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2ferinindy

Feb 11, 2006, 4:27 PM

I found it a lot sexier than I thought I would. That said, I made the mistake of telling him it felt weird not long after we tried it (sorry, but it did, I'd never had a dick before :rotate: ). That was at least 7 years ago, he took that to mean I didn't like it and we are only just getting going again. I'm hoping the feeldoe I bought us may help...

jasforjas

Feb 11, 2006, 4:30 PM

Strapons rock the party! :bigrin:

They are a great way to start fucking about with geneder roles in sex, not cross dressing for me, but great fun sucking the wifes big silicon cock and offering my man cunt up to the thing ;)

this is one of my fav urls on the topic
http://www.babeland.com/sexinfo/howto/suckstraponcock

:bibounce:

BISEXUALHUSBAND

Feb 11, 2006, 5:05 PM

My wife actually was surprised how much she loves having a big "cock" and enjoys when we do it. So do I!!!

innaminka

Feb 11, 2006, 6:35 PM

My husband and I have never used, or probably never contemplated using a strap in our sexual life; I think it would be something he really would have trouble coping with as it presses the homophobic button that is present in most people.

However, in my "other" sexual life, yes, I've used them with a few (repeat few) female partners. Being more of a "femme" I prefer receiving, tho I have been top a few times.
They're a fun toy, but only a small part of an encounter. :tong:

Driver 8

Feb 11, 2006, 7:18 PM

I love using them with guys and with gals - unfortunately my husband won't even give it a try :( (he used to say "maybe someday," then it just became "no, never")

curioscouple

Feb 11, 2006, 8:21 PM

I use one all the time on my husband. He loves it.

cchalmer

Feb 11, 2006, 9:29 PM

CL and I bought one about a month ago.....only used it a couple of times so far but.....oh yeah!!!!!

I enjoy being on the recieving end and CL loves doing it.

:bigrin:

lez&chris01

Feb 11, 2006, 9:46 PM

My husband told me a few weeks ago that he would like to try it. I've used a vibrator on him before and he loved. Even used it himself . So now it's off to the toy store to buy one. lol

searchingbrian

Feb 12, 2006, 1:16 AM

Never used one myself
I don't really understand what is in it for women? Perhaps some of you can enlighten me>>>>
Why do you enjoy it??

csrakate

Feb 12, 2006, 1:52 AM

Never used one myself
I don't really understand what is in it for women? Perhaps some of you can enlighten me>>>>
Why do you enjoy it??
Well Brian...first of all, if you love that person..it is the sense of giving something to them that they enjoy.

Secondly, it is also an amazing sense of empowerent for a woman to experience.

Thirdly..and most importantly, if you use the right devices, there are things built in that pleasure a woman as well...

Kate

yaknowthatguy

Feb 12, 2006, 2:03 AM

absolutely love them. we've got a few, with a 4-strap harness. Our favorite used to be the Nexus from vixencreations.com, but now we've become converts to the way of the feeldoe (feeldoe.com). It's quite easy to use spontaneously, vibrates quite nicely and feels GREAT. We both highly recommend them. :) Whatever you get, take it slow, use lots of lube and enjoy it!

Sparks

Feb 12, 2006, 2:50 AM

I've used dildo's on myself many times in the past, and I enjoy the sensation of them and the real thing too. but a strapon with a woman would be the ultimate high. Any ladies near Simi Valley, California who would like to introduce me to this experience?

searchingbrian

Feb 12, 2006, 3:32 AM

Well Brian...first of all, if you love that person..it is the sense of giving something to them that they enjoy.

Secondly, it is also an amazing sense of empowerent for a woman to experience.

Thirdly..and most importantly, if you use the right devices, there are things built in that pleasure a woman as well...

Kate

thanks, Kate
that does shed some light on the matter..
have to think about that, though
I can see a "dual" kind of device might be nice (poetry!!)

huneypot

Feb 12, 2006, 6:06 AM

ow my strap on is 1 of my best friends :rolleyes:
has bin a bit lonely of late :(
i love to use it and give pleasure to women with it
at first i found it very difficult to use as u obviously have no feeling there and are working in the dark, so to speak
im afraid i banged in a few wrong directions at first : eek :rolleyes: which can be painful so watch out for that
i find the best position is to have ur lovely lady on all fours so that u can have plenty of room to see what ur doin and also a hand is free for clit stimulation aswell ;)
hope me old friend gets out of her hidin place again soon(big sigh)
i miss her
:(

jamie63

Feb 12, 2006, 7:25 AM

Hi gang!

My ex hated the idea of using a strap-on on me! the joke was that she got me to buy a couple, but we never used them - she said 'it's gay'!
Still, it's her loss - LOL!!

jamie

Driver 8

Feb 12, 2006, 10:32 AM

Thirdly..and most importantly, if you use the right devices, there are things built in that pleasure a woman as well...

