my first threesome!!!

[mikey3000]

Wow! Had my first gay threesome last weekend. Absolutely awesome. Such a fantasy come true and much better that I ever could have imagined. It was with a friend and his partner of 25 years. And I was the anniversary present!!!:bigrin: It was like the best romantic porn you can imagine.:bigrin:

Just had to share!

[Realist]

Congratulations, Mikey! I've had two LTR 3-somes with a man and his wife and with two ladies and they are awesome, too. Tried others that didn't work out, but I feel lucky to have been in two successful ones.

I wonder if we're in an exclusive club...nah, I doubt it! How remarkable to find three like-minded people who can agree on anything!

[fredtyg]

Any way you could let us know some of the juicy details? Who did what, and so forth?

[codybear3]

Any way you could let us know some of the juicy details? Who did what, and so forth?


LOL... I thought I wuz the only perv here...:bigrin:... Do tell, Mikey... ;):paw::paw:

[mn freak]

LOL... I thought I wuz the only perv here...:bigrin:... Do tell, Mikey... ;):paw::paw:

Get in line Cody.

[fredtyg]

Get in line Cody.

Hey, nothing wrong with wanting to hear someone's exciting story.

[mikey3000]

Okay, okay, okay...

He was a guy I met on line last year. We have had many great conversations during this time. Then he told me he and his partner were coming up to Niagara Falls to celebrate their anniversary, and would I like to come meet and have dinner with them. I said sure, if it was alright with them. I didn't want to infringe on their plans.

Anyway the afternoon before the meeting I got a call from him saying that they arrived early and would I like to come spend the night. My heart began to race. We've flirted a little in the past, and I knew he was a great guy, so I thought what the heck.

I drove down and when I got to the suite, there was a nice spread of breads and crackers, cheeses, fruit and wine waiting for me. We ate and chatted and really got to know each other. After a few more glasses of wine he got up excused himself and said he had to take a shower. 10 hours of driving was rough on him. So while he showered I got to know his partner better. Great guy too and we had lots in common.

After my friend showered, I saw him, totally naked, try to fill the jacuzzi, but ended up spraying water all over the bathroom. There was a glass wall and I could see everything very clearly. I laughed and went to see if he needed help.

After we fixed the jacuzzi he asked if I cared to join him. I was very nervous and asked if his partner wouldn't mind. He said not at all, but I went to ask him anyway. He insisted that it was totally fine by him. Hmm I thought, what's up? But I went with the flow anyway.

I undressed and climbed into the shower only to be joined a few minutes later by my friend. It felt so nice. We slowly washed each other and rinsed and kissed deeply. They both dried me off as we went to the floor to ceiling windows and admired the view of the falls at night, all lit up. Spectacular. The three of us stood in the window and kissed for a while then slowly moved towards the bed.

There we all kissed and massaged and jerked and sucked each other for hours, all while talking about our lives and what brought us to this point. Then my friend was getting really excited, so decided to finish him off first. We took turns blowing him till he couldn't wait anymore and just exploded all over us! It was so hot, and we just rubbed it into each other's chest. Before we knew it he was passed out! LOL! Well, he did do all the driving, so we left him alone.

Me and his BF talked, kissed, rubbed and 69'd all night till after 4 in the morning till I couldn't hold on any longer. With him on top of me, with me in him and him in me, we started going at it like mad till Bam! off I went! He took every drop. After a few more minutes on my part, I did the same for him. Cripes, I was exhausted, but man did I have a good sleep.

It was just so awesome, I still tremble when I think of it. So much more than I ever thought it would be. And I'm so glad I did it.:bigrin:

[Realist]

Nice story!

It's great that your first time was relaxed and sensual, like that. I wish everyone's first sexual encounter was as good. Too many were introduced to it in ways that was less than desirable.

