Anal Fun & Guys with Wives/GFs

[TheBisexualProfessor]

Hey Guys,

Any of you ever had anal with another guy while your wife or gf watches or participates? If so, I'd like to know the answers to two questions:

First, what did it feel like first time? Was it pleasurable?

Second, what did your lady think of it? Did she decide that it was hot or unappealing?

Thanks!

:male:

[BiDesire]

My first time was along time ago. Was it uncomfortable a little, but if the guy takes it easy it really is not bad. Surprisingly it got use to it real fast. Now as far as my gf watching …. Let me put it this way, she gets so turned on from watching me getting fucked. That it usually does not take her long and she over sucking my cock while I’m getting fucked. Damn I love that, that she gets so hot from watching and getting sucked and fucked at the same time.

[Curious.Cats]

We hope to be able to answer this very soon! ;)

[bityme]

Almost 40 years ago, swinging with another kinky couple progressed from vanilla to wild. My wife had been using dildos and a strap-on with me for some time. Bi play with the other couple had been just oral until a night when the alcohol was flowing and she brought out the strap-on. The other guy and I watched the girls play with it, and then my wife declared it was my turn.

It was a turn-on having an audience and then they joined in. His wife giving me oral and me doing the same for him. By the time the girls decided they wanted to see him fuck me I was open and ready. It felt great as he entered me for the first time and with the wives giving directions, it was unreal. Then they joined in and this time I was being sucked off while eating pussy and getting fucked at the same time.

We replayed the same scene a number of times before the other guy finally became the one to be fucked. First by his wife and then by me. After that our meetings were pretty much anything goes. We enjoyed each other 3 or 4 times a month for about 4 years, until they moved to another state.

I've enjoyed being on the receiving end ever since those days and continue to enjoy the audience too. Being in several bisexual groups allows me to continue the same experiences.

[welickit]

What was it like the first time? Well I was very young and an older guy picked me up as I was hitch hiking. To make a long story short he sucked me off then fucked me on the front seat of his car. I was so relaxed from the blow job that the only thing I felt was some pressure as the head of his cock went into me. By the time he had his cock all the way in I felt really full and like I had to go to the bathroom NOW. Once he began pumping the full feeling went away and it felt good.
As for my wife watching, she has always enjoyed watching guys jerk off and she instinctively started fingering my ass when she was blowing me one afternoon (she was 17 at the time). She liked doing it and at some point as we were talking she asked if I had ever sucked cock. I told her I had and she got quite excited. I asked her if she would enjoy watching me have sex with another guy. She was quick to say yes. She has watched and joined in many times since:bipride:

[jfra18]

my wife has penetrated me with a vibrator while i was having sex with our mutual gf

[Orlando157]

There are some things in life where it really takes three ... this is one of them - Simply put .... Everybody deserves a turn in the middle :bibounce:

[centillini]

I had an old g/f do my ass with small toy and loved it. Would love to find a lady with strap on to take me ass, I also love the pics where a guys is doing a guy in the ass and chick sucking him, would love that.

[Coolhand_69]

This is an interesting post for us!

Our first threesome with a bi man involved just this.

He was a very nice looking guy, Very sexy! after dinner, and some nice warm up mutual sucking, we ended up in bed. He climbed up on my cock and started to ride me. That was pretty hot, and she really became excited watching him ride up and down on me.

We were both amazed when he came on my chest with out touching his cock!

We have since had many good sex sessions after talking about that night. We are both looking forward to another threesome or a foursome where she another wife can watch that, only with me being topped this time.

Yep, that was really hot for both of us!

:love1:

[RockGardener]

I am the gf who watches. I love to watch my guy suck and get fucked. It makes me hot. Just thought you might like the view from the other side.

[guycurious]

Almost 40 years ago, swinging with another kinky couple progressed from vanilla to wild. My wife had been using dildos and a strap-on with me for some time. Bi play with the other couple had been just oral until a night when the alcohol was flowing and she brought out the strap-on. The other guy and I watched the girls play with it, and then my wife declared it was my turn.

It was a turn-on having an audience and then they joined in. His wife giving me oral and me doing the same for him. By the time the girls decided they wanted to see him fuck me I was open and ready. It felt great as he entered me for the first time and with the wives giving directions, it was unreal. Then they joined in and this time I was being sucked off while eating pussy and getting fucked at the same time.

