized cock between my legs as I squeezed my thighs together then he would make a mess on the back side of my balls and thighs. While he was doing that, he would be reaching around me and jacking my cock. After he got a girl friend, that ceased. He passed away in his late 20's, but we never talked about those incidents as adults. There were times he would suck me to completion as well.

[BareProf]

Either 12 or 13 I started running nude with buds and we'd stroke each other's boners. I love doing that fifty years later.

[chepe1944]

I was 65 when I actually started being Bi and have been that way for the last 4 years. I really enjoy it.

[elian]

Like one other responder, I actually noticed different body parts at a very young age, and I had my share of people "introducing" me to body parts when I was very young. So much for clear boundaries between love and sex growing up..but my true sexual identity didn't really form until I was about 11 years or so.. I experimented with cross-dressing a little. A few more years later I loved looking at guys a lot - locker room fantasies and all. I loved a few of them who were good friends in earnest. Feelings of attraction for women were there, but a lot more sporadic..with girlfriends in school and one or two classmates in college.

So I guess I've always had either feelings of love or sexual attraction for both men and women..it's hard to admit that for some reason but anymore I am just tired of lying. A nice girl was sitting next to me in the bar last night as a matter of fact but I think I made her feel uncomfortable by mentioning that I don't really drink. Oh well, guess I need to go meet someone at the "box socia"l or something instead..wtf... Honestly, I get tired of this..

[Annika L]

I've always found this question confusing.

If you're asking a question about sexuality development (which I doubt), then I'd imagine the answer is the same as the age at which straight people start being straight. I also doubt you're asking about whether we're born this way.

Do you mean when did you have your first bisexual experience? If so, do you mean when did we first experience the *second* sex? Or just when did you have your first homosexual encounter? (Cause for many people, that one came first, and realization that they weren't gay is what brought them to a bisexual identity.)

As it is, I see a bunch of people here answering a host of different questions...and I have no clue whether anyone is answering the one that was intended.

[cbj4162]

Well my first was on the desk of my boss, at work when I was in my mid teens. Knew he was gay, about 30 yo, and he rubbed my crotch area and I knew what was going to happen. He unzipped me then went to work on me orally. He spent the summer doing me almost daily and sometimes a couple times a day. I sure enjoyed it. He only wanted to give oral and was very good at it. He was happy spending lots of time pleasing me with his mouth and I just laied back and enjoyed. First session probably lasted 5 mins but he would spend an hour or two working me over as time went on thru that hot summer.

Fucking hot experience BiJoe! .... :)

[newporter4u]

I had one or two experiences early on, but then nothing for years. Finally when I was around 50 I began to think about being with a M/F couple and became more curious then I decided that I didn't want to regret not trying and got to have my first MFM 3some. She knew I was curious and as it turns out the guy didn't care who was sucking his cock so it was a very enjoyable experience.

[sailorashore]

Other than a little groping and jacking when I was a kid in boarding school, probably around age 12, with the other boys, I never really thought about guys much until I was 31, in 1977. I met a young, beautiful, openly gay man of 25, to whom I suddenly found myself very attracted. I was scared to death, but I found the courage to tell him, and he came over to my apartment that very afternoon. It was all so...forbidden, you know? The sex was so thrilling, and so intense that it scared me out of my wits. I didn't touch another man for almost ten more years after that. (What a silly fool!) Partly because of fear of losing my job, partly just fear of being outed. Mostly just chicken-shit! Shortly after discovering this website, I become involved with a woman who didn't want to discuss my bisexuality, didn't want me hanging out here, and wasn't into sharing. We were together for five and a half years, during which time I would sneak in an occasional visit to the chatroom here. Our relationship broke up last year, and since then I have only been sexually interested in men, though certainly I'm still attracted to the ladies. Actually, my dream fantasy is to meet a m/f couple, with a definitely bi result.

[iluvsatinpanties2]

I started playing with my older sister sexually when I was 7 and she 9. I used to lick her pussy and feel her up. My first bisexual experience was when I was 11 sucking my best friends cock. I sucked and stroked him regularly until we were 15. I still regret not swallowing his cum! I did not fuck a girl until I was 13. I did not have any more bisexual experiences until I was 18 and I knew I was attracted to both sexes but felt I had to hide it. Now at 47, I am totally out to my wife and she knows how many guys I have been with, what we did, at what age I started sucking cock and how many times I have swallowed cum. It feels good to be out to my wife but it is so difficult for me to find local guys who are safe, sane and into a guy who enjoys wearing panties & lingerie.

