I had a weird question

[Northerncalifornia]

As a person who has yet to have a special someone...or even a intimate relationship. I wanted to know if couples (married or bf/gf/gf/gf/bf/bf) Do any of you.....um when your intimatley close to someone do you get like a "high" from their scent? Like their perfume or colonge, or whatever they are wearing? Do you guys ever get aroused? Just was curious.

[rissababynta]

Well, I don't think I have really gotten a "high" but I have definitely had to make him stop what he was doing to go have sex with me because his scent turned me on.

[bisexualman]

Yes! Absolutely! We accepted a long time ago that our "scents" or pheremones, or what ever you want to call them, drive each of us crazy. We like to breathe each other in. Not a strange question at all.

[Lonewolf76]

Great question actually. Yes, I find that his cologne or scent definitely gets me going. When He has been at my place and laid on my pillows and has to go back to his own place - I snuggle the pillows after he leaves - just so I can still smell him. Its natural. LW

[Vachenzo]

I would have to say her smell definitely turns me on. Often times my gf will spot my some what obvious erection and tell me "I didn't cause that." Truth is she always does. Her smell and the sight of her turn me on more than anything. She doesn't need to dress sexy or flash me, or even touch me to turn me on. Her smell alone can do that. :D

[eddy10]

The scent of some people is a definite turn on for me. But, I do not like the scent of most perfumes, or colognes. Especially the 'heavy" ones. Just me, I guess.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Yes Baby. Its called Chemically induced Pheromones. Its a natural essence that exudes from people in times of highly generated emotions, mostly found in sexual conditions. It can be artificually gotten in the form of Pheromone oils, (like the kind I wear) and lotions and body washes, but there is AbSolutely no substitute for good old natural straight from the body pheromones..lol. Its is mainly in the sweat glands (Yeah, sexy huh....:smilies12) and when you get excited and become aroused(even a tiny bit) you sweat. Happens to the best of us.
So, there ya go. Now that you've made me talk like I got some sense, or scents..lol
Hugs
Cat

[parkerbi]

YES. IT'S TRUE. I'M OFTEN TURNED ON BY GIRL'S PERFUME!

[IanBorthwick]

I don't know if it's pheromones, but once I was loved so deeply that the touch of that person made me tingle all over...my whole body came alive and I felt everything like I was truly awake for the first time in my life. Every moment with this person was like that, and I always wanted more. For me, love is varying levels of this. ANd it can't be some kind of a chemical reaction alone, because that would fade after years.

It was special, it was magical and it was perfect.

[innaminka]

You had better believe it!
The scent of a woman - firsly just her colgne, then her more intimate scents have to ability to sometimes make me just so want her.
And then there's that first taste which reinforces everything you hoped for with the scent.

Soap is the enemy of phemerones!

[onewhocares]

Since the birth of our daughter 14 years ago my sense of smell is so incredibly heightened. I have been around men whom I can sense before they come into the room. Drives me wild. Like Lonewolf I love wearing the shirt a man has worn or I love to return to the bed and nuzzle down in the sheets. I love the natural scent of a mans body.

On the flip side....I do not wear perfume..I wear oils. I have an oil I bought and wore when I would see a friend of mine....and I loved the way I scented. I wear that same oil when I am not with him and it is completely a new scent...for me it comes from with in. I tend to wear Lemon Verbena and
Citrus based oils.

Belle

[Realist]

My gf and I both are more aroused by a very squeaky-clean, artificially odor free, body. Her body emits a kind of sexual aura/odor, after she bathes, that drives me nuts. However, my BF wants me somewhat sweaty and not having had a bath for a few hours. He scrubs himself pink before I arrive and uses no cologne, because that is what I like. I, on the other hand, will often go straight to see him after mowing the yard, or working hard outside in the heat. I agree that each lover seems to have their own attractions and a person's smell is extremely arousing. I've always tried to cater to my lover's wishes in this vein.

[lilbitsva]

I can tell you what I have come across a friend of mine that I really had a special something with that every time that I smell her it was like oh my god you have got to kiss me and luv on me know. It was something to have to be around her and not want to do something with her. I have never gotten high from it but i have gotten horney thou. Hope this helps a little bit. lil bit

[writes at night]

My gf and I both are more aroused by a very squeaky-clean, artificially odor free, body. Her body emits a kind of sexual aura/odor, after she bathes, that drives me nuts. However, my BF wants me somewhat sweaty and not having had a bath for a few hours. He scrubs himself pink before I arrive and uses no cologne, because that is what I like. I, on the other hand, will often go straight to see him after mowing the yard, or working hard outside in the heat. I agree that each lover seems to have their own attractions and a person's smell is extremely arousing. I've always tried to cater to my lover's wishes in this vein.

I couldn't agree more. The smell of someone who has a clean, unaltered scent can make me weak in the knees. A person's personal scent can be intoxicating.

As someone who suffers from migraines, perfumes and strong scents can be a trigger that kills any romantic mood. As gramma said, "There is nothing wrong with just some good soap and water!"

[Jitterbug17]

NOt a weird question at all. I feel almost an animal instinct kick in to certain aromas from my partner(s). (bf/gf) Its like the pharamones are just pulling at my every carnal instinct. I get it from me... for instance if I get out of the shower and I have tidy up down stairs.. and Im a lil aroused the scent of myself sends me jumping my boy/girl. Then I smell them.. that one cologne or body lotion or hell even their hair after they worked out or something.. its those natural sweet smells that intoxicate even more so with a really sutle perfume.
lol =D:bigrin:

[jem_is_bi]

The scent of some people is a definite turn on for me. But, I do not like the scent of most perfumes, or colognes. Especially the 'heavy" ones. Just me, I guess.

I totally agree. Forget the perfume and cologne! Come to my house; get a shower without any heavy perfume soap. I love the smell that wonderful smell of just you and only you. That is a definite turn-on. No perfume can match the wonderful aroma when you first awake to the smell of your lover.

[Hephaestion]

......I love the smell that wonderful smell of just you and only you. That is a definite turn-on. No perfume can match the wonderful aroma when you first awake to the smell of your lover.

I was once comfortable in the knowledge Jem, save one pithy comment on a fine morning. KY-Jelly gives me wind, less uncomfortable out than in, and as I pleased my body, my lover simply remarked "Ah - the dawn chorus!"

PS - Never bite an arse in retribution, they only retaliate in harmony.

[jem_is_bi]

I was once comfortable in the knowledge Jem, save one pithy comment on a fine morning. KY-Jelly gives me wind, less uncomfortable out than in, and as I pleased my body, my lover simply remarked "Ah - the dawn chorus!"

PS - Never bite an arse in retribution, they only retaliate in harmony.

Your point is well taken. I was reminiscing about awakening to the smell of skin and hair without a dawn chorus inspired by abdominal discontent.

[Northerncalifornia]

I dont know why, I just thought it would have sounded weird, but wow all of these responses now I know its not. "Animal instict" huh, that sounds intense.....knowing your partner's/wife/husband/boyfriend/girlfriend's scent and then you feel like getting wild, lol. sounds fun.

[shaver6]

Many years ago, I met a young guy, and I was wearing a particular brand of after shave. During our "playtime" he mentioned that the after shave I was wearing, was the same one that his dad always used. As I was learning more about him, I found out, he had a very poor relationship with his dad, they didn't get along at all. So..from that point on, I never wore that brand of after shave around him...Didn't want to bring out any bad vibes...because of the scent

[sQuee]

Oh hellz yeah! My bf has some yummy cologne..or it just works really well with his body chemistry. I go into calvin and hobbes mode when he's wearing it (i.e. when calving and hobbes tumble around together).