Curiosity is killing me...

[biguy3113]

I am a newly out bi-male (only out to certain people) but I have enjoyed anal play with my wife for years. She has played with her fingers and dilods/vibrators and I love it but I really want to feel a hard cock inside me and the pleasure I am sure that comes with it. My question is how much different does it feel, how much better can it get. Please share your insight into this. I am working toward that goal but my wife and I have both agreed that the situation and person has to be right for me and us.....

[Beefeater]

I'm a 61yr old bi MWM and I've been bi since I was 14. I've used vibes, dildoes, fingers and quite a few other objects. They are OK but I prefer a partner (M or F) that will be gentle and take their time to make the experience as enjoyable as possible for all concerned. A partner who just slams it in and pumps in and out like the Energizer bunny to get their rocks off as quick as possible is not only rude but selfish. You and your wife are right to search carefully for the right guy. The benefits are totally worth the investment of time and patience.

[bityme]

I'm a 61yr old bi MWM and I've been bi since I was 14. I've used vibes, dildoes, fingers and quite a few other objects. They are OK but I prefer a partner (M or F) that will be gentle and take their time to make the experience as enjoyable as possible for all concerned. A partner who just slams it in and pumps in and out like the Energizer bunny to get their rocks off as quick as possible is not only rude but selfish. You and your wife are right to search carefully for the right guy. The benefits are totally worth the investment of time and patience.

I absolutely agree! Slow and gentle can be exquisite, but if he starts to become a jackhammer, it's all over. Some of the best times have been in the on-top position. You can control the speed and depth and use your muscles to provide an extra squeeze to heighten the experience.