Luckily, my first time was good, but probably too early. I was just too young and immature. Don't get me wrong, I loved it and went back for more, but maybe it would have been better if I'd been better prepared for the severity of desire that it instilled in me. The timing seemed to be just right, for you.

Congratulations!

[fredtyg]

Yes, a fine story.

[cliffml]

Sounds like you had a great experience, I hope you get to enjoy more of them soon. I've had only one all male threeway and it was amazing, so i know what you are feeling and i'm happy for you.

[fredtyg]

This is why a lot of gay and bisexual men and women refuse to have 3 ways with rude couples who do this.

That's insane.

[littlerayofsunshine]

well speaking as one half of a couple who has had 3 somes and are still friends with them two years later. Shows what you know....

But I do agree that when it comes to bisexual women..Bisexual women will find couples who the wife is just doin the hubby a favor while fulfilling his fantasy. The 3rd person is just a dildo that moves on it's own.

Thats not how I am, or how hubby is, or how we work together. We treat the other person with respect, equally.


And I am sort of tired of the two gay men that participate on this site, having little to do with the opposite sex, describing them as nasty and fishy and hags and putting women down in general. Or pretty much saying that every bi-man that has sex with a woman, is just a gay man waiting to happen mentality. Now I don't mind gay people on this site, but bajeezus, have a little respect and courtasy, if you can't get a point across without hurting people who have no cause for such insults, then you have no point at all and are just flamers. Nuff Said!


Now on to the OP. Hunny I am so glad you had an experience that you are happy with. Amid all the things that could make an uncomfortable situation. You experienced none of those and went on to have a ravishing experience. Good for you! wtg!

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Obviously you dont know women, Horned Up. Not all 3somes turn out badly, and not all people are treated like a piece of meat like you stated. Maybe that happened to you, but it doesnt occure in everyone's world. :rolleyes:
Mikey, I'm happy that your first time was a 'rousing' success..lol
Hugs Sugar
Cat

[Realist]

OOPS! Time for disclaimer..................

Here's proof that a couple of whiskeys and a clear thought process is not compatible!

I wrote:

"Nice story!

It's great that your first time was relaxed and sensual, like that. I wish everyone's first sexual encounter was as good. Too many were introduced to it in ways that was less than desirable."

That's OK...that's what I intended to write, PERIOD.

Then I wrote:

"Luckily, my first time was good, but probably too early. I was just too young and immature. Don't get me wrong, I loved it and went back for more, but maybe it would have been better if I'd been better prepared for the severity of desire that it instilled in me. The timing seemed to be just right, for you."

That's where I messed up.............that was about my first sexual experience. I have no idea where that came from, because it is NOT related to this thread. Duh!

IF, I had written anymore, I would have said that my only successful 3-some with a man and woman, was an outstanding experience and for 13 months we shared the most idyllic relationship anyone could imagine. A few years later, I had a 2-year long relationship with two women. It was also wonderful, laid-back and rewarding......but I learned that even a 24 year old, in-shape, virile, and willing male, can kill himself trying to keep two women satisfied! Luckily, they were bi. (One was gay at the beginning) Never had a 3-some with all guys, though. Other attempts never did pan out.

Cat,

You're right, when three minds come to one sensual understanding, like that, it is a scintillating and mind-boggling experience. Those two instances were so intense and delicious that the memories still send electricity through me!

OK, here 's the lesson: Alcohol and clear thinking do not mix!

[onewhocares]

Speaking as the straight wife of a bi man who has participate in several threesomes, one lasting nearly two years, I have never thought of myself as anything but an equal to the two men. ( Unless you count the time that I was wrapped up in a nice big BOW.....loved the unwrapping!!!) Nor was I treated with anything but respect, tenderness and caring from any of the men whom we shared. The same can be said for the men who have shared our lives...yes shared our lives and just not our bed.

