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[Besos para ella]

So i still can't shake these feelings i have for females, i keep coming on here and talking with people, then try to convince myself that i'm not feeling this way and feel guilty, don't come on here for 2 months then find myself drawn back here... i guess i can't get enough of you guys/girls haha :P I just wondered if anyone on here who is bisexual feels more inclined to one sex than the other? like i don't know how i feel because i have never been with a girl but i fantasize about it all the time and when talking with a girl i fall wayyyyyyyyyyy to quickly for her more than i ever would a guy, like i've never felt the way i do about a guy than i have felt about some of the girls i have met and its driving me crazyyyy is this normal? anyone else feel like this??

ps i randomly caught an old episode of Tila Tequila's a shot at love yesterday-anyone seen it? Brandi................!?!?!? :D

[brasilcouple]

My advice dont try to rationalize so much, just feel.

like i say to another guy, only you can define what´s good for you, but desire is a powerfull force on us.

you can feel like you like more woman, just because you never been with one. maybe you excitement is about new, the unknow. either you can experiment and discover you´re lesbian or that it´s only a fantasy or that´s you´re really bisexual and like both.

i have times when i think a lot on guys and times that i think more in women, but mostly think on both.

[Besos para ella]

My advice dont try to rationalize so much, just feel.

like i say to another guy, only you can define what´s good for you, but desire is a powerfull force on us.

you can feel like you like more woman, just because you never been with one. maybe you excitement is about new, the unknow. either you can experiment and discover you´re lesbian or that it´s only a fantasy or that´s you´re really bisexual and like both.

i have times when i think a lot on guys and times that i think more in women, but mostly think on both.

thanks :D i am def not just into girls though....for sure.... i am seeing a guy right now, what i meant was that i seem to fall much quicker for a girl than a guy but i think like you said, that could be because i'm extremely curious and its the excitement of the unknown lol! thanks for the advice though :D

[Realist]

Ellie, I agree.

You may be more focused on a lady because you are driven by fantasy, the unknown. Sometimes, you are more drawn to things that you've experienced only in your mind, but until you've loved a woman for real, you will never REALLY know what it's like.

You may not even like it, or you may find a love you've never known before.

It's my hope that you find out soon, so you can get on with your life. It's obvious to me that you need to know and either put this question to rest, or find a lover you need so badly.

Don't settle for less than you want, though, because unless you try with one who fits your needs, you'll never be satisfied.

It's an age-old question and you need the answers.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

lol Your hooked on us, Darlin. This is a wonderful place with many great people on it. :bigrin:
Quit stressing so much, Girlfriend. It'll happen when its meant to.:} We women (Some of us that arent cold hearted old things like me) tend to fall emotionally in love or in facination with women. We live with our hearts, and its a normal thing for us. :}
LIke Realist said, you could have a encounter with a woman and go, "Damn, this is what I've been waiting for all this time??" Or could go "Damn! Why did I wait so long for this?" lol
One never knows Hon.
Just take it slow and easy and let it come naturally. ;)
Cat

[Besos para ella]

Thankyou thankyou for taking the time to read and reply :D

[FalconAngel]

Just get used to it and go with the flow. All of the things that you are concerned with are perfectly normal.

You will find that people here are drawn to same gender equal to opposite gender, same gender more and even opposite gender more.

It all varies from person to person and it is all normal, so just let yourself be comfortable with your attractions and just accept that what you are experiencing is normal for you; and nothing to feel guilty about.

[innaminka]

As a snior member, I can assure you your feelings are natural.
just remember 2 things:
*Everyone is different: there is no "How-to" manual.
*You haven't changed - you are stil "you."

In answer, there is no doubt that over the last15-20 years, my feelings - sexual and emotional - towards women have grown and grown, corresponding with a diminishing of the same towards men.

I consider myself now lesbian rather than bi!

..... but to repeat, I am still me, and very proud!

[AdamKadmon43]

So i still can't shake these feelings i have for females, i keep coming on here and talking with people, then try to convince myself that i'm not feeling this way and feel guilty, don't come on here for 2 months then find myself drawn back here... i guess i can't get enough of you guys/girls haha :P I just wondered if anyone on here who is bisexual feels more inclined to one sex than the other? like i don't know how i feel because i have never been with a girl but i fantasize about it all the time and when talking with a girl i fall wayyyyyyyyyyy to quickly for her more than i ever would a guy, like i've never felt the way i do about a guy than i have felt about some of the girls i have met and its driving me crazyyyy is this normal? anyone else feel like this??

ps i randomly caught an old episode of Tila Tequila's a shot at love yesterday-anyone seen it? Brandi................!?!?!? :D

I am inclined to have sex with which ever one I can get. Life is too short to spend a lot of time worrying about it.

And I probably should not be posting anything.

It will just get Miss Fruitcake all cranked up again.

[BrotherJack]

I am inclined to have sex with which ever one I can get. Life is too short to spend a lot of time worrying about it.

And I probably should not be posting anything.

It will just get Miss Fruit Cake all cranked up again.

Ok I've gone from being called Ms Bitch to Miss Fruit Cake. Sorry Adam, you must be talking about yourself. When do you actually have sex with all these people.....you never leave the house.........day time or night time.........unless it's to go to the zoo or casino city with the senior citizens or camp in the woods.

Or make a fool of yourself on Paltalk.

You haven't had a relationship of any sort for years and years.

[temjintorres]

seriously though. don't worry about it. i'm a guy who always looked at women, but when i was thirteen i went to an all boys school, and we had to shower naked. yeah, i ended up hiding in the toilet for like 10 minutes waiting for my stiffy to go down. ever since i knew i wasn't completely straight! i reckon it's fine, and very normal.:cool: