Are you more into men or women?

[Krysta]

I have read various books and websites about bisexuality and they say that very few bisexuals are Kinsey 3s or equally attracted to both men and women when it comes to both sexual attraction and romantic attraction, and that most bisexuals do prefer or lean to one gender over the other.

I do agree that it's impossible to be equally attracted to both genders both sexually and romantically at all times and I've never met anyone who actually is bisexual who claimed to be equally attracted or 50/50 and was equally attracted both sexually and romantically to both genders at all times.

I'm more into men but I have had more sexual experiences and relationships with men and while I do enjoy sex with women at times I do not want a relationship with a woman like I do with a man.

Are you more into men or women? Who do you prefer sex with or fall in love with and why do you prefer that gender?

[Beefeater]

Romanticly, I'm more into women. I wouldn't even know where to begin as far as having a romantic relationship with another man. I guess I'm just not "wired" for that.

I identify as "50/50" bisexual. Although I've had more women that men sexually, I would love to be able to even up the score but the fear of coming down with something I couldn't get rid of with the possiblity of passing it on to my wife, whom I love with all my heart, tends to keep me close to home with my memories fo days gone by.

[toohot617]

Romanticly, I'm more into women. I wouldn't even know where to begin as far as having a romantic relationship with another man. I guess I'm just not "wired" for that.

I identify as "50/50" bisexual. Although I've had more women that men sexually, I would love to be able to even up the score but the fear of coming down with something I couldn't get rid of with the possiblity of passing it on to my wife, whom I love with all my heart, tends to keep me close to home with my memories fo days gone by.


How long ago were the Memories?

[curiousmel24]

Physically, I'd say its pretty darn close to 50/50. Of course, I don't find every woman attractive but nor do I find every man attractive. There are traits (eyes, smile, hands, butt...yes I'm a butt girl) that makes someone attractive to me and it doesn't matter the gender. I haven't taken a tally of the number of times I've said "he's hot" or "she's hot" but I'm sure its pretty even.

Emotionally, probably women. I tend to think like a man, actually a teenage boy as many of my friends have told me, so it makes it harder for me to "be the woman" in the relationship. Plus, I tend to be able to connect on a deeper level with women but with men I have a "just mates" thing going on.

Romantically, I really have no idea. I haven't had a romantic relationship with a woman yet, so I can't compare. Although, I am "talking" to someone now, so I'll let know.

[MickeyJohnson]

Honestly my feelings change alot when it comes to men.
Sometimes Ill get intensly attracted to them, then at times Im not attracted to them at all. Its strange.
But on the good days, im equally attracted to both, even tho men interest me more right now cuz i havent had one yet.
I do feel like Im capable of loving and being in a real relationship with one though maybe even more than with a woman

[Realist]

It's not a numbers game with me, but I've been with 8 males since I was 14. I have been in love with two of them, deeply cared for 3, and just sex buddies with the rest. All were LTRs.

I feel that I am only incidentally gay and lean more toward heterosexuality. I have been in two poly relationships, where I was in love with a fellow's wife and loved him, too. I was also with two ladies, loved them both. Notice, I differentiated between being IN LOVE and LOVING.

Presently, I am very much in love with a bi-poly lady, who I feel is the best combination of lover and friend I could imagine.

[fredtyg]

As I mentioned in an earlier thread, I think I'm homosexual, sexually, and heterosexual emotionally. If I jacked off 365 days a year, I'd be thinking about guys every one of those times, but, I don't think I could ever become emotionally involved with guys as I could with women.

That said, even though I consider myself a homo, sexually, my standards are much, much higher for men than they are for women. I can count on four hands the number of guys I've found sexually attractive to me in the over 35 years I've lived in this town. I find most women sexually attractive to me in one way or another and would have sex with any of them (if I could- one of those Viagra guys, you know). Not so with men.

I have no problem with overweight women. With men it's a disqualifier and the vast majority of both young and old guys I see nowadays are overweight. Many are VERY overweight. I like a little bit of meat on women and get turned on by some quite large women. Go figure.

I might add that if you asked me the same question when I was in my twenties, I might say I was equally attracted to both sexes sexually, or might even give women the edge, male reproductive hormones taking a stronger hold on me back then.

[coyotedude]

Currently I am in a long-term committed relationship with a wonderful woman whom I adore.

But I appear to be one of those few bi guys who could have a romantic relationship with a man. Not just sex, but flowers and hand-holding and walks on the beach and gentle kisses and staring into a male partner's eyes as we tell each other "I love you."

I suppose that's why I keep thinking that bisexuality is so much more than sex.

Peace

[Mobydick187]

Women are for marraige and men are fun, I tend to keep it at that. Men and women have two different benefits and qualities that complement one another. Sort of like ying and yang so it doesn't make sense for two men to marry as they wouldn't complement each other as well as a male female partnership. However sex is sex and is ruled by impulses and desire so if I bang a few men on the side of my marriage no harm done.

[Doggie_Wood]

It really depends on the person. Some men are lucious and hot ... then so are some women.
You left out one gender tho ..... transfolk. I am so into transexual and trangendered people too.
I love my Marie dearly.

Doggie :doggie:

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

I love both, altho I am very Bi-select in the women I play with. In plain turms, I am very damn picky..lol:bigrin:;)
Silly Cat

[littlerayofsunshine]

I am married to a man, but my sexual attraction to either sex sways different directions in different parts of my life. Could I love both? Yeah maybe... if I found the right woman. I have always been drawn to polyamory even though I haven't ventured there yet. I guess all in all, my possibilities are open.

[midwestseeker]

This is something I've struggled with a lot, since as I was growing up and struggling with my sexual identity I belived being bi was a total 50/50 thing.

Discovering that sexuality has many different "shades" was quite a revelation for me, although there are times I wish I was more bi than I really was.

So, emotinally I prefer women 100%, and physically I also lean towards women about 80%...although there are times when my whole brain goes kind of screwy and I realize that even with a woman there's something "missing."

[pmk7480]

emotionally more into women.

sex--it's complicated. i like going down on men more than women; there's just more to play with! psychologically, i'd rather have a guy go down on me than a girl. there's something empowering about it. everything else is better with women.

[BiGuy_458]

I'm more into women than I am men. I do like to suck cock but I like pussy even more.

[roy m cox]

just I love both always and for ever / not one or the other / and i do like 2 males or 2 females at the same time i have always been this way seance kindergarten and Evin now i am still attracted to both sexes ,,,

:bibounce::bibounce::bibounce::bibounce:

:bipride::bipride::bipride::bipride::bipride:

[JoshuaGlynn]

Well chalk me up as a totally in the middle Bisexual.... I couldn't answer your poll because to me gender is not an issue when considering the person I'm with.

I like to call myself a People Person... I tend to fall for the person... what they have between their legs doesn't really matter to me at all.

I have had loving relationships with both genders, and as far as the sex... sure sex with a guy is different from sex with a girl... but I have never been with one and craved the other.... maybe I'm just weird.

Joshua

[Flounder1967]

i voted women over men....

don't get me wrong sex with men is fun...

[Caaveman]

I'm not all togather sure that I can pick one or the other. Sometimes I just want a woman and sometimes I just want a man. I honestly can't say that I have a preference other than the day to day change of mind. So I guess that once again I stand alone and the outcast (but then again I'm used to being here, so I guess I should feel right at home). Although I have to admit that it's a lot harder to find a man with the right fraim of mind for me because I not only want sex but the feelings that go along with loving and caring too. LOL :tongue: :bigrin:

[Indaco76]

This is a tricky question for me. I voted for women because emotionally I find that for me it's just so much more satisfying to connect with a woman on that level than it is with a man. I've never really fallen in love with a straight man, only with a gay/bi man (my ex of 10 years).
Even physically, well, I've always looked at female bodies, ever since I was a little girl. I have memories from when I was like 7 or 8... I remember looking at one of my schoolmates and thinking: "she is so cute". Not an envy thing, just pure awe for her beauty. I also experimented sexually with girls in secondary school, but only had one long boy/girl relationship before my current partner, a woman.
I like everything about women's bodies. The texture, the scents, the fluids... wow, it totally blows me off my feet. I love giving and receiving.
With men, it's more complicated. Beauty is beauty, and I sure can appreciate a men's body when it meets my standards. Being held into a men's arms gives such a nice feeling of solidity and protection. But I am much more selective in terms of what specific acts I am willing to do with men. In straight sex, I don't like oral much, either giving or receiving, and sperm frankly makes me gag. I find giving handjobs pretty boring...
To be honest, all I like about sex with men is receiving penetration. No strap-on could ever emulate the sensations of having a real penis inside you, which is a shame because it's something I really miss (I've been with a woman for two years now). Fingers are more versatile and can give somewhat more intense feelings, but then again, it's different.
As I read somewhere on the internet a few months ago, "If I could find a woman able to give me the penetration I need, I'd be a full-blown lesbian".
But that craving, added to the fact that I still do find men hot, is enough for me to call myself bisexual.

