View Full Version : If you were the opposite sex...
Devin
Sep 21, 2009, 9:43 PM
A woman here wrote in a post that she would have been gay had she been a man. If you were the opposite sex what kind of sexual orientation would you have?
If I was a woman I would probably have been straight and monogamous. I guess I would have found other women attractive as well though.
I think I would have been tough on the inside and soft and feminine on the outside. However, I have never imagined myself as a mature woman - only a young one. Someone like a Barbie doll with an intellect, dressed in tight jeans, with oriental earrings and long partly bleached hair. This is also a woman I somehow fall in love with as a man.
:upside:
littlerayofsunshine
Sep 21, 2009, 9:46 PM
If I was a man........I still would have been bisexual, but I would just pee out doors more often.
cand86
Sep 21, 2009, 9:59 PM
As I said in that thread, I'd probably be a bisexual guy, but I have a feeling I'd be waaay more into men, and it'd be more like the occasional girl for me.
I also have a feeling I'd be a pretty bad guy. I mean, I'm already kind of a slob now. About the only pretty girly things I do now are pluck my chin and Nair my upper lip, wear a bra, and paint my toenails red. If you freed me from dealing with facial hair and chest undergarmnets, why, I'm almost a dude anyways. I'd still paint the toenails, though :bigrin:
BiSouth
Sep 21, 2009, 11:18 PM
Fun and interesting question. I would probably be single and loose. Still probably bisexual though.
quandry
Sep 21, 2009, 11:27 PM
Likely bi. For the same reasons as now. There are things I like about both.
Biguybob
Sep 21, 2009, 11:40 PM
see to me to many social and gender related factors to be considered. growing up one gender dose not qualify you to imagine what it would be like to grow up the other. Girls and boys are told different things.. Girls are raised to believe that sleeping around isn't lady like, Boys go through puberty wanting to do it but girls don't feel the need to do it until after they have done it. and for many they do it the first time to please their boyfriend of to find out what it is like. Now I know this is mot true for everybody but then nether is being Bi
Georgie_Girl
Sep 21, 2009, 11:40 PM
I always figures if I was a guy I'd be gay, but now I'm not so sure.
Beefeater
Sep 22, 2009, 12:47 AM
In my perfect world, if I was a woman, I'd be bi and my dream job would be a "working girl" at the "Bunny Ranch"!
fredtyg
Sep 22, 2009, 1:57 AM
About all I could say is that, if I was a woman, I'm sure I'd be a slut.
Then again, I find most guys unattractive to me sexually as a guy, so maybe not.
ohbimale
Sep 22, 2009, 2:19 AM
If I had been born a female, instead of male, I think I would still be bisexual.
My sexual appetite would likely be the same, including my sexual leanings.
:flag2::male::male::male:
diget
Sep 22, 2009, 4:55 AM
If i were a girl and stiil had a mind like a guy i would be a shy slut, ready to be taken at any time. oooooo
kinda like a hentai, acting not so into it but always having a damn good time.:bigrin:
ide still be BI :)
deltawhiskey
Sep 22, 2009, 5:04 AM
No question - I would be bi
I can only imagine what it would be like to be one of 2 soft bodies pressing breast to breast
And to be beneath a strong man as kisses and enters you slowly
Indaco76
Sep 22, 2009, 8:41 AM
Nice post.
Whenever I imagine I'm the opposite sex, I've always pictured myself as a very straight guy. Probably feminine in feelings and pretty sensitive, but still a straight man sexually. In the past, I often dreamt I had a penis! And if I had it I'd love to make love to a woman like straight couples do. Actually I find it very annoying that I will never have the chance to feel the sensation of penetrating another woman with my genitals. That's really a shame.
Bi_Druid
Sep 22, 2009, 9:18 AM
If I was a woman I'd probably be just as bad as I am now, only it would be seen as more scandalous, lol.
I'd probably still be bi
brutal_priestess
Sep 22, 2009, 3:44 PM
I'd probably be a fag if I were a man.
*shrugs*
I've always kinda thought I'd make a more interesting man than woman.
