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jackbirdjay
Aug 31, 2009, 7:11 PM
I was 20 went to a xxx drive-in. All though high school now this was in the early 70's wasn't as open like now. I was very curious always looking in the gym showers. Go home stroking thinking about what cock I saw. Anyway I went to take a piss and a guy walked in at the same time, we were pissing next to each other I was staring at his cock. He was in his 50's I was 20, that was in 1977. He seen I was looking, after he zipped up he said you have a good look? I said hun he said your were staring at my dick. I said no I wasn't, he said its ok you alone? I said yes why? He said want a few beers? Drinking age was 18 back then. I said sure why not. Back at his car after a few beers, he pulled his cock out started stroking. He said join me I did. He said here jerk me, I started stroking him and it was like wow this is so hot. He said take a taste, I said no never did it before. He said even better a virgin mouth. He said you know u want to u were staring at it, go ahead take a taste if you don't like it stop. I did want to so I went down on him licking at 1st the head. He was uncut which I found exciting because everyone I knew was cut. He said pull the skin back. I pulled on his cock out poped his cock head. I licked at 1st the took him in my mouth. He was very very salty tasting. He grabbed the back of my head told me to watch my teeth and start sucking. I was getting in to it, he started moaning oh that feels so good thats it suck it oh yea. That turned me on started sucking and getting into it. He exploded in my mouth holding my head down filling my mouth with hot very thick load. After about 7 good shoots he went soft. At 1st I felt so guilty thinking I was gay what did I do but wanted it again. About 3 weeks latter I was looking for more cock. I never looked back. I love pussy and cock the same.

lv69cpl69
Aug 31, 2009, 8:16 PM
soon I hope!

rolandiscool
Aug 31, 2009, 8:33 PM
i was sixteen when i first enjoyed some male bonding

JessyRee
Aug 31, 2009, 9:54 PM
I was 14 when I first had physical contact with a girl..I thought at that point I was just going to be a lesbian but that proved to be hard because I felt the need to conform.Not anymore.:bibounce:

pmk7480
Aug 31, 2009, 11:30 PM
I was 19. My GF figured out one of my friends and I both wanted to, so well...

curious1also
Sep 1, 2009, 12:36 AM
i started at about 14 getting oral......at about 15 my best friend had a few drinks and got on my cock.........the rest is history

PrettyFlowingGown
Sep 1, 2009, 9:45 AM
I was 25 on new years night,1998. My freind (12 years older) had just had a seperation from his wife, and was alone with me. He was feeling down, and wanted to be with someone. We started watching lesbian porn, and he told me "Look how easy it is for 2 women to get together like that, I really envy how they do it". I was wearing shorts at the time, and he got close to me, and started touching me. I was really nervous, but somehow it felt ok. He put his hand inside my shorts and felt my penis. It was'nt hard until he massaged me on the bed,, and thats when he gave me oral sex, and vica versa. I never ever thought I'd do it with a guy, but have alot of times since.

JoshuaGlynn
Sep 1, 2009, 12:48 PM
Wrote a story about mine....


Like to read it... Here it go....

Acceptance (http://main.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?t=7602)


Josh

lv69cpl69
Sep 2, 2009, 11:25 AM
Wrote a story about mine....


Like to read it... Here it go....

Acceptance (http://main.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?t=7602)


Josh
Wow thats HOT!:male:

Rico2112
Sep 2, 2009, 11:45 AM
Well , I was young...probably WAY too young.
But the local bully in my neighbourhood , made me suck him in an abandoned house in the woods nearby. I did'nt have the guts to say no to him , as he was some years older , and respected as that.
He knew way more than me about sex and stuff , and told me exactly how to do it, and I did. And I loved it. We became VERY good friends because of this, and it happened many times. I cherish the experience, and , heh, I guess you could say I have used it ALOT later in life , he he.

Still think about it alot to this day.
I think I would have become who I am today , if it had'nt happened, but I probably would'nt have found out about my sexuality that early though.

Thanx Rino!:tong:

jfra18
Sep 2, 2009, 12:05 PM
I was 13 when I did

quiet1fornow
Sep 2, 2009, 12:28 PM
8 yo with cousins and their friends:cool:

Lenore
Sep 2, 2009, 12:35 PM
Oh oh oh, I have an easy answer for this one...

I haven't yet! Any takers? Rofl. J/k


Lenore

littlerayofsunshine
Sep 2, 2009, 12:37 PM
my first same sex experience was around age 8-9, with a school friend, mostly kissing and pretending we were married ( I was always the husband for some reason...lol..). my first bi 3-some was age 17.

Realist
Sep 2, 2009, 12:46 PM
The 1st time I had an orgasm, was also my first same-sex encounter. I was 14 and the guy was 60-something. He sucked me off at the edge of his pool, when I told him I didn't understand what the big deal was about sex. Whoa, what a graphic example!

My first bisexual relationship was with an older married couple; it lasted about 13 months. They were about 38-39 and I was 21.

BiPhone
Sep 2, 2009, 1:11 PM
33 years old! a couple of months ago! It was amazing!

JP1986UM
Sep 2, 2009, 2:54 PM
I was 12. He was a best friend. We started messing around and started a long 4 or 5 yr relationship together.

We went from fondling to oral sex frequently and then to full on intercourse. I loved it. We would run home after school and have sex for an hour almost everyday.

No worries about periods, PMS, or hormones. Just great sex.

He was a full on Top and never liked to be fucked, but I did. Heh heh heh

I loved feeling him slide his erect cock in my ass. It was worth not getting laid by my gf, I almost could have cared less. We both stood one day after fucking watching it rain in Fla, and I said, you know what we are?

He said, I ain't saying it.

I said, well I will. We are two bisexual guys and I love it.

He then said, I wish my gf would fuck like you do. (Funny ain't it)

I told him, its ok, I would have sex with him whenever we wanted. I like having sex with you. Its fun and I climax really hard. (I once had a cum shot hit the ceiling.)

We just drifted apart after awhile. I loved him, but being gay then would have caused us so much trouble as young men.

Shortly after, I lost my virginity to a female at 17.

Rico2112
Sep 2, 2009, 2:59 PM
33 years old! a couple of months ago! It was amazing!

Hmmm... wanna go again? With me maybe? He he he
:cool:

stormalong
Sep 2, 2009, 3:41 PM
17september, 2004. I was partying at my place with my next door neighbor and her boyfriend. We had been barbequing and drinking beer all day. Rae had an emergency come up with her sister who was in a car accident. Her Bro-in-law stopped and picked her up and left Cy and I there. Her house was locked up, so when it got late I told Cy he could crash at my place. We were inside watching something on the tube when Cy just out of the blue says, "Rae didn't fuck me today and I'm horny as shit!" I told him to go take a shower and make a drain baby. While he was showering I was drifting in and out (beer)and then next thing I know he was undoing my belt and massaging Beauregard. I had never even thought about sex with guys before, but I knew what to do. I stood up and dropped my pants and he immediatly got down on his knees and started sucking me. He had me lay on the floor and alternated sucking me off with tonguing my ass. before the night was over I had cum in his mouth 2wice. I sucked his cock, and licked his balls; but he didn't want to cum in my mouth, he wanted to cum on my face, instead. We got together kind of regularly and he told Rae about it. She didn't want to join, but had no problems with it. She watched us once. I never told the woman I was seeing at the time.

I moved away the following August but still email Rae and Cy. I was 47 at the time. I've only been with 2 other guys since. I think I am mostly straight, but I like a cock to suck sometimes, and a guy to suck mine.:cool:

Fleshlight Fan
Sep 2, 2009, 8:30 PM
I was 13 and swapped blowjobs with next door neighbor. This went on until he left for college. Just been jerking off with guys since.

12voltman59
Sep 2, 2009, 9:57 PM
My very first same-sex experiences took place when I was around age nine or so with the other boy being just a bit younger--being that age--our little pricks were only good for peeing and did not yet get hard and such--I just put what we did then down to the normal sort of exploration that kids often do at that age.

The next time--was age 15 with another 15 year old guy---I chocked that experience up to the fact the situation developed "out of the blue" and at that point in my life--was still a bit shy and not very confident about being with girls and had not yet had too much experience with them, plus--I was a 15 year old kid who was constantly horny!!! (not a surprise since we are bascially one big hormone cocktail container at that stage in life!! :bigrin:)--but not long after that experience---I "discovered girls" and then I was off and running having many relationships with many ladies over the years--some of those relationshps being good and some of them being not so good.