[Kermit Jagger]

I love women emotionally and sexually, but love men sexually or emotionally. I'd love to find a man I could love sexually and emotionally, but for now I'm happy to have an emotional or sexual relationship with the men I know.

[Bi_Druid]

It really depends on my mood from one day to the next.

Sometimes even one moment to the next. My 'preferencing' goes in swings and round-abouts.

I would say on an average, 50/50. But there are times where I will go through an extended period of just not really being into one or the other and be very much only me OR women. Other days I'll be into both.

[ohbimale]

I voted men. Although I have had more physical relationships with women than men, I have always had a stronger attraction to men sexually. In our society it is just easier to meet the opposite sex. :bipride:

[cliffml]

I voted men. For me I just find it more satisfying sexually with a man. I had sex with women before and have had some amazing nights, but the best night sexually with a woman falls far short of the best night with a man for me.

[NEPHX]

... I do agree that it's impossible to be equally attracted to both genders both sexually and romantically at all times and I've never met anyone who actually is bisexual who claimed to be equally attracted or 50/50 and was equally attracted both sexually and romantically to both genders at all times.

There are exceptions to everything. "at all times" is a difficult concept because how long a period are you talking about. I'm sure there is at least one person that would say they are always or never, etc.

I also feel for myself as an example, that sexuality, attractions, romance, etc. are all dependent on so many factors. The situation, at the moment in time, plays a huge role in all those things." (ever wonder, at a later date, what the heck you were thinking when you were attracted to someone previously?).

I liken the fluidity of sexuality to statistics and calculus, limits, etc. All the various scales and their associated variables in the Kinsey and Klein (KSOG) are "moments in time." How small is the moment? KSOG address present (within a year), past(more than a year), ideal (ideal is not a period of time). One could look at that moment , and each moment, (so, how long is a moment?) as a stand-alone snap shot or average them together or one could graph them for trends or apply statistical formulas to them to include standard derivations, etc. Not sure an emotion can be effectively quantified.

Wouldn't it be nice if we all had on-board black box that would record all our variables and tell us like the ECU in a car!)

I really like the definition of bisexuality from "Getting Bi"

"... the potential to be attracted, romantically and/or sexually, to people of more than one sex, not necessarily at the same time, not necessarily the same way, and not necessarily to the same degree."

That way, I can always say "it depends." I really feel I have the potentially to be equally attracted to both males and females (but not all males or all females or for the same reasons).


I've never met anyone who actually is bisexual who claimed ....

Wondering how one would test that (actually bisexual) to be certain ... is there a secret handshake or password. :eek: (this is just poking fun at the images the words conjure up :) )

[NEPHX]

Polls/surveys are interesting things... statistically, they depend on the population one is polling, the questions that the pole is asked, etc.

For instance, in this poll, by the limited options provided, the pole forces a person, if they participate, to choose male or female. There is no option for BOTH male and female and on the opposing pole, there is no option for NEITHER male or female and it assumes that there are only two "genders" or "sexes" (exluding transgender, Intersex, hermaphrodite, ).

But, then, it was already stated: "I do agree that it's impossible to be equally attracted to both genders both sexually and romantically at all times."

It left me to wonder what is the intent of the poll.

[DiamondDog]

I'm either pretty equal but leaning more towards men or else I'm so into men that I don't want anything to do with women at all.

I can enjoy certain types of sex with women like giving oral sex and giving/getting kink/BDSM but I prefer kissing men and giving a man oral sex, and I enjoy the taste of a man's flesh and what it feels like holding a man or being held, and it's not like this with women.

I also have very distinct fetishes that only other men can understand, that only other men can have, and that only other men can fulfill. Even the best female drag king would just be a pale imitation.

I've also dated and had more relationships with men and I fall in love with men in many and multiple ways that I simply don't with women, and relationships with men are easier in ways that they're not with women.

I have relationships and romance with men, and just sex with women.

I don't want your typical relationship with a woman as a girlfriend or wife that's centered around vanilla sex and I do not personally want to live with a woman.

I feel content and happy with men and for the most part I do not want an open relationship at all but I might be OK with a husband who I have an open relationship with where we do MMF/MFM 3 ways with along with a bi-dyke fuck buddy who is into being our consensual submissive/switch who visits our dungeon a few times a year to have a consensual interrogation scene by two masculine cops, and that's the only time we have sex with other people, and it's just sex with her as he and I would have romance and a marriage/partnership/civil union together.

[dirtycouple]

thats 50/50 love both!!!!! just trying to find someone

[Eunic]

I have been a Eunuch for more than 20 years due to an illness. I have been married to a woman who is 12 years younger than I for over 30 years. Since I cannot perform intercourse, I do oral. I have since had oral with a man several times and so far I enjoy that equally as well.

[graytwo]

....I do agree that it's impossible to be equally attracted to both genders both sexually and romantically at all times and I've never met anyone who actually is bisexual who claimed to be equally attracted or 50/50 and was equally attracted both sexually and romantically to both genders at all times. .......

Are you more into men or women? Who do you prefer sex with or fall in love with and why do you prefer that gender?

Tough question dealing with lust or love. Since I'm a male, the love point should direct me to the female side. However, there's a raw lust portion that females can not provide in that area for me. I suspect, females might also find the same from their side. I don't know.

I will say that I've never seen a male that got me hot by their looks - ladies for me, yes indeed. Must be my nature, Ladies turn my head for looking and pairing up with. Must be the Ying/Yang for love and relationship.

Now the problem. As much as I love ladies there's something about playing with a cock for sex is fun. Ladies might take a different view about a cock since our parts naturally fit together. Their thoughts might be different about a cock and a pussy. Can't believe their sex lust about a pussy is any different than a male about cock. Females have to deal with cock and cum all the time while males have to deal with pussies and breasts. A slight walk outside the Ying/Yang could keep the whole thing interesting for both genders.

Really didn't answer your question about M/F pref. Still bouncing around the third rail and not sure what track I'll go with - sheesh there's so many. :tongue:

graytwo

[imona42]

Generally more men then women. This is a tough question for me because I have only physically been with one woman. I am extremely attracted to woman, and if I haven't had that fantasy or role-playing side of me satisfied in the bedroom (car, kitchen floor, picket-fence..whatever) then I tend to long more and seem to want more women. I guess it will depend on if I ever get close enough to another woman to be able to answer that question honestly.

[robbie09]

On a whole I prefer women. Women are far more beautifull than men and I feel an emotional and romantic connection to women that I do not feel and could never feel with a man.

Having said that nothing turns me on more than the sight of a hard cock and all my sexual fantasies are currently about men. This is where I get confused

[berryhard]

not a easy poll to work with. there should be a third choise of something like "both". I am mostly hetro and love women but also love sucking cock when i can.

[bi bi baby]

It's always been about the depth of a relationship for me. Always been in LTRs with women my whole life with a few wives mixed in. Sex always follwed rather than led. Never had a one night stand with a woman. The intensity led to sex. That said, I've also had a few intense deep friendships with men that never turned sexual. I think if one of them initiated, I'd have been onboard. Too chicken myself at the time. In short if there's a connection, that deep, taking the sexual plunge is always an option. My only one night stand was with a man, which opened up my eyes big time. Combine that with a real connection, and me thinks it could be mind blowing. We'll see I suppose.

[M. Wolfe]

I answered women but it's a difficult question to ask. With the girls my attraction and feelings can be instant and undeniable so I can find it pretty easy to like-like a girl. With a guy those feelings will develop in time not merely as a physiological reflex either. On several very memorable moments when that guy and I were chilling, thinking over our friendship, in the ease of the moment I nearly - without thinking - nearly let the words "I do love you." fall out of my mouth. "I--" stopped myself there.