For me, and I can only speak for myself and how I treat the men who have shared my life. I have always enjoyed the special time when three are together. I make a conscious choice to devote myself to each man equally, with passion, desire and caring. I have never been lacking in gratification and attention from two men. I ALWAYS make it a point whenever we are together to make sure the men have plenty of time alone with each other to share private time with each other. I have always thought of myself as a considerate lover and would never treat the man I am with in any way I would not wish to be treated.

Belle

[12voltman59]

I think HornedUpRam makes much ado about nothing---

Mikey said that he was on a friendly basis with one of the parties---and that he wanted to meet this guy anyhow.

From what Mikey said in his telling of the story--it sounded as if one of those situations that qualifies as being, as they say: "A good time was had by all!"

So what the fuck if this situation was "an anniversary gift" situation with the partnered couple----it was a nice situation and hardly at all a coercive one in any fashion--it sounded as though both of the guys Mikey met took great care to make him feel welcomed and wanted by them-----we should all be so Frackin' lucky to find such a situation as this!!!!

My God--I love this site---but why do we always seem to have to have someone who has to "rain on someone's parade" by spreading negativity on everything any more????? I hate that shit and am GD Frackin' tired of that on here!!

Mikey obvously had a great time and so did his couple--let him enjoy the memory of what was obviously a fun time for him!!!

Way to go Mikey--the only thing negative I will say--I am jealous that it was you and not me that had such a great experience!!!!!!!!:bigrin::bigrin::bigrin:

[fredtyg]

-the only thing negative I will say--I am jealous that it was you and not me that had such a great experience!!!!!!!!:bigrin::bigrin::bigrin:

Well, how about saying it in a more positive way: I only wish I could of been there, too, and made it a foursome!

[mikey3000]

Ha ha ha!!! You guys are great!!!

Yes, I am on personal terms with one of the guys for a long time and talked about his partner often. I was anxious to meet them face to face. And none of us were nowhere near drunk. I know how to enjoy a drink without getting plastered.

And I was honoured to be the anniversary gift for both of them, to be a part of such an imprtant milestone in anyone's life. It was an overwhelming experience for all of us and it just felt so right. To those who don't understand (again-Hornedupram), fire away. Give me your best shot, cause I'm still basking in the after glow, and won't feel a thing :bigrin:.

[Curiouscourier]

That sounds good. I am a bi curious man wondering how it felt to have sex with another man? Right now I have told my wife that I want to have sex with a man as well with her at the same time. I gave the fantasy since I been a young boy. When I was about 12 or 13 I had an experience with my best friend, we were touching each other then I deciede to suck his cock and he came in my mouth. At the time I was shocked, but looking back at it i actually loved it. Now I am looking for the right man to sleep with my wife and I at the same time. I want to experience anal sex and sucking another man's cock. I also want my wife to be fucked at the same time. So the thought of a man cumming in my ass excites me. I am glad for you and I hope you continue to have those experiences. Hopefully you will keep us up to date.

[lv69cpl69]

Ha ha ha!!! You guys are great!!!

Yes, I am on personal terms with one of the guys for a long time and talked about his partner often. I was anxious to meet them face to face. And none of us were nowhere near drunk. I know how to enjoy a drink without getting plastered.

And I was honoured to be the anniversary gift for both of them, to be a part of such an imprtant milestone in anyone's life. It was an overwhelming experience for all of us and it just felt so right. To those who don't understand (again-Hornedupram), fire away. Give me your best shot, cause I'm still basking in the after glow, and won't feel a thing :bigrin:.

hey if you are still basking sounds like it was good for you so glad it was so good:bigrin: hope you can do it more!:male:

[mikey3000]

mikey,Your so called "friend" and his partner used you as a piece of meat and entertainment.

Totally not cool.

If they had any respect for you as a person they would not have done this or made you feel like you were an anniversary gift or entertainment for them.

What are you, a Preacher? Try it before you judge. If it's not your thing, fine just say so, but don't tell me how I should feel about my experience.

[Realist]

Excellent come-back, Mikey!

