Help me please?

[coldplay2009]

I am more bicurious than bisexual. I do however have a desire and fantasy to crossdress. Is that normal for bicurious or bisexual behavior. I welcome and appreciate all feedback:tongue:

[Stargazer1417]

Not sure how much this will help, but for what it's worth, I think normal is a relative term. By that I mean what is normal for me may or may not be normal for you, but that doesn't make it any more or less ok. Whatever you feel is acceptable (and within reasonable standards, i.e. killing someone is probably out of the question) is normal and really not up to others for judgment. :2cents:

That being said, I think you will find it is not at all unusual for bisexual or bicurious individuals to have similar tastes.

[BI FANATIC]

whe alone and horny wearing panties n bra or nylons around the house or to the store is my normal! do what makes you happy

[robbie09]

I too consider myself more bicurious than bisexual. I love cross dressing, it is first and foremost for me sexually very exciting. The secondary experience for me is one of relaxation and general well being. From the large number of posts on the subject that I have read it seems that sexual element fades over time and becomes secondary to that feeling of well being.

I am yet to figure out the relationship between my bisexuality and my desire to cross dress. I think they are possibly unrelated . That is my desire to cross dress is derived from my sexual attraction to women and my desire to have sex with men is derived from my sexual attraction to men. However there is a cross over where I also desire to have sex with men whilst cross dressed.

I think we all have femine side and cross dressing helps me touch base with that side of my personality. I like that side. Unfortuneately men dressing like women is taboo whereas women dressing like men is acceptable. I had a meeting the other day with my female accountant who was wearing a suit. Where are the dresses and skirts for men?

Good luck, don't worry, there are many of us (gay, straight and bi) who love cross dressing.

[Kermit Jagger]

Men who enjoy wearing women's cloths is pretty common. I love to put on panties, nightgowns, and pantyhose (usually not all at the same time). And I'm not the only one. Search through the personal ads, and you'll see lots of pictures of guys wearing woman's underwear and cross dressing.

Only you can tell whether or not your desire to dress up is related to being bicurious or bisexual or neither. I've read about straight guys, or at least they claim to be straight, who like to wear women's underwear.

The most important thing I've learned since becoming a member is to relax and enjoy yourself for who you are. Cross dress and enjoy the experience. Sort of bicurious/bisexual down the road.

Love to all,

Kermit