still trying to figure it all out

[confused83]

I need some help from some of you in here. I'm 26, every since I was younger I would always look at the cock of the guy when watching porn, I always watched the woman but would catch myself checking his dick out. I never knew why, hell I was young. Now years later, I'm just confused. I'm not attracted to men the way I am women at all. With men it's just about dick, that's all I want. I don't want the kissing or anything, just his dick. I've just had a hard time coming to grips with my sexuality. Sometimes I think, "Am I really bi, because I don't want the kissing or any of that?" I'm not really asking anything just getting shit in my head out there I guess.

[Kermit Jagger]

Dear Confused,
I first realized my attraction to men by watching porn when I was about 22. Until then, I thought I was only attracted to women. I was facinated by the men's cocks and more than anything else wanted to be the actress. After all, she was the one touching, sucking, and fucking all those beautiful cocks. I still feel this way everytime I watch porn.
Look throught the profiles and forums and you'll see that some of us only want cocks and some want the kissing, hugging and fundling as well. Don't worry about labels. If right now you want cock, go for it! Good luck.

Love to all,
Kermit

[Realist]

Confused,

We are all unique in our wants and desires. But, there is someone out there waiting for you, who has the same interests you do.

I've had a few male lovers an a few sex-buddies as well. Some like romance and some just want pure, unadulterated sexual release, then that's all.

All you need to do is be specific about what you want and find someone to share those aspects with. Don't make it more complicated that necessary.

[diget]

i realized i was bi while watching hentai "anime porn" when i was about 17, i also am not for all the kissing and all of that and i was not attracted like most females to men. i realized ireally liked the ladied in more than one way......i envied them. they were beautiful and having sex and that looked like fun.

i can relate to the feeling of only liking the dick. here i will show you the manga that started me off just for the heck of it.

http://lu.scio.us/hentai/albums/naruto-style/2933368

idk i am a bit more attracted to males now, but i still prefer the ladies over guys.

[confused83]

thanx for the replies. my head has been twisted and everything for so long. i was thinking i have no label. and then thinking maybe I'm not bi because I don't like the kissing and rubbing. with the women the attraction is so strong, but in men not so much. I can look at a guy and say he's cute but that's about as far as that goes. there's no feeling toward the guy. It's just about his cock. I don't really care if he does anything with me, I just want his cock. Hope this makes sense, it barely makes sense in my own head. I've never had a guy one on one, it was always in a 3some, I'd like to. I think it might help clear some of this up for me. I'm slowly clearing my head and websites like this are helping.

[fredtyg]

Yep. Bisexuality comes in all shapes and sizes. For some guys it's just about sex and for some there's an emotional component. Some guys prefer sex with men more than with girls and some prefer both equally.

I've been told I'm queer and don't mind that because when I jack off I always think of guys. Then again, I see any number of women during the day that I'd love to have sex with, assuming I could.

I'd say if you really want to suck cock and don't have a problem with it, but are interested mostly in gals, I'd say that certainly falls within the category of bisexual.

[BiSouth]

Been in your shoes a long time ago. I love women, but have a strictly erotic attraction to men. I have been actively bi for about 21 years. I love pleasing guys, I get what I want by giving them what they want. Just wanted to let u know u are not alone in your feelings.

[csreef]

I was where you are my friend. Just take things slow & go with what you feel is comfortable. The Universe will give you what you are seeking, if you are open to it, and allow it to happen!
Enjoy what the World has to offer! Never allow yourself to have any regrets!

[mrplayfuluk]

ignore berserker he's a troll