[Tabu61]

I was young when I had my first experiences with both girls and boys, maybe started about age 6 or 7. It was the typical exploring and seeing what each other had. Playing doctor, show and tell, daring each other sort of things. Several of us kids in the same neighborhood would play with each other...mostly touching, watching each other piss and sometimes poo. A few times we would probe each others ass with something like a crayon or toy. We had no idea about oral sex at that time. It became a regular thing to do when we were out of sight of the adults. As we got a bit older we went our separate ways and it stopped. When I was about 12, the daughter of my neighbor was 17 and she taught how to do oral sex on her and later got me to do oral a few times with another boy in the neighborhood...but we would have done anything to see her naked and touch her. We walked beans together for local farmers...if anyone remembers what that is...is basically walking a field of beans and pulling weeds. We would take breaks and go into the corn fields watch each other piss and suck and lick each other. She was always the instigator. That only lasted a couple of months during a summer.
I didn't do anything within a guy again until I was 35. I had gotten into swinging and would meet a couple regularly for threesomes. I had played with them for several months but never did any thing with the guy, only the woman. During a conversation we were talking about our experiences when we were kids and I told them about the activities I had with other boys. The husband had some similar experiences when he was a kid. The wife was really turned on by the chat and she suggested us sucking each other. We did and I have been actively bi since. It's the best when a woman is watching or participating....love to show off for a woman that enjoys seeing guys together.

[bluesky55]

I was fascinated with cocks early on in life. I had my first experience with a schoolmate at 14 & loved it but never let on to that. Had fascinations and desires thru many years without ever acting on them. After a divorce & a couple other ladies I decided at 50 to try it. Couldn't nor wouldn't go back to 'straight' (if there is such a thing) if I wanted. Truly love the pole and the hole.

[IndyBiFun]

I was late to the party. I was in my 30's when I first began feeling a different happening in me. I tried to deny this new feeling but alas, I couldn't. The first time I was with another guy was nerve wracking but I also felt a huge sense of "finally! Yes!"

I just wish I had discovered this part of me earlier in life.

[Randypan]

I was 25 taking a walk through the woods.

[Errin]

Sense before I knew what sex was. I liked seeing both men, and women naked.

[greatwhite]

My first experience started way early- probably 7. A friend and I were "playing swords" peeing at the same time. Evidently we enjoyed that, cause I recall "playing swords" so often we didn't even pee anymore. We just pulled our pants down and looked at each other. Looking turned to touching. Soon we were in the tree house sucking on each other. Then a third neighborhood boy would come over and and we'd all suck on each other, and even poke each others bums a bit. I'm not attracted to under age people, but I can still recall the feel of his tight, smooth balls on my tongue. I don't know how, but my older cousin (3 years older) found out about this, and I ended sucking on him pretty often in the woods around the house. He would get really hot and hard, while the rest of my play friends still stayed soft in my mouth. I was a sheltered kid, and didn't realize that girls didn't have cocks too. I was very attracted to girls early on, but I always imagined them with cocks. I even recall thinking I invented the 69 position while I was imagining sucking on a girl in my class, as she sucked on me. Of course, in this 3rd grade fantasy, she had a cock. This is probably a contributing factor in why I'm so attracted to male to female transgendered persons. At 10 or so i remember grinding and groping a girl, and she wanted to be part of me and my friends little sex exploration group (which was still ongoing). Unfortunately, I don't think that ever worked out.

My first penetrating sex was with a girl in my class when I was 15. She was very experimental and would put on lesbian scenes in pornos that she stole from her brother. To this day, I'm attracted to cock, pussy and ass. Totally pansexual I think. Still waiting to top the right guy...

[andyinboxers]

Started when I was 6 with by best friend and I showing undies to each other... If anyone wants to swap stories inbox me... LOVE sharing and hearing...

[Realist]

Just read Annika's post.

I guess she's right........for my first three experiences I was gay; I only had sex with other males.

Only after discovering sex with the ladies, did I become bisexual!

[chub-bi]

At 5 years old my neighbor (also 5) asked if he could see my weinie. I said sure and pulled down my pants. He dropped to his knees
and took me in his mouth. It felt good. Then he stopped and asked if I wanted to see his. Of course I said yeah, being curious and
all. Then he said do you want to put it in ur mouth?. I said ok and took him in my mouth. After a short time we heard a Mr Softee truck
so we ran home to get money. The oral went on a few more times over that summer.
I asked him how he thought of putting our weinies in each others mouth and he said he saw his Mom doing it to his Dad.

2 or 3 years later another neighbor asked me if I wanted to play Doctor with her. She played with my weinie while i played with her
boobs and pussy. I wanted her to put it in her mouth but she wouldn't.

When I 12 another neighbor and I started feeling each others dicks. He was a couple years older than I and was hung like a horse,
He sucked my cock and I think I had a dry orgasm. I couldn't even get his cock in my mouth but I did suck the head and after a few minutes was rewarded with a massive load of cum. This went on for several months until he moved to another state with his family.

I lost my virginity during my first year of college. I met this girl who was in several of my classes at a Halloween party.
We started dating and a couple of months later viola, I was no longer a virgin.

[harmless]

I remember looking at titty mags of my father's when I was 6 years old and getting a tiny little hardon on my tiny dick. Did not know why, nor did I have any":FEELINGS". Then at 12 years of age my bud and I used every private moment to suck each other off. Had lots of feelings then. Still do.

[lilbitofboth]

first post :)

I started to notice other men when I was about 6 or so. I had my first sexual experience with another man when i was 16. We were friends and wanted to explore. It was exciting and I think about it often. I didn't enjoy the company of a woman until I was 19. Both sexes offer different kinds of intimacy and i am not sure that i can pick which one i like more..so i don't :)

[networktech]

13. Had my first "total" sex with an older Man at 15. Been on the kinsey scale at 3 ever since.

[BareProf]

Perhaps 11 or 12, getting nude with buddies, getting a hard on just by being nude with them and we would stroke each other, generating some pre cum, not knowing what true cum was. I loved being nude with a friend, camping out in my tent, stroking each other, comparing cocks and pubic hair. Did my first masturbation to an orgasm at 13 after an older (16) guy in scouts showed us younger guys how to do it and what cum was. Didn't blow a guy till I was 26. His sucking me was my first experience. Didn't get female's a blow job until a few months later when I became engaged. My bi desires are strong, but seldom acted upon. I joined this site hoping to meet up with another bi married nudist guy near me in Florida. Nothing definite yet.

[Manfred]

I started thinking about men probably only within the last decade or so, much later in life than many others who have posted here. I started by looking at transgender sites and loving the look of an erect penis. Since then, I have gradually become more comfortable with my feelings of attraction to men, although I still have no personal experience. I was very happy to have found this site, and being able to read what others have posted, and to chat with others. So, thanks everyone!

[BIGUY123456]

I was interested in girls and found them hot but never had sex with them until I was 17at age 16 I started finding men attractive I went to the beach where was mostly gay and bisexual and it was pretty much all nude so I joined them and took off my clothes at age 16 I can't exactly remember when I first touched a guy but it was around 16I think the first thing I did was jerk off in front of him and he did the same and I would watch other people have sex.after that I would go to the nude beach for the next 20 years a lot and all I would do is touch or be touchedthe only time I tried oral once few years ago with a condom on him only did it for about 5 minutes

[andyinboxers]

Going to expand on my answer tonight

[NjbiGuy01]

Around 16: In my case: I was a very sexually oppressed kid. Italian-Catholic home life, sex "was dirty and bad", and I was so horny I masturbated many times a day. I had my first sexual encounter (getting a blow job from a girl and eventually fucking her) at 15. around 16 or so I encountered a group male jerk off party situation. A bunch of jocks in my school who shared homework to ironically make more time for sports and girls ! One day only my friend Mike and I were there and the experimentation led to mutual blow jobs and in subsequent meetings, anal sex, using his moms toys, and peeing and coming on one another in the shower....I was hooked, but more that it was simply more sex then whether it was gay or straight....later in life, I fell into MM MFM and a few MFMF scenes too. Attended a few swing parties, played on cruise ships (I worked as a musician), and enjoyed all varieties of sex and sex partners. I settled into marriage, and although very happy, the bisexual urges still come calling from time to time.....To my knowledge, I was never molested by anyone. Closest thing was some old creep on the Subway offering me fifty bucks to let him suck my dick. I found that repulsive, although it didn't turn me off to sex...

[koobee]

Awesome to read your statement as I, Too, shared the very same at about age 6 with my sister, my male cousin and a few more when we'd play ' Doctor ' !!

[dickhand]

My first sexual encounter was with a male cousin when we were 11 or 12 . I was an only child and he was the late surprise . His brother and sister were much older than us and out on their own by then . So we used to sleep over at each other's houses often . We both had frugal parents that bought us double beds with our moving out in the future in mind . So , we always slept together . Whenever we got rambuncsous , a mother would yell up at us to settle down and go to sleep . By the time we were becoming sexual , it must have sounded the same downstairs as they would yell upstairs at us to settle down and so on . We always got a good snicker out of that . We started out doing ass rubbing and eventually fucking (accidentally slipped in one time). Took a couple years before oral was known about to be an option . My wife was my first woman the night before I turned 18 . What a birthday present . My cousin and I continued into our late 20s . During that time I played with his wife . Niether knew about the other . My wife and I continued until her passing . 30 years and 30 days exactly . One or two other men until she died and after there have been quite a few men and two or three woman . Some at the same time . I guess I've been bi all my life , before I knew what it was called .