Realist
Sep 22, 2009, 5:24 PM
Like a fellow long ago said, "I love women! I love 'em so much, that if I was a woman, I'd STILL love 'em!"
Short, tall, slim, chubby, black, white, yellow, brown, they're all so fine!
I love 'em, too!
Devin
Sep 22, 2009, 6:27 PM
see to me to many social and gender related factors to be considered. growing up one gender dose not qualify you to imagine what it would be like to grow up the other. Girls and boys are told different things.. Girls are raised to believe that sleeping around isn't lady like, Boys go through puberty wanting to do it but girls don't feel the need to do it until after they have done it. and for many they do it the first time to please their boyfriend of to find out what it is like. Now I know this is mot true for everybody but then nether is being Bi
I agree with you totally. It is because I would have been raised a bit differently had I been a girl, that I think I probably would have been both feminine and straight had I been of the opposite sex.
:wiggle2:
Billys_gurl
Sep 22, 2009, 10:44 PM
Do I feel honored or disturbed that my one simple comment started a whole new thread? I made the comment because that is the way I have always felt. I don't know why? I absolutely love women. Their smell, the softness of their skin, the feel of their... Sorry I was lost in that thought a minute. Anyway, I love men, my husband especially. I can't imagine not having sex with a man, as much as I love women I love cock to. :drool:
roy m cox
Sep 23, 2009, 12:09 AM
If you were the opposite sex i would still like male and female..
i would not like it any other way :male:yummy :female:yummy
:three:yummy
:bipride::bipride::bipride::bipride:
ready5858
Sep 27, 2009, 10:40 PM
This is interesting. Being a man and enjoying both men and woman, men sometimes more if I was born a woman for sure bi why have to pick one now
13lss
Dec 11, 2009, 9:30 AM
probably still both
rissababynta
Dec 11, 2009, 11:17 AM
I'd still be bi, but the only thing I've ever thought about having to do with this is that if I were a guy for a day all I'd do is jerk off and piss all day long...
MarieDelta
Dec 11, 2009, 11:42 AM
Hmmmm
Well if I were simply a man or a woman, life would have been so much simpler...
But then, I'm not. I can tell you this - I'd still be Bi because, at least for me, being bi has nothing to do with gender, but more to do with love.
I like men and I like women, they are the best of the world (heck I'd even date a trans person ;) .) Either way it's okay, you wake up with yourself...
graytwo
Dec 11, 2009, 12:13 PM
If I was a man........I still would have been bisexual, but I would just pee out doors more often.
Hopefully, with better aim than us guys. At least WE can write and draw in the snow without stomping all over our "art work'". :rolleyes:
mikey3000
Dec 11, 2009, 2:20 PM
Ok, I'll be the first to admit it. I'd probably be a straight chick. :eek:
cannibal4
Dec 11, 2009, 6:35 PM
Hell, if I were a woman, I'd operate like McDonalds Quantity not quality! and it wouldn't matter to me if it were a guy or a girl!
rutemptedalso
Dec 11, 2009, 8:47 PM
If I were a woman I would be Bi. I would want f%^*@$ all the time and I would want to help him please my same sex partner.
izzfan
Dec 11, 2009, 10:42 PM
If I was the opposite sex then I'd probably be very happy, but in terms of sex I'd probably be mostly straight, maybe snogging the occasional woman if she was very beautiful and/or an amazing person.
ready5858
Dec 11, 2009, 11:06 PM
It does not matter that I was born a male, I am interested in the same sex and what they experience. Born as a male, I very much enjoy both sex's and what they have to bring to the bed. As a male I enjoy a beauthful female body and what they can do in bed, but also enjoy being with a male what they can do that a female can't
goldenfinger
Dec 12, 2009, 4:23 AM
I wouldn't know the difference.If I was somehow turned into a woman with my male brain still intact, I would most likely f*** myself every day.:bigrin:
ironwood
Dec 12, 2009, 6:59 AM
I would still be bi.I would also be able to get it more.Beause a women has what most men want and are mor eaccepted being bi.Not that i care if other accept me i am happy who i am.
Agoofball
Dec 12, 2009, 1:06 PM
If I had been born a woman I would definitely enjoy being one sexually! I would be mostly straight with an occasional bi tryst as I love the taste and feel of a woman's body. BUT I definitely love the sensations that I get from sex with men and would groove on getting completely filled by cock.
12voltman59
Dec 12, 2009, 6:56 PM
Honestly----I could not say one way or the other if I would still be bi, straight, lesbian or whatever since my life experiences would be very different had I been a female--I have no idea what my life would have been like or where it would have lead me.
elian
Dec 12, 2009, 10:15 PM
As others point out if I was a woman more than just my gender and physical attributes would have changed so things might seem entirely different.
Having said that, I've often thought it's good I was born a man because if I grew up female in the same circumstances I would've loved the attention and affection of men probably quite a lot. maybe too much and had given birth to one or more children at a very young age.
Truth be told for a short time I thought I wanted to be female, things - on the outside at least relationships seemed easier for them - I was jealous of how easily men were attracted to them.
I've learned to live with the factory installed equipment, it's just easier - and a lot easier once you come to the realization of just how fake the stereotypical male image really is..men really CAN show emotion - honest.
With time comes wisdom and I have to say I've watched the women I've known struggle very hard and overcome many obstacles using their strong hearts and minds..being a woman is definitely not "easier".
Conversely some women seem to be jealous of the "independence" of men, and while there is definitely some societal bias that grants men privilege and power, always having to be the "strong" man has a lot of disadvantages as well. There is no such thing as an eternally smiling knight in shining armour - knights have bad days too.
BLCHGK777
Dec 13, 2009, 7:04 PM
If I was a man........I still would have been bisexual, but I would just pee out doors more often.
I second that!
the sacred night
Dec 13, 2009, 7:21 PM
see to me to many social and gender related factors to be considered. growing up one gender dose not qualify you to imagine what it would be like to grow up the other. Girls and boys are told different things..
I completely agree. THEREFORE, I will answer as if I was given a perfect, ideal sex change with no scars, all my organs worked properly and I was totally indistinguishable from a born male.
I WOULD HAVE SO MUCH FREAKING SEX, IT WOULD BE UNBELIEVABLE. That is what I'd do if I were a man. I'd have no fear about it. I'd just DO it.
Volley
Dec 13, 2009, 11:21 PM
:flag1:
If I was a woman, I would still be BI.
BI and loving it! :tongue: :flag1:
CWalt
Dec 14, 2009, 7:07 AM
If I was a female I would still be BI! Enjoy playing in the middle of the road.:bigrin:
paukenplayer
Dec 14, 2009, 11:17 PM
Interesting question.....
I have actually thought about this. If I were female I know I would still be bi, but I probably would have recognized and acted upon that fact much earlier....and would likely have been much more promiscuous from a younger age.
why? I think because society seems much more accepting of female bisexuality - I would not have resisted it for very long.
MickeyJohnson
Dec 14, 2009, 11:21 PM
Had I been a girl, i probably wouldve been straight or bi and a complete slut, to some people.
MissLadybug
Dec 15, 2009, 1:40 AM
If I were a guy, I'd definitely be at least bisexual.
Men and women both have beautiful features that I enjoy.
Men are strong and handsome, while women are soft and beautiful. Of course there is more to everyone than that but just saying in general
cliffordmontero
Dec 15, 2009, 4:29 AM
i think i would still be bi and still prefer men a bit too lol
phatcat
Dec 17, 2009, 11:04 PM
If I were a man, I would def b n 2 ladies...def not gay...2 me females have so many pleasurable things 2b done..not all men r willn 2 try whatever...women r 4 whateva,u can get cracked over the head 4 tryn certain things wit men lol
tpk925
Jan 26, 2010, 4:34 PM
If I was a woman? I'd be bi. I think would be fun to have a pussy. I'd never keep my hands off of it and putting fun toys in it. And have a guy with a big cock. And all his cum!!!
krrptyc
Jan 26, 2010, 9:16 PM
A cumslut is a cumslut is a cumslut.