Touche`!

[mikey3000]

Really, I am not a child. I fully knew what I was getting into before it happened and I accepted it.

I have needs and they have needs. We fulfilled each others needs and a good time was had by all. You should understand group dynamics then if you are that experienced. Maybe they were my pieces of meat?

Either way, I wouldn't change a thing. Story over.

[stormalong]

Damn Mikey!! that storey was so hot!! If that was being a piece of meat, then baste me, me Bucko!!

[12voltman59]

Mikey---put Fall on your iggy list---its easy if ya don't know what to do--click on his profile--look for the green line towards the top portion of the page--to the right side--you will see the words: "add to ignore list"-click on it and just follow further instructions--Fall is a troll of some sort---don't pay him any mind---and hey---being part of a foursome would be really "HOTT!!" :bigrin::bigrin::tong::tong:

[PrettyFlowingGown]

I've never had 2 males at once, but would'nt mind it. I've only had a male and female, but that was still good. I love it when a share head-jobs on a guy with another female. Theres something really beautiful about it.

[the sacred night]

IF, I had written anymore, I would have said that my only successful 3-some with a man and woman, was an outstanding experience and for 13 months we shared the most idyllic relationship anyone could imagine. A few years later, I had a 2-year long relationship with two women. It was also wonderful, laid-back and rewarding......but I learned that even a 24 year old, in-shape, virile, and willing male, can kill himself trying to keep two women satisfied! Luckily, they were bi. (One was gay at the beginning) Never had a 3-some with all guys, though. Other attempts never did pan out.

Cat,

You're right, when three minds come to one sensual understanding, like that, it is a scintillating and mind-boggling experience. Those two instances were so intense and delicious that the memories still send electricity through me!

How did these threesome relationships get started? I have only known one group of three that had a relationship, and theirs only lasted a month before it was back down to two, so I don't know that I'd call it successful. I'm really interested in the idea of having a three way relationship, but don't know how the subject comes up.

[Realist]

Well, Sacred, it's a complex story............too long to write the entire thing, here. Let's see if I can condense it, some.

1961, I was in the Army, fresh back from a two-year tour in Germany, stationed in Kentucky.

An older married sergeant and his wife became close friends; they were in their late 30s. Unbeknownst to me, the husband was bi-curious and his wife was sorely un-sated. (Her husband thought she was becoming a nymphomaniac, because he'd been unable to give her an orgasm, since his return from Germany. She had always had a difficult time achieving orgasms, but it had gotten worse.)

I assume they saw me as a fresh, new conquest, of sorts. After several great dinners and lots of delicious mixed drinks, we all became very familiar with each other.

One night, the subject of sexuality came up and I discovered that they had never had sex with anyone else, but each other. I, on the other hand, had several sexual relationships under my belt, with both genders. At the time, I had been with 3 males and 3 women. The alcohol loosened my hold on some sexual secrets and I admitted to being bisexual.

(Now, I have to tell you this: Back in those days, being bisexual, or gay in the military, was a prison offense and an immediate trip to Leavenworth was probably a given! If he had told my commander, I would have been up the creek)

Instead of being shocked, they both became very interested and insisted that we share our thoughts, desires and histories. Since the wife was having problems cuming, he thought it was because he wasn't lasting long enough to satisfy her. They thought I could "warm her up" and then, after I'd gone as long as I could and had an orgasm, that he would take over and hopefully bring her to her peak.

Well, the first time we did that, she did have an orgasm! We were all very pleased, especially her! But, I think it was the excitement and taboo that thrilled her, so. The next several times, she either took an inordinate amout of time to cum, or didn't have an orgasm at all. Her husband had remarkable staying power, but still after some time, he could not hold off any longer.

Then, One night, we'd gone to bed and were beginning, as usual, with me first.

Just before I came, the phone rang. It was my friend's company, wanting to know something about some tanks that were in the shop. Meanwhile, I ejaculated and she was really feeling aroused, anxiously waiting for her husband.

