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BiBombshell
Jul 10, 2009, 3:11 PM
Hey all,
I was wondering if anyone had some techniques/suggestions for how I would "milk" myself for cum without achieving orgasm. I want to be able to blow a load but not feel orgasm. Iv'e done it before by accident but it is rare. Anyone mastered a certain technique?:bibounce:
packhugh
Jul 10, 2009, 5:47 PM
reply lol
csrakate
Jul 10, 2009, 5:56 PM
I guess my only question is.....why would you want to? LOL!
strokguy
Jul 10, 2009, 7:37 PM
I'm learning this technique and it is awesome. What you want to do is orgasm but NOT ejaculate.
Practice contracting your pc muscles, (the one that stops the pee if you flex it during urniation). You'll want to build these up over time so that if you go a bit to far you can use them to "clamp down" and stop the ejacualtion. Try a google search on it, there's plenty of sample exercises.
Practice masturbation when you're alone and not rushed because what you want to do is really learn to take cues from feelings down there and adjust your speed and breathing accordingly.
For me, my pc muscles are naturally contracted when I'm close to cumming; when I orgasm/ ejaculate, they relax. I focus on exactly the opposite, forcing them to relax as I build up and then contracting just before I start to cum (ie "clamp down"). This also helps me to be more aware of the subtle changes in feeling in my dick, mostly in the head which signal the impending explosion.
The threshold between orgasm and ejac is tricky; for me I feel a slight wet/ warm feeling in the base of my cock. That's when I for sure know to stop beating; I typically clamp down my pc muscles, breathe really deeply and focus on something completely different. It doesn't always work, but when it does it's so hot, a slow drool of cum out my cock and a great orgasm but little or now prostate pumping.
This is a really great website on the topic:
http://www.whitelotuseast.com/MultipleOrgasm.htm
This one's not bad:
http://www.tantricmasturbation.net/TantricMstb.html
Let me know how it goes and have fun!
BrotherJack
Jul 11, 2009, 12:49 AM
I'm learning this technique and it is awesome. What you want to do is orgasm but NOT ejaculate.
Practice contracting your pc muscles, (the one that stops the pee if you flex it during urniation). You'll want to build these up over time so that if you go a bit to far you can use them to "clamp down" and stop the ejacualtion. Try a google search on it, there's plenty of sample exercises.
Practice masturbation when you're alone and not rushed because what you want to do is really learn to take cues from feelings down there and adjust your speed and breathing accordingly.
For me, my pc muscles are naturally contracted when I'm close to cumming; when I orgasm/ ejaculate, they relax. I focus on exactly the opposite, forcing them to relax as I build up and then contracting just before I start to cum (ie "clamp down"). This also helps me to be more aware of the subtle changes in feeling in my dick, mostly in the head which signal the impending explosion.
The threshold between orgasm and ejac is tricky; for me I feel a slight wet/ warm feeling in the base of my cock. That's when I for sure know to stop beating; I typically clamp down my pc muscles, breathe really deeply and focus on something completely different. It doesn't always work, but when it does it's so hot, a slow drool of cum out my cock and a great orgasm but little or now prostate pumping.
This is a really great website on the topic:
http://www.whitelotuseast.com/MultipleOrgasm.htm
This one's not bad:
http://www.tantricmasturbation.net/TantricMstb.html
Let me know how it goes and have fun!
So when doing this, do you ever take a coffee break?
strokguy
Jul 11, 2009, 12:49 PM
Sometimes my arm gets sore so that is a good reason for a break ;)
If time allows, I will take a break, like either a few minute or an hour or two, but that doesn't always work out. It is fun to stop for awhile and then go back at it again!
BrotherJack
Jul 11, 2009, 9:06 PM
Sometimes my arm gets sore so that is a good reason for a break ;)
If time allows, I will take a break, like either a few minute or an hour or two, but that doesn't always work out. It is fun to stop for awhile and then go back at it again!
Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh.....geeeee.....I really, really didn't expect you to answer that......looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooool!! !!
Bonezs
Jul 11, 2009, 9:21 PM
Now here is the funny surprise. I have only once ever cum without orgasming and that was while I was being backdoored by a thick peice. When I say thick I could barely swallow him. I can usually orgasm without cumming but that usually leaves me wanting more to a point I get really rough till I do cum and it is really forceful of an orgasm behind it.
Will
bimwmdecatur
Jul 11, 2009, 9:33 PM
Now here is the funny surprise. I have only once ever cum without orgasming and that was while I was being backdoored by a thick peice. When I say thick I could barely swallow him. I can usually orgasm without cumming but that usually leaves me wanting more to a point I get really rough till I do cum and it is really forceful of an orgasm behind it.
I think what happened is when you were being backdoored, his thick piece was rubbing on your prostate and that is what "milked" the cum out. Same as what a doctor would do if required, but with his finger, LOL.
swans
Jul 13, 2009, 10:28 AM
Hey all,
I was wondering if anyone had some techniques/suggestions for how I would "milk" myself for cum without achieving orgasm. I want to be able to blow a load but not feel orgasm. Iv'e done it before by accident but it is rare. Anyone mastered a certain technique?:bibounce:
Try using a "cock ring" round the base of your cock or something similar.
When you are feeling horny and want to spend time "milking" yourself, slowly start to masturbate in the normal way until you are fully erect. Then pour some baby oil over your nob before tightening a cock ring round the base of your shaft (as far down as you can get it). The ring will tighten further as your cock grows even thicker and harder than normal- this is fine and seeing and feeling how extremely hard your penis becomes is VERY horny indeed, especially your now massive swollen nob.
You may find that the ring has now restricted the full movement of your foreskin, which means that the ring is good and tight (don't, however, have it too tight that it becomes painful). The baby oil that you poured over your erect cock earlier now allows you to slide your hand up and down as you continue to wank (use your fingers occassionally on you nob and feel how big and smooth it now is) Because of how much blood is now "trapped" in your hard cock; your nob will become extra sensitive (just sliding your fingertips across your swollen nob may be enough for you to start to produce cum- it usually is for me).
Using this technique should allow you to produce A LOT of cum BEFORE you experience the usual feeling of orgasm. If you want to delay orgasm further just stop masturbating until the sensation goes away- That way you can enjoy, for longer, the "milking" process and savour the massive amount of cum you produced earlier.
When you are ready to bring yourself to orgasm just continue to slide your fingers over your wet, and now sticky, cock and nob until it happens (which shouldn't be long seeing how horny you will still be feeling). Your orgasm will, I'm sure, be a thunderous and intense one.
I hope this is of interest. It would be a turn on to know, if you do try it, how you got on.
Happy milking!
mrplayfuluk
Jul 13, 2009, 4:47 PM
or buy a massager from www.aneros.com