Although it's easier with toys that are built for two, I can testify that anything with a solid base to rub against can be good for a woman top if the rhythm is right!

Nara_lovely

Feb 24, 2006, 7:19 PM

Have used a strap on a few times too.
I'm a very giving person, so tend to wear it for other F's; incredible. Seeing the F riding it/me, watching her as the sensations build, being a part of it all...
But, as with all toys; it's a toy. It's one part of many ways to enjoy being together. I guess I prefer the hands-on intimacy (so to speak!).

Hubby won't go near it....(yet)

Nara :flag3:

funtimebiman47

Feb 24, 2006, 9:00 PM

So far a large male cock dildo has been the most exciting bi experience I have had. the My wife seems to enjoy me sucking her cock...its to big for anything else. I have enjoyed looking at porn sites with women penetrating their men. I have dreamed of her useing a small strapon on me like that, and dreams are what the future is made of...sigh.

coolkitten

Feb 24, 2006, 9:17 PM

ive never used one, or had one used on me. im hoping that'll change tho!! i'd like to try and experiment!! :cool:

dinojr692000

Feb 25, 2006, 1:48 AM

Just bought one, Have yet to use it. I can't wait to hear from the women on this topic along with the men's

Angela

got fucked once with a strapon and loved let me know if i can be ur guinea pig for your new toy? lol

dinojr692000

red_riding_hood_27

Feb 25, 2006, 5:46 AM

got fucked once with a strapon and loved let me know if i can be ur guinea pig for your new toy? lol

dinojr692000

I don't know...My husband (binavyguy) might have something to say about it then again ....maybe not!! (lol) I just have not gotten the nerve to use it. I did get the "balls' to go buy it then it just sits in my closet. I did however put it on once and took a picture for my husband to see me in it. And no I am not going to post that picture (lol).

searchingbrian

Feb 25, 2006, 6:14 AM

I don't know...My husband (binavyguy) might have something to say about it then again ....maybe not!! (lol) I just have not gotten the nerve to use it. I did get the "balls' to go buy it then it just sits in my closet. I did however put it on once and took a picture for my husband to see me in it. And no I am not going to post that picture (lol).

why are you hesitating? Is your husband not for it? Does he know you have it? or are you looking to use it with other women?
I think you should use it... if it doesn't please you, then at least you know...

trip1

Feb 25, 2006, 8:53 AM

Hi. Years ago I was involved with a couple for some years M/F. She loved her strap on and used it on both her Hubby and myself and loved doing it. I think she liked giving as much as getting and as far as what I thought of it was it was so hot feeling a woman leaning over me, her breasts on my back, one hand holding my shoulder as she pumped my ass while reaching around and stroking me until I got off.... I liked it LOL and so did she

bi_beauty

Feb 25, 2006, 9:51 AM

I've never tried it, I guess I should. I always wondered how a man felt thrusting a women, only one way to find out right?

red_riding_hood_27

Feb 25, 2006, 2:23 PM

why are you hesitating? Is your husband not for it? Does he know you have it? or are you looking to use it with other women?
I think you should use it... if it doesn't please you, then at least you know...

No I am str8 and have desire to use it on a woman..Yes my husband knows I bought. we just haven't had a chance to use it. with 3 kids under the age of 4. It is hard to find the time without one of the kids walking in on us. None of them sleep through the night (yet).
Angela

cassie

Feb 25, 2006, 2:47 PM

I have never experienced it yet personally but would love to try!!

Think I'll buy one and tuck it away for the right opportunity.

candee

Feb 25, 2006, 3:24 PM

I use my strapon on m husband and my bifriend :tongue:

PeterH

Feb 25, 2006, 3:40 PM

Reading some of the posts about strapons here and in another thread gave me a very fuzzy feeling inside.
I can imagine worse things than being hit on by a woman with fantasies of using one on me....
And a feeldoe....
:eek: Where did my morals go????

Curious2knowmore

Feb 25, 2006, 4:07 PM

guycurious

Feb 25, 2006, 8:32 PM

:male: I enjoy using dongs and vibes. Wanted to try a strapon and talked my girl into it also. Did lots of research to find something versital and bought a Doc Johnson vaccu-lock harness with a huge dong for his and her pleasure. It turned out it was way too fat for either of us to enjoy :bowdown: :yikes2: . I have yet to replace it with a smaller dong to try again but will soon enough. Just have to convence my girl to use the other dongs on me more often. :bigrin:

I think we have both purchased the same model. I am able to handle the dong (after some warming up) but my better half didn't like the female attachments. Sadly, we have only used it twice, always at my asking, never by her initiative. I'm tired of dropping hints. I'll probably wind up getting rid of it soon.....