So clearly I can love either just as much but with girls it comes naturally easier. I also suspect this may be typical this kind of "in between" male bisexuality and also makes my M/M dynamic fundamentally different to a proper gay guys dynamic. I feel that my brain is a straight brain modified to also respond to 'some' guy and as such is naturally better at falling for girls than falling for guys.

[nyabn_webmaster]

Meaning no offense to the maker, but speaking personally (& not for the New York Area Bisexual Network) what a limited poll to have on a bi/fluid/pan site like this one. Since it doesn't have a few more options that usually go with our community, like maybe a "I'm kinda 50/50" option, a "I dont really notice gender more go for the person" and maybe a "hooray for Transgender/Genderqueer people" one too.

There was literally no choice for me to answer.

[mikey3000]

Currently I am in a long-term committed relationship with a wonderful woman whom I adore.

But I appear to be one of those few bi guys who could have a romantic relationship with a man. Not just sex, but flowers and hand-holding and walks on the beach and gentle kisses and staring into a male partner's eyes as we tell each other "I love you."

I suppose that's why I keep thinking that bisexuality is so much more than sex.

Peace

I'm one of those few bi guys too. While married to a wonderful woman, I have been in a very emotional long term relationship with a male lover. It was actually quite difficult for both of us cause emotions ran too deep, and we had to call it off. I still hurt. BUt I couldn't let it progress any deeper, so we had to call it off.:(.

[shaftmngr]

I prefer women but do really apreciate the pleasures of a good hard cock to play with and suck occasionaly.

[nyabn_webmaster]

But I appear to be one of those few bi guys who could have a romantic relationship with a man.

and


I'm one of those few bi guys too.

When people keep popping up saying "I'm one of those few", after a while it seems to me it's not actually as "few" as perhaps the media et. al. would like to lead us all to believe . . . hmm???

[bimichman]

Prefer women over men, but like to suck dick couple times a month.

[jimisbi]

I love having sex with men, but it is only sex for me; there is no emotional connection. I have an emotional connection to women and I do like having sex with women. I also find that I form an emotional connection to transgenders and do love to have sex with a transgender woman (that is male to female).

[rick1958]

equally into both but men suck cock better

[rochester69ny]

I prefer women overall and am not sure I could have the same type of relationship with a man that I do with a woman in terms of emotional bonding and such.

I do however enjoy giving and receiving oral with a guy... and I love watching a man orgasm as much as I do a woman. (Especially if i am the one that made them orgasm! :bigrin: )

As for penetration... so far I have only had one experience with M/M anal and that was as a Top. I liked it and want to do it some more but one time makes it hard to choose a "preference" in that aspect.

[glansandlabia]

I am a bi man who prefers women to men 60/40

[nyabn_webmaster]

Men. I have never been attracted to women at all.

That's very interesting. I wonder how you came to see and self-identify as being in the bisexual/fluid/pansexual part of the LGBT spectrum then.

[Bi-Zarro]

That's very interesting. I wonder how you came to see and self-identify as being in the bisexual/fluid/pansexual part of the LGBT spectrum then.

He doesn't. We have a few gay men here. Which is perfectly fine. The problem is that some of them make comments that veer dangerously close to misogyny -- or at least a hatred of all women who aren't lesbians.

[csreef]

Right now I'm more into men than women...but most importantly I'm very happy being Bi-sexual:flag4: :flag3:

[nyabn_webmaster]

He doesn't. We have a few gay men here. Which is perfectly fine.

LOL Oh our bad, didn't think of that at all.

[poserpo]

i'm engaged and really love women 100% of the time, but 5% of the time i just really want a big c**k as well LOL. i couldnt ever see myself having a romantic relationship with a guy.

[Nick_C]

Generally I prefer women, but if I wasn't already married to one, I wouldn't be opposed to a relationship with a man either. As in all things, the chemistry would have to click.

However, it's the female form that generally catches my eye.

[nyabn_webmaster]

As in all things, the chemistry would have to click.

Yeah, that's the ticket, you've said it all right there.

[Nick_C]

Yeah, that's the ticket, you've said it all right there.
And it only took me 30 odd years to figure out. :)

[ATaurusJoker]

Women are for marraige and men are fun, I tend to keep it at that. Men and women have two different benefits and qualities that complement one another. Sort of like ying and yang so it doesn't make sense for two men to marry as they wouldn't complement each other as well as a male female partnership. However sex is sex and is ruled by impulses and desire so if I bang a few men on the side of my marriage no harm done.

Ahhhhh... What?

Women are awesome and just as much fun as men (in my opinion they are more fun but that because I lean towards women romantically and sexually)

No need to knock on women or make them sound like they are only good for marriage (which reads: they are good for supporting me and washing the dishes). Ladies are awesome and all kinds of fun.

[TheKnaveOfHearts]

Depends on the day I'm having, really. Blah when I'm feeling less braindead I'll come back to this post and write something more substantial.

[sensualadventure]

I agree with you. Prefer women, but enjoy being with men.

[Agoofball]

If the question is about sexually: prefer men.
If the question is about all else: prefer women.

[biblissful]

The only guy other than Brad Pitt, that really turns me on, I married. As for the womyn, it is different I like to play lots, with the womyn I am with. I guess it is like a guy going from a womyn to another but I form relationships. The young lady I am with as you all know is quite younger than myself but I have met a very interesting womyn my age and there goes the feelings. I am into one man but I love to play with womyn.

[Bisexual Explorer]

Sexually I'm an either/or guy. Either I want sex with men (like now) or I want sex with women. It's never and. Romantically, it's all women.
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[Curious7714]

I am a married man, attracted to both sexes, but only in love with a woman. I couldn't see myself loving a man in that way, but sexually I am attracted to both.

[citystyleguy]

this point of contention comes up more often than not here; but it is also a frequent stumbling block in any discussion regarding sexual orientation. it is if bisexuality is some sort of foyer, or waiting room, before going on into the next room. for me, that is nothing but a los!

to date i have had a relationship with 5 men and 4 women, in most cases overlapping one another. i am bisexual, now and always; i have offered on several occasions on what a day is llike for me as far as being out and about amongst other people; i scope out what appeals to me, with no emphasis on any one sex. i'm far more likley to be attracted to any combination of sexes at any given moment.

for me however, the depth and breadth of the relationship is of far more importance; i dont have sex with anyone that doesnt matter to me! in my last two realtionships, with a man and with a woman, the ltr's overlapped like most as i have previously indicated. i was with the woman for just under 20 years, and with the man, just over 14 years; my relationship with either was just as strong as any way you wish to consider. i was with both 'unto death do you part', and for me that is what ended both; a day does not go by that i give each of them more than just a passing thought.

i am what society calls a serial monogomist; what i get from a man or a woman is as different as day and night, and one does not over power the other.

so be the prevelant belief or whatever the latest study shows, contrary to my above commitment, for me it only proves that you have to be very careful when broad statements are held as truths for the specific participants under consideration!

[Giggles100]

I prefer romancing with girls as so far the guys iv met are mostly just all about the sex really. I'd say I'm 40/60 in favour of girls and that 10% swing is mostly because of the intimacy.

That might change in time if I meet the right guy though. Until then I'l carry on as Iv done for ever. Going out girls who understand me and are Bi too and letting guys come and go from my life.

