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big fat &bi
Apr 4, 2009, 3:41 AM
ok people here's one to really think about please reply

Iwant to know what a partner does to you that you just dont like or think is a total waste of good sexual energy

here are mine

(1) blow jobs they do absolutely nothing for me i dont mind giving one but i really do not like having someone sucking my dick

(2) tit fu*king i dont see the point and honestly it dont feel good and i cant see how any woman could like it

Kafka6655321
Apr 4, 2009, 3:44 AM
Feet. I don't hate them but they do absolutely nothing for me and I find it painfully boring.

Anything to do with bodily fluids that aren't caused by sex.

goldenfinger
Apr 4, 2009, 5:41 AM
Don't like the act of HEADACHE,,,,:bigrin: Other then that, nothing as of yet.:cool:

mannysg
Apr 4, 2009, 7:10 AM
ok people here's one to really think about please reply

Iwant to know what a partner does to you that you just dont like or think is a total waste of good sexual energy


Can't think of a single thing. There are several fetishes that do nothing for me, but my wife has none of those fetishes. Hell, I don't think she has ANY fetish! LOL

cherrie1980
Apr 4, 2009, 7:26 AM
I will have to agree with the tit f*ck!! I dont get off on it at all, its a waste of my time. And I also cant stand when someone cums on my tits either, come on they are to be loved on not to releive yourself on!!

Hephaestion
Apr 4, 2009, 8:03 AM
Feet. I don't hate them but they do absolutely nothing for me and I find it painfully boring.

Anything to do with bodily fluids that aren't caused by sex.

On the last, poo takes a fair bit of courage.

If someone likes their feet being played with or using them in some fashion then why deny them. Also they are often around one's ears and the odd kiss or toe nibble comes quite naturally. Read your 'sex manuals' for aspects of e.g. submission and devotion. Above all, remember that feet belong to a person and it is them that one is making love with.

It would be a little wierd if they were just seen as an item on their own. Although I am obliged to say that non-healthy and deformed feet are a turn off no matter the jewellry, paints, or charisma. So next time it comes to buying shoeware think health not fashion.

I am now going to crawl into a corner and stop quivering and salivating.
He! He! He! come here my little gold strappy beauty. I can handle it. I can handle it I tell you. Oh oh oh oh mmmm!

Realist
Apr 4, 2009, 8:35 AM
I agree with you, Cherrie....I can't understand getting a thrill from cuming ON someone, when they have wonderful orifices for receiving orgasms IN them! Like you, my GF and I both agree that breasts are for loving, not fucking!

Oh, I understand different strokes for different folks and I can accommodate a lover's quirks...if they aren't too disgusting to me. I definitely draw the line before urine and excrement are brought into the picture! Rimming is not something I will do and would rather not have it done to me. I certainly do not want to kiss anyone after they've rimmed me! I'm not into feet, but must say, my GF has the prettiest ones I've seen in a while.

I agree that BJs are often over-rated. I rarely ask a lover to perform fellatio for me, especially if they show no interest in it. It is appealing when they obvioulsy crave doing it .......and are talented as well. The desire an skill must be combined, though.

I have to add one other thing: It makes me uncomfortable when someone runs themselves down; one way is by using negative names for themselves. A fellow introduced himself and his wife to me one time by saying, "Hi, this is my wife Sharon and I'm "Lard Ass"!

I would never address anyone using a negative nickname; it just seems too disrespectful to me. BIG FAT, for a handle seems self-debasing to me. I do not associate negative thoughts with over-weight people, but I have noticed that some tend to have the attitude that being thick, chubby, or fat is disgusting to everyone. I personally have known some larger-than-usual folks who were extremely intelligent, sweet-natured and sexually appealing.

Just a quirk of mine, I guess...............

curious44
Apr 4, 2009, 10:38 AM
Anal sex without an enema beforehand. Not nearly as pleasurable, comfortable or cleaner without one.
I agree with others who said cumming on rather than in a sex partner. I want to be in an orriface when it happens. I have a friend who never cums inside his wife. He says he loves to do it dog style and cum on the small of her back. I just don't get it. They're both fixed so it's not a pregnancy issue. Maybe he's watched too much porn and thinks he's Peter North.

Lonewolf76
Apr 4, 2009, 12:54 PM
1. Scat
2. Watersports
3. Cumming on someone
4. Getting a blowjob - just does nothing for me - love to GIVE one though!
5. Feet
6. Extreme Pain

Other than those - I'm willing to try anything once... lw

evilpanda
Apr 4, 2009, 2:34 PM
i'm a foot guy, but only with women. girl feet are gorgeous, guy feet are big and gross. not everything crossed the gender fence i guess.

PolyLoveTriad
Apr 4, 2009, 9:27 PM
I dont get the tit f'ing either...

I dont like anyone licking my ass and I definitely wouldn't kiss them afterward...

Blow jobs... I dont mind doing a bit of sucking, but my husband can have the outcome lol besides hes pretty good at that...

bityme
Apr 4, 2009, 10:43 PM
We all have our prohibitions; kids, animals, etc., but aside from my prohibitions, everything is possible. Sometimes you don't like to deny your partner's pleasure. Sometimes, if you are not enthralled with the act you can manipulate the encounter to something that you both really do enjoy.

JohniBi
Apr 4, 2009, 10:46 PM
Anal. Painful to receive. Gross to give.

jem_is_bi
Apr 5, 2009, 12:54 AM
I do not like anal.
I cannot understand scat being fun at all.
Further, I am never going to rim someone and do not want them to do me.
Stay away from inside that hole back there of min. I assure you that I will stay away from inside the hole back there of yours. How close I get depends on how clean you are and the overall physical access of the situation to your genitals. I do love to kiss a beautiful butt and women, especially, have such wonderful butts.
Otherwise, when my sex partner is clean and his/her fun is harmless to both of us, then their fun will be just as much (or more) fun for me. I especially love all oral play and sex both giving and receiving (thinking of 2+ hours of fun last night).

Georgie_Girl
Apr 5, 2009, 12:54 AM
Things my husband like that I don't would include anal, boob jobs, and cumming on me. It's just a sticky mess and I'm not fond of it. :2cents:

tutunono
Apr 5, 2009, 12:15 PM
Before I give my reply, what the hell is scat? Anyway,the only thing I dont like is for anyone to spit on me! Spitting is gross,I dont care why you're doing it,its nasty! Women make their own lubrication,and for the ones that have a little trouble,that's why they sell it in stores.:bipride:

Georgie_Girl
Apr 5, 2009, 1:14 PM
Before I give my reply, what the hell is scat? Anyway,the only thing I dont like is for anyone to spit on me! Spitting is gross,I dont care why you're doing it,its nasty! Women make their own lubrication,and for the ones that have a little trouble,that's why they sell it in stores.:bipride:

Scat is poo. To put it bluntly. :)

12voltman59
Apr 5, 2009, 3:20 PM
To echo what others have said--not into Scat or "watersports" at all---and while some mild, light teasing bondage might be kinda fun---not at all interested in it beyond that.

For me--I don't like too many flourishments to my sex---I like passionate, aggressive sex--but pretty well straight forward----I like for myself--- to get naked pretty quick--the same with a partner--now--we might undress each other slowly--that is nice--but I just basically like to "get down to it"---no extraneous crap!! LOL Then have a good hot sex session--or a nice and slow, long and passionate lovemaking session as the case might be.

And I also say to other guys---sorry guys but---I am not into cross dressing at all----if the body of the person I am going to be with is wearing clothing items like bikini bottoms and tops, panties, stockings and other clothing items that are "feminine"---the body wearing such items is that of a female!!

For you guys--just get your damn clothes off and "lets do it!!!"

Cherokee_Mountaincat
Apr 5, 2009, 3:35 PM
1. I dont like anal. Thats and exit not an entrance for me, thank you Very much!

2. I dont want some dude jack off on my face, hair, ect. Thats an eww factor of 10.

3. Aint no way-no how and I giving some bozo a golden shower and forget about scatting. That's an Ewww factor of waaay off the charts.:eek:

4. I dont want someone cumming On my body somewhere. And just because the big titties are there, they dont need to be fucked. :rolleyes::crosseye:(Pardon the term)

5. I dont having someone lick my butt, that just makes me kind of sick.

mwmrichva
Apr 5, 2009, 4:09 PM
Rimming! Hands Down!! Anything to do with scat or inflicting pain.

totchune
Apr 5, 2009, 5:58 PM
What's the deal with rimming?...Absolutely disgusting not to mention unhealthy.
Strange how nature placed a sewer pipe outlet right next to a major playground...no environmental regulations there:)

(m)ichClosetcraver
Apr 5, 2009, 8:34 PM
There isn't too much i don't like or, at the very least- won't try. To me, i get tremendously turned on, on what turns my partner on. So, even though it might not necessarily 'do' anything for me, if my partner likes it, i will do it for them.

I know its just a matter of preference, but I don't see why getting cummed on is such a turnoff for most people. If my partner was turned on to the point, that they prefered to cum on me, then so be it, as I would love to accomodate their pleasures. Everyone has limits, so as long as your personal limits are not exceeded, I say have as much fun as you possibly can have- no matter how messy !!!;)

robbie09
Apr 5, 2009, 9:53 PM
[QUOTE=totchune;127308]What's the deal with rimming?QUOTE]

I love rimming. I find it very erotic to bury my tounge between my wife's cheeks. I am amazed that she lets me. The fact that is so wrong for so many reasons adds to appeal.

Altough I love rimming scat holds no appeal at all. I have never tried it and never would.

Georgie_Girl
Apr 5, 2009, 9:59 PM
I know its just a matter of preference, but I don't see why getting cummed on is such a turnoff for most people.

I don't like it because for some weird reason snot/ mucus makes me gag horridly and cum is just too close in texture/ appearance. :)

(m)ichClosetcraver
Apr 6, 2009, 1:11 AM
well, georgie...thats fine for you.... thats why its called 'preference'.... for me, getting blasted by another guy or getting straddled by a 'juicy' woman would be my idea of heaven !!!!

Georgie_Girl
Apr 6, 2009, 2:04 AM
well, georgie...thats fine for you.... thats why its called 'preference'.... for me, getting blasted by another guy or getting straddled by a 'juicy' woman would be my idea of heaven !!!!

Well you had wondered how people could not like it and I gave you an answer. :) To each their own, I say :bigrin:

treemutt
Apr 6, 2009, 7:03 PM
Well here or the ones I can think of

1.No Pain
2.No watersports
3.No Scat Play
4.No guy Kissing
5.No guys in Panties or fem guys.

I'm sure theres others but can't think of them.

LouiseBrookslover
Apr 6, 2009, 7:23 PM
Tit fucking and a woman trying to be sexy for me by licking her nipple. Uggh.

big fat &bi
Apr 6, 2009, 8:02 PM
i just wanted to give my input

i see alot of people say they dont like w/s scat things like that

well i dont see that stuff as a sexual act theres nothing sexual or erotic about pissing on/in some and the same goes for taking a dump on someone

feet??? uuuuummmmm no!!!!!!
cumming on people i would never do it and if some guy decides to take the condom off and cum on me well he just may get his ass beat lol

anal sex I LOVE IT the first tims i had an orgasm from a guy buggering me was a total blast sure it hurts at first but you get used to it and when done right the orgasm way way way better than a normal one

feet you just go on and keep them sox on lol

rimming i wont do it too gross for me but i must admit getting rimmed feels pretty damn good


blow jobs i dont mind giving one getting one dont do much for me


and what the hell is with all these guys that just want a blow job?? what the hell is wrong with you people?????????????

mannysg
Apr 7, 2009, 3:05 PM
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blow jobs i dont mind giving one getting one dont do much for me


and what the hell is with all these guys that just want a blow job?? what the hell is wrong with you people?????????????


And what is wrong with just wanting a BJ from another guy?? That's all I'd want with another guy. I'd like to give a BJ also. I'm not much into Anal.

To each his/her own!

rissababynta
Apr 7, 2009, 5:35 PM
I don't really like to be tittie fucked ("Oh but baby, you have great tits for it" ... fuck you ... I don't see the point) but I will do it at times anyway, just as a foreplay thing. Other than that, I dislike and do not do anything involving scat and threesomes and partner swaps. That's pretty much it...

darkeyes
Apr 10, 2009, 5:48 AM
Not many me don like... even fewer me hasn dun.. but of all.. me bum is made for summat otha than large objects enterin it... ther so much wich is luffly.. wy do stuff that is gross 2 me an h8ful??? :eek:

.. an guys r a thinga the past an all...:bigrin: nope me don h8 'em..jus don fancy 'em... but don haff luff takin the michael outa the sods.. tee hee:tong:

mannysg
Apr 10, 2009, 6:43 AM
No fat/morbidly obese people, ...

Many people would agree with you on that, but I kinda like fat/obese women.

Realist
Apr 10, 2009, 10:08 AM
Plump, voluptuous and smooth are turn-ons for me. I like both male and females on the less than slim side...always have. Grossly overweight, or being painfully thin, are things I cannot handle. I don't like lazy, inconsiderate, or mean-spirited people. Can't stand anyone who is not squeaky clean before sex. It is common courtesy to show respect by being clean beforehand. If anal sex is going to happen, an enema is the least you should expect! Don't even think about rimming, or getting rimmed!

NudistBum
Apr 10, 2009, 1:08 PM
Oh come now...tit fucking with some baby oil is the BEST....YUM

guycurious
Apr 10, 2009, 9:08 PM
Love receiving anal, like giving to females only. Like rimming my wife only, makes her climb the walls !

Love giving and receiving oral.

Not big on the titty f'ing.

Not into pain/water sports/scat. Don't mind a light spanking though !

Feet don't do a thing for me either.

TwylaTwobits
Apr 12, 2009, 7:57 PM
I absolutely draw the line at scat play.

I do like anal, but then the first time I had it, it was done right, probably influenced me more than if it was done wrong and been very painful.

Fortunately my current partner hasn't expressed any desires that I don't feel comfortable handling other than a wish to see me with another woman as he holds me. Hot in theory, but he's bi, I'm not. Guess we'll just see how that goes as time moves on and the relationship deepens.

BrotherJack
Apr 12, 2009, 10:03 PM
Ones that are filmed or videoed and then shown as entertainment, when sex should be something sacred and private.,

Ones where people decide to do what should be private, in public......for real or cyber.

Ones that lower the sexual act to a base level.

Ones where there is no love, commitment or affection, of any kind and some form of permanent bonding.

Ones that take place in secret on web cam, making the person unfaithful to so called loved ones.

Lynne_in_UK
Apr 13, 2009, 9:02 AM
What's the deal with rimming?...Absolutely disgusting not to mention unhealthy.
Strange how nature placed a sewer pipe outlet right next to a major playground...no environmental regulations there:)

The secret is to go to your kitchen and grab the cling film/seran wrap and place a large sheet of the plastic between you and your loved one.

hudson9
Apr 13, 2009, 3:20 PM
I don't like anything involving Jello. Especially grape Jello. But that's just me.
;)

JP1986UM
Apr 13, 2009, 3:37 PM
NO: scat, rimming, watersports (that's what toilets are for), pain, or weird fetishes.
Yes: Anal, vaginal

Wife and I both love giving it and receiving, the feeling lasts for hours. Yowza!
;)

Hephaestion
Apr 13, 2009, 4:01 PM
Anything that disfigures a person permantly, or scares the horses - so e.g. no deep branding or using spurs more than 1inch/2.5cms long.

Damn - I've said too much again.

Hephaestion
Apr 13, 2009, 4:04 PM
I don't like anything involving Jello. Especially grape Jello. But that's just me.
;)

So wellington boots filled with vanila flavoured custard are ok?

hudson9
Apr 13, 2009, 4:19 PM
So wellington boots filled with vanila flavoured custard are ok?

Well, yea -- I mean, doesn't everybody...? (...er, um...!)

AmericanBeauty
Apr 13, 2009, 7:22 PM
I'm not into having sex with people who are way out of shape and don't take care of their body or go to a gym.

As far as sex acts go there's little that I haven't tried that I don't like but I flat out refuse to fuck a woman when it's that time of the month or to give oral sex to a woman at all when she has her period.

I have no desire to let a woman fuck me with a toy/dildo since if I want receptive anal sex I'll just do it with a guy and get the real thing and have a partner who knows what he's doing with a dildo since he has a penis.

AmericanBeauty
Apr 14, 2009, 5:21 PM
5.No guys in Panties or fem guys.

I'm sure theres others but can't think of them.

Yeah I don't like queens or femme men since they're so gross, vapid, and fake.

I don't mind drag queens but I don't like those men who can't pass as being female in drag and who just get a thrill out of wearing women's clothing like only the bra or panties and nothing else, and in the words of the main drag queen character in the movie Kinky Boots, look like "Boris Yeltsin in drag!".

maddog52
Apr 15, 2009, 10:26 PM
I don't get the feet thing, I don't like anal sex when I am on my back and I don't like bondage or domination. I guess I'm okay with the rest.
Oh yea, no toilet stuff.

dickhand
Apr 15, 2009, 11:23 PM
No force , no pain , no scat . CD doesn't do anything for me , but if he wants to wear panties and a teddy , what the hell . Not much for kissing guys . Is that strange ? I'll suck his dick , lick his balls and ass , swallow his cum but not kiss his mouth . Cumming on someone or being cummed on is o.k. especially if someone is licking it off . Clean rimming is fine with me . Love to eat and suck and be sucked . Swallowing of course . Love to receive anal .

M. Wolfe
Apr 15, 2009, 11:47 PM
I don't like the usual, ie. the toilet & pain stuff.
I don't get cumming on someone, feet or tit f-ing - not that I find it disgusting or a direct turn off, there is just nothing attractive about it.

I'm always keen to get a bj, but don't like giving them (however there are few guys I will *ALWAYS* make an exception to the rule for :tongue:)

AmericanBeauty
Apr 18, 2009, 1:52 AM
BUMP!

orbit
Apr 20, 2009, 7:50 AM
Wow, I really must be out there lol. I like almost everything on the list. I don't like the idea of scatting or urinating but have done everything else on the list and enjoyed it to some degree. Whilst I see how some may not find much enjoyment in tit fucking, I think it is nice. I think cumming on somebody in general is a turn on, I like them to see how aroused I am in a weird way I guess. I enjoy a woman's feet. I have rimmed, and been rimmed and enjoy it also, just gotta make sure you're clean before hand. I have had anal sex with women and enjoyed it, although maybe not as much as vaginal sex, but still can easily get off. I have not received anal sex however so can't comment on that. I have however been fingered and enjoyed it, and enjoyed doing both vaginal and anal fingering (again it's just important to be clean). I am not overly keen on receiving blow jobs, I have a bit of a psychological thing against it, I find it hard to think that the other person is enjoying themselves, and I can't get off if I don't think they are. If they seem really keen then it's much easier for me. I have not given a blow job so it's hard to comment there but I love to go down on a woman, so I imagine it could be the same with a man, something about really turning them on.

Oops, forgot to mention pain, that's a no no.

Nikki Ninja
Apr 21, 2009, 3:24 AM
I must say anal is the worst in my book, anyone that asks to do it i just leave( yes i have done that before) grosses me out :eek2:

M. Wolfe
Apr 21, 2009, 5:37 AM
I must say anal is the worst in my book, anyone that asks to do it i just leave( yes i have done that before) grosses me out :eek2:

Aw that's too bad. Did you have a bad experience or something?

darkeyes
Apr 21, 2009, 9:23 AM
Aw that's too bad. Did you have a bad experience or something?
Don havta hav a bad experience 2 kno ya jus don fancy summat... nun of us like or fancy evry possible act.. for me own part me agrees 100% wiv Nikki..

Lienda
Apr 21, 2009, 12:14 PM
I don't like how my current partner wants to put my entire mouth inside of his, keep my lips there, and pretend my tongue is my clit or something with the way he's licking it.

Bi_Druid
Apr 21, 2009, 4:20 PM
Rimming.
Have never found any appeal in doing it to others, and 99 times out of 100, have never really got anything out of having others do it to me. I say 99 out of 100 as there was this 1 guy, only 1, ho actually did rim me and left me almost enjoying it, but more often than not it's just someone slobbering around don there has done nothing for me.

I also don't see the appeal in scat play or water-sports, but have never tried these (never likely to) so can't really fairly say anything further on them.

Oh, and that thing where the person who sucked you off then kisses your on cum back into your mouth, that's always been something of an instant mood breaker for me. Big turn off. I've had partners cum in my mouth before, and I've swallowed, but having my own given back to me is not for me.

Jackal
Apr 22, 2009, 12:09 AM
I think tit-fucking is the winner!

Yeah, I don't see the attraction or enjoyment of it. I'm not really into full anal. I like anal stimulation but full anal is just too painful for me. I am working my way up though. Oral doesn't do much for me, but then it's better to give than to receive! I'm not interested in anything involving excrement. And leave my feet the hell alone! I hate having my feet touched in any context. I really would have thought that excrement-based sex practices would have topped the list. <shrug>

veganbigmac
Apr 22, 2009, 1:52 AM
I guess I am a pretty kinky guy after reading what people don't like. I like almost everything. I love anal giving and receiving. I like to take it more though. I love to give blowjobs, but I love getting them. I love it when a guy comes on me, or in me, or wherever. I don't mind cross dressing, (I think I make a pretty decent lady), and the thought of being with a shemale drives me wild. I like being dominated, a little bit of pain, and a lot of bondage. I'm not so much for being the dominant one, not that it's a turn off, I just have a hard time getting into that role. I love rimming, or being rimmed. Maybe I'm just cool like that, but I've never seen a need to bring enemas into my sex life. I feel like it would destroy the mood. I've never snowballed before, but I bet I'd like it:tong:. Which brings up an interesting question, "As a vegan, should I not swallow since I refuse to eat animal protein?" Well, I am willing to make an exception.

But now that you all know a little more what gets my engine running, I suppose I ought to address the post. What turns me off:
1. Poo
2. Pee
3. Anything that draws blood or leaves a mark that will last longer than a week
4. Anything illegal
5. Fatties (I like curves, but when we fuck there's a limit to the amount of flesh I want slapping around)

AmberRose
Apr 22, 2009, 4:41 AM
I agree with the titty F'ing. I don't enjoy it, it does nothing for me at all.

I would never rim my man or have him rim me. I'm just not into the whole licking of the butt thing.

Noway would poop or pee come into anything sexual. Poo and pee goes in the toilet. period.

I don't mind being cummed on. But only on my breasts, my stomach, my ass or my lower back. No blowing a load on my face, head/hair, or any other place.

I don't like swallowing. I wish I could swallow. But I honestly can't handle the texture of semen. It is way to slimey. As soon as it hits my mouth I gag or get choked. I hate it.

I do love my feet rubbed. A long foot massage and leg massage ALWAYS ends up with sex. When my feet are taken care of it makes me relax and get horny.

I do enjoy anal if done correctly. By someone who knows what they're doing.

I like bondage to a certain extent. I have to be able to get loose out of cuffs or ties if I want to. So I'd never allow someone to really tie or cuff me up.

No pain. I don't like pain. Nipple tugging is fine as long as they aren't tugged to the point of pain.

I HATE when my man spanks me. It is NOT attractive or sexy.

I don't want to be spit on. Thats why they make AstroGlide.

:flag2::flag1:

lv69cpl69
May 15, 2009, 8:54 PM
pottie no pain bout it

B.J.s nothing better
titts whats wrong with that then I can lick my cum from them.......:bigrin:

lv69cpl69
May 16, 2009, 1:43 AM
sorry that was no pottie no pain

TaylorMade
May 16, 2009, 1:25 PM
I can't deal with men playing with my nipples. They rarely do it right. But oddly enough, I'm cool with tit-fucking... frees one of my hands to get myself off. And if he licks his own up after. . .I am a VERY happy camper.

Facials. Facials. Facials. I hate them with the burning hate of a thousand and ONE suns. (A thousand suns is for "I kissed a girl"/barsexuals) I can swallow and I can take a guy cumming on me ( double and triple if he licks it up !). But once you cum on my face. . .it's over. You've disrespected me.

Rimming I'm cool with. Especially after a shower. I put some flavored lube on it, it's like soy sauce on sushi. All night, baby.

Pain? If it isn't spanking, wax, or very light blood play (I'm saving blood play for marriage! :D), I don't want it. No tit torture, no temporary piercings. Just stay with the spanking or wax. . .and if you like it and get to put a ring on it, we'll get the ornamental knives and go Billy Bob/Angelina fo' yo' azz.

Scat...always a no, ALWAYS.

Golden showers, I'm weird about. I'd let a girl do it, but not a guy. And I'm not going to bring it up during the negotiations. And even then, only in a tub, and I will be VERY upset if you've ingested asparagus or anything stinky.

Spit is dumb. That's why we have lube.

Feet? I dunna. I have always liked the feet of some of my partners. . .some fellas have some really nice looking feet. Not like I'm gonna worship them, but I will suck someone's toes while giving them a footrub. And girl feet . . .sometimes yeah.

I'm willing to have someone re-pop my anal cherry, but it has to be done right. (I.E, by a versatile bisexual man. . .I honestly don't trust straight men to do it right)

I think that covers it for now.

*Taylor*

twisted sister
May 16, 2009, 3:48 PM
open to just about anything, butt poop, smells bad,looks bad, and as far as taste i'm not even going there:eek:

grxclaus
May 23, 2009, 1:30 AM
Finger and tongues in the ass. I just don't see how that can enhance the experience.

badkitty87
May 23, 2009, 3:45 PM
my big no-no's are scat pay, felching and being jizzed on. eeew no.

meteast chick
May 24, 2009, 5:27 PM
As a former heterosexual entertaining bisexuality, I always hated giving blowjobs, but was told I was good at it. Never had a guy jizz on me or do anything with excrement or urine, and I can say now that wouldn't be acceptable to me. Tit f*cking was okay, didn't hate it, definitely didn't love it. It did something for him, so I just sort of rolled my eyes.

Now, as a lesbian, the only thing I won't do or let someone do to me is rimming, aka analingus, aka tossing salad. Just not kosher with me, I don't care how clean my or your ass is, but my mouth ain't goin there!!! Oh yeah, and it just plain hurts to be handcuffed with metal handcuffs to my brass headboard. Had to switch to my handkerchiefs, and now all is well!

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luv and kisses,
xoxoxoxoxoxox
meteast

lilme
May 25, 2009, 12:13 PM
no anal, been there, done that and I can do with out.
and would I want to have a guy shoot his cum on my tits if I can eat it.

letsdoit1969
Jun 10, 2009, 12:48 AM
I am open to just about anything but no pottie no pain

Kermit Jagger
Jun 11, 2009, 9:28 AM
If we were really deeply repulsed by all the discharges and eminations from our bodily cavities and extensions, none of us would ever have sex. Even kissing would be out of the question. We've clearly gotten past some of our repulsions. We can all agree that sex with minors and sex under the threat of violence (the legal definition of rape here in NJ) are abhorent. Beyond that, it's a matter of personal preference.

Now with that off my chest, I'll return to the orginial question. I must admit that I have liked all the sex acts that I have experienced. I think my partners would say the same thing about their sexual experiences with me. Maybe, I've been lucky to have really great partners.

I would categorically say no to any sex acts involving feces, urine, or blood, though no one has ever proposed them to me. Other than that, bring it on.

Love to all,

Kermit

lixxnsuxx
Jun 13, 2009, 4:07 AM
I can't say there are many things I haven't done.
Mostly it depends on the partner/partners- if it rocks their world I am cool with it.
I had a friend who had big tits and begged to be titty-fucked, jizz on her nipples and she'd pop her cookies. She liked breast torture too..
I do not understand the foot thing.
I had a guy friend who LOVED to wear panties and bras- it was OK but I like manly men and womenly women.
I enjoy golden showers-givng and getting, but like squirters better.
I've only rimmed a guy once.. while his wife was sucking him..liked it much! Girls seem to like the "nastiness" of rimming. I think they like the taboo.
Scat is a big no.. no way no how.
69 is WAY better than a plain ole BJ- but I love sucking cocks. Getting a BJ without doing anything to your partner strikes me as kind of lazy or selfish.
I would NEVER hurt anyone on purpose. I had a lady once that liked it really rough- weirded me out in a hurry.
Had to ask a gal not to spank me so hard- I couldn't concentrate on fucking her husband.
No blood, no scarring and NEEDLES ARE FOR SEWING!
Other than that I'am game for pretty much anything as long as the people I am with are comfortable and enjoying themselves.

sQuee
Jun 13, 2009, 8:35 AM
Anal on myself, but if i have the right equipment i don't mind giving ;)

Anything related to scat, water sports, and blood is a big no no.

☠Tüff Littl3 ÇοOkiÊ☠
Jun 14, 2009, 12:37 PM
okey
wth is rimmin???
:confused:

billy_campbell
Jun 14, 2009, 12:50 PM
okey
wth is rimmin???
:confused:

Rimming - The act of using one's tongue on the anal rim of another person in order to gain and/or give sexual pleasure. Licking the Anus of another person.

Insertion of the tongue is not necessary. Circular motions in the clockwise directions are supposedly better in the Northern hemisphere, and anti-clockwise ones in the Southern. :tongue: :tong: :tong: :tong:

DiamondDog
Jul 30, 2009, 3:45 PM
Things I am not into: Barebacking, PNP (never done it aside from having sex while buzzed on booze a few times and I prefer sex sober), Swallowing (though I love to eat my own cum and drink my own piss), Age play, anything illegal/non-consensual, the whole adult baby thing, food mixed with sex (However for one male friend/lover I would melt Ghiradelli chocolates in my mouth and spit them out onto his face and in his mouth since he'd love it!), vanilla sex with women (I've never wanted it), I don't find enemas or douching to be sexy even though I have tried them, and while I am not into scat or Roman showers or vomit, or snot I can understand why people enjoy such things as friends of mine enjoy them, and why they do them.

All I can say about Watersports/piss, BDSM, and other kink is: Never say Never, don't knock it until you actually have tried it and done it, and then you know that you're actually not into it.

I am personally not into the whole forced heavy femme drag thing but I would enjoy commanding a certain guy to play dress up. ;)

I have no desire to have a woman give me oral sex but I might let a woman do it to myself and another male lover at the same time, as long as she was wearing our collar. ;)

I also have zero desire to give a woman oral sex when it's that time of the month and she has her period but that is pretty dangerous anyway with the blood.

I enjoy spitting on or in my partners and it's fun! I also enjoy being lightly choked and slapped during sex, and doing this with partners.

I do like hands, feet, ears (having mine bitten/licked/kissed and doing this to other men), men's armpits, and I have other fetishes as well.

As far as receptive anal sex goes I can just take part of a vibrator, a finger or tongue and those can feel very nice but I'd only do that with a partner nowadays.

Taylor is correct that blood can be sexy and hot but again it's not something you'd just want to do with anyone and I'm personally way more into knives.

I also love heavy bondage (restraint with someone's hands, rope, and handcuffs are light to me), moderate/heavy SM, Dom/sub, Master/slave, switch/switch (this is VERY fun!), Watersports, CBT, TT, Abrasion (running scratchy/prickly things over someone's tender flesh), tobacco during sex even though I do not smoke it or use it at all, blindfolds, verbal humiliation/verbal "abuse" (again this is all safe, sane, and consensual like everything I have written about so far is), toys (using them in someone else's ass), and cum/ejaculation control/denial or milking/edging, and I enjoy frottage/wrestling with one or multiple men.

As far as what I like goes, I like a wide variety of things and I wrote about them in my profile. When I do kink/BDSM I do it safe, sane, and consesnsually and I just do it with partners only.

One of my the hottest all male DVDs I have is called Pain Pig Pickup and it's perfect except for the fact that there are no piss or W/S scenes in it. :(

2point5
Jul 30, 2009, 8:22 PM
I know a lot of people find it degrading but I love having another guy cum on me. It's not a waste product, it's the result of my efforts to get him off. Face is ok but chest is best. There are few thing hotter than seeing streaks of jizz running through my chest hairs. But I really want to be able to see it happen no matter where the cum lands. Seeing and feeling a warm load hit my skin is wonerful to me. There is one downside to this though. I'm also very into swallowing and don't enjoy that as much after it's cooled down even a little.

I think one reason I enjoy fooling around with other guys is the taboo nature of it. Anything that makes the fact that I'm having a homosexual encounter more overt ads to the excitement. This might explain my love of cum play.

Since I have other than mainstream sexual leanings would never judge others for what they like or don't like. But there's nothing wrong with talking about it.

roy m cox
Aug 1, 2009, 5:42 AM
i am a slut i like most any sort of sex ,,

but i draw the line at pain & skat & being vomited on "EW" NO

and i like most sex toy to but not some of the BDSM things like ball stretchers had that dunn be for by a guy i was dating and that rely hurts .

:flag3: :flag1:

poserpo
Aug 1, 2009, 10:48 AM
to be honest,
as long as its legal and doesnt hurt and doesnt involve poo (urghh), i'll pretty much try anything once

and if i like it....whoaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

ErosUrge
Aug 1, 2009, 3:13 PM
Well there are things that I know will never change for me but then on the other hand, I've been surprised at those that did change after professing for years that I would never go there. But again, some things are set in stone. Still for those who have certain fetishes that don't turn me on, as long as they hurt no one and are with consenting adults, then so be it.
Before naming what I don't like I will name things I didn't like and then it changed years later:

1) didn't like to swallow cum---that's changed
2) didn't like receiving or giving anal as I thought it disgusting and filthy and of course painful--both those have changed also as I learned about the pleasure factor associated with it beyond the pain and cleanliness also

of course to each their own and it's not for me to convince anyone of anything but I do think it important that even the cumming on breasts, oral or whatever the practice is that some don't like can be treated with a decency and excitement...it's like anything else and this topic is very subjective and in the eyes of the one experiencing it...this is all kind of moot in a sense...
some people lose interest in just basic male/female intercourse because they feel it requires too much effort...I'm certainly not one of those but believe it or not, it's true.

So what is it I don't like and are set in stone?....hmmm...well enjoy most sensual erotic experiences but I would have to say that clothes pins attached to my nipples and scrotom are definitely something I want no part of ever again....ouch!!!!...can't believe I agreed and allowed it. BDSM and things involving pain do nothing for me...but again, for those who enjoy it, I don't judge.

Definitely against bestiality; the animals have no voice just as children don't...

That's about it.

AdamKadmon43
Aug 1, 2009, 4:03 PM
Iwant to know what a partner does to you that you just dont like or think is a total waste of good sexual energy


1.) Anything that causes pain.
2.) Anything that is grossly unsanitary.

Other than that, anything with a consenting adult is fine with me.

Which is all pretty much irrelevent being as I don't currently have a partner to do anything to me anyhow........ can't imagine why.

just4mefc
Aug 1, 2009, 4:05 PM
Not into scat, urine, animals, young ppl.

Other then that is is all good!!!! Love sex, love cum, love anal give or receive, love doing things to a partner they have not tried before. All depends on the partner at the time. I just go with the moment.

fredtyg
Aug 1, 2009, 4:19 PM
There isn't too much i don't like or, at the very least- won't try. To me, i get tremendously turned on, on what turns my partner on. So, even though it might not necessarily 'do' anything for me, if my partner likes it, i will do it for them.


Agreed. To me it matters most what my partner wants. The most important thing is for him to get what he or she wants. About the only limit I would have is eating scat but I guess if he really, really wanted to shit on me (anywhere but my face) I'd let him do it.

Unlike some, I'm fascinated by piss. Never done it but I'm looking forward to trying it one of these days.

chub-bi
Aug 3, 2009, 11:22 AM
Anything to do with,

POO

VOMIT

SPITTING ON ME

Bluefinger
Aug 3, 2009, 12:13 PM
I'd say things i'd definitely not welcome: Scat, urine, blood and vomit are a general given. Also, not a biggie on torture or things that cause pain, so that's a very unlikely with me. Softer things like spanking, maybe, but nothing beyond that.

Otherwise, I'd say I'm pretty open. I certainly am open to experimentation and seeing where things go, but of course, that's if I get to be with someone first. In any case, anal is very much a big turn on for me (both giving and especially receiving), and rimming is also a plus (knowing the partner and myself are clean, etc).

lilme
Aug 3, 2009, 4:56 PM
I really love sex, but no anal. I love sucking, kissing and everything in between.

69luvr
Apr 8, 2010, 3:22 PM
And what is wrong with just wanting a BJ from another guy?? That's all I'd want with another guy. I'd like to give a BJ also. I'm not much into Anal.

To each his/her own!

There is nothing wrong loving a BJ from another guy. I think its great. I do not like when people are hypocrites. They want to be sucked off. You do it and they get disgusted and leave you without reciprocating. That is a no-no.

I also do not like it when a woman gets nasty because you are playing with her boobs.

bemyonlyone
Apr 8, 2010, 6:03 PM
Honestly, I am pretty open to anything except acts involving my or another person's butt. I can't deal with it. So no anal sex, no rimming, I don't want to put anything in someone else's ass, I don't want to put my mouth on or around another person's ass, I don't want anyone's mouth or hands or other body parts anywhere near my ass.

bemyonlyone
Apr 8, 2010, 7:18 PM
Okay, first off: I've definitely been hugged.

Secondly: I don't have to have had sex to know what I like and don't like. I think most straight men know they won't enjoy taking it in the butt from another man before they've ever tried it. Straight women know they won't enjoy eating another woman out, and most of them have never done it. You don't need experience to know what your personal preferences are.

I know I don't enjoy having something in my ass, I don't have to have sex to know that. I also know that I don't want anyone's mouth near my ass, or their fingers, or anything else. I know what I like and don't like.

I am going to ask you politely NOT to jump on me and attack the fact that I haven't had sex. It's something I'm extremely sensitive about. Additionally, how many people have replied to this? And you're questioning only me. That's not cool. Please don't do it.

bemyonlyone
Apr 8, 2010, 8:55 PM
I don't think I ever said sex was the world's greatest thing. I only said that sex is important for me personally in a relationship, and it is a part of life, a part that I want to experience very much.

No, I am not lying about my age. I will be 26 very soon. You might think I'm immature, fine.

I don't like ass play. I don't. It's not something I'm interested in, and whether I'm a virgin or not, that's the reality. I know what I like and what I don't. And being a virgin doesn't mean I'm not allowed to have preferences and that they shouldn't be respected.

Let me rephrase what I said: Most heterosexual male virgins know they do not want to give another man a blowjob.

I'm sorry if it sounds like I'm stereotyping or equating that one sex act with gay/bi men. I know some don't enjoy it at all. I didn't mean to be offensive. I'll just use that example instead.

Most straight female virgins know they do not want to put their tongue to another woman's clitoris. These are preferences that they have, and they're not likely to suddenly change just because they have sex. I mean, you might as well tell a straight guy who hasn't had sex "You know, your future girlfriend could invite your buddy over and you can give him oral sex and you'll love it. You don't know until you try."

I think experience has taught us that these straight men are unlikely to develop a sudden craving for cock, nor straight women for pussy.

So please, have your sexual preferences, and allow me to have mine. And don't question me just because I haven't experienced sex. I don't want any tongues, fingers, or penises in or around my ass. This is something I know because I know what I enjoy and what I do not. I am very open-minded about sex, so it's not about being closed minded. It's about knowing what works for me and what doesn't.

cliffordmontero
Apr 8, 2010, 9:03 PM
My rules are simple

1 no piss

2 no shit

3 no blood

4 no vomit

5 no kids

6 no animals

7 no plants

8 no marks i cant hid at work

now, just because they are rules doesnt mean they arent negotiable . . . maybe you really like shoving zucchini in your vagina and eating it during foreplay . . . who knows . . . but you have to be extra special to get me to go outside my rules . . . but thats just me

bemyonlyone
Apr 8, 2010, 9:13 PM
Yeah, the ones you said are mine too, I kinda thought they would be assumed as obvious.