Pay Sites

[Kneadsmore64]

Anyone use pay sites like adultfriendfinder?

What is was your experience? Both positive and negative please.

[ukmale32]

I tried AFF. To my mind it was a crock of shit. Lots of fake profiles on there. Lots of people who don't reply. But then - single guy. I guess I'm one in a zillion there.

Good luck!

[FalconAngel]

I tried AFF. To my mind it was a crock of shit. Lots of fake profiles on there. Lots of people who don't reply. But then - single guy. I guess I'm one in a zillion there.

Good luck!



Ditto about AFF. It is not worth the time, let alone the money.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Big waste of time and good money, Sweetie. :rolleyes: Its like a big box of Granola: What aint fruits and nutz is flakes...
Cat:bigrin:

[jem_is_bi]

Not a waste of money for me. I eventually got much more than I paid for at a pay site. That is where those that are really serious about sex are to be found.
Of course, you have to be careful as well as lucky to get a friend and lover for life. But, that is true in all that you do .
Further, in my opinion, you have a better chance at a pay site than here to get what you know you want. Here, is where you complain about sex without love and respect. Paysites are where you get sex and sometimes love and respect.

[12voltman59]

I am not a big fan of sexually oriented pay sites--they mostly seem to be run by organizations that have multiple tentacles--each of which is designed to go and suck money from your credit or debit card accounts.

I agree about Adult FF---and BiCupid.com is about the same--maybe a bit better.

While it is strictly males only---I do actually like Squirt.org though for pay sites-it does have more things beyond the personals that can be considered "entertainment" like having porn if you like that--it has some good informational type features and has a section that members can post stories--either fictional or real. They don't hit you up with all kinds of extraneous BS and the site is "pretty clean" in terms of navigating in that you don't get tons of popups for porn sites and crap like that. The cost is reasonable--basically ten bucks US per month and if you buy more time upfront--they do give a nice credit for porn--the only time I watch porn is when I re-up my account and get the credits for "free time" they provide.

As far as I have found--there are also no bogus profiles on that site either---all-in-all--it is pretty good for a pay site, but you can still do a fair amount of stuff if you remain a free, basic member too.

But as Jem said about the nature of pay sites--it is more oriented to being a pure hook up site as opposed to this site-which tends to be less a hook up site and more of a true online community.

[Lonewolf76]

Well I subscribe to Outpersonals. It's primarily a gay site - but it does have it's share of bisexuals. My experiences have been mixed. I met my current relationship there - so in my view it was well worth the money. But..... I did have to kiss a lot of frogs along the way - but I guess that's just life in general. I agree with Jem - At least it's a place where people are serious about sex and some are open to LTR. You know what they want and what you want. Like anywhere you weed out the losers and ocassionally you find a keeper.

[bityme]

From my point of view, AAF, ALT, and Outpersonals have not been worthwhile. Met a few guys through Squirt, but not enough to renew.

For older guys like myself, the best site I have found is Silverdaddies.com
I've met a number of nice guys and couples (MM) and established some great friendships both with and without benefits. Very few of the members fail to give some type of reply to a message. You don't have to pay, but you get some additional benefits for the $50 per year membership. Well worth the price.

[BiRanc]

I tried AFF. Only got one reply and actually had a realationship with that person. Other than that its a complete waste of time and money imho.