We replayed the same scene a number of times before the other guy finally became the one to be fucked. First by his wife and then by me. After that our meetings were pretty much anything goes. We enjoyed each other 3 or 4 times a month for about 4 years, until they moved to another state.

I've enjoyed being on the receiving end ever since those days and continue to enjoy the audience too. Being in several bisexual groups allows me to continue the same experiences.


You were living one of my dreams ! We'd love to find another couple like that. My wife is still warming up to the idea of me receiving anal from another male but she's seen me perform oral and receive oral.

[tellmebaby]

I love to watch man on man porn- it is my favorite. My husband loves anal penetration, but he is not bisexual. He says "I don't have a problem with cock, it's men I have a problem with." I am considering it my life's work to convert him.:tong:

[naughtyeddie]

i was the other guy with the bi couple, they were both bisexual. we had a great threesome then she got tired of the long delay and declared " i want to see some fucking now" the guy fucked me while i sucked her pussy and i could tell that she was really turned on.

aafter the guy came in my ass we both sucked her and fingered her ass. the guy was not ready to get hard again and i dont get an erection after i am fucked.

[Riles_Mac8]

My first time was a few years ago and I loved it. My wife watched and left a wet patch 2 feet in diameter. She really loves seeing two guy together. That is how I had my first bi experience.

[siraussietosser]

Wow this sounds awesome...But will never get the chance, my wife has no interest what so ever in the idea... Although I do get a finger in my arse while getting blown or jacked off that is as far as it goes........ I will never force her to do something she does not agree in so I will just have to live through others experiences...... Cheers

[bicowboy]

Hey Guys,

Any of you ever had anal with another guy while your wife or gf watches or participates? If so, I'd like to know the answers to two questions:

First, what did it feel like first time? Was it pleasurable?

Second, what did your lady think of it? Did she decide that it was hot or unappealing?

Thanks!

:male:

First, Never had anal with another guy just a dido and I did take the whole eight inches up the butt! I can see why some people like it as it did feel good. But I do think having a real cock would feel so much better & I would like to try it with the right guy.

Second, It will be awhile before the wife is ready for that one. I did ask her about a strap on one day at the adult book store and it was a no anwser.

[roy m cox]

sadly never had a wife or girl friend watch:(

tho i have had all kinds of anal fun like different toys and rimming,, even one bf
i was going with liked sucking my anal he would clean me up in side and out
and then the fun even sticking candy in me :eek:

and no im not in to that poop play thing "EW"

tho i do keep my self very clean just for any one i go with and hope to end up
having a gf or wife that'll like stuff like this watch and do it to..
:bipride:

[fredtyg]

Just a note for guys who've never had a cock in them: I had no problem taking a cock when I was younger in my 20s. I think the anus is more flexible then.

When I got into my 40s I hadn't had received anal sex for some time and I was looking forward to doing it again. I was watching homo porn on the computer and wondered how well I could accept a cock, it had been so long. I stuck my finger up my ass and realized it was really tight and it would probably hurt to have a cock in it right then and there.

What I did, and I recommend to others who would like to try anal sex, is buy yourself a *dong or two. Get a couple different sizes and work your way up to the big one. That way you won't get an unpleasant surprise if and when you get the opportunity to take a cock in.

I started out with a relatively skinny thing called an Anal Carrot. It was nice cause it tapered like a carrot and you could work your way up to the larger diameter by just sliding it in further a bit at a time. I also had a big 10" dong that was over 2" wide at the bottom. I was quite happy with myself when I was able to slide that thing into me without a problem.

I'll have to say, dongs are fun, but no substitute for the real thing.

* I differentiate between dongs and dildoes. I consider a dildo to be the plastic rounded toys like most vibrators. Dongs are usually semi- hard models of the human cock and are much closer to the real thing for training purposes.

[mikey3000]

Thanks fredtyg,

That's great advice, and I will try to follow it. Wifer has two strap-ons that she uses on me, but I think i want the real think soon. And no, I don't want her to watch. Not the first time anyway. I'm still trying to get over the sensation of having to go to the bathroom :eek:. BUt I guess it takes a bit of getting used to.

[fredtyg]

I'm still trying to get over the sensation of having to go to the bathroom :eek:. BUt I guess it takes a bit of getting used to.

Funny you mention that. I should of added that the last time I had a guy in me I felt like I was going to shit. Of course, I don't think been using the dongs much at that point in time.

He came over and I sucked him off and, since he could get back hard again real soon (unlike me) he hung around and when he was ready I asked him to bareback me (this guy is a condom fanatic so I felt it was very safe and would be a treat for him). He agreed and we hopped in bed and he mounted me. Once he went fully in I felt like I was gonna crap right then and there. He got off and I went to take a crap and couldn't.

We tried it again. Same thing and we gave up. He told me I just wasn't used to it anymore (we've had sex a number of times through the years).

I just wrote a post on my dong use some may, or may not, enjoy.

[clovermoon]

1. yes
2. hot

[chick_a_dee]

During our MFM playtimes, usually it's just oral between us guys. But one night the mood was just right and I wanted a hard cock in my ass. My friend sensed it and wasted no time filling my ass. During this time I was giving oral to my wife and the pounding on my ass at the same time was a major turn on for her. We've repeated this session more than once. I'm ready for another ass pounding real soon! She loves watching me with another man and especially enjoys it when we direct our attention to her.

[fredtyg]

Wow! Hot couple, from the pics.

[Coolhand_69]

First, Never had anal with another guy just a dido and I did take the whole eight inches up the butt! I can see why some people like it as it did feel good. But I do think having a real cock would feel so much better & I would like to try it with the right guy.

Second, It will be awhile before the wife is ready for that one. I did ask her about a strap on one day at the adult book store and it was a no anwser.

Hey Cowboy! We should gather our wives together and give them a good show!

[mikey3000]

Now don't laugh but...

Do any other married people have feelings of guilt cause of their bisexual cravings? I came out to my wife a few months ago cause I was secretly involved with a guy, and we were both getting in way over our heads. I thought it best I come clean to her before I get caught. The comming out was a bit of a shock to her, but she adapted rather quickly and is so supportive, it just blows me away!!! She is so into penetrating me and rimming, I'm convinced that she was a gay male porn star in a past life!!!

But I still have the guilt and from time to time it really hits me. But I can't help it. I crave it and nothing I try will make those cravings go away. But I can't get over the feelings that she is just a good sport and supporting me. Is it just me or could there be a real issue here?

Oh, and the BF, we called it quits cause he couldn't deal with my, "baggage" and realized that I would never leave her. How ironic, eh? Kept the wife, but lost the dude.

[fredtyg]

If your wife doesn't have a problem with it, I wouldn't feel guilty at all. The only guilt I have now is because, while she knows I'm bi, she wouldn't approve of me sucking dick and I do that on occasion. I'd say you have it made and there's no reason to feel guilty at all.

Maybe it would make you feel better if you go your wife involved in some of the fun? That assumes she'd want to, of course.

[bicowboy]

Hey Cowboy! We should gather our wives together and give them a good show!

IT'S SHOW TIME! THE SHOW MUST GO ON.:cool:

[mikey3000]

If your wife doesn't have a problem with it, I wouldn't feel guilty at all. The only guilt I have now is because, while she knows I'm bi, she wouldn't approve of me sucking dick and I do that on occasion. I'd say you have it made and there's no reason to feel guilty at all.

Maybe it would make you feel better if you go your wife involved in some of the fun? That assumes she'd want to, of course.

Thanks for the help. My guilt is my issue, but I'm getting over it slowly. I just feel that I'm breaking my marriage vow. Call me old fashioned :).

She has no problem with me and another guy. She even helps scout out Craigslist for a special friend for me :tongue: cause The idea of me and another guy drives her wild. But I don't know if I'd want her to watch just yet, or to even participate. I want that special friend just for me.

[graytwo]

... She even helps scout out Craigslist for a special friend for me :tongue: cause The idea of me and another guy drives her wild. ....

Stay on this board, she'll find better and safer types for you that are real.

-graytwo

[BfloBiFun]

Well my now "X" GF use to love to put a dildo in my ass & also loved watching me play with my ass, putting my finger & dildo in me while she got herself off playing with here pussy. I would also fuck her in her ass with a dildo in her pussy. But when she found out i was Bi (and cross-dressed) she was turned off, however she did say one of her fantasies was to watch two guys fucking . . .

[ErosUrge]

I've heard so often about women being turned on to this but have yet to have a girlfriend who actually wanted to be a part of such a thing....the very kind of relationship I am hoping to eventually have....yes yes yes, I realize there's so much more to relationships than these sort of requirements/activities...
Just would be wonderful to have such an approving woman in a truly loving relationship...etc etc etc...