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Long Duck Dong
Apr 30, 2009, 1:57 AM
lol I can not resist this, and I do post this with the full knowledge and consent of a couple of friends of mine, as I have assured them, there will be no identifying details posted

ok, you have a female, very nice, no history of sexual abuse or molestation... sound mind and body.... with a sexual attraction to life size teddy bears....something I will admit, is something I had never hear about before....

unlike a fetish, she doesn't get hot to trot, just looking at life sized teddy bears but can develop a attraction and emotional bond to some teddy bears... that is beyond just the need to get sexually intimate...and actually be a mental and emotional attraction and relationship

so, I spoke with them and told them that in my opinion, the best thing they could do, was to go and buy a large stuffed toy, go to the local sex shop and buy some toys including a strap on with adjustable straps and go have a merry old time..... apparently they did and had.... in their words, the most fucking amazing and intimate threesome with a stuff teddy bear an the most intimate, deep, loving after play with each other..... and one hell of a bed wrecking twosome in the morning.....and there is a clear difference in the way they talk and communicate now

on a professional level... to me, its the same as using a blow up doll.... but a teddy bear would have a more personal feel, as some people can had a more personal connection to a teddy bear over a blow up doll.....but is it a fetish ??? personally, I do not think so.....I honestly think its just a emotional and mental support that she uses to share things that she has differculty sharing with people......

I did get a rather detailed break down of their sexual experience...and it was interesting to say the least.... at one stage, she was under the teddy bear, cuddling it, as her bf slowly moved its lower level in and out of her...and yes, she climaxed well......then rode it and sucked her bf's cock happily, something that she has not wanted to before.... and much to my admiration of the bf, he opened up to anal sex, and rode the teddy bear with a strap on attached to it as he took his partner from behind, again, something she had not wanted to do normally and to their delight and pleasure.... they both enjoyed the experience very much...... even down to him cumming 3 times in 4 hours.....twice, due to the anal experience.....

let me make it clear.... hes not bisexual in any way... he has no interest in any form of intimate contact with males...and even a hug is a mild issue for him......

it have got me thinking.... I do avoid a lot of intimate contact as I have a very low trust level in humans..... and I say that as the ability to betray trust exists in us all.... in many ways.... tho most of us do not willingly and knowlingly shit on our friends.....but putting that aside.... the idea of using a teddy bear with a strap on... could be a way from some couples to act in a sexually intimate way that they would not otherwise do......

to me, its safe, its discreet and the teddy bear sounded to enjoy it a lot....but it would allow for more positions and movement that would not be possible just by ones self

so on behalf of my friends, I shared their experience.... and I am still not laughing at them for this, as they appear to have found a way to open up sexually, safely and to the benefit of them both and as individuals.....

so my advice to people that have trust and support issues... and need that lil extra spice in their lives, in the bedroom..... go fuck a life sized teddy bear....as insane and odd as it sounds... I now know a couple that have smiles a mile wide..... tho I will never look at a life sized teddy bear the same way again...

bityme
Apr 30, 2009, 2:46 AM
I wonder! Is this another example of "objectum sexuality" from the thread that Orbit started?

When you attach the strap-on, you have to be careful not to crush the cotton balls.:bigrin:

TwylaTwobits
Apr 30, 2009, 3:55 AM
mmmmmm that actually sounds more than a bit interesting.......security and comfort and mmmmm. Shopping anyone?

darkeyes
Apr 30, 2009, 4:00 AM
No 1 touches me Steiff collection... fuck wiv me teddies an me gets rite well annoyed!!!!!:eek:

..an Twyla????..meetya up town at midday..shoppin sounds gud as eva..:bigrin:

TwylaTwobits
Apr 30, 2009, 4:10 AM
heheheh, been looking while my babe's on the phone....that does sound very interesting and no one would look twice at a teddy bear on a bed.

Long Duck Dong
Apr 30, 2009, 4:12 AM
I wonder! Is this another example of "objectum sexuality" from the thread that Orbit started?

When you attach the strap-on, you have to be careful not to crush the cotton balls.:bigrin:

roflmao.... I looked at that thread... sex with a couch..???? unique and different...lol

I am not sure if this is objectum sexuality..... I saw it as kinda a variation of the blow up rubber doll thing... but who knows....lol....as long as my friends are happy and satisified...lol....

Realist
Apr 30, 2009, 8:38 AM
My 1st wife, in an alcohol induced loosening of her tongue, said that she had her some of her first orgasms while humping her teddy bear's furry face. After hearing the above, I surmise (contrary to what I thought) that this may not be a rare occurrence at all! Interesting!

rissababynta
Apr 30, 2009, 8:46 AM
I like the fact that you refer it to being like a blow up doll. I don't think many people would think to look at it from that point of view, but in reality, I really don't see it being that much different of a concept except for that the blow up dolls represent more of a humans body. Thanks for opening some eyes to a different point of view on this! Very interesting idea there.

bityme
Apr 30, 2009, 11:23 AM
It gives new meaning to a woman saying: "I'm going to go home, put on a nice teddy, and then relax."

12voltman59
Apr 30, 2009, 11:51 AM
It gives new meaning to a woman saying: "I'm going to go home, put on a nice teddy, and then relax."

Maybe she might slip and say--"put in a nice teddy!"

Cherokee_Mountaincat
Apr 30, 2009, 12:16 PM
LOL Ya know...I love you people, but ya'll scare me sometimes.....LOL:tong:
Laughing Cat

csrakate
Apr 30, 2009, 1:02 PM
My 1st wife, in an alcohol induced loosening of her tongue, said that she had her some of her first orgasms while humping her teddy bear's furry face. After hearing the above, I surmise (contrary to what I thought) that this may not be a rare occurrence at all! Interesting!

I was never married to you, was I? LOL!:bigrin:

darkeyes
Apr 30, 2009, 6:46 PM
I was never married to you, was I? LOL!:bigrin::eek: Realist aint dadsie is 'e Mumsie??? Ya nev did tell me who me dad wos...:tong:

csrakate
Apr 30, 2009, 7:31 PM
:eek: Realist aint dadsie is 'e Mumsie??? Ya nev did tell me who me dad wos...:tong:

LOL..well I can promise you it's NOT my teddy bear LOL!

darkeyes
Apr 30, 2009, 8:25 PM
LOL..well I can promise you it's NOT my teddy bear LOL!
Tf for that Mumsie..me oldest Teddy Bear is ova 60 years old..thot me wos gonna havta give the bugga a bloody gud bollokin for sayin not...:tong:

onewhocares
Apr 30, 2009, 10:02 PM
Maybe she might slip and say--"put in a nice teddy!"

Good One Volty