:three:

[ErosUrge]

I have been reading most of the entries on this topic and find them all so fascinating. The diversity of interests and desires is intriguing and I found of course many practices and interests similar and identical to my own.
As far as voting goes, I couldn't do it simply because sexually I enjoy both very much....when I am with a man, I am totally into those moments sexually and the same when I'm with a woman. However, for me I am interested in women in a much broader scale and for this reason, I have not made a connection with a woman in the way that I would prefer. Alot more is involved and I know when I'm interested in a woman in depth, the intensity of everything changes down to my daily living.
I have never been able to connect romance, emotions, and sex with males. With guys, I am only in it for the sex and only when the desires are stirred.
For example, when I'm out and about in public, I don't really take notice of men at all...I am captivated constantly and continuously by women.
There is the rare ocassion where a male might capture my attention.
When moments of sex are happening, how I love all the wonderful intricacies of what is special about both sexes. I am so tuned in by whichever sex I am playing with and totally devoted to that moment and sensations.
Though I get involved with women emotionally and not with men, I am capable of enjoying a woman just for the sex if that is what is understood from the beginning. This especially applies when I have played with married couples or devoted boyfriend/girlfriend couples; I never infringe upon what they hold dear with one another. I am merely the guest there to enjoy them both.
I absolutely adore women in so many ways, but even when in love with a woman, I have always felt the urge eventually for a cock....
This has created problems for me with the women that wouldn't share me with anyone else. I was able to stay devoted without playing with other women outside the relationship, but my appetite for male sex I have never really been able to put a cap on...and it's not because anything was lacking sexually or any other way with the woman.
I realize many would say that were I truly in love with the woman, I would never stray to anyone else for any reason. But it's more complicated for me. I have tried countless times to deny my urges for male sex when in a relationship with a woman, but to no avail. For years, I hated myself and my urges for male sex when I was in love with a woman.
I finally made peace with this many years ago and through the help of my counselor. Though she is monogamous and heterosexual, she has never judged me for my inability to not stray from the woman I was in love with. She has studied bisexuality for many years and according to her, there are many individuals such as myself that truly do love their partner but cannot get around the desire for same sex indulgences. Her advice to me was to make peace with it and trust that there are women who do accept this in their male partners and allow them to play and sometimes participate with their men and their male sex partners. I already know of several couples where this is true.
I know that many here would judge this and do judge it. I am not by any means proposing that everyone adhere to this kind of situation; we all individually are who we are. I would never judge anyone for their choices and it sure would be nice if the same were true for me. But I know too well after so many years, this is not the case. I am at peace with this as I don't expect everyone to understand or accept.
So, in closing....in ways of emotions, romance, etc........I do lean towards women....but sexually, I am most definitely interested in both equally.

[bisexual Bill]

I have been a Eunuch for more than 20 years due to an illness. I have been married to a woman who is 12 years younger than I for over 30 years. Since I cannot perform intercourse, I do oral. I have since had oral with a man several times and so far I enjoy that equally as well.

How did you become a Enuch? Can you ejaculate, have an orgasm, or get an erection?

[fred fencesitter]

Right now, I'm more attracted to women than to men, while still being attracted to men on occasion. Ten years ago, I think it was the opposite. Ten years before that, it was the opposite of that. It came as a great surprise to me in college to find myself romantically drawn to a man for the first time.

I had a very emotional, tender, romantic relationship with another man in my late twenties. I wouldn't have given that up for the world. (Although I kinda wish that he had been bi, too, so we could have picked up women together from time to time). It was a little tough telling him -- years after the relationship was over -- that I wanted to start dating women. I think he was a little disappointed.

Honestly, the sex I've had with women recently has been just about the best of my life. And, while it's not clear-cut, I think, on balance, I prefer M-F sex to M-M sex.

So maybe for me, bi doesn't mean a steady 50-50 over the lifespan. It's much more fluid than that. But I'm not someone who responds "sexually" to one sex and "romantically" to another.

But here's a funny question. Lots of guys seem to enjoy sex with men and women, but only have relationships with women. I'm wondering if there are any guys who enjoy sex with both, but prefer men emotionally. If so, how do they pull it off? It would seem to be hard to have a primary relationship with another man, but have female sex buddies on the side.

[rissababynta]

I am married to a man, but my sexual attraction to either sex sways different directions in different parts of my life. Could I love both? Yeah maybe... if I found the right woman. I have always been drawn to polyamory even though I haven't ventured there yet. I guess all in all, my possibilities are open.

You KNOW I'm that woman right? lol.

[tenni]

"But here's a funny question. Lots of guys seem to enjoy sex with men and women, but only have relationships with women. I'm wondering if there are any guys who enjoy sex with both, but prefer men emotionally. If so, how do they pull it off? It would seem to be hard to have a primary relationship with another man, but have female sex buddies on the side."

fred fencesitter

Ah, I wonder if this is where LDD got the idea for his quirky "type of bisexual" poll?...:bigrin:

I think that you are correct that few women would accept being not the primary relationship with a man. I do recall a friend stating that he knows a male couple where the one man had a very close relationship with a woman. However, I do not know if it was sexual. In some cases that may be where "fag hag" comes in? In other cases a "fag hag" is usually not sexual in nature.

I agree with those that write that "preference" has varied over my lifetime and at this point I wouldn't say which is the overall preference. At this point though, guys are much easier to deal with.

[fred fencesitter]

Years ago, I traded e-mails with a guy in a M-M relationship who had watched a lot of straight porn with his boyfriend and had become fascinated with cunnilingus. He was looking for a M-F couple to try it out with. I don't know if he succeeded, but he did have a serious prospect. He agreed with me that he was more of a Kinsey 4-5 than a 6.

[littlerayofsunshine]

You KNOW I'm that woman right? lol.

*grins* uh huh uh huh uh huh *shakes her head up and down like a bobbledoll*

After all these years, the fires still burn and age has only made us more beautiful and brighter.

You still owe me a date my sexxy vixen.;)

[Nadir]

I´m more into women, all the way. The most fantastic and wonderful lovers I have ever had have been people of the opposite sex. I dont deny that there are some men who can be really sweet and kind when they want to. But when it comes to sex, I prefer doing it with a woman, because most men I know are only in for a random sexual encounter without more contact. However, when it is a woman, I love the taste of her lips in my mouth when I give her the first kiss, the embrace of her arms as she hugs me like there is no tomorrow, like she is never going to let me go. I love the feeling of being inside her and the warmth of her breath as she falls asleep beside me. And waking up besides her and watching the sun making her hair glow... although I love to please both sexes, there is no doubt that I would prefer to be with a girl that wigh a guy. I have read that actually, when it comes to bisexuality, only a 5% of the people who identifies as such is attracted to both sexes equally. The rest usually prefers one sex over the other.

[man4girlgirl4man]

I go back and forth on this question. Depends on whether I'm predominantly in my straight or my gay mode

[bi4asplay]

I have read various books and websites about bisexuality and they say that very few bisexuals are Kinsey 3s or equally attracted to both men and women when it comes to both sexual attraction and romantic attraction, and that most bisexuals do prefer or lean to one gender over the other.

I do agree that it's impossible to be equally attracted to both genders both sexually and romantically at all times and I've never met anyone who actually is bisexual who claimed to be equally attracted or 50/50 and was equally attracted both sexually and romantically to both genders at all times.

I'm more into men but I have had more sexual experiences and relationships with men and while I do enjoy sex with women at times I do not want a relationship with a woman like I do with a man.

Are you more into men or women? Who do you prefer sex with or fall in love with and why do you prefer that gender?

I am totally agreement with Krysa here. A relationship wit a woman is needed in my life with a man I am interested only in his cock, if there is sex to be had. I have known men that I had BI relations with that lasted as long as 10 years. All of our play time was Bi never M2M alone. We did g out to club, maybe or have a meal but always as Bi couple. A romantic relationship with a man I no place on my radar.

[elian]

Yes. Now that I've become more comfortable with myself.

I've always been attracted romantically and physically to men more. There ARE certain women I am attracted to but I couldn't always tell you why, it's not necessarily because when you say "Hellooo" it echoes down cleavage canyon either.. (giggles).

Seems to be a combination of things. I was raised by a single mom in a divorced household so in a way I've always viewed women more like "sisters" than objects of desire and who wants to have sex with your sister?! A lot of my good female friends, some of which I would've loved to be with - confided in me and at that time in their lives they seemed to need a friend more than a lover (sighs).

Men I lust after, women I've always had to work harder at, but the feelings are definately there.

[tsac2k3]

fantasized of having of more than just sex with a man but not sure if i can stand it.

married now so relationship with wife is good but sexually, i think i like taking cock more.

[voltaire]

This has changed for me over time. Romantically I am more drawn to women and I look at them much more in real life but my fantasy life is now more leaning toward men/homosexual fantasies. So perhaps call me a 4.5

[bicuriousingeorgia]

women only from 1965 til last year, except for thoughts. now more into men, not for romance , but just for sex. did some male/male stuff prior to 1965 and then sucked one male around a year ago. I loved it.

[curalw]

Women by far. Guys only when the urge to be taken is particularly strong and quite honestly I'm only in it for their cock in me.

