Bi men

[Toad82]

How many guys on here would prefer another man for a relationship.

[bityme]

I'm past the point of relationships. Friends with benefits is my limit. I can't see limiting myself to just one of either sex. To me, that is the point of being bisexual. I thoroughly enjoy all types of sex with both men and women.

In the past week, I've had a one-on-one with two different women:female: and one man:male: and a four-way with a woman and two other men:male::male::female::male:. I wouldn't want to restrict things by having any sort of commitment to just one person.

[graytwo]

well - guess what?

Me thinks its probably easier to be in:

FMM relationship than a MF. At least when the F, does typical F things, there's someone else to get blamed. Not to say the F doesn't enjoy a couple M's around and seeing what MM's can do to light the F fire or theirs.

MFF relationship centers around the M. At least when the M, does typical M things like messing around, there's someone else to share comfort with. Not to say both F's can't enjoy each other and light the M fire or theirs.

MM or FF - guess what? It took the MF relationship and made extremely more difficult. In either, someone has to be the 'ying' and the other the 'yang'... Ok - FF, dyke & bitch, MM - top(dyke) & bottom(bitch). They dress their roles and act accordingly.

Ok, is an MMF or FFM better? Really depends on those involved in the triangle. Who is at the point? M or F? Me thinks either will have fun with their partners.

Now the downers.... If MM are the lead against the F or FF are lead against the M, neither will work and both combos should go back to a MM or FF union. Let the other GO!, unless they want to be there for some type of fetish reason.

Before you flame me, which will occur, I know I haven't any combination past 3. A four (4) could be mmmf/mmff/mfff - real tough.

I apologize for the "dyke/bitch/top/bottom" stuff. Yet, those are words used frequently in the world.

Since I'm male, my leanings are to a FMM relationship. I love cock, being fucked BUT my hormones and everything keeps me centered toward the lady. go figure?

let the flames begin...:devil:

[12voltman59]

For me--my answer is "it all depends."

It all depends on what the other person is like, what kind of chemistry develops (not just in the sexual meaning of this but other factors), how the relationship develops and grows and if it seems to have a real future viability and a "future."

[codybear3]

Friends with bennies is my way to go... :paw::paw:

[IanBorthwick]

I avoid answering questions like this because it gives fuel to unneeded fires that are stoked against the structure of our community, both within and without. Better to say, I'll take it as it comes because I haven't before and that always seemed to be wrong.

[DeShawn2]

As much as I'd prefer a relationship with a guy, I'd prefer a natural flow of events, whatever that turns out to be

[JP1986UM]

I'VE got a wife. I want a bf to complete the package.

Depends on what mood I am in as to who I would rather spend time with.

[chick_a_dee]

I'm very happy with my lady and she enjoys sharing another man with me and herself. We would like to find a regular fuck buddy for us as a threesome and for me for some one-on-one.

[markonetwo34]

I'm totally sexually bisexual but don't think I could do a relationship with a male. Too bad for me probably.

[Realist]

I've had more relationships with women than men, but there were a couple of guys, with whom I could have spent the rest of my life. I'm presently in one of the best relationships, ever, with a younger bisexual woman. She's a willing polyamory and I can't conceive of being in a more loving, satisfying, relationship.

[KevsBi]

I've never been in a relationship with another guy, just 'activity partners,' but if something would develop beyond sex I would go into it with an open mind.

[Sparks]

Being Bisexual, I have relationships with women. My contact with men is strictly sexual.:2cents:

[TheKnaveOfHearts]

I'm past the point of relationships. Friends with benefits is my limit. I can't see limiting myself to just one of either sex. To me, that is the point of being bisexual. I thoroughly enjoy all types of sex with both men and women.

In the past week, I've had a one-on-one with two different women:female: and one man:male: and a four-way with a woman and two other men:male::male::female::male:. I wouldn't want to restrict things by having any sort of commitment to just one person.

Jesus, bityme, you've turned me green with envy. All that action in the past week?! Lucky bastard.

Anyway, I echo bityme's sentiments. What's great about being bisexual is that you're open to intimacy with both sexes. However, I haven't given up on relationships just yet (namely because I've never been in a serious one and would like to give it a go). In fact my ideal scenario is to have a relationship with both a man and a woman simultaneously (not necessarily a threesome type deal, though that might be hot).

