Does SIZE Matter??? [Archive]

texasman6172003

Jun 4, 2009, 4:40 PM

OK Y'all,We were in Chat this afternoon talking bout one thing or another,and it got i think too men pleasing there female partner's. Anyhow i got around too asking about size of cocks.What i want too know ladie's,if you had your choiceand you could only pick one,Would you rather have LENGTH or WIDTH,THICKNESS.Cant have both.So which would you Pick,I here so many different opinions on this. Thank's Ladie's..

_Joe_

Jun 4, 2009, 5:03 PM

Well this stupid add on Sirius RawDog tells me over and over and over its all about WIDTH.

so it must be the absolute truth.

BiDesire

Jun 4, 2009, 5:18 PM

Length is very over rated....it being longer does NOT make it better.

Would much rather have width.

littlerayofsunshine

Jun 4, 2009, 5:20 PM

Now Tex I normally hate these damn questions. But since its you asking I'll give my opinion. Cause I know you ain't gonna perv on us talking about penises.

For me, Length doesn't all much matter. I like a penis to have some girth to it cause I like the way my pussy feels as it stretches around a cock. I like there to be a curve upward because my g-spot gets stimilated a whole lot easier and I can have multiple orgasms. Like 20 or more.

Now outside I that. I can work with any cock that's available. I have never screamed or pointed and laughed at a penis that wasn't wearing a pair of sunglasses and holding a cigar or that wasn't pretending to be a towel rack.

So as long as a partner (penile deliverer) is willing to take directions, so I can work him to the right spot with the right rhythm. We would have a wonderful night Rockin each others world.

texasman6172003

Jun 4, 2009, 5:26 PM

lv69cpl69

Jun 4, 2009, 5:56 PM

wife says girth as for me never got one yet but don't want to big anyway so it dont hurt so bad first tims :tongue:

Cherokee_Mountaincat

Jun 4, 2009, 6:46 PM

lol Tex baby. It aint the size of the vessel, it be da motion of da ocean! lol
Size isnt ever'thing Darlin. Girth is a wonderful thing but length isnt so much. I love cocks of all kinds, but bigger isnt necessarily Better for everyone. Give me 7-8 inches and I'm a happy camper. :}
Easy ta please Cat. :cool:

opentoideas1964

Jun 4, 2009, 9:19 PM

Personally it kind of matters to me. I love length for oral. I love to deep throat, but guys like to bitch fuck me for some reason, and length can really bottom out balls deep and hurt. I do like girth anally, once its positioned in me. I LOVE the feeling then.

onewhocares

Jun 4, 2009, 10:21 PM

I guess I enjoy a man of substance rather than length. As Cat said above I would rather have a man of ability who enjoys pleasing his partner no matter his size than a ten inch man who does not knoe how to work his appendage.

For oral sex I enjoy a man that is not so thick but longish.

Belle

Gina7777

Jun 4, 2009, 10:40 PM

Girth wins for me, every time. Some men are too long and it causes a stabbing pain when they push home. Puts me right off! Smoothness and lack of hair is important to me, especially if some nice oral is required - in which case extreme girth not so good as I only have a little rosebud mouth! Lol! :female:

Kermit Jagger

Jun 5, 2009, 7:28 AM

Girth, if I had to choose. I never turned down anyone due to the size of his cock. What's really important is the guy at the other end.
Love to all,
Kermit

Realist

Jun 5, 2009, 8:20 AM

I am also more interested in the person rather than the size of their equipment. However, if my ideal lover was selected from a superficial list, the guys would be smooth and slightly chubby with small erections. The ladies would be well endowed and shapely, but I also prefer thick and chubby girls, too. Trimmed or shaved pubes are nice, for both. I love to please and have grown more interested in fulfilling my lover's needs than my own. Maturity and some fantastic relationships have instilled that desire in me for that.

**Peg**

Jun 5, 2009, 10:39 AM

Yes, it matters to me.

I believe that preference for one over the other is based on each persons' physical attributes. For example, some women have had extensive surgeries (as I have)...others have had none (ie: the rest of the women who prefer girth). :tong:

signed: fonda8+

12voltman59

Jun 5, 2009, 10:43 AM

Well---thus far--all of the guys I have been with--for the most part have had penises in the range of five to six inches----and with most of them---I have only done oral--the two guys I have had my nether regions probed by--both were around six inches---one of them was a thin cock----the other was very "thick" --for oral---I preferred the thin one since I could take the entire cock in my mouth--the guy with the thick one---his was so big around--it sorta hurt the jaw muscles to get my mouth around it and made it hard to take the entire shaft in my mouth even though it wasn't all that long.

