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stopme
Jan 15, 2009, 3:01 PM
i am a 19 year old female. i dont like girls. at least i didnt until i got attracted to another female. i am not intending to make a move and i dont know how to anyway.... i read that called bisexual is really your choice. i dont stick to the titles. i dont mind called bisexual even if i never have a relationship with a female in my life.
I just wanted to write it here because noone else from my friends and family can understand. I would like to tell my best friend but i know that this would change they way she will see me. even a little. This is the fist time i confess it to myself out loud.
Thank you.

Cherokee_Mountaincat
Jan 15, 2009, 3:23 PM
Thank you for sharing with Us, Sweetie. Here you can feel free to be You, and its a marvelous feeling. Welcome Home.
Cat

drawingboard3
Jan 15, 2009, 3:39 PM
Congrats on taking the first step and acknowledging everything. I agree - labels suck in a way, but I think they're also good in the sense that they give you some definition, as far as what you're feeling at any given time (and for whom). That being said, nothing is permanent in life, so call yourself whatever you want, whenever you want :)

t_glasgow_
Jan 15, 2009, 4:28 PM
Welcome to the forum. I'm new here too (and new to speaking about my bisexuality too). This site seems to have really nice, supportive people on here.

Beefeater
Jan 15, 2009, 5:05 PM
If I have learned anything about people it's that no matter what your sexual preferance is, people are NOT cans of soup. The label doesn't show so don't go beating yourself up about your sexuality. I have identified as being bisexual since I was 14 and I am 61 now and no one has ever been able to walk up to me and say that they can tell just by looking at me that I was bi.

Welcome to the family!

darkrose287
Jan 15, 2009, 7:15 PM
Hey,
Congrats for acknowleging that you like another girl...i was very comfused for years until I admitted it to myself. I've not been here long, but ther's some lovely people here.