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Ratchet
Jun 10, 2009, 5:44 PM
Hi everyone :)

I'm new to this forum and thought I'd better introduce myself

My name is Tom and I'm from Aberdeen in Scotland,

I'm kinda new to the bi "community" or at least admitting (ok maybe not the right word) to myself I'm part of it.
I started to realize I was bisexual when i was about 20, but I sort of supressed /denied it to myself it until recently, and its only really in the last few months I've become comfortable with calling myself bi.

Despite this I'm still very much "in the closet" (yeah i know...) I haven't told anyone, though I have mentioned to a lot of the people who i talk to online (assuming it was relevant).

Thing is I'm kinda nervous about coming out to my friends, and in particular to my family. (though I'm 95% certain they'll be fine with it i don't want to cause myself any unnecessary problems)
Its strange as now that I'm happy with my sexuality I feel I need tell someone, but as there is no good reason why I should atm, I'll just have to keep it under my hat for the time being.

Anyway I'm happy to have found a place like this where i can chat, and look forward to talking to you all in the future :)

littlerayofsunshine
Jun 10, 2009, 5:51 PM
Welcome Ratchet (dunno why, luv the name)

I am glad that you enjoy the site and our family. Hun don't worry about telling anyone. If you don't have a driven desire to tell, cause you are content.. Then its all good for ya atm.

So I leave off, with ... I love your accent :upside:


Just imagining it made me panties fall off.:cutelaugh

onewhocares
Jun 10, 2009, 7:39 PM
Hello to the new Scottie.....

So glad that you have found our wonderful community and are happy to be here. First and foremost you have to be accepting of yourself...then share it with those whom you feel most comfortable.

Bellle


PS...Hope to meet you in chat.