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MisuzHouston
Feb 5, 2009, 9:58 PM
I'm new here... and to this whole "bi" thing as well... I've only come out to a few people in the past year, and that's it. I'm too afraid of what everybody else will think. I think I'm in the worst situation right now that any bi person can ever be... I think. But not gonna get into that right now... just wanted to say hi to everybody. =)
Vachenzo
Feb 5, 2009, 10:12 PM
Hello! I myself am new to the site, and bisexuality. I only recently realized myself.
Nikki Ninja
Feb 5, 2009, 10:28 PM
I;m new too! I learned i was Bi 2 years ago haha best time of my life hahaha
MisuzHouston
Feb 5, 2009, 10:31 PM
Haha, I was just looking at your profile... I'm somewhat of a tomboy myself. :tong:
Nikki Ninja
Feb 5, 2009, 10:33 PM
haha all my friends tell me i act like a boy sometimes lol
but i have the appearance of a girly girl haha
i dunno
girls seem to be attracted to my personality lol
Cherokee_Mountaincat
Feb 5, 2009, 11:32 PM
Welcome to the family, Hon. Hopefully here with us you can get the answers you seek, and can make some fantastic friends as well. :}
Take care
Cat
Lonewolf76
Feb 6, 2009, 1:28 AM
Greetings and welcome! You'll find this a great site with wonderful people. We have interesting discussions and sometimes - you even learn something new! We cuss and discuss and squabble and make-up and agree to disagree - just like family should! The only warning I will offer is beware of the sporadic TROLLS - they are nasty and say mean hateful things - but what can you expect - a trolls life has to be a miserable lot! Glad to have you onboard!! LW
BumbleB
Feb 6, 2009, 1:30 AM
Thank god someone young and gorgeous joined this site, praise Buddha!
Welcome :)
dickhand
Feb 6, 2009, 7:12 AM
Welcome to the site . You are in the right place . Old fart here and been doing the bi thing for 37 years now .
rissababynta
Feb 6, 2009, 9:02 AM
welcome to the dark side, we've got cookies.
csrakate
Feb 6, 2009, 10:41 AM
Welcome to the site, MisuzHouston! Hope you find what you're looking for. This is a great group of people, even if we're not all so "young and gorgeous" as we seem to be constantly reminded of! LOL! BUT..we've got big hearts, open arms and ears and comfy shoulders should you ever need us!!!
Hugs,
Kate
onewhocares
Feb 6, 2009, 10:59 AM
Welcome Houston....to the fray...to the fold....to the fun...to the frolic..to the family.
Belle
sQuee
Feb 6, 2009, 2:53 PM
I;m new too! I learned i was Bi 2 years ago haha best time of my life hahaha
LOL, that's how i felt when i first figured that out :bigrin:
and welcome welcome to the new comers. Don't worry so much about coming out to those ones in your life yet, just figure out your own stuff first and the rest should happen organically.
Cherokee_Mountaincat
Feb 6, 2009, 3:49 PM
Rissa! You told about the cookies! And we have brownies too....lol
Come in and see us in chat sometime Guys, and get to know us.
Everybody's Cat :cool:
FalconAngel
Feb 6, 2009, 7:14 PM
Rissa! You told about the cookies! And we have brownies too....lol
Come in and see us in chat sometime Guys, and get to know us.
Everybody's Cat :cool:
Wait a minute!!!
WE HAVE BROWNIES???!!!
When was someone going to tell me?
Oh yeah. Welcome home MisuzHouston and NikkiNinja.
arana
Feb 6, 2009, 8:02 PM
welcome to the site. Enjoy!
MisuzHouston
Feb 7, 2009, 3:41 AM
Awww. Thank you guys. :grouphug:
Realist
Feb 7, 2009, 9:24 AM
Cat,
I can't help but wonder if there are "extra" ingredients in your brownies?
Back in the late '60s, I was at some hippies' camp fire and ate two large brownies. There seems to be a time lapse that occurred after that.
Later, my GF found me wondering the streets in a daze, humming Wagner's Die Walküre to myself!
csrakate
Feb 7, 2009, 9:27 AM
Cat,
I can't help but wonder if there are "extra" ingredients in your brownies?
Back in the late '60s, I was at some hippies' camp fire and ate two large brownies. There seems to be a time lapse that occurred after that.
Later, my GF found me wondering the streets in a daze, humming Wagner's Die Walküre to myself!
Realist,
In honor of your post, this is for you! LOL!
Hugs,
Kate
Realist
Feb 7, 2009, 9:59 AM
Thanks Kate, but am I missing something? Not sure what that was!
Knowing you, it ain't bad, though.
csrakate
Feb 7, 2009, 10:08 AM
Thanks Kate, but am I missing something? Not sure what that was!
Knowing you, it ain't bad, though.
Sorry Realist....I didn't look at the attachment after I posted it....didn't realize how small it was. It said "I survived all 15 hours of The Ring Cycle....with my sanity mostly intact." That was in reference to you wandering the streets humming Wagner's Die Walküre. Sorry for the vague reference LOL!!
Realist
Feb 7, 2009, 10:50 AM
Hmmmm, not sure about the "sanity intact" for my part!
Ah, but I'd love to do it all again..........just one more time!
bikat67
Feb 7, 2009, 11:14 AM
Hi...I'm new here too...sort of feeling my way around...it's nice to know I'm not alone....
darkeyes
Feb 7, 2009, 12:10 PM
Sorry Realist....I didn't look at the attachment after I posted it....didn't realize how small it was. It said "I survived all 15 hours of The Ring Cycle....with my sanity mostly intact." That was in reference to you wandering the streets humming Wagner's Die Walküre. Sorry for the vague reference LOL!!
Hav sat through three times mumsie... an wotched it on telly a cuppla times an all...an hav it on CDs...so ...amazin innit?? an me quite sane... tee hee:bigrin:
#Kill the wabbit..ki'ill the wabbit...kill the wabbit...#:bigrin::tong:
Welum tho Suz hun..we r mosly lufflie..am me mosly lufflie mosly an all.. tee hee:bigrin:
Cherokee_Mountaincat
Feb 7, 2009, 12:38 PM
LMAO. See what kinds of stuff Ya'll are going to have to contend with in here? lol
No Real, the only extra added ingredient in my brownies is one of those big, thick, rich chocolate bars(dark chocolate no less) lying sensously between two layers of brownie so that when you cut it, it just ooozzes creamy goodness, and is like a burst of erotic goodness upon your tongue, and fills your mouth with blissful delight. That and a glass of cold milk can send one into a euphoric state if they aint careful......*Snicker*...
See what you miss when you and Falcon dont come into chat!!!:tong::tong:
Silly Cat
Realist
Feb 7, 2009, 12:54 PM
I know, Cat. I had too much trouble with it, tho.
Peg tried to get me straightened out, but I'm afraid I'm too mentally handicapped to deal with the frustration. My technology progressed fine, right up to about 1959, then PLOOP!
I gained 5 pounds just reading about all the good stuff you put in them brownies, Girl!
(It's OK to use "them" like that, when you're writing to a Southerner...can't do it with Yankees!)
I often have to get my dictionary out, when I'm writing those members! I know I often fail, but I don't wanna sound too stoopid when corresponding with 'em!
rissababynta
Feb 7, 2009, 1:00 PM
I know, Cat. I had too much trouble with it, tho.
Peg tried to get me straightened out, but I'm afraid I'm too mentally handicapped to deal with the frustration. My technology progressed fine, right up to about 1959, then PLOOP!
I gained 5 pounds just reading about all the good stuff you put in them brownies, Girl!
(It's OK to use "them" like that, when you're writing to a Southerner...can't do it with Yankees!)
I often have to get my dictionary out, when I'm writing those members! I know I often fail, but I don't wanna sound too stoopid when corresponding with 'em!
Realist, don't talk about mentally handicapped that way....
some people might be offended :)
surfviper
Feb 7, 2009, 6:51 PM
I'm new here too, but I have really been enjoying the site... People, for the most part, have been super nice! Good place to come and figure out if fantasies should be made into reality...