[jem_is_bi]

I am in a relationship with another guy.
But, that has not eliminated my interest in women and his need for women is definitely strong.

[AmericanBeauty]

I'm way more into men for romance, partnerships, and relationships.

I just want to be fuck buddies or what's now called friends with benefits (it used to be called fuck buddies), with a woman and just have casual sex and nothing more.

[M. Wolfe]

How many guys on here would prefer another man for a relationship.

I'm young and inexperienced, I've had only one relationship in the past: :male::female:.

At this stage I look around and more girls are attractive to me than guys, considerably more so, but about 80% of my fantasies are samesex, but that could be cos I've got about 4 crushes on 3 guys and 1 girl.

I don't know what I'd prefer yet but I want to get a lot of experience with both before I have an answer.

[Toad82]

I'm young and inexperienced, I've had only one relationship in the past: :male::female:.

At this stage I look around and more girls are attractive to me than guys, considerably more so, but about 80% of my fantasies are samesex, but that could be cos I've got about 4 crushes on 3 guys and 1 girl.

I don't know what I'd prefer yet but I want to get a lot of experience with both before I have an answer.

You sound very smart. Welcome to the site.

[M. Wolfe]

You sound very smart. Welcome to the site.

Thanks. It's a place to talk about the things I wanna talk about but my strait mates fear having to talk about.

Although I just thought I'd amend my post from before and say, whoever I end up with, male or female, it would be really nice if they are bisexual too, ya know?

[bityme]

Jesus, bityme, you've turned me green with envy. All that action in the past week?! Lucky bastard.

Anyway, I echo bityme's sentiments. What's great about being bisexual is that you're open to intimacy with both sexes. However, I haven't given up on relationships just yet (namely because I've never been in a serious one and would like to give it a go). In fact my ideal scenario is to have a relationship with both a man and a woman simultaneously (not necessarily a threesome type deal, though that might be hot).

Maybe I should clear some things up. When I said I was past relationships, it is because I have had two wonderful marriages one of 18 years and a second of 20 years. Unfortunately, I lost both wives to cancer. I'm content with what I had and I am now so set in my ways, I no longer want to compromise and you have to be willing to do that for a relationship.

Secondly, the activity I mentioned in my original post all took place at one party. I wish it were a little more spread out, but such was not the case.

[goldenfinger]

No.Sex only.

[Bi_Druid]

I'm currently in a very successful Polyamorous relationship with another man.

But as voltman and others have said, it all really depends on the individual, be that male or female or whatever. I don't want to belittle my current relationship and partner by saying that him being male is but a technicality, but I will say I love him more primarily for who he is inside. I'd hold this rule with anyone I may end up being with.

I prefer to be in a relationship with a Person I love.

[royalistusa]

I agree with Bi Druid, The thing with me is that I have never had a hetero experience but am not opposed to the idea. I also think that our western world needs to realistically look at our approach to relationships and be more open.

[Bi-Zarro]

Sometimes I wish I had a boyfriend. Other times I think I'm so fucking awful in relationships that I really ought to never do anything beyond "friends with benefits" with anyone of any gender. Depends on what my feeling of self-worth happens to be at the time.

[orbit]

Friends with benefits has never worked with me and women, despite good intentions on both sides. I've never tried it with a man so I can't really comment there.

With regards to relationships, whether I was in a relationship with a man or woman, I'd like to think that that would be that, I'm not interested in getting something else on the side, of either gender. I am open to a relationship with either a man or woman, that doesn't mean I need to be seeing both men and women at the same time, just that gender isn't that important. Does that make sense?

[Randypan]

:male: For me I like sex with men but for the most part I am not able to cope with the way they think. But I cannot say I would never have a relationship with a man. Time will tell.

[Jackal]

I get along with men way better than I do women as a rule. I've always been one of the guys. Its much easier for me to form heterosexual relationships because I'm heterosocial. That's not to say I wouldn't love a relationship with the right lady. Right now I'd rather have loose sexual and romantic relationships than anything though. Sex with men is admittedly simpler though, I don't get off on receiving oral and men are more inclined to do the work.