[newlynymphos]

I enjoy being treated like a slut bitch in heat by men! Course, I enjoy that from women too! But have had relationships only with women, and married a wonderful woman :)

[nomorenomore]

Kind of odd one. I like women's looks. Their shape, Breasts, ass, legs, etc. I find that I am not attracted to overly hairy guys, or heavy tats, etc. So I end up looking at more women than men, but when it comes down to pubic area, while I will go down on a woman and bring her to multiple orgasms, physically, I prefer a cock down there. I don't know what it is. I have only had one cock in my mouth and it was brief, but I am more attracted to cock than pussy.

[i_shoot_blanks]

I definitely prefer women for companionship, romance and sex. Although I have not done it in quite some time, I enjoy sex with a man, both oral and anal. Howeve, there is nothing quite as thrilling and wonderful as sliding my cock into a warm, wet pussy!!!

[liberlib]

Couldn't answer the poll. My response is lop-sided because I favor one woman but many men. I think I am more romantically inclined to women but I only want the one so I don't know if it is the gender I favor or the single personality which is the dominant factor. And yet a crave a deeper relationship with a man.

[Rambigent]

I have always had a preference for women over men, though I think that the preference has been reduced over time...in my 20s it was maybe 75% into women/25% into men and now I'm closer to 60/40. I think over the years I've become more comfortable and knowledgeable about myself and my sexuality, and also have let go of some of my hang-ups about masculinity and being sexually fluid.

[SexuallyTorn28]

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[SexuallyTorn28]

This is so incredibly hard for me. For so long everyone has known my desire for young women, but in the back of my mind that's private trees been occasions where I've gotten the hots for a young male too. For the record men who like teenage boys disgust me. Always have. So when I tell you I was 27 and had sex with a student that could have gotten me arrested, you'd be right to call me a hypocrit. In fact the 21 year old hottie chick I was going out with exposed as a reaction to her anger. You see my whole life I've hid my secret lists for girls and boys of ages 13-17 that I so often longed for. So when after a party I realized there was a mouth watering kid, athlete, ripped, 6pack and a tight perfect shaped butt that I was just horny enough to grab my attention. With my date soundly asleep with the other 6 or so who passed out drunk at a friends house, I made a move for Christopher. When he awake and kissed me so passionately with his tongue I took my hand and unbuttoned his jeans and palmed his 'still growing penis' and fondled his perfect feeling balls. I Remeber thinking how I really wanted to put his balls in my mouth and nibble on them while stroking his cock and after that I wanted to as a 27 tear old man take a risk of horrific consequences and toss he salad with all the sleeping witnesses that close to prof I was at least bisexual if not a complete homosexual. I Remeber pulling Chris' underwear down and starin at his cute cock of just under 5 inches. That turned me on too.
He didn't have a hair on his body and his skin was so perfect. Then my conscience asked me right then if I was about to have gay sex with a ten he boy who had at least been through puberity or was I about to have sex with a minor and risk my entire life. Chris wrapped his sexy legs around my neck and my decision was made, except for a voice that whispered 'go ahead and suck that boys penis you closet homo, your nothing but a great big butt pirate and I'm gonna let everyone know I saw you take advantage of a teenage boy. I was so hard, and so was Chris, but soon others could wake up, and I'd be forever shamed. Right then Chris asked if I was a coward or if I was man enough to let people know you are who you are. Just then I leaned forward and kissed Christopher and I could hear people moving around and I knew that was it, everyone wa staring at a sight they couldn't beleive, me of all people having gay sex and publicly. I though couldn't resist this kid, I coukdnt, even my fears of social condemnation weren't enough to allow me to pass on this perfect male body. I Remeber hearing insults while we had interxourse. Nasty terms were being uttered and someone threw a banana at my head and said stick that up your ass while u fagets are are poking each other's poop holes you ferry. I came inside Chris and after I did reality set in, I felt so small laying there stuck to Chris and everyone knowing I couldn't resist cumming inside a boy am not my hot date or public ridcule could save me. In one day I went from popular kid for 20 years in a city to a homosexual who likes little boys. Are they right? I can't flat out deny it I know that, Chris would agree

[mrcumsalot]

I prefer men over women. I would say that for every woman there has been in my life, there have been five men. I just adore sex with men and do anything for them.

[suckemall]

Interesting subject for me. I grew up having a sister that would get my brother and me naked and suck our dicks and then have us lick her to orgasm. After she would finish with us, my brother and I would continue in our bed until we both had orgasms in each other's mouths. This went on for years until I met an older man who had me sucking his cock two or three times a day. After getting married, I talked my wife into meeting other guys and getting them to fuck her whenever she felt like having a cock other than mine. This turned into a fantastic relationship where I got to watch her get her pussy pounded several times a week by other guys and as she increased her intake of cock. She went for 6" cocks to 10" cocks over a period of 35 years. I got to lick them as they fucked her and clean her up after they finished. Now, I am into enjoying the male cock without the addition of the female body. Love to feel a big hard cock throbbing in my mouth.

[BiEd9]

I have had love relationships with both sexes,It seems on a rotating basis. I can truly love either sex.Depends on the person,not the plumbing.

[cuttin2dachase]

I am capable of deeply loving a woman sexually and emotionally, to the point that I easily remained faithful despite my secret mm desires. I am 60 and have been married twice. I did not desire men for the 1st 32 years of my life, but once I was introduced to oral sex with men at that time, I was forever erotically attracted to bi men and their bodies. Over time, I began to enjoy romance with men as well as sex. I have never had, nor will I ever have deep feelings of love for the men I go to bed with. Paradoxically, I feel and project romance with men and make love to them with as much passion as I do with women, but with much more lust for male lips and bodies than for females lips and bodies. At this point in my life, I more often feel sexual lust and desire for men than for women. I seek no-strings romance and sex with male FWBs much more often than I seek women for the same, but that could change if I once again met and fell in love with a special woman. So for now, put me down as more into men :)

[Bibabyblues]

Romantically more into women and that lifestyle, but still very sexually into men

[WildColonial]

I have had love relationships with both sexes,It seems on a rotating basis. I can truly love either sex.Depends on the person,not the plumbing.

Very true. I suppose "pansexual" is a more accurate description for me. Most of my experiences have been with cisgender men, but I have had crushes and one experience with a cisgender woman. Almost three months ago, I fell in love with a trans woman who is now nine months into her transition. If (God forbid) this relationship ends, I'm willing to do more exploration. It really does depend on the person rather than the gender identity.

[bihusband222]

For me sex is always more intense with a man. But I have two bi male friends and we all agree that women complete the circle. We're all with women at the moment. However, my favourite thing is cocksucking. I love the smell, taste, texture... And swallowing another man's load is indescribable. I figure I'm 70% str8, 30% gay. But, I could settle down with the right guy.

[boyfox]

I'm totally into men after I began noticing that I was increasing getting more emotional with men during sexual intimacy and experiencing feelings of love with a man after dating him a few times.
While I felt not so much with women as I couldn’t stay hard when fucking them. I would get in and I wouldn’t feel anything, no intimacy and feel myself softening up as compared to with guys I felt I would never stop orgasming.

[fpb09]

Women bodies turn me on more then men, while men' personalities turn me on but not really into men's bodies except 4 rearely a man's body will rare! lol

[pole_smoker]

I'm totally into men after I began noticing that I was increasing getting more emotional with men during sexual intimacy and experiencing feelings of love with a man after dating him a few times.
While I felt not so much with women as I couldn’t stay hard when fucking them. I would get in and I wouldn’t feel anything, no intimacy and feel myself softening up as compared to with guys I felt I would never stop orgasming.


Does your wife know you are gay?

[lv69cpl69]

Sounds like me....

[Sigstache]

I'm only romantically and emotionally attracted to women. Guys not so much, I'm just not wired that way.

[cuttin2dachase]

I'd have to say I am more into men at present. After 2 marriages and regular sex with women since I was in college, meeting men for sex excites me more than meeting women. I discovered my bi side at age 32 and have spent the years since then "catching up" and exploring my mm desires moreso than my mf desires. I didn't physically cheat on either of my wives with other women or men, but I did secretly lust for mm sex. I didn't have that same lust for other women. I'm not capable of an emotional or love relationship with any man, but paradoxically I do desire intimacy and romance as part of a sexual relationship with a man (or woman). At this point in my life, I don't desire to marry again or be in a committed relationship with a woman or a man. I could bond with a woman or man if we click socially and sexually. I could also love either gender as I would love a dear platonic female or male. But for me, the sex would be strictly for the fun and pleasure of FWB sex with both of us being independent and going our own ways until the next time we meet.