But from the anal perspective--while both cocks felt great---the thick, but shorter cock was the preferred one---it sure gave me the sensation of it being pretty damn big---I could not imagine having a cock that was much longer and as thick as this one----it would either feel really great or hurt like hell!!

Both guys had their own techniques when it comes to the way they "did me"--and they both knew how to operate their equipment like pros and they were very considerate in the way they approached doing the "wild thing"--especially the guy with the thin cock--he "broke my cherry" and did so in a methodical and considerate fashion--that does seem to be the most important thing to me that both guys knew "how to work it" and also did so in a caring manner.

To the original question--I really think that the preference for either or of thick or long---- it really sorta does depend whether your flavor is doing oral or anal----but in the final consideration----it comes down to the person you find---what are they like in terms of personality that is most compatible with you is more important than their "equipment"--the same goes for both males and females. No matter how he or she is endowed or not--if they are a good match for you in terms of personality and other factors is more important and you deal with whatever the nature of their physical attributes happens to be.

From a pure fantasy aspect----I admit---I would like to experience being with a guy who is hung like a horse----but if he is a jerk in terms of his personality no matter how good he might "do it"--it might have been fun to "play" with him once--- but I bet I wouldn't come back for more!!!

I guess I could then check it off my bucket list--"be done by a guy with a monster cock!" LOL then move on and and say: "been there--done that!!"

**Peg**

Jun 5, 2009, 10:50 AM

I was talking strictly m/f volty... which is all I can really comment on with any authority....being woman see <grin>

P.

AlternatingRed

Jun 5, 2009, 10:53 AM

No I prefer average. I mean it depends what you are doing, but on average, average works best!

Shhhhh 47/F/usa

Jun 5, 2009, 2:44 PM

Girth over length absolutely. But as many before me have said, it's who the penis is attached to more than anything else! Just this humble woman's opinion. :rotate:

stroke1man

Jun 5, 2009, 3:08 PM

depends on where your putting it.

For oral I like cocks as long as possible

For recieving anal girth is nicer although long deep strokes are fun too.

I have been in a mmf with a guy who was over 10" the f couldn't take him in her pussy very well as he was too long.

Lisa (va)

Jun 5, 2009, 8:47 PM

texasman6172003

Jun 6, 2009, 12:44 AM

funny thing, the vagina is quite adaptable in most cases, and women in general will adapt. The thing I have noticed is that men seem to be more preoccupied with penis size (their own, or others) much more tham women.
My personal opinion (again another answer just because it is Sexy Texy ) I prefer not to be tested as to the elasticity of the vagina, give me an average guy anytime.

hugs n kisses
Lisa

Y'all are replying just because it's little ole me,:bigrin: I feel special,:tong:

alegrias

Jun 6, 2009, 2:57 AM

funny thing, the vagina is quite adaptable in most cases, and women in general will adapt. The thing I have noticed is that men seem to be more preoccupied with penis size (their own, or others) much more tham women.
My personal opinion (again another answer just because it is Sexy Texy ) I prefer not to be tested as to the elasticity of the vagina, give me an average guy anytime.

hugs n kisses
Lisa

I agree, Lisa. Like I said in chat, it seems to me that a lot of guys (not "all" - fortunately) spend too much time worrying about their size and not enough time worrying about pleasing their partner(s). It's what he DOES with his penis that matters to me.

onewhocares

Jun 6, 2009, 7:57 PM

Y'all are replying just because it's little ole me,:bigrin: I feel special,:tong:

Darlin.......

That is because ...YOU ARE SPECIAL!!!

Belle

Realist

Jun 7, 2009, 7:04 AM

Everyone's different. Personally, I'd rather interact with a fellow who's very small. I never understood guys, or ladies, who relished sucking the largest cocks. Anal with a really large one is not even in my vocabulary! I admit, I'm not into anal, anyway.