In terms of doing anything with other guys for many years--I did nothing at till like my late 30s when I "hooked up" with some guy I had met via the Internet back in the mid 90s during a period that "the desires" to do something--ANYTHING with another guy had gotten so strong--- but that liason didn't go so well---so I "stuffed the genie" back in his bottle--it was not until rather recently till I finally had some "succesful" experiences with other men---

I did have a number of guys during those interim years who did "hit on me"---but even though I had those "desires" to try being with other guys---my mindset was not such at those points that I was ready to accept those offers and out of fear more than anything----rebuffed those advances----I do wonder what would have happened had I taken up some of those "offers."

ghytifrdnr
Sep 3, 2009, 1:09 AM
My first time wasn't untill I was 59. A lot of time wasted.
:(

innaminka
Sep 3, 2009, 7:07 AM
I'm defining my first bi-sex experience as a deliberate act with a desired result and a realisation afterwards.
I semi-bonked another girl whilst at Uni, but we were both drunk, and although enjoyable, I put it down to just one of those things that happen at Uni parties and moved on emotionally unchallenged.

My first deliberate session with another woman was much later - I'd been married, divorced, played around, remarried and had had two daughters in the interegnum.
It was initially an emotional reaction to an incredible friendship that had blossomed intensly over a week's travails, and the parting would be permanent: we would be continents apart and both were mothers.
We were also both bi-virgins.
It happened - tentatively then full on.
After, I realised it had been more than emotions - I had experienced something which seemed to provide an answer to many, many unanswered discomforts that had started to appear in my life.
I was 33 - 15 years ago.

Realist
Sep 3, 2009, 9:27 AM
Innaminka...what's "UNI"?

It's amazing to me how varied these stories are! I've always been interested in how others find love, acceptance and themselves.

I've noticed, here, that several folks have rarely (or never) done anything romantic, emotional, or sexual, with the same gender, until their later years.

I probably began too soon, myself.

I remember reading about two older ladies, who were widows. They'd lived June Cleaver lives, raised families, went to church, lead fairly idyllic lives. After their husbands died, they moved in together, to conserve their savings, and have someone to "do things with".

Soon, after their new lives began, and much to their surprise, they became lovers. It just seemed so natural for them. One admitted that nothing, ever, had given her so much pleasure and satisfaction as did their love. Both had felt a closeness to other women, neither recognized their feelings as being emotionally, or sexually driven. I'm sure they were too busy raising children (and husbands) to think much about it.

Anyway, I thought it was a very nice story and a picture of how the human spirit can and does evolve, over a life-time.

Although, I have the most fantastic girlfriend I could imagine and am totally sated with our relationship, I have known a male lover, or two, with whom I could have lived happily for the rest of my life.

You seem to have found your niche and I am happy for you. Isn't it great when that happens? Enjoy it while you can!

Indaco76
Sep 3, 2009, 9:44 AM
my first same sex experience was around age 8-9, with a school friend, mostly kissing and pretending we were married ( I was always the husband for some reason...lol..). my first bi 3-some was age 17.

You sound very much like me, Littleray!
I too was 8 or 9 when I first started fooling around with school friends, mainly kissing and me fondling their budding tits, playing the doctor or pretending we were engaged. Strange as it may sound, I was always the male half too! But I must admit I would have liked some role reversal now and then. Anyway, they were probably straight as an arrow, so I guess that's why it didn't happen.
My first real same sex encounter happened only two years ago, with my current partner. By that time (I was 31) my desire for the female body had built so much that my partner couldn't believe it was my first time. I was totally at ease, like I'd always known what to do and how to do it. It felt very natural.

littlerayofsunshine
Sep 3, 2009, 10:31 AM
You sound very much like me, Littleray!
I too was 8 or 9 when I first started fooling around with school friends, mainly kissing and me fondling their budding tits, playing the doctor or pretending we were engaged. Strange as it may sound, I was always the male half too! But I must admit I would have liked some role reversal now and then. Anyway, they were probably straight as an arrow, so I guess that's why it didn't happen.
My first real same sex encounter happened only two years ago, with my current partner. By that time (I was 31) my desire for the female body had built so much that my partner couldn't believe it was my first time. I was totally at ease, like I'd always known what to do and how to do it. It felt very natural.


