DeShawn2
Apr 4, 2009, 7:15 PM
I know that we're all different and handle situations differently. And, that's great! However, I need some advice.
I went out with this guy a few times and I told him that I liked him. The next thing I know, we went from hanging out twice a week to not hearing from him for almost 3 weeks. Then, he invites me for beers, like we’re great buddies and I’m the one that has to bring it up. The next thing I know, he says I was hard to read, that he’s seeing another guy (we weren’t in an exclusive relationship) that I’m “figuring out” bisexuality, etc. and I tell him he’s a coward, making excuses for not just telling me then and there and that we can’t even be FRIENDS.
Then, about 3 weeks laters, I saw him and his new boyfriend walk up to me. He says hi, all friendly as ever, and I give him a high five, which I’ve never done. I guess I was just that happy for acknowledgement from him. Then, I was friendly to him, as if we were just always good buddies in passing.
What the hell was I thinking? Did I take the high road, become a doormat, or what?
Thank you all!
I went out with this guy a few times and I told him that I liked him. The next thing I know, we went from hanging out twice a week to not hearing from him for almost 3 weeks. Then, he invites me for beers, like we’re great buddies and I’m the one that has to bring it up. The next thing I know, he says I was hard to read, that he’s seeing another guy (we weren’t in an exclusive relationship) that I’m “figuring out” bisexuality, etc. and I tell him he’s a coward, making excuses for not just telling me then and there and that we can’t even be FRIENDS.
Then, about 3 weeks laters, I saw him and his new boyfriend walk up to me. He says hi, all friendly as ever, and I give him a high five, which I’ve never done. I guess I was just that happy for acknowledgement from him. Then, I was friendly to him, as if we were just always good buddies in passing.
What the hell was I thinking? Did I take the high road, become a doormat, or what?
Thank you all!