View Full Version : Suggestions on where to find another Both-Bi Couple?
bebrave
Jun 16, 2009, 11:47 AM
My GF and I are both bi, and want some erotic adventure together, but are amazed at how difficult it's been to find another couple like us who we click with. We tried the swing club scene, but it's nearly all BiF and StraightM and there's a taboo against guys touching other guys. We tried a few bi websites - Bicupid, Bisexual playground - but there are so few people on them that we didn't find anyone who we ended up meeting. If anyone here has any suggestions, we'd be grateful.
shybipinay
Jun 16, 2009, 11:59 AM
We sympathize with you as we have experienced similar difficulties. We've done CL, AFF, Squirt, etc. and met lots of people on line, but no one has stepped up to the plate to hit a home run.
This is probably the best place to meet someone compatible.
Too bad you are so far away. Well, you can always PM us or take a vacation out our way. We'd love to chat with you and see what happens.
With a profile like yours, there's no reason why you wouldn't meet that someone special. It sure got us going. Pic is great too.
Good luck and looking forward to hearing from you.
vittoria
Jun 16, 2009, 4:16 PM
I'm also part of a bi-couple and trust me its frustrating!
Try Plentyoffish also
bicplinFL
Jun 16, 2009, 4:50 PM
Not here!
BrazosBiMale
Jun 16, 2009, 5:16 PM
I'd suggest trying swinglifestyle.com (http://swinglifestyle.com), for the most part it's for straight couples with the ubiquitous bi-curious female, but there are a LOT of members so your chances are better. Also, unlike lots of sites, you can actually get somewhere with a free membership. Usually it took 1 or 2 emails before things went to Yahoo chat, and moved on from there. :2cents: Unless you are receptive to single men, or partnered men playing solo, be VERY SPECIFIC about it, and even then expect to bat away a handful of guys. For a while my wife and I had an ad there, our profile made it as clear as possible that we were a COUPLE seeking a BI-MALE for FULL PARTICIPATION three way fun. The vast majority of incoming contacts were from married guys that called themselves straight in their profile. I won't tell you how many guys disappeared fast when I told them that there will be m/m sex, in fact my wife might want to only watch at first. Sometimes they left skidmarks.
Even so, we did have some stimulating conversations, and a few pleasant meetings, but never anyone that we really clicked with. If our location or travel opportunities had been better, I'm sure we would have had better luck.
As an aside, I've heard good things about couplestouch.com (http://couplestouch.com), in that some people have left swinglifestyle.com for it. I've never been there myself, but it might be worth checking out as well. Good luck!
vittoria
Jun 16, 2009, 5:41 PM
I'd suggest trying swinglifestyle.com, for the most part it's for straight couples with the ubiquitous bi-curious female, but there are a LOT of members so your chances are better. Also, unlike lots of sites, you can actually get somewhere with a free membership. Usually it took 1 or 2 emails before things went to Yahoo chat, and moved on from there. :2cents: Unless you are receptive to single men, or partnered men playing solo, be VERY SPECIFIC about it, and even then expect to bat away a handful of guys. For a while my wife and I had an ad there, our profile made it as clear as possible that we were a COUPLE seeking a BI-MALE for FULL PARTICIPATION three way fun. The vast majority of incoming contacts were from married guys that called themselves straight in their profile. I won't tell you how many guys disappeared fast when I told them that there will be m/m sex, in fact my wife might want to only watch at first. Sometimes they left skidmarks.
Even so, we did have some stimulating conversations, and a few pleasant meetings, but never anyone that we really clicked with. If our location or travel opportunities had been better, I'm sure we would have had better luck.
As an aside, I've heard good things about couplestouch.com, in that some people have left swinglifestyle.com for it. I've never been there myself, but it might be worth checking out as well. Good luck!
O YEAH! forgot about "SLS"... that's a cool spot... and it is quite true that there are plenty of "straight" males with "bi" females on there--
'good lookin out' on the "couplestouch"... will check that one out as well :)
bigulfcpl
Jun 16, 2009, 6:17 PM
If you are in the Tampa Bay area, check this out:
BI-PARTY FOR SWINGERS AT THE LAKELAND PARTYHOUSE FOR FRIDAY JUNE 26 STARTING AT 8 PM. WE OFFER HOT TUB , POOL, GAZABO WITH MUSIC, DANCING & MOVIES. 5 COTTAGES FOR PLAYFUL FUN PRIVATE AND GROUP. LOTS OF AREA TO SOCIALIZE. LOTS OF PLACES TO PARK EVEN IF YOU BRING A MOTOR HOME OR CAMPER. TOTALLY PRIVATE. BYOB WITH FREE SOFT DRINKS, COFFEE AND COOKOUT. PEOPLE ARE MORE THAN WELCOME TO BRING A DISH OR SNACK TO HELP OUT SINCE EVERYONE GETS HUNGRY AGAIN AFTER MIDNIGHT. SINGLES WILL BE INVITED IF THEY ATTEND WITH A COUPLE OR THEY SPONSER A COUPLE. CALL JOE OR ANN BY FRIDAY THE 26 AT 6PM TO TO BE ADDED TO THE LIST. TO RECEIVE THE SPECIAL DONATION OF $20 A COUPLE AND IF INVITED FOR A SINGLE ALSO $20
863-853-7750
bebrave
Jun 17, 2009, 11:41 AM
Thanks, all, for the warm welcome and thoughtful responses.
We've tried SLS b4, but found that the overwhelming majority of couples there were BiF/StraightM and encountered a surprising and disappointing amount of anti-BiM bias a the clubs and parties.
We'd never heard of couplestouch or plentyoffish, though, so we'll give those a whirl.
We sincerely appreciate the tips, and if anyone knows of any parties, clubs, groups that cater to both-Bi couples, please spread the word.
bigulfcpl
Aug 12, 2009, 5:53 PM
HI THERE, JUST A REMINDER ABOUT THE BI-COUPLES PARTY
COMING UP ON FRIDAY AUG 21, 8PM AT THE LAKELAND
PARTYHOUSE. WE NOW HAVE THE GAZABO AIR CONDITIONED
AND ADDED A SCREENED IN ROOM.
ANYONE INTERESTED?? Contact Joe or Anne, or, contact us for more information.
http://www.centralflpartyhouse.com/
GymPacked
Aug 13, 2009, 10:59 AM
Try adultfriendfinder.com
There are plenty of bi-couples online at all times.
Good luck and swing for the fences!
Cherokee_Mountaincat
Aug 13, 2009, 2:27 PM
Good one Brazos, thats what I was going to suggest. Or, look under Yahoo Groups for the closest Lifestyle Group nearest you. Go to various meet n greets and go from there. :}
Good luck and happy hunting, Loves. ;)
Cat