[cuttin2dachase]

I was seduced by and lost my virginity to the 21 yr old girl cousin of a neighborhood bud/schoolmate when I was 14. Henceforth I was girl crazy ! About a year later when I was 15, I camped out with a 17 yr old guy (also a neighborhood bud/schoolmate). He had brought a couple of Playboys and beers and I snuck some of Dad's smokes. Our camp was behind a house that was under construction in our subdivision. We made a fire with the heaps of scrap lumber pieces, drank, smoked and perused the mags. He asked me if I ever beat my meat and I sheepishly said yes. He suggested we get nude on our sleeping bags and jack off to the pics. He began and I soon followed suit, then he suggested it would be more fun and feel better if we jacked each other and imagined it was a girl's mouth or pussy on our dicks. Before I could say anything he sat next to me and began stroking me. It did feel good and I returned the favor although I thought it was weird. We came in each other's hand. It began to rain and we moved inside the basement and went to sleep in our separate sleeping bags. At some point later, I awoke to feel his mouth on my cock, but I feigned sleeping and moaned when I came again in his mouth. That too felt good and weird lol. I debated whether to "wake up" and return the favor but decided not to. After that homoerotic experience, I put it out of my mind. Through high school and college I was a ladies man. I married at 25 and 1st wife and I took up swinging with other married couples in 4somes and with men in 3somes. She coaxed me to try oral sex with men as part of our foreplay with men and it was only then that my mind flashed back to my only other mm experience. I agreed to try it only if another man initiated the play. It finally happened when I was 32. I was pleasantly shocked at how much it turned me on to be sucked by a man and to have a hard cock in my mouth to suck. I was hooked. After wife and I split up, I pursued a fantasy of being alone with men for 1 on 1 fun and have been meeting and enjoying sex with men and couples with bi men off and on ever since !

[scapegoat1987]

Not to be a smartass, but I started being bisexual when I was born, because I believe that I was born this way. Bisexuality is my orientation. I clearly remember being attracted to both at a young age, and I had a same-sex relationship all through jr. high and then switched to dating girls all through high school, although I did fool around from time to time with a guy during high school. After graduation, I came out of the closet and lived an openly bisexual lifestyle, dating both men and women until the age of 25 or so, when I began to exclusively date men and to identify as gay for about 20 years. But the entire time that I was identifying as gay, a woman would come along every five years or so and rock my world by making me question my gay identity. And I certainly had a number of intense emotional and romantic relationships with women during those years, even going out on dates and cohabitating with some of them. So, I suppose bisexual behavior has always been there even when I identified as something else.

[mikeyd270]

I have probably always been bi. I was curious as a teen but did not act on it. I had my first man at 39 and probably now lean more toward gay.

[smokindeist]

I had a therapist tell me recently that studies are suggesting that our orientation is set by the age of two. Now it does take a while under normal circumstances for us to even start thinking about our sexuality and to get the guts to act on it. I'm in my 40's in it wasn't until recently that I came to terms with this submerged aspect of my sexuality, but I could look back and see that there was something there I was too scared to acknowledge or act on.

[Lover_Not_Fighter]

Well I was 12 when I got my first experience! It lasted about 2 yrs and he was about 32, he got a transfer to the mid-west and that was it till I hit 18. No one would consider it till I was 18! I just got lucky with my first and we just hit it off. No he wasn't my teacher! but was a down the street neighbor which is gay. I happened to walk by his place when he was working in the yard, I stopped introduced my self. I knew he had just moved in only a month or so before. The conversation got around to girls and I just kinda said I had this thing for guys. At that point he knew that I knew he was gay. Which he did admit at that point. I told him I was attracted to him!! He is really cute!! Anyway he was not interested because of my age. I argued the fact then how am I going to find out if I'm bi, gay or straight or just confused!!!

After about a week he caved in!! Well afterwards he did admit he was interested but he could get in deep trouble if anyone found out. I assured him just don't tell anyone!!

We were able to keep our relationship on the hush hush. I used the fact he was having me cut his yard, and teaching me the fine art of woodworking! Which he was actually!! Besides teaching me about my sexuality.

Years after our relationship ended he was the only man in my life I would have considered my better half if you may!!! Even though I'm not gay but bi I still would have given it a go if it was possible!! I relize now it wouldn't have worked out but there was some strong feelings between us!!!

[jefferybimm]

I guess for a long time I looked at males and they intrigued me but I never acted on it until..... I was about 37 or 38 years old and traveling on business. I was in a lobby bar of a hotel in St Louis and having a few drinks talking to others at the bar after a grueling day of training. I had been rubbing my neck due to a head and neck ache I was having that was probably stress induced. The young guy next to me who was also traveling on business had gotten up to use the restroom and when he came back he put his hands on my shoulders and neck and started massaging me and he said to me "I can get rid of that stress!" I laughingly told him he had an hour to stop! He sat down again and we ordered another drink. He then started telling me how he had been to massage school but that was not what he was doing now. He suggested that he really could help relieve that stress by giving me a massage. By this time I think we were both feeling the effects of the alcohol and I agreed to take him up on his offer. We ordered a drink to go and went to my room. He told me to get undressed and he would then give me a nice massage. He went into the bathroom for some lotion and when he came out he was nude also! I was face down on the bed at this time and he started massaging my back with the lotion and his big warm hands. I realized I was really enjoying this! He went over my ass and down my legs and when I looked over his cock was starting to grow and I knew he was getting into this also. Remember, I had never been with another guy before but I was starting to enjoy this. And I could feel it down there where it counted! When he told me to roll over I had an erect cock that just sprung straight up! He then said, I think you like this and of course by that time I had to agree! As he massaged my legs he would make sure he would rub his hands around my balls to make me squirm even more. He asked if I liked blow jobs and I told him yes but since I'm married she doesn't do it anymore so he volunteered! That was probably one of the best blow jobs I have ever had! I realized I really liked this and there was nothing wrong with it. I didn't do anything for him that time but we hooked up a few more times when we could arrange to be in the same town on business. I then began looking for others and that is how my bi lifestyle began. I am a very oral guy and still love eating pussy but also really, really enjoy sucking cock and watching another guy explode!

Jeff

[James000]

i was 15

[stonebow]

When exactly does one "start being bi"?..depends on how you define it. I had been molested by an older boy at age 5, and willingly (perhaps eagerly) experimented with another boy at 10. Began fantasizing about it while jerking off when I was around 14 or 15 but I had my first consensual sexual act with an adult male in my late 20s. It was not until I met a wonderful open-minded, free-spirited bi lady that I was able to fully embrace my bi side.

Growing up I was always attracted to females. Never saw a guy and thought "Wow, he's hot!...I'd like to suck HIS dick." Nowadays I will sometimes look upon men with that kind of desire...still rare though.

[whispering]

Well, I guess it depends on how you figure it. Before puberty, my friend and I would jack off together, and I started pursuing him to do more, and eventually tasted his first drops of cum. I was chasing girls in the schoolyard to kiss them, but knew virtually nothing about sex. At sixteen I started going over to a teacher's house, and late one night he asked to suck my cock. The next time I was there I sucked him, and we did that a lot through college. Then I didn't do anything but always thought about it Like a lot of guys, later in life I thought, "why not??". I found some good safe partners, and got on my knees once again!

[DiamondDog]

Well I was 12 when I got my first experience! It lasted about 2 yrs and he was about 32, he got a transfer to the mid-west and that was it till I hit 18. That's not being bisexual or gay, it's being sexually abused by a pedophile.

[ghw132]

I guess I had my first experience at about the age of 14, when a friend who I was hiking in some woods with, asked to hold my penis while we were peeing. His touch sent shock waves through my body and gave me an instant erection which he knew exactly what to do with. We had a twice a week relationship all that summer. We experimented with everything, masturbation, oral, anal. I came to love being his bottom. I believed I was gay and attracted only to guys until, the following year when I met a blond girl about 13 and we started exploring each others body. We began to have sex about a year later and that ended my relationship with guys for many years. Some 15 years later after being married to my wife for 8 years, she came to me she wanted to have sex with an old male college friend, but did not want it to end our marriage so she suggested we do it as a threesome. He was a very good looking man with a really nice cock and during one of our meetings I decided to go down on him and he didn't stop me, so from then on me and my wife took turns. That ended after several years and I have been without male companionship for years. Would really like to be somebodies bottom. I think most guys probably have a bi relationship starting at about 10 to 12 and discover sex that way and later after having sex with women they find it equally rewarding. But a some point they want to return to that nsa male on male sex of their early sex life. Now with each passing year that need continues to grow.

[Bishy37]

I always loved girls. I didn't realize I wanted more until I was in my early 20s. I learn more about myself to this day. I'm 40 now. I stopped fighting it and now I'm ok with the things that get me going but I'm still not out. That part sucks!