Realist
Feb 7, 2009, 7:09 PM
Oops, Sorry Rissa! You have to remember, I have to work at being politically correct, it doesn't come natural for us "Oldtimers"! We didn't worry much about hurting anyone's feelings in my day. I'm not saying it was right, just that's the way it was. I really am not one to want to hurt anyone's feelings, though........ unless they deserve it. Then, I don't give a shit. I'll watch it from now-on, if you promise not to beat me!
rissababynta
Feb 7, 2009, 9:04 PM
Oops, Sorry Rissa! You have to remember, I have to work at being politically correct, it doesn't come natural for us "Oldtimers"! We didn't worry much about hurting anyone's feelings in my day. I'm not saying it was right, just that's the way it was. I really am not one to want to hurt anyone's feelings, though........ unless they deserve it. Then, I don't give a shit. I'll watch it from now-on, if you promise not to beat me!
Eh, I was just shitting ya anyway lol.
AdamKadmon43
Feb 8, 2009, 12:30 AM
I'm new here... and to this whole "bi" thing as well... I've only come out to a few people in the past year, and that's it. I'm too afraid of what everybody else will think. I think I'm in the worst situation right now that any bi person can ever be... I think. But not gonna get into that right now... just wanted to say hi to everybody. =)
You gonna love it here..... Just make sure that you don't do anything to piss off the "establishment" and you will be just fine.
BrotherJack
Feb 8, 2009, 12:36 PM
MisuzHouston.........don't take a blind bit of notice of Adam......he never takes any of me.....Oh well, I know what i'm on about......Oh, gee....I do!!
BrotherJack
Feb 8, 2009, 12:44 PM
You gonna love it here..... Just make sure that you don't do anything to piss off the "establishment" and you will be just fine.
Why do you say that Adam....''You gonna love it here'' (Grammar...''You're''....the ''gonna'' is quite appealing...I use it myself!)...You don't love it anywhere you go!! You hate evryone and everything about any site you visit...no matter what the subject!! You have no respect for people and even less if they disagree with you. So there!!!!! (Your favourite ''teenage'' statement, to me)
Never does do to piss off the ''establishment''.....anywhere.....even the unofficial ones!!!......You're quite right there.
When do we start the revolution my baby.......today a small village in England and a town in Colorado...........Tomorrow.....the world!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:bigrin::);):rolleyes::bigrin: :tong::tongue::bigrin::eek::eek::eek:
BrotherJack
Feb 8, 2009, 12:45 PM
Why do you say that Adam....''You gonna love it here'' (Grammar...''You're''....the ''gonna'' is quite appealing...I use it myself!)...You don't love it anywhere you go!! You hate evryone and everything about any site you visit...no matter what the subject!! You have no respect for people and even less if they disagree with you. So there!!!!! (Your favourite ''teenage'' statement, to me)
Never does do to piss off the ''establishment''.....anywhere.....even the unofficial ones!!!......You're quite right there.
When do we start the revolution my baby.......today a small village in England and a town in Colorado...........Tomorrow.....the world!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:bigrin::);):rolleyes::bigrin: :tong::tongue::bigrin::eek::eek::eek:
Oh, gee...I made a typographical error...this girl has got to be more careful
evryone = every one
xercisecoach
Sep 12, 2010, 10:36 PM
Welcome to out fun and exciting bi world...
I have found this website to be incredibly positive and extremely friendly.
I too am very new to this bi lifestyle. I have thought about it for quite sometime but at the time i realised i was married and didn't want to do anything to jepordize my marriage but it ended anyways with her b/c we were not getting along anymore cause she had herself a bf on the side. She has no idea today that i am bi.
When i did councelling and read a lot of personal growth books to help myself heal and become a better person and a better father i realised it is time i be truthful with myself and i have. I have now accepted that i like men and women and feel there is nothing wrong with that. Now i get to have wonderful sexual experiences with everyone and anyone i connect with energetically and spiritually.
I have also accepted that i enjoy dressing as a woman from time to time, YES a CD. If you are not ok with that, i am so cool with it. To each is their own.
I have since had one small bi experience at embassy night club in hamilton. I made out with this really sexy guy during a slow dance and I couldn't believe how much i really enjoyed it and how much i was so turned on.
I wish all of you wonderful, safe experieces
If anyone in the hamilton and GTA area are looking for a great place check out embassy on hughson st. what great people.