Ok my situation is kind of wierd

[hornycock2009]

I love my wife very much she turns me on big time and i love her body and love having sex with her she is hot. Over the past few years I have been attracted to seeing naked men and bisexual porn. Seeing gay men or if you call it bisexual men in the act it's a turn on for me. Seeing men having sex with one another gets me horny but not as much as if I was to watch strieght porn or watching two woman go at it what a fucking turn on that is. I have never been with a guy before in my life but when I watch a bisexual movie or see naked men I get turn on by it and often woundred what it would be like to suck a cock or get fuck in my ass by a guy. Also when I watch a bi porn I can picture a guy cuming in my face.

Is this normal for me to feel this way or am I bi or just bicurious

[chick_a_dee]

For the time being, you're bicurious. Have you talked to anyone about your curiosity? Do you have any Bi or Gay friends that might understand how you feel? Don't feel guilty about your feelings. My lady completly understands my bi side and enjoys the company of another gentleman. Explore your feelings and see what others will say on this forum.

[noabody]

You are probably about a kinsey rating of 2. I'm going to classify thoughts of the same sex as homosexual, the opposite sex as heterosexual and thoughts of both sexes as bisexual. Regarding fantasies, it just depends on the day. If you are having a lot of homosexual fantasies then perhaps you are looking to expand and explore.

I typically have heterosexual or homosexual fantasies. I don't usually have bisexual fantasies just due to confusion. It's hard to keep track of what my imaginary partners are doing at any given time :). Some days all I can think of is being surrounded by cocks ready to spew all over me. Other days I think of my wife sitting on my face. Both are fantasies.

I think most fantasies surround the object of desire, cock or pussy. I would tend to think a more true form of bisexuality would be attraction to men. Do you see a hot guy and think about kissing him? Do you imagine running your hands/tongue up and down his body, holding him in caress, or just lying together?

If those thoughts are unappealing then I'd suggest it's curiosity. Your mate might be able to provide with some sort of marital aid (pronounced dildo). If she is unwilling that's another story. I don't know if that helps at all, I think understanding oneself is critical to sexuality and lovemaking.

[FalconAngel]

As a bisexual, why should it not turn you on.

It isn't exactly like sexual orientation is black/white/gray. It is more like Black/white/shades of gray.

[goldenfinger]

I think you'r at where most men is at, I am.Seeing two guys kiss is a turn-off for me, but doing oral is a big turn-on, even bigger if there is a woman there too, so much hotter.I have had male-male oral sexual fantasies for long as I can remember, but I could never have any other feelings for guys.Pure sex. My wife loves gay porno, which was at first a chock to me, but then, I love lesbian porn.At the moment, bi-porn is that we are looking for, but very hard to find.

[etncple]

Well, first off I would say you are as normal as anyone else ( whatever the hell "normal" is). Many men think of trying bisex but never go further than as a fantasy. ALso, as men get older it seems they are more openminded and the "urge " to try new things gets stronger as time goes on. I would say you are curious now and its up to you and your feelings on going further.

Have you talked this over with your wife, or had her watch some bi porn with you ? Just take your time and try and be honest with both yourself and her. Good luck ;)

[robbie09]

I feel the same way as you. I love my wife , find her sexually attractive and love having sex with her. I am over 40 and recently discovered that am turned on by naked men and watching gay porn.

I told my wife and she said "maybe that's normal?"

Maybe it is. Maybe most men if they were honest with themselves would be aroused and curious watching gay porn?

Where I sit you are normal and your situation is not weird at all.

[alegrias]

Are you saying that it's not "normal" to be bi??

[M. Wolfe]

Are you saying that it's not "normal" to be bi??

Depends on your definition of normal - it certainly isn't typical.

[lv69cpl69]

I love my wife very much she turns me on big time and i love her body and love having sex with her she is hot. Over the past few years I have been attracted to seeing naked men and bisexual porn. Seeing gay men or if you call it bisexual men in the act it's a turn on for me. Seeing men having sex with one another gets me horny but not as much as if I was to watch strieght porn or watching two woman go at it what a fucking turn on that is. I have never been with a guy before in my life but when I watch a bisexual movie or see naked men I get turn on by it and often woundred what it would be like to suck a cock or get fuck in my ass by a guy. Also when I watch a bi porn I can picture a guy cuming in my face.

Is this normal for me to feel this way or am I bi or just bicurious

Thats me I have never looked at a man and thought about having sex with him. but reading here watching porn or talking to a bi / gay man and I am hard as hell! I want it bad!!!!!

[swans]

Its not weird at all! I am happily married, enjoy straight sex but love meeting up with my two bi mates and having cock sucking sessions with them. I adore cocks, big shiny swollen nobs and shaved heavy ball sacks. Recently I have been rimmed for the first time by one of my mates whilst the other sucked me off and it was FANTASTIC!

Cocks are made for sliding between wet open lips. And having a big nob in your mouth as it ejaculates is so horny!