[mjohn]

I would say I am more physically attracted to men and more emotionally to women. However the intensity level is a bit fluid on the physically side. There are times I go out and see both women and men attractive and there are other times I go out and only find the men attractive. The emotionally side is a bit more constant, always leaning toward the women side.

[jem_is_bi]

I am more sexually attracted to men. However, sometimes, I meet women that definitely get my attention. That happened today.

[boyfox]

Does your wife know you are gay?

Yes, she knows I'm gay.

[bi4asplay]

I love both, altho I am very Bi-select in the women I play with. In plain turms, I am very damn picky..lol:bigrin:;)
Silly Cat

Like Cat I am very damn picky. With a man the relationship could never be more than sexual, or FWB. With a lady it could be as simple as FWB. That is the situation I am in now with a couple of ladies. Just wish one or both were in to playing with BI men. I could and would love to find a lady that could become a much deeper relationship.

[itsnormy]

for an ongoing relationship, I choose women over men. The novelty of being the center of a gang me guys, age has moved me to a point where lust, has pretty well diminished, but making love has become very, very comfortable. The memories of hard cock to the left of me, to the right of me, and inside me, still burns strong and brightly but for a number of reasons, is not the daily entree as it was. But I do love many of the thoughts here, when digested proved BI sexuality DOES exists, is real, and a true blessing.

[chongster]

I am much more into women, in fact guys that turn me on most of the time share the same traits as the women that turn me on only they have a cock. I like slim guys that are hairless on the cock balls and ass, I love a cute hairless ass on both sexes. I discovered my bi side looking at she males. I would never give up pussy though!

[right2b]

For me being attracted to both men and women giving a slight edge to women only because I am a tender, romantic, passionate and I have yet found a man whom gives me this in return. Perhaps it's the soft side of me, not fem but definitely not macho that controls my erotic side. I will say I have only been with a couple of guys and never more than a physical so the emotional part of this relationship I still am in search of. I never thought I would enjoy another mans body so I am open to what comes my way. Thanks

[blatant_bi_guy]

See, I've never had a solid preference. There are times when I was more romantically attracted to women, and times where men were the targets...
How about this:
My first long-term romantic relationship was with a man. It last 4 years.
My second was with a woman, lasted 4 years.
My third was with a man, 2 years.
Fourth, man, 2 years.
Fifth, woman, 2 years
Sixth, A male/female couple, 3 years
Seventh, a man, 1 year
I'm on my eighth, and last (Hopefully) with a woman, It's been 7 years now.

As for sex? I can honestly say I've never had a moment where it was "am I going home with him or her?" I've just always been in the middle. If given that choice between two people, it'd be one of the hardest ones I make.

[pole_smoker]

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[borntosuckcock]

While I used to love to eat a nice wet pussy, I don't get a chance anymore, just too old for a young woman to be interested in. I still find cocks to be very beautiful. The sight of a hard cock in front of my face is so hot, I just have to suck it. My age doesn't seem to be a big factor. I find it fairly easy to find guys to suck off.

[void()]

See, I've never had a solid preference. There are times when I was more romantically attracted to women, and times where men were the targets...
...
As for sex? I can honestly say I've never had a moment where it was "am I going home with him or her?" I've just always been in the middle. If given that choice between two people, it'd be one of the hardest ones I make.

Sounds about on par with me.

Enjoyed only sex with a guy, lost my virginity with him.
Enjoyed sex with a girl, lost that virginity with her.

Got involved with a girl for a few years.
Involved with a guy a few.

Nothing a few.

A gal for sex.
A guy for sex.

Nothing a few.

Involved with a couple guy and gal a few.
A gal for sex.
A guy for sex.

Married a gal.
Involved a bit with a guy while married.

Fairly much the same place for while now, married to a gal, involved a bit with a guy.

I too find it difficult choosing, do not consciously think "oh, okay I'm with a guy now because ...".
Life happens, people enjoy one another. What says we need to choose?

[bi4asplay]

[QUOTE=glansandlabia;138949]I am a bi man who prefers women to men 60/40[/QUOTE


If there are 3 of us playing I am attracted to the other 2 the same. I am not attracted o men t all without a lady in the mix, unless I had been wit him and a lady before. I will pursue a lady, ont a man.

[Biappeal]

Pretty simple for me ... I am much more into men. Maybe we could connect and explore why and how much!

[MissRina]

I romantically and physically enjoy being with both, my husband however is more into the physical aspect with men and romantically/physically with women

[hung4you]

I am definitely 50/50, I love being married but love my cock sucking adventures as well. My wife and I are both Bi, so I get a lot of pussy and she gets a lot of manly cock. Fortunately for us all of our bedroom friends are married as well so our meetings are sometimes short notice. Take last night for instance, she and I were relaxing here at home and our mutual friend sent a text asking if we were up for some naked fun, I showed the wife and she smiled and got up and headed to the shower, I text him back and said give us 1/2 hour and we will be ready. Gotta have fun in life, love both sexes.

[xp243]

I am romantically attracted to women but sexual attracted to men.

[ghw132]

I was in a threesome with my wife and a male friend for over a decade. When we were were in foreplay, it was a free for all, all three of us enjoying everybody. When it came time to cum, we both went for the wife vaginally or anally. I don't have any idea how that fits into the scale.

[Bothsidesnow73]

The answer: yes:). I am Kinsey 3. Been and am in love with both men and women. Watch both straight, bi, and gay porn.

[Shelby57]

I am primarily attracted to women both physically and sexually. I also cross dress and fantasize about being a woman quite a lot.
With women, I see their entire bodies as erogenous zones and sources of pleasure for them and for me.
With men, while I do admire a good looking man and his body, I am not attracted to them in the same way.
With men(even in my fantasies of being a woman) I am only interested in about 5 - 10 inches of very specific real estate and how it feels inside me.

[jellycandid]

Sexually, it is women hands down. However, if I do ever decide to marry, I can only see myself doing it with a man.

[vickilocke]

I consider myself to be a male lesbian. I love to role play as a woman but have no interest in men. I love woman and wish I were a lesbian.

[delpark]

Sexually I am into men. I appreciate the female form but overall I prefer cock.

[jimmiejoe]

l have had my share of women in the past and just get along with men so much better....there's no pretense when meeting another man for sex...l can say and do what ever my soul tells me too to do...and when it flows both ways with my lover ohhhh it's like always the best ever...my next relationship with be with another man or a Very Hot CD l'm most happest with a cock in either of my fun holes...unless l'm with an understanding women that knows this of me then perhaps it could happen again...but not looking for women now ...may never happen again..
Just my 2 cents
Jimmiejoe/Vickie when dressed

[jimmiejoe]

yes Delpark couldn't agree more...so many different shapes and size's not to mention the wounderful tastes...so much to explore Right
Jimmiejoe/vickie when dressed

[KDaddy23]

I’ve found that I really don’t have a preference other than being able to be intimate with someone. I’ve been in love with women and, to date, only one guy but I understand that love doesn’t care about gender or the other things we use to complicate any of this. Even without considering settling down with, when it comes to sex, men and women fit the bill nicely; otherwise, what have I been doing all these decades and why? It makes no sense to me to lock my preferences in lead; I have them just like everyone else does but I understand that it’s always about what can be done and not always that which I prefer to do, which might not always be as realistic as I might want it to be so it’s best for me to remain open and flexible in these things and, importantly, to never say never.

[Grant_Norman]

I love cock as well as pussy...last night was dreaming about eating a beautiful pussy...was getting frustrated cause couldn't get my tongue up her..while I loved many different women (and currently my wife) since she turned off sexually, it is all about sex now ---anyone, anywhere, male or female....love to make them orgasm.

[hung4you]

I’m at 50/50 After 33 years of being married and fucking the same hole, yea I’m both. Spicing up our marriage and even though we are in our late 50s we are in our element when we invite others to our bed. Lucky for me is my wife is still physically attractive and has no problem making a man hard. I too have maintained a solid built frame and I have no problem making a man hard. The benefits of being of the 50/50 crowd is she gets to experience other cocks and I get to experience other pussy. We have a couple we often play with and it’s basically a wife swap, in the same bed we play with each other with vigor. My wife is tall @6 ft and built like a model, her friend is maybe 5 ft nice bubble ass and a willing fuck box and mouth. She squirts like no other and our encounters requires a fresh set of sheets. I often call on her when I am close to where they live, the same goes for him, he often finds his way to my house to service the wife. Us guys also enjoy engaging in sharing our cocks. There’s something about having safe and clean people to play with that makes it all the more sexy.

Our couples that we play with are all bi and seeing the wife interact with other women could make a dead man cum. There are times when I see her eating pussy and playing with their toys drives us men crazy. My wife has openly admitted that she gets wet as hell seeing a cock sliding in and out of my mangina. As for me our couple trading is the big turn on for me, sometimes spending the whole night sliding into her friends pussy and waking up to a huge mess on the bed . When she squirts it’s like someone is power washing my junk, and that makes me bang that pussy hard and fast.

[friskyous]

20 years ago? women.. hands down. Not so much now. Romantically it's always women, sexually I prefer a man these days

[Grant_Norman]

Relationships are one thing (married and deep in closet to sexless wife), however - sex is another thing....when I want to experience sex with someone, their sex male or female - doesn't matter. For me, it is all about feeling their body quiver under my mouth

[Biappeal]

I am much more into men. I told my wife that I am a 5 on the Kinsey scale and she is my "1" away from a 6!

[Newbiguywlondon]

Like some others here, I only form a romantic attachments with women (so far, at least) but sexually I’m 50/50. Love both

[bithunder]

Over my life I have linearly increased my desire to be with men and at the same time decreased my desire for and sexual attraction to women. I am probably 80/20 men right now. I envision the possibility of being a man's wife permanently. However being married for a long time prevents that. I, like many here, have had numerous brief encounters, but only a few I felt I could continue as relationships.

[hung4you]

I’m 100% 50/50, i love pussy as much as cock. Both have their sexy attributes. Even though I love dumping my balls in a hot pussy, i love to feel a man unload in me.

[cuttin2dachase]

For me, it's not which gender I'm more "into". It's more like which gender likes hot sex on short notice and doesn't want a long term relationship LOL. Hands down, it's men ! And since I enjoy sex with men almost as much as sex with women, I pursue men more than women. I do have to say after being married twice and never lacking for pussy...along with being bi since I was 32, meeting men older or younger at my age (65) for hot sex excites me more than having to jump thru all the hoops to have sex with women. I get lucky with women every now and then, but men are seeking me out more than women are and I'm going with the flow.

[playful808]

I can appreciate the beauty in most women. Not that many men. Guys have to be lean and smooth.

[mpine86]

I’ve always been more into women than men in general. When it comes to emotional connections, butterflies in the stomach, crushes and obsessions, it’s all been focused on girls, girls, girls. And I appreciate and lust after everything the female body has to offer, and then some. I only ever find myself checking girls out too, which is pretty much an all day everyday thing. When it comes to guys, I’ve only ever been interested in their dick and balls. That being said, I’m REALLY into dick and balls lol, but not really the guy who owns them. I suppose I would describe myself as maybe 80% straight and 20% gay 🤔

[gradmike]

I voted for men.
I've always been attracted to both sexes, and when I hit puberty more women than men stood out and captured my attention. So I identified as straight but there were always a few guys whose prescence in my vicinity aroused me, and my crushes on guys always lasted longer than my crushes on girls.

[SuckerMC]

I’ve always been more into women than men in general. When it comes to emotional connections, butterflies in the stomach, crushes and obsessions, it’s all been focused on girls, girls, girls. And I appreciate and lust after everything the female body has to offer, and then some. I only ever find myself checking girls out too, which is pretty much an all day everyday thing. When it comes to guys, I’ve only ever been interested in their dick and balls. That being said, I’m REALLY into dick and balls lol, but not really the guy who owns them. I suppose I would describe myself as maybe 80% straight and 20% gay 🤔

Same here with women and men. Until I experience my first cock in mouth I think I am more curious than anything. Very curious.

[PanPanPanda]

I think this poll has too few choices also. I'm most attracted to people who are attracted to me. I almost can't help it. (Unless they're dirty, smelly, or a nasty person.) You know, the ones that give you the come hither look or the ones that look like they want to push you down and press your face into their crotch. This poll didn't give me an option I could choose.

[ncbymail]

I said men because men are easier and at my age easy is a plus...I love pussy and if it was as easy as cock I'd hit it.

But since the wife is not onto it anymore I've developed a taste for dick and cum. A big thing is cock just feels kink and taboo and that adds to the excitement.

[Tight1-4u]

men more than woman!! Got tired of begging and pleading and man sex is so easy.. so ya men by far now.. that is for sex!! Relationship wise a lady every time..

[dickneeder]

Cock give me cock... always...

[Flypaper]

50/50. My sexuality is fluid, I get turned on by a gorgeous ass male or female, love tits and pussy and rarely see a cock I wouldn’t want to taste.

For now at least I only have romantic feelings for women, although I’ve told several men I want them to have my baby lol

[nuttybuddys69]

I'm attracted to men sexually borderlines on the gay side

[JeffT]

I lean toward the women about 60/40 but still love getting off with a guy with a nice tight body and a hard cock.

[SuckerMC]

100% women. It's not the man that I am attracted to it's the cock. Sure a nice looking well trimmed and maintained man helps with that but it's not about that. If he takes care of himself and is clean than the cock is what matters. I still have not sucked my first cock but that is my attraction to a man. His cock.

[SilkyHoseLover]

I still have not sucked my first cock...

Gotta admit this surprises me. Here almost 6 years, almost 500 posts. And with the name 'SuckerMC'.

You sure had me fooled! :bigrin:

[perthguy]

Physically? I am more attracted to women. I am physically attracted to to a wider range of women. The range of men that I'm attracted to has widened over time but is still much narrower than women.

Romantically? When I was younger my romantic interest was exclusively women but now I'm much closer to 50/50. I've nver been in a long term relationship with another man but now I could see myself in one.

Sexually? I prefer sex with other men. I find the act of sex with a man more enjoyable and satisfying.

[SuckerMC]

Gotta admit this surprises me. Here almost 6 years, almost 500 posts. And with the name 'SuckerMC'.

You sure had me fooled! :bigrin:

To this point I have myself fooled. It's much longer than 6 years.

[jem_is_bi]

Previously replied. But, want to again.
MEN FOR ME!!
I am almost exclusively oriented to have sex and relationships with men.
Rarely do I have more than a very very mild interest in sex with a woman.
But, there are a few women that impresse me.
My desire for sex with men has been constant my entire life.
My desire for women is the result of a lifetime of social pressure to be heterosexual.
So, now I am bisexual with a strong preference for men.

[Footstep40]

Guys. No idea why. I’ve been in many intimate and healthy relationships with men, lived with 3, would have probably married one of them had it been legal at the time.. It just kind of is what it is.

[eager4cum]

I have read various books and websites about bisexuality and they say that very few bisexuals are Kinsey 3s or equally attracted to both men and women when it comes to both sexual attraction and romantic attraction, and that most bisexuals do prefer or lean to one gender over the other.

I do agree that it's impossible to be equally attracted to both genders both sexually and romantically at all times and I've never met anyone who actually is bisexual who claimed to be equally attracted or 50/50 and was equally attracted both sexually and romantically to both genders at all times.

I'm more into men but I have had more sexual experiences and relationships with men and while I do enjoy sex with women at times I do not want a relationship with a woman like I do with a man.

Are you more into men or women? Who do you prefer sex with or fall in love with and why do you prefer that gender?

interesting question - for me, I guess that I would have to agree with you. I am more prone to be romantic with women. However, there are a few guys (like my best friend from school) that I could be romantic with, but far fewer than the gals. sexually, I feel more attracted to the men. love cock and cum. I am sexually attracted to women too but just like there are fewer men I'm romantically attracted to, there are fewer women that I am sexually attracted to then men. This make sense to anyone? IDK, can not explain it positively but I do have some thoughts. You see, I am VERY oral and my experiences have taught me that I can be best satisfied with sex with another cock. so my preference sexually is the guys that have my desired cocks. romantically though, I just seem to find more gals that attract me. weird I know.