That is very interesting that we sort of walked similar paths of discovery. My first "relationship" with a woman was when I was 18 with a married 23 year old. I lived with her and her husband for about a month, while I was apartment hunting. We also worked together at the same place of employment and spent a large amount of time together. We both were semi insomniacs and would stay up talking and listening to music. One night I was sitting on the couch, her on the floor between my legs and I was brushing and playing with her hair, at some point she tilted her head to the side, and the feeling to nibble her neck was overwhelming so I lightly started kissing her neck and she let out a very gentle sigh. Neither one of us told the other before hand that we liked girls, so it came as a very natural progression, very sweet and hot at the same time. As I was kissing her neck, she reached behind and stroked the side of my face, so I reached around and started caressing her breasts and playing with her nipples and then we both lost control and I had her that night.

I have mostly been the initiator in experiences with both men and women, following my bodies flooding hormones, unleashing my sexuality. Doing what feels right. I, like you also started off as a pro when it came to eating. Its like I needed it so bad, that I wanted her to feel how much I needed her. Wanting to experience every part of her and inhale as much of her as I could. When I am with a woman, if I can get her off, that is my orgasm. I don't need my own. I get off just being the pleasurer. Its been a long time since I have been with a woman, so I would just assume that I would still be similar.

Us sharing our stories together, just got me a lil excited. *giggles* what a lucky partner you have :bigrin:

BeautifullyBi
Sep 3, 2009, 12:43 PM
I was eight...at a sleepover, playing 'house'...then it was bedtime ;)

Alaskan Couple
Sep 3, 2009, 1:33 PM
... I, like you also started off as a pro when it came to eating. Its like I needed it so bad, that I wanted her to feel how much I needed her. Wanting to experience every part of her and inhale as much of her as I could. When I am with a woman, if I can get her off, that is my orgasm. I don't need my own. I get off just being the pleasurer...

I thought you said how I feel so well I'd just quote it! Change the 'her' to 'he' and the 'woman' to 'man' and that's just the way I am too...although, usually by the time I satisfy 'him' I too need my own orgasm...but I have in the past just pleasured him and been so happy afterward!

Oh and just to stay on topic; my first time was in jr. high school...loved it from the first bite - haha

Lenore
Sep 3, 2009, 1:33 PM
Wow, have I been enlightened. Don't think my little boy is going to be having an sleepovers, visiting friends, or going to any unsupervised social events until he is 20. Rofl Im thinking about kintergarden and apparently I should be telling him about the birds and the bees already. Who asked him to grow up anyway? :)

BeautifullyBi
Sep 3, 2009, 1:39 PM
That was the night that I knew I was bisexual. I am not even sure the term 'bisexual' was in websters at that point and it damn sure didn't exist in my vocabulary!

stormalong
Sep 3, 2009, 8:31 PM
The term "bi-sexual" wasn't in my vocabulary either. Rae was sitting on my deck drinking coffee and eating one of my scones and I asked her if she was bothered by it at all. She answered that I seemed to be bothered more than her. To which I answered something about not wanting to be a fag or queer. She said, "You're bi, accept it". Though I'm still, and probably always will be in the closet, bisexual is how I label myself now.

BfloBiFun
Sep 4, 2009, 12:44 PM
Well like some others here, played doctor etc. when young, but i was the initiator. My first adult MonM exp. (20 yrs old) was when i was in the Air Force, In Alaska. Met this guy that arrived about same time as me, he was cpl years older than me. We hung out with each other on and off for about 8 months or so. Nothing sexual at all, He mentioned something once about being accused of being gay. Well some time passed, we were having a cpl of beers in his room, I started to Beat around the bush" about having sex . He finally asked if i was Bi . . . . I'm not sure what I said, but something like I'm willing to have sex with you. He got hard right away. He went and took a shower, came back with a big olé Bonner. I had never had adult sex with a man, and did not really know what to expect. But I did know I wanted to blow him. I was naked when he returned from the shower and on the bed, he laid on top of me and kissed me. That I think shocked me, said I could not kiss. Then went down on him, loved it, I sucked him real good, He told me he was ready to cum and must have thought I did not want him to shoot in my mouth. I did want it, to experience the whole thing. He tried to pull it out of my mouth . . . I was not going to let go . . . he filled my mouth. First time tasting cum.We did not play again after that, would get discharged if ever caught. First time with MF couple. . . for another post. . . was GREAT !!

Realist
Sep 4, 2009, 3:35 PM
Eight seems to be a common age for girls to become sexually active. I was a very slow learner, apparently. My GF was also 8 her first time. Geez, I was 14.............missed out on a lot!

littlerayofsunshine
Sep 4, 2009, 4:54 PM
Eight seems to be a common age for girls to become sexually active. I was a very slow learner, apparently. My GF was also 8 her first time. Geez, I was 14.............missed out on a lot!

I don't quite know how sexual it is for a girl of 8, I think for me it was more acting out roles that girls get more exposed to at a younger age. A lot of fairy tales have kissing, Cinderella, Sleeping beauty, Snow white. Girls role play relationships with their dolls and toys. Most children play "doctor" or "Show me yours I'll show you mine". Girls playing husband/wife boyfriend/girlfriend is like boys wrestling and one being hulk and the other (insert wrestler name here) They mimic what they know and see.... Sexual roles are explored even in infants. "I'm 2, look at my pretty dress and underwear" Or "I'm two look at my underoos, it holds my water snake". Self awareness and awareness of similarities and differences are some of the first things we develop as children. In my perspective of bisexual children, I don't think childhood events themselves define us, its perfectly normal and common for two same sex or different sex children to play and explore, and as we get older the straights ones won't do it anymore, and the bi-ones never lose the curiosity that eventually develops into desire when we start to become teenagers.


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Kuragxo
Sep 4, 2009, 5:21 PM
At fifteen or so... I took a detour to the mall through a cruisy park (didn't know it was) and was seduced by an old jogger while I cut through the woods. I knew I liked girls/boys at the time, so I wasn't shocked at how much I enjoyed the experience with this man... I was just surprised (and naive) about the easiness of getting seduced in the park. :-)

mikey3000
Sep 5, 2009, 11:15 AM
I was about 9-10 when I was rimmed and blown by a friend of the same age. And I did the same to him. He sais he learned how to do it from his older brothers magazines.

Realist
Sep 5, 2009, 11:55 AM
It seems to me, that the connection between girls is more cerebral and intimate than with guys. Listening to my first bi GF's first time, there was a lot more communication and tenderness between them.

I know I was so selfish and inconsiderate, when I was first introduced to sexual pleasure, by a much older neighbor. He required me to do nothing, but show up, and he would induce my orgasms any time I asked him to. Strange, but I didn't even know I could give myself orgasms, until I was sent to military school! (my roommate taught me how to masturbate) Before that, I thought I had to sucked to cum!

It also took me some time to learn that my partner's pleasure could enhance my own. Girls, on the other hand, seem to know that by instinct. I like the romantic aspects of any sexual/emotional relationship, better than just immediate gratification.

My dad always told me that girls are smarter than boys, I think he was right!

marc_nola
Sep 5, 2009, 9:17 PM
My first bisexual experience was at 16. I had up till then loved magazines with two females, mostly kissing and making love. The intimacy and erotic setting of the pictures made me feel that naughty, taboo feeling of liking something we are not supposed to enjoy deeply.

A guy I had know for 3-years, a med student from India 22, one day happened to be in the right setting at the right time at the right feeling.

Once we kissed I knew I enjoyed that naughty, taboo feeling I had only seen in pictures.....but now it was for real and....I enjoyed it deeply.

69luvr
Apr 6, 2010, 3:57 PM
I was 12. I went to a neighbors pool. while we were in the pool, he brushed against my privates. I enjoyed it after awhile. I started getting hard and he had more 'accidents". I was getting very worked up and thought to brush against his privates. it was rock, solid, hard. That excited me but I did not know what I wanted to do.,, except hold it. He got hot and took my hand and put it down his bathing suit. I loved what I was feeling. Then he touched mine. I loved that too. He was 14 and a real cool guy. He knew about ways to excite me and eventually I was hottter then heck and touched his exposed penis with gusto. He had taken mine out and was massaging it. I loved it and wanted to do that to him with more expertise.. He did take my hand and showed me what to do. I loved his hardness. Eventually he went under the water and put mine in his mouth briefly. He came up for air and I went under and did that to him. I really loved it! We eventually went to a shack in his side yard and he sucked me off. I came and that was my start! I got brave enough to taste him and swallowed the semen my very first time. I have NOT stopped since.

darkeyes
Apr 6, 2010, 4:30 PM
Back 2 the drawin board every 1.. wot u r describin isya 1st same sex, homosexual or gay experience (takeya pick wichya use).. don mean 2 nit pick but it is so.. a bisexual experience is a sexual experience werya share a sexual encounter wiv two diff genders at the same time... jus a lil thot. forya 2 mull ova.. ;)

12voltman59
Apr 6, 2010, 4:52 PM
Well, since someone revived this thread---I guess I will share my very first time with another guy--and it was my very first sexual experience with another person of any sort.

As I said in the first post from way back--I was around ten and so was my "buddy" so neither of our little dinks worked yet for doing anything more than peeing. We were just on that edge of doing so.

I hope that its ok to post this since it is about two very young kids---we did it consensually so I think its ok-----

I had this really cool room in that house I lived then---my closet was every bit as big as my bedroom itself and it was located over the stairwell of the house--it was my basic play place---I had an electric race car track in there in the space directly over the steps--and other things.

At that time--my sis was just a babe--my mom had gone back to work some and my one granny was around to take care of me and the baby--but she basically left me alone--and in the afternoons--the baby slept and she either was watching her "stories" (the soap operas) or took her naps--so I was free to do things.

This one day--I don't know how it happened exactly----my one neighbor buddy--his name was Karl---he had come over to my place--it was one of those hot, sticky and muggy summer days--the kind the air doesn't move and its so humid---the air seems to stick to your skin---we went inside my place and up in my closet to race cars--it was nice and cool since we had something hardly anyone else had back then----central A/C!!

I remember us doing the cars but then---this is the part that is fuzzy--the next thing I recall--we had stripped our clothes off and were playing naked together. I had this stuff I had gotten at my fave toy store called "Lightening Bug Glow Juice"--it was this thick gooey stuff that you could put on your body, expose it to light and it would glow green in the dark.

We had painted it on each other--put some on our faces, in streaks on our chests, our nips and our little mushroom cocks--then we turned out the lights--we then pretended to wrestle and using our little cocks as "swords" It was kinda sexy to see our bodies all painted like that--I wish that I could find something like that stuff again--it was non-toxic and it sorta had a good smell and taste too.

We played like this for a fair bit of time day and on future occassions---I also recall us trying to suck each other and also rubbing our cocks against each others behinds.

We so liked playing like this--we did this a number of times and also----I had a fairly big yard too---in one part of it was an area with a cluster of trees with smaller bushes around those---in that tangle--I had built myself a "fort" that was not a bad job for a kid----my dad had brought me home a number of pallets from work and he helped me make it.

On at least a few nights--it was common for us to have sleep overs at each others houses-----Karl and I slept in the fort a few times and on those nights--at his initial suggestion--we walked around the yard at night naked, later we could hardly wait till everyone had gone to bed so we could go naked and play--one of those nights--we wound up rolling in the wet grass and started to hug and kiss--it was fun---I had not kissed anyone but my mom, dad, grandparents and such--and certainly didn't kiss them like he and I did---I would realize later in life that Karl and I had been French kissing.

We continued to do those sorts of things the rest of that summer, but by the next year---Karl's dad was in the US Air Force and was a captain of a B-52 bomber team. His dad had been transferred to a new air base so we never were together again when we might have entered puberty and of course--we did not do any such things in the winter since we could not find that sort of privacy we had found and enjoyed during the summer months.

We did try to do things--but like I said---our tiny dicks didn't work for sex yet--but I have no doubt--had we been able to be together when we hit puberty--we would surely have done "things."

In the case of much of what we did--we were literally "in the closet" most of the time!!"

I have to say--to this day---I wonder how it might have changed my life had Karl and I been able to be together in a fully functioning sexual way at such a young age. I do have to say----thinking back on it---he was surely my friend and I have no doubt that I loved him in a way too!! I still think about those days with him.

Frannie---technically you are right in what you said above--but I still consdier this to be part of my being bisexual--since the next time I did anything with anyone sexually was with a guy for a one shot deal at age 15--then after that--I was exclusively with females for like the next 25 or more years with nary a thought of doing anything sexually with another guy!

TwylaTwobits
Apr 6, 2010, 5:41 PM
hmmm does sleeping with a bisexual man for the first time count? If so age 37 years old, if not never :)

cliffordmontero
Apr 6, 2010, 7:22 PM
well, my first time was shortly before my 22nd birthday .. . i found a guy on the internet after wanting to try it for years . . . figured if i just fuck some random dude and its not for me i can write it off and never look back . . . it was hot . . . we 69ed for a while, he came, i didnt, he left . . . and i started looking for another guy lol

BiSpirit69
Apr 6, 2010, 8:09 PM
I was between the ages of 7-10. It was with my best-friend, we didn't think we were doing anything wrong. I didn't here the words gay, lesbian or bi-sexual back in the 80's where I was growing up. I thought is was something to do, we did it every night and enjoyed every minute. I was 18 when I first experience and understood what bi-sexuality really meant. My best-friend said she could turn me into a complete lesbian. I told her that would be impossible cause I love dick too much for that. But now since I've gotten wiser, I can't stop fantasizing about women. I've always been attracted to a beautiful woman and the same with men. I'm just happy the man I married has the same interest as me. I'm ready to have a relationship with a woman and my husband.:bipride:

bemyonlyone
Apr 6, 2010, 8:25 PM
I know it's not physical, but I got a crush on my Italian teacher when I was 15. That was my first time liking a woman.

And I agree, it should be first same sex experience, not bisexual.

biexel
Apr 6, 2010, 10:15 PM
18 while living abroad. Never regret it

fortiesbifun
Apr 6, 2010, 10:53 PM
great topic. i was 15. my friend had a pool and after swimming all day, went in the house to shower and clean up. friend's mom called and he had to go pick her up at work (before cell phones - this was 1980) and would be gone for about an hour. i went in to his 20 yr old brothers room in basement - which happened to have a few penthouse and playboy mags lying around. i was there for 10 min, semi wood in my shorts when bro came in and asked what is was doing. told him mom story and his brothe was gone. he grabbed a couple beers from fridge in room and gave me one. we both were in just shorts, no shirts, looking at porn. he started asking me about my hard on and then came over to see its "size". within a minute, he was giving me one of the best blow jobs of my life ( i am 46 now). sucked me completely. swallowed. stood up, dropped his shorts and put his cock within 5 inches of my mouth - then the phone rang - his girlfriend needed aride! he was gone in 20 seconds. never got to reciprocate. still jerking off to that today.....

jem_is_bi
Apr 7, 2010, 12:11 AM
I was about 5 yrs old for first male-male experience and lucky I was not caught.
Parents would have been VERY ANGRY.
But, I have never had a bisexual experience.
Always, a male-male (homosexual experience) or male-female (heterosexual experience). Never, with both at the same time.
I like homosexual best. But, sex with a woman is fun too.
Sex with both at the same time? I would rather have a second male. But, I would be open to the possibility.

Doggie_Wood
Apr 7, 2010, 12:31 AM
Kind of like jem, above, it was always a MM or MF sexual experience in the past. Until that first fatefull day when I had two women at the same time. Lets see, I was . . . . . errr . . . . . . jeez! I can't remember how old I was. I was on acid at the time. But I remember it was real colorful - I think :rolleyes:
And my first MFM experience was, ummm, errr, early twenties? :tongue:
And my first MMF experience was, ummm, errr, not too long after that. :bigrin:

Doggie :doggie:

kyguy149
Apr 7, 2010, 2:45 AM
I guess i was 14 or 15 a buddy and me used to play with other.But i was 48 when i actually sucked my first guy to completion

Mature59
Apr 7, 2010, 9:12 AM
I was 32 and at a local Adult Book Store that had the movies. He was mid 20's and average in size, but i had to know if i would like it or not. After he came and i swallowed his cum i knew that i liked it and continued from then.

12voltman59
Apr 7, 2010, 9:42 AM
Now here was my first and only true bisexual sex---I was in my early 20s at college. It was one of those nights that I was partying pretty good so lots of it is hazy--and the fact that this was back around 1980 or so.

I was at some party and wound up in bed with two ladies---we were naked---but I didn't do too much with them----they were more into each other and I basically just watched them "do each other" but one of them did give me head and it was great.

Not too much to tell----I was pretty well buzzed--flying out in the stratosphere!! I remember them to be pretty cute girls----both were the type I tend to like---brunettes with not too big boobs and tight little asses. They were semii-goth which was cool---I had thought goth chicks to be kinda hot--but for some reason just could not seem to hook up with them---but then again---I dressed the typical southern preppy frat boy thing then---so most goth type chicks might have thought I was too "normal and boring" looking--but somehow I got with these two hot goth chicks who were into other chicks.