Feeldoe....

[TwylaTwobits]

I recently ordered a feeldoe and am looking very much forward to using it with my bisexual partner, however, I have not really found a lot of good feeldoe porn to kinda see it in action. So I'm just wondering if any of you have used this product and if you have any advice, cause to put it bluntly, it will be the first time I have ever done something like this and doing it to the man I love with all my heart, I wanna do it right.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Kudos to you Twy for your love and consideration! Hope it works out beautifully, and that ya'll have a fantastic time. :} :rainbow:
Hugs
Cat

[b1s3xu4l]

We have one, and it is excellent. All advice about anal sex applies, such as be clean, go slow, lots of lube.

I wrote a longer post but was timed out, grrrr! So I'll summarize--start slow but do him like you want to be done. Aim for the underside of his belly button. All positions we've tried have been great, but with me (man) on top I have had the nearly mythical multiple, full body orgasm. The feeldoe is so much better than any strapon because of the intimacy, the ease of it, and it just has the right angle.

From your profile and your post I would say you're gonna do him right--you sound like a lucky couple. Rock on!

[Mmonty]

Never heard of one! Time to google.

[Lonewolf76]

Never heard of one! Time to google.

Me either... Showing my age!! Google here I come! LOL

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

lol Darlings, I Think this is the right site :www.Feeldoe.com
Cat

[frikidiki]

Thanks for the link, Cat!

I checked the Feeldoe and Feelbuck out. The Doe is made of silicone, which means no using my favorite silicone-based lube, even with a condom, cuz I'd hate to risk damaging it. I would prefer the shape of the Buck, but that one is acrylic--that may be fine for a vagina, but it's likely to be too hard for butt play, especially with an inexperienced user.

If they made the Buck in silicone, I'd get it. Perhaps someone knows of a similar product such as that?

[RobandHil]

Unfortunately we haven't had much luck with the Feeldoe. That's not to say it isn't a great product. It's well made and feels amazing....but everytime Hil tries to use it on me, she gets so wet she can't keep the damn thing inside her. So I end up using it on myself...LOL. I have come up with an idea that I could put her end in me...and then DP her with it....have yet to try it though. I'll let you know how it goes....

[billy_campbell]

Check out this link to a yahoo group of feeldoe users.

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Feeldoe/

[Lonewolf76]

lol Darlings, I Think this is the right site :www.Feeldoe.com
Cat

Thanks Cat!!! Looks like fun! You're NEVER to old to learn something new! LOL

[b1s3xu4l]

Some folks use a pair of panties with a small hole cut in them for keeping the feeldoe in place.

If the "wearer" is lying down, this is no problem. I have also heard that silcone lubes might be OK for this grade of toy, but you should test in an unimportant place on the toy first. If there's going to be a reaction, it should be immediate.

We use the Stout. It is wonderful.

[TwylaTwobits]

Thanks guys, yeah i had checked out the yahoo group for Feeldoe they had a clip of porn and I swear it looked more like torture than making love. My guy watched it too and said she's doing it wrong lol. I guess we'll just have fun with it and see what works. Counting down the days til June 20th when I fly out of my old life and into the arms of love.

[Long Duck Dong]

use ben wa balls to tighten the muscles, this is important for ladies that have had children and may have stretched / loss muscle toning

the ben wa balls will help with tightening and stretching of the muscles that hold the feeldoe in place

a lil trick with the feeldoe, use the man on top or side by side positions until you have a better feel for the feeldoe and idea of positions.....

remember that cleanliness is a good idea.....but if you are using a water based lube, that it can cause the lube to break down faster if you have done a enema within a hour or so before the sexual contact

for the lady, the man underneath position is good, if the lady leans over the male, it helps with saddle friction for the lady....and with the lady on top... she can control the thrusting, and the pressure against her clit

while anal sex is nice..... the lady could use it well to * torture * the male .... working him to the point of cumming, then stopping and redoing a few times..... eventually getting to the point of a on going big O.....

tantric sex is brillant for this...

[TwylaTwobits]

Ty LDD :D already ordered some of those too :D

[CountryLover]

My husband and I got a Feeldoe shortly after we married. We like it - named it Johnny, after a past friend of his, but found we prefer a 16" double ended dildo we call Samson more often.

For one thing, like someone else mentioned, even the Stout /exlarge version of the Feeldoe is just too small for me. I have great muscle control, but can't seem to hold it. Johnny limits us both in action and positions since I can't grip it strong enough to keep it seated within me.
Samson is thicker and longer, with these *REALLY* cool ridges that make it easy to grip in the throes.

Either one, we tend to use manually more often. We enjoy trying various positions that just aren't quite possible for the too-old-to-swing-from-chandeliers set, like us ;) unless we go with the manual method.

Be careful with the Feeldoe. Because it is harder and long enough to hit the sphincter that connects the large bowel to the colon, it can really hurt. My hubby likes it in a couple positions best - turned toward his left side, which is the way the bowel curves naturally; and turned toward his belly, which hits the prostate dead on.

Take it slow and gentle at first, and gradually test to see how rowdy y'all like it. We get pretty rowdy with Samson, because it has a softer texture, more flexible, and is long enough to keep us connected.

and yes, Kudos to you for enjoying each other and celebrating your love in many diverse ways!

Oh, and a PS: Try using the Feeldoe manually while giving your hubby a blowjob. We call that a Double Whammy, and it's an incredible total body orgasm when he comes both anally and ejaculates.