TwylaTwobits
Sep 4, 2009, 8:57 PM
I was talking to LDD the other day and it got me thinking. There are times in your life that you sit down and wonder about the path your life has taken and then you think that age old question of "if i could change one thing..." but then you have to wonder if in changing that one thing, you changed the rest of your life.
Personally for me...my one huge regret in life is I blew my sister off the last time she called me. I had two lines hooked up, no cordless and was in a trivia game on AOL in my bedroom. Had went to the living room to answer the phone and it was Tammy asking to borrow money so she could come home with her son to Kentucky. I had it, I had it for my car payment but I told her I didn't. That I had to go I was busy and to call our grandma. In retrospect if I had known that was the last time I talked to my sister, would I have done differently? Would I have told her how much I loved her or would I still have let the annoyance slip into my voice. I have often thought that I should change that if given the chance then I remember that she had to talk to my grandmother to fix things there. They had been on the outs for a bit and if she hadn't of called her it would have killed my grandmother to have lost Tammy without fixing things.
So I'm curious....I know of what I would change, and I know I wouldn't now because things have to happen for a reason. But what would you change in your life, what is your one regret......
I won't ask you all to list whether you would change it if you could but just what the regret is that weighs heavily on your heart.
Personally for me...my one huge regret in life is I blew my sister off the last time she called me. I had two lines hooked up, no cordless and was in a trivia game on AOL in my bedroom. Had went to the living room to answer the phone and it was Tammy asking to borrow money so she could come home with her son to Kentucky. I had it, I had it for my car payment but I told her I didn't. That I had to go I was busy and to call our grandma. In retrospect if I had known that was the last time I talked to my sister, would I have done differently? Would I have told her how much I loved her or would I still have let the annoyance slip into my voice. I have often thought that I should change that if given the chance then I remember that she had to talk to my grandmother to fix things there. They had been on the outs for a bit and if she hadn't of called her it would have killed my grandmother to have lost Tammy without fixing things.
So I'm curious....I know of what I would change, and I know I wouldn't now because things have to happen for a reason. But what would you change in your life, what is your one regret......
I won't ask you all to list whether you would change it if you could but just what the regret is that weighs heavily on your heart.