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diget
Sep 27, 2009, 5:44 PM
i am wondering how would i find a friend that is bi?
mind you known of my friends would ever openly admit it to any one.:male:

Realist
Sep 27, 2009, 6:53 PM
I've only actually sought out bisexual relationships, on one, or two occasions. The rest just seemed to appear out of the blue. I actually met my last lover, a bisexual lady, right here, about a year ago.

A friend met his lover on Craigslist. Another friend met her lover on a site called "Plenty Of Fish".

Social functions, that cater to different lifestyles are good places to meet others. The closer you are to a big city, the better your chances, I'd think.

southerncpl
Sep 27, 2009, 8:33 PM
I never had any luck on POF, but my bf met his bf on craigslist.

A while back on one of the posts here there was a link to a site for couples looking to swap but I can't remember the name of it. Anybody know what the name of it is?

FalconAngel
Sep 27, 2009, 8:50 PM
I never had any luck on POF, but my bf met his bf on craigslist.

A while back on one of the posts here there was a link to a site for couples looking to swap but I can't remember the name of it. Anybody know what the name of it is?

Which site. There are, literally, hundreds.

While we use some of them to find Bi males, we are on a few different sites.

http://users.adultspace.com
http://www.geoswingers.com/
http://www.okcupid.com
http://www.smutvibes.com

Here are some others, but they charge for anything worth joining for.

http://polybi.com/
http://www.bisexualplayground.com
http://www.swingerzonecentral.com/
http://www.bisexualmate.com/

Of course everyone's results may vary, based on what they are looking for, the area they are in and what limits they set for themselves and others.

Cherokee_Mountaincat
Sep 27, 2009, 9:22 PM
Tagged (One of the ones I am on) Plenty of Fish, and Hover Spot is a good place to start. Give these a start Darlin. :}
Great Luck.;)
Cat

_Joe_
Sep 28, 2009, 12:01 AM
I would love to find to find one.

Keeping it a non sexual friendship would be hard as hell though.

roy m cox
Sep 28, 2009, 4:29 AM
i have two bi friends one i dated but now shes just a good friend the other passed away 2yrs. ago :( and he was a very sweet guy to ...

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dickhand
Sep 28, 2009, 8:41 AM
There is one guy I met here years agao and we still get together occasionally . Once in a while I am introduced to a friend of a friend . Most of my contacts start at Adult Friend Finder. www.adultfriendfinder.com Being in rural (redneck) Maine , it has worked well for me .

Indaco76
Sep 28, 2009, 9:47 AM
I guess the point is: do you mean JUST friendship, that is, sharing a laugh, exchanging opinions and points of view and so on, or more of a friend with benefits relationship?

Devin
Sep 28, 2009, 10:07 AM
Have you never met somone? Maybe you have. Try to find someone who is somewhat open about themselves or at least relaxed about their feelings.

Often you will meet the straight bicurious ones who are only looking for a thrill. At other times you will meet a predominantly gay man who may want a change from the gay scene. In my experience, none of them are reliable. However, this is a generalisation.

Bisexual men can also be a challenge in the way that you have to be accepted by their mates as well.

Good luck!

FalconAngel
Sep 28, 2009, 11:18 PM
There is one guy I met here years agao and we still get together occasionally . Once in a while I am introduced to a friend of a friend . Most of my contacts start at Adult Friend Finder. www.adultfriendfinder.com Being in rural (redneck) Maine , it has worked well for me .

We tried that site and were very unimpressed with it.

BiJoe696
Sep 29, 2009, 6:57 AM
I agree with most of what is said above. I did not like AFFinder site at all. I got lucky and met my wife thru a Swing Mag ad long before Gore invented the internet 20+ ( who's counting anymore) years ago. As a couple (she not into 3 ways) we have met several couples thru an ad we run at :

http://WiCpl4Same.swinglifestyle.com

and a couple had Bi M's. We don't list the Bi thing on our profile in the ad there because its not something looking for at that site and if it happens fine. We in a very rural area so choices are limited. It is a site you can use free sending mail and viewing profiles if you are a couple or a Female I think. They do charge for single males. And there are a lot of single males on there looking for MFM or MMF's. So good luck.
Craigs works, but most seem to be one night stand types, word your ad towards what you are looking for and filter out the spammers, they are getting tricky on there in the responses, but you can spot them, Request subject words in the responses helps some.

Nikkigreen
Jan 5, 2015, 3:01 AM
We are also from maine. Any advice on places or sites to meet bi women? Ty :-)

Wizzee
Jan 5, 2015, 3:25 AM
Another place to check out is www.kasidie.com
It is a national forum with smaller groups or communities within, mainly for couples, but lots of singles in there, too. It isn't all sex, either, check out the list of various community major groups and the smaller sub-groups.
Really interesting to just look around.

centillini
Jan 5, 2015, 11:50 AM
I had good luck on okcupid, pof and craigslist is more miss than hit. Did meet a couple from craigslist that was fun till they moved, but nk luck since