I was afraid that she'd lose her momentum, so I went down on her. They'd never discussed oral sex and I later learned that her husband had never had oral sex with her! She had sucked him some, but only half-heartedly.....he was really big and she didn't enjoy it.

I spread her legs, but she was apprehensive, because I'd just cum in her. She held me back, but I overcame her resistance and began kissing, licking and sucking on her labia and clitoris.

Just before her husband got off the phone and was walking toward the bedroom, she SCREAMED! She grabbed my head and began thrusting her hips against my lips, bruising them in the process!

He thought I was hurting her and grabbed my feet, pulling me from between her legs!

She yelled at him, "Don't stop him GODDAMMIT! I LOVED THAT!"

For the next year, or so, we continued, tried new positions, new techniques, used toys, he learning more about oral sex with her, and she began to have the first multiple orgasms of her life. He and I had sex a couple of times, too, with her initiating it. By the time they were transferred, she was able to have orgasms alone with him. She has also learned how to masturbate, which helped a lot. It was a remarkable experience and I loved them both...but especially her. When they left, we had one more of her magnificent dinners, we all cried out eyes out, and finally, said our goodbyes.

The relationship I had with the two girls, just a few years later, was the only other successful poly relationship I ever experienced, but it was just as rewarding, if maybe not more so, than the first.

I was not looking for, nor did I expect anything like this to ever happen. Of course, I'd heard of these things, but never in my wildest dreams could they have turned out as nice as they did.

How remarkable is it that 3 people could meet, fall in love, be so compatible, and have such a magnificent relationship? ..........and I've done it TWICE!

[stormalong]

That was beautiful!!! I was in a relationship with 2 ladies but we did not have sex all together. neither of them were Bisexual. It was polygamy, I suppose. We were together for close to 2 years when I was in the Navy. Both are married now and I get emails from both of them. Debbie's daughter stayed with me for about 6 weeks 2 summers back when she worked nearby at the ski resort. We were all family, but we weren't a happy trio. It's sort of hard to explain.

[rick1958]

ive only had threesome with a couple, but want to have one with all guys

[mikey3000]

***Update***

My friendship with these two gentlemen is stronger than ever now, and I miss them dealry. We email all the time back and forth and are great friends. If any of you have the oppourtunity, take it.

[jamiehue]

woo hoo everybody in the pool.

[mikey3000]

Time for another update to one of my first posts...

It's been exactly a year since I started this thread, a year since I met my friend and much has changed. It has gotten better. We have gotten together several times over the past year and me any my family just finished a two week family vacation with him at his home.

Things are way better that I ever thought they'd ever be. My wife and him get a long wonderfully and are becomming great friends too. For the two weeks all three of us shared a bed. We had the best talks at night time, all three of us making plans for the future. No, the three of us did not have a three some, but just snuggled all night in bed was just wonderful. My wife did gladly give us our alone time and a couplu of nights him and I spent it alone on the living room floor. Likewise I too gave them alone time together to do what ever they needed to do do to get to know eachother better. Most of the time they cooked together, but I also know they did make out passionately. That made me feel so happy for both of them. It's been many, many years since he's been with a woman and he dearly misses the touch of a woman. My wife has never been with anyone else but me and I know she wonders what it's like. He is very safe for her if she wants to do something more with another guy. But just to watch them kiss passionately filled me with joy. Isn't that weird?

And he just adores my kids and they adore him too. We really did have an excellent family vacation. We even spent a few days with his partner in his 1868 Victorian mansion which he happily lives in all alone. Spectacular.

So just to recap, I guess this is what you call a poly relationship. I had no idea what I was getting into when this started, or really have no idea now all about this, just that we all love eachother dearly and just take one day at a time.

[tenni]

Congratulations Mikey!!!;)

I wish you much happiness. You and yours deserve it.:bigrin: