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Cautious
Feb 15, 2006, 11:58 AM
Greetings!! I have been on here for a little while now so I thought I would post this in the hopes that there is someone out there to guide me through my first experience. If interested please read my profile first so you know basically what I'm looking for. I really want my first time to be fun and I am looking forward to hearing from any of you that wants to discuss meeting. It should be known that I am recovering from eye surgery so I am not driving at this time. So if your close to my location that would be fabulous!! Let me know? Thanks for reading this!!

smthsb6
Feb 20, 2006, 6:50 AM
When you get some advise I would sure like to see it. I to am looking for my first time and could use the help.

searchingbrian
Feb 20, 2006, 2:03 PM
I would just suggest meeting people and talking with them in the chat room or whatever. There are alot of VERY interesting and helpful people here who can ultimately help you understand who you are, what your want and find a GOOD first experience versus one that would be lousy. Use the resources on this website as there are many and they are great! As far as I am concerned this isn't really a "hookup" site to find people who are only interested in immediate sex. There are many other sites for that. It might also help to post pics of something other than your genitals!!

likalotapuss
Feb 20, 2006, 2:07 PM
....It might also help to post pics of something other than your genitals!!

Couldn't agree with that more! I (and maybe most) would rather see your face... leave a little to the imagination... I always do! You should just start in the chat room, and chat with others, and you never know where it may end up! You may end up in love with some one half way across the country!! You just never know.....
Good luck!!

bhg08054
Feb 20, 2006, 2:12 PM
Greetings!! I have been on here for a little while now so I thought I would post this in the hopes that there is someone out there to guide me through my first experience. If interested please read my profile first so you know basically what I'm looking for. I really want my first time to be fun and I am looking forward to hearing from any of you that wants to discuss meeting. It should be known that I am recovering from eye surgery so I am not driving at this time. So if your close to my location that would be fabulous!! Let me know? Thanks for reading this!!
In my case, my first experience came about after I had become friends (although remotely) with the couple I met up with. That was really important to me, because it wasn't just sex I wanted. When we did meet, we spent a couple of days together before anything sexual happened, thus reinforcing the friendship.

That may not work for you, but it worked for me.

searchingbrian
Feb 20, 2006, 3:50 PM
you never know where it may end up! You may end up in love with some one half way across the country!! You just never know.....
Good luck!!


True, so true. But on the other hand being in love with someone 1500+ miles away does have its drawbacks (and potentially large phone bills and telephone earaches!!)!

But maybe you can find someone closer to you if you search your area and watch for people who live near you.