[julyguybill]

I now prefer men

[Franz007]

It‘s a question that is almost impossible to answer for me. As person i feel very attracted to females only (looking at them, emotions, feelings, falling in love etc.). But talking about sexual acts, i am close to admit that i prefer sex with men. Like yesterday in a gay-club: it was just mind-blowing! I came like never! At the same time i am really missing having a love-relationship with a girlfriend and i really would love having sex again with a woman (it‘s now 1 year that i did not....). As long as i don’t find any i am having fun with men. I guess i am not the only one like that ;-)

[zbi73]

When I accepted my sexuality, I went straight down the middle, Kinsey 3 but that never acknowledged my slight to moderate preference for men so I was fooling myself but was easier to rationalise and deal with back then.

[Cum1st]

I have read various books and websites about bisexuality and they say that very few bisexuals are Kinsey 3s or equally attracted to both men and women when it comes to both sexual attraction and romantic attraction, and that most bisexuals do prefer or lean to one gender over the other.

I do agree that it's impossible to be equally attracted to both genders both sexually and romantically at all times and I've never met anyone who actually is bisexual who claimed to be equally attracted or 50/50 and was equally attracted both sexually and romantically to both genders at all times.

I'm more into men but I have had more sexual experiences and relationships with men and while I do enjoy sex with women at times I do not want a relationship with a woman like I do with a man.

Are you more into men or women? Who do you prefer sex with or fall in love with and why do you prefer that gender?

This is complicated.

I've only been romantically involved with women, and I fall easily.

I've never fallen in love with a woman that I didn't have sex with. OTOH, I haven't fallen with every woman I've had sex with. There is obviously much more to it than that. (I've just deleted a rambling paragraph of disconnected thoughts that I wasn't able to tie together.)

I've never fallen in love with a man.

Sexually:

I'm attracted to all of the female body from the hair on her head to her little toes. I can't give a woman a back massage without wanting more.

I'm attracted to what's in a man's shorts. I could be more objective giving a man a back massage. Although it might qualify as foreplay. I'll have to try it some time.

Sex with a man, although intense, hasn't generated an emotional, home wrecking bond. A sexual relationship with a man who lived nearby and shared common interests might be something my wife could swallow. (Yes, I see the pun here, and I'm not going to rephrase.)

My profile states that I'm a 2. now I'm more sure of it. Thank gosh there are no fractions.

[zbi73]

Thank gosh there are no fractions.

Klein does fractions :bigrin:

[ChiefH]

According to my Kinsey score of 3 I am equally attracted to both genders! I do prefer women though!

[TXLonestarTX69]

For me, women hands down. I love everything about the female form. I'm not real interested in a full relationship with a male because I can't see myself forming any kind of an intimate emotional bond; it's all about the cock.

[dickneeder]

Men...I'd rather suck cocks than fuck cunt

[zbi73]

According to my Kinsey score of 3 I am equally attracted to both genders! I do prefer women though!

For me, the scale is only a guideline, anything between the two ends indicates a degree of same-sex tendencies with the number indicating a preference at that point in time. I believe sexuality is fluid so this preference may change up or down over time. At the end of the day, someone who identifies as a two is no less bisexual than someone who is a three, it's all the same to me. :)

[Realist]

Soon after responding to the original post, 10 years ago, I discovered that my desire to be with one gender, or the other, was on a sort of pendulum. It mostly hung in the middle of the swing, which would make me a 50/50 fence sitter. But, at times the pendulum would swing from gay to straight extremes.....however, I was never totally gay, or totally straight.

I think many bisexuals feel that way, at times...at least, the ones I've talked to about this subject agreed.

[Biwolf]

Women, both romanticaly and sexually.

[bttmnpanties69]

I agree, I don't want to have a relationship with a man, I just like sucking and fucking big dicks but I would luv to have a romantic relationship with a woman.

[grover]

When it comes strictly to sex I can enjoy men and women equally and I can be a top or bottom. When it came to practice however I prefer sex with women and men only if a woman isn't available. That being said when I was in my twenties I was pretty loose. I could do a pretty woman in the afternoon and be done by some guy in the evening. Emotionally however, I prefer women, period. I have never really considered a relationship with a man. Men are for scratching an itch at the back of my asshole only a seven inch dick can reach. I've never been much for quickies. I much prefer no holes barred romp with either sex that could go on as long as either of us can last. But for my heart, women.

[lookin41]

Probably 60% toward male, but its more about the individual, not gender.

[bibliss]

I've always had a stronger romantic preference for women. But as I age and gain more life experience, I'm appreciating men more as close friends and sex partners.

[Glasscityguy]

I'm more attracted to women. Typically if a woman is attractive I'm drawn to her. Men I typically don't look at in that way. They have to do it say something to get my attention, and then have the right look about them. If a hunting buddy dropped his pants and asked me to fuck them id probably wonder what they were on. If a woman so much as hinted about sex I'd be on her before I knew the color of her eyes. With that said I have had great times with men... I guess that can be good or bad but it's worked for me. I've broken my own rules before and wasn't happy with myself.

[Tight1-4u]

Romantically wemen!!! Sexually most definitely men!!! I love crave need man sex!!!

[zbi73]

Romantically wemen!!! Sexually most definitely men!!! I love crave need man sex!!!

Wemen.... so it's midget (can you say that these days?) men romantically and ordinary men sexually then? :P

[Biwolf]

Women, both romanticaly and sexually.

1. Women
2. Trans Women
3. Men

[poetofdarkness]

for me i tend to go back and forth, the old 'bi cycle', so to speak. some days i'm more into women and love looking at a nice pair of huge tits, but there other days when I just think to myself “god damn it I need a man” lol

i'll say at this point in my life i am very open to the idea of dating another guy, just to see how it goes.

[hung4you]

I am exactly 50/50, I love cock as much as I love pussy, I get plenty of both. As I have regular men that I play with so do I have women that I play with on a normal basis. Or maybe perhaps 60 /40 in favor of women.

[bibliss]

I'm an equal opportunity lover, definitely with sex. Honestly, when the clothes come off and everybody's naked, I find both men and women to be equally exciting, equally beautiful, equally arousing, equally amazing, equally fulfilling and equally fun.

Cocks are gorgeous. And so are pussies.... as are the eyes of your lover, male or female...

With women, I feel more open and natural to be romantic. With men, it's more like a friendship, a kinship, a brotherly love, a camaraderie. And mansex feels more raw, primal and intense. Even when I'm with another man and we're kissing and holding each other's nakedness and staring into our eyes, the intimacy feels different from women -- not better, not worse, just different..... delightfully different.

[can2020]

i am 50/50 when it comes to sex

[2holer]

I love a hard cok in my mouth and asspussy

[dickneeder]

I'm probably an enigma. My history of romance is with women but I'd rather have sex with men.

[zbi73]

I'm probably an enigma. My history of romance is with women but I'd rather have sex with men.

Not really, your romantic orientation doesn't have to be the same as your sexual orientation.

[sennex]

Emotionally and sexually these days, men. Looking back over the years the most stable, satisfying and long lasting relationships have been with men. They just seem to 'get me' better.

[funsex]

qgree that it depends on the person, but a sexy cock or ass really reves me up

[MAcpl69]

My wife is a woman so hands down a woman. But directly behind that would be a guy that likes to top that is well hung, attractive, and likes to play with us both.

[chances]

men 1st choice

[Joboo]

Definitely women, never felt romance with guy. I do enjoy a skinny, a little feminine, not much. With a large cock to suck.

[i'm uncut]

i'm just into sex. it don't matter if its balls deep in both guys holes or all 3 girls hole. i will lick a clit until it cums then will do my best to lick her cum up and the same with a penis i will suck it until it pops its load and then drink every drop. i i will bend over and let a guy go balls deep in me or a girl with a dildo. i do prefer a real penis because i know i will get that load at the end. just about anything but scat. and as far as a relationship goes never again.

[iamcontent]

I am more attracted to women especially in a relationship.

[Agoofball]

Men at the moment. Although romantically I am way more attracted to women.... so a good looking trans would be great!

[querty]

At the moment, I'd have to cheat and say I like both equally. Though as many others say - I am not romantically attracted to men *though I have been getting into kissing men lately*.

I really good looking Trans Man or CD with a nice cock would be stellar (that's my go to porn lately)

[dan.woodlawn]

Definately hetro romantic..bisexual...based on body count...urgent/short term stuff happens to be gay, long term sex is hetro...very few sctual bisexual parties.

[Footstep40]

Men, and more men. I have been in long term relationships with both, and I do believe that I still prefer guys sexually and romantically over women. Sure I can admire the differences, but guys are just my thing.