Indaco76
May 7, 2009, 9:42 AM
Hi all,
I thought I'd ask you something I've been pondering on for a while.
I know from the posts I've read so far (only joined a couple of weeks ago) that lots of you are totally bisexual, meaning they feel exactly the same attraction for men and women, while some others are not. I like the fact that there is a wide diversity on this site, which is exactly what I've been searching for.
One post I particularly appreciated was the one on sex acts people like/don't like. It helped me figure out that I was not "weird" for my preferences, although I'm still struggling with this issue.
But sticking to the subject, I would like to take that question one step further: are there any sexual activities that turn you on in fantasy but you're not sure you would enjoy in the same was in reality?
I'll start with myself: my favourite fantasy at the moment is being active with a woman (e.g. doing oral and fingering her) and, when we're both very excited, being penetrated by a man. In other words, a threesome where the man only comes in (no pun inteded) towards the end and adds that little extra stimulation to bring me over the top. Oh, and by the way, the man sort of disappears after we're all satisfied and I'm left cuddling with the lady.
This is really exciting for me in fantasy, since it sums up all my sexual preferences, but I'm not sure I'd do it in reality. I'd be really worried the man would not be able to stick to its role and take other initiatives, which would be a turn off for me. Let alone the implications of making him leave soon after it's all over... poor man! :bigrin: Moreover, there are lots of emotional implications that would make this really complicated to manage in real life (I'm in a relationship with a woman and, although she knows I'm bisexual and miss penetration, I'm not sure we could handle a threesome yet).
Your turn now!
Indaco
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I thought I'd ask you something I've been pondering on for a while.
I know from the posts I've read so far (only joined a couple of weeks ago) that lots of you are totally bisexual, meaning they feel exactly the same attraction for men and women, while some others are not. I like the fact that there is a wide diversity on this site, which is exactly what I've been searching for.
One post I particularly appreciated was the one on sex acts people like/don't like. It helped me figure out that I was not "weird" for my preferences, although I'm still struggling with this issue.
But sticking to the subject, I would like to take that question one step further: are there any sexual activities that turn you on in fantasy but you're not sure you would enjoy in the same was in reality?
I'll start with myself: my favourite fantasy at the moment is being active with a woman (e.g. doing oral and fingering her) and, when we're both very excited, being penetrated by a man. In other words, a threesome where the man only comes in (no pun inteded) towards the end and adds that little extra stimulation to bring me over the top. Oh, and by the way, the man sort of disappears after we're all satisfied and I'm left cuddling with the lady.
This is really exciting for me in fantasy, since it sums up all my sexual preferences, but I'm not sure I'd do it in reality. I'd be really worried the man would not be able to stick to its role and take other initiatives, which would be a turn off for me. Let alone the implications of making him leave soon after it's all over... poor man! :bigrin: Moreover, there are lots of emotional implications that would make this really complicated to manage in real life (I'm in a relationship with a woman and, although she knows I'm bisexual and miss penetration, I'm not sure we could handle a threesome yet).
Your turn now!
Indaco
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