A lady, who comes to Florida in the winter, likes for me to help her with her toys and it amazes me that, even though she's only 5' tall, she can take a huge rubber dildo. It's mind-numbing to me that she can easily take it deeply and that it's girth does not hurt her. Being so short and somewhat chubby, she can't use it on herself very well. But, with my help, she has screaming orgasms and it's really quite fun to assist her with them!

My GF, on the other hand, is exceptionally tight and it takes me a while to get her wet and loose enough to even accept two fingers. I'm not exceptionally endowed and that's a good thing. She would be uncomfortable with more length, or circumference.

cupidbradley

Jun 7, 2009, 7:39 AM

I have always heard that girth is where it's at for most women

**Peg**

Jun 7, 2009, 9:29 AM

what Belle said, tex :bigrin:

davem

Jun 7, 2009, 12:09 PM

I know this was asked of the ladies, but I have to say..Alegrias said it all.:2cents:

aslowhand

Jun 7, 2009, 4:25 PM

Ok so you all say size does not matte, well why is it that in a chat room when a profile is opened and the person is very well endowed the wome swoon all over him.All other males might as well just leave and come back later.I have been in a chat room where one said gentelman came in and all the women ask for him to put his cam on so they could see the pony.Another site I have been on women have writen about men posting cock shots they don't want to see it,but one gentelman at first did not and when he did they ask why he had not put it in before.His response was I did not want to offend anyone.Response from all the women OH PLEASE offend away.Now it is said us men obsese over our size but women do about breast size so much so they have implants put in,something men can not do.When I have chated about meeting another couple or single and I am asked how big I am I say 5 1/2'' long and about 5'' around,response.......k.......end of conversation.So I have to say I find it hard to see that size does not matter.

azirish

Jun 7, 2009, 4:36 PM

I agree with aslowhand....the same people who say "size doesn't matter" are the same ones who say "money doesn't matter" and we all know, that line is total BS, along with the "size doesn't matter" part.

Ok so you all say size does not matte, well why is it that in a chat room when a profile is opened and the person is very well endowed the wome swoon all over him.All other males might as well just leave and come back later.I have been in a chat room where one said gentelman came in and all the women ask for him to put his cam on so they could see the pony.Another site I have been on women have writen about men posting cock shots they don't want to see it,but one gentelman at first did not and when he did they ask why he had not put it in before.His response was I did not want to offend anyone.Response from all the women OH PLEASE offend away.Now it is said us men obsese over our size but women do about breast size so much so they have implants put in,something men can not do.When I have chated about meeting another couple or single and I am asked how big I am I say 5 1/2'' long and about 5'' around,response.......k.......end of conversation.So I have to say I find it hard to see that size does not matter.

chook

Jun 7, 2009, 9:12 PM

Whats the old saying???..........Long and thin gets it in............Short and thick does the trick :smilies15

I reckon it don't really matter what ya got, just as long and you know how to use it and you leave them with a dirty big grin :crosseye:

Cheers Chook :bigrin:

aslowhand

Jun 9, 2009, 11:03 AM

I am sorry if what I said struck a nerve and killed the tread.I shall not post agin.

Realist

Jun 9, 2009, 2:17 PM

Everyone's different, but I don't care what anyone else likes; I like what I like. A cute, sweetly smiling, chubby, girl with a full, round figure will catch my attention every time. I like smooth guys with a soft roundness to them, too.

MY GF's the best female lover I've ever had; she's voluptuous, intelligent, sweet-natured, and totally without jealousy.

The best male lover I ever had was endowed with about 3 1/2", when he was fully erect, but I've never known a guy who was a better companion, lover, or person in general.

We hope to embrace another person, or couple some day, but if we never find them, we'll be happy with the way things are, right now. You can't beat that!

Shhhhh 47/F/usa

Jun 9, 2009, 2:22 PM

aslowhand has a point. I confess that a large erect penis is lovely to LOOK at.....emphasis on the LOOK at.

TwylaTwobits

Jun 9, 2009, 5:09 PM

Mmm...well let's be honest SIZE does matter.

There are several jokes about give me 9 inches and make it hurt, so he fucked me 3 times and smacked me.

Or the iGod chat
Me: I like big dicks.
iGod: What's wrong with small ones?

If it's too small...well unless it's wide enough you won't feel a damn thing.

I like enough length to really go deep